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Kamdil:
I haven't seen any. Is either she cheats,or she is a core feminist,or mannerless,etc.


If they are that good,they won't be single with child.

how many have you met? don't conclude quickly and please don't use it against them. its better and honourable to be a single mother than to abort the pregnancy.

2 days ago someone was referring a single mother to my friend for marriage, a very nice single mother, she in a single mother today because the guy betrayed her trust and she wouldn't compromise her faith.

You're 20, bros please leave dating alone for now, they is time for everything. Channel that energy to knowing your God(Christ) and developing yourself(education, career, skills etc).

No offence please!

thanks for standing by her, make sure she get help from a professional.


I don't know what's wrong with guys now? This is soooo wrong!!! One of the easiest things to get now is sex, so why force someone, talk more of a friend. So annoying!!

Kamdil:
Stay away from single mothers,most of them have toxic behaviours

they are so many good ones among them please

yes, very possible. She should be open minded, simple, her natural self, be honest and She will definitely find love.

Obagreatdatoye:
The girl no fine at all

its not by beauty....beauty is relative sir

happy married life to them. may God bless their Union

purples25:
Yeah. I noticed that my fellow girls think its fake, but that hasn't stopped me. Its a really good thing. The world needs more positivity.

yeah!! nice one! some will say its fake, some will think you're a lex etc, ignore them all. Someone actually said he thought I was gay because i complimented him when some of my colleagues brought the issue up one day but I wasn't bother. i hear so many things, discouraging comments but i don't care, No time for negative vibe around me

just be sincere with it and do it with clear mind

so sorry dear. please talk to a professional, talk to a doctor. Forget about hurting him first, your health and sanity is more important now, do that first and later you can get justice.

please remember to be strong, stay strong, you have so many people (Us) that love you and will always stand by you.

yinkaadesegha:
Thank God you prayed immediately you wake up, its your season of harvest but enemy is trying to deprive you of your blessings... Pray that the holyghost will arise and fight for u in all area. Bless u.

thank you sir

purples25:
Thats very good. I like to do that too.

you can, when you see something good, compliment it. if someone is looking good; same sex or opposite sex, compliment the person, on the road, mall, anywhere and before you know it, it'll become part of you.

people may say things to discourage you but don't pay attention to them.

I do that a lot, consciously or unconsciously, I always do that. I learnt it from school, once I see anything good, I compliment it.

purples25:
Ha. Rejection is very painful to men and women. This is sad.

true but its never a good reason for one to take his/her life

yes

depend on the kind of guy. she should know her guy better, if its someone like me, yes, because I will forgive her for been truthful but if I find out myself, End of discussion.

Season's greetings Sir.

please had this dream today, I can't remember all but the ending part is that we were in a farm, to harvest yam. some have started its like I come to join/assist. one of the ridge had poo on it or I left that to another, I went to pick a hoe and on returning to work, I notice that the yam look so big and also notice that one of the ridge somebody was working on had a big yam but as she was digging it, I heard sound like there is a big hole under. the next thing I notice was that sound and other things started sinking into the ground (hole), a whole mattress was being sink(the way earthquake happen) then I woke up. I prayed very well yesterday, both in the afternoon and at night.

ochibuogwu5:
Thanks, correction noted. Great Grace!!!

Amen, Thank you. more Grace too.

ochibuogwu5:
There is no pain greater than the pain of JESUS; THE SON OF GOD WHO IS GOD AND EQUAL TO GOD yet HIS FATHER COMMANDED HIM TO CARRY OUR SIN, STRIP HIM BARE NAKED ON THE CROSS PUBLICLY AND SENT HIM INTO HELL-FIRE FOR ETERNITY not because of His own sins but because of your sin, my sin and the sins of the whole world

and you are saying *WHY ME ?*

When you are in pain ask Jesus how painful was hell-fire for eternity and for a sin He did not commit then you will hear FROM HIM

He wasn't commanded Sir, He freely and willingly did that out of love that he has for us

please help with the second part of this dream sir.

This afternoon i had a dream that we were in a church alter, so many of us. Its like I was newly wedded and we came for thanks giving(I'm married though). I was ask were is my gift (money) for the thanks giving but I didn't carry any, I went to meet my partner but she refused to answer me as she was angry with me (in real life, I don't know the person). She gave something to the official and we were to go to the church entrance to march in. As we were going, i was saying in my mind that if she like let her be angry, i will try to love her in the marriage whether i was there or not. In the dream, its like she and my real wife gave me missed calls but didn't pick or return it (the cause of her anger I guess). At the entrance, she was telling someone that look like her younger sister, that look at the time you're coming for wedding program. Out of everyone at the alter we were the only one at the entrance and I couldn't recognise anyone of the people standing there to follow us.
I'm married already and I in real life, I can't recognise the lady in the dream

please help with the interpretation sir

1. like i was going to spy on someone, on my way I saw a church sign post so I told myself if i person the message, i will come and check the sign post, immediately I saw the person I was going to spy on so I turn quickly, while cars where driving past, I think the person drove past. later, at same place, people were standing, i nodded to 2 of those standing and they started coming, one was with a black jacket and it's like he was carrying a weapon inside to attack. the target was there and he seen like an influential person, asked me to fill a glass of kunu for him, i did , fill it, tasted it and handed it over to him( it's like we are close), while the attackers were standing by. next I saw 2 people (the attackers I guess) bearing names of people i'm on a Whatsapp group with but haven't seen them before sitting with my elder bro in a small parlor. i ask my brother why they didn't use the big parlour(though it looks like my house in the dream, its only in our family house in our home town that we have 2 parlours) and he said he saw insects there so he left, I apologize that I didn't use insecticide before of my small baby and i woke up.

in real life I'm very peaceful, I even pray for my enemies sometimes. I can never attack anyone

Why do people rape na, na women scarce them? its so annoying honestly, If she says no, leave, let her No be No.

Good day Sir.

please I heard these series of dreams, part of it is something like a small tiny nail entered my foot, someone help me remove it, open the place further so as to prevent further complications and immediately I put the foot down, I didn't feel any pain.

how some people dey reason self? What an inhumane behaviour!

I heard Benue is worse, that so many primary school children are now cultists.

How did we get here?

NwaAmaikpe:





If you think that was accidental then you must dumber than a dumb-bell.

For someone who has shagged siblings, friends, roommates, bridesmaids, enemies, neighbours, in-laws, colleagues, mother-and-child; I can authoritatively confirm to you that there are no boundaries in preek and kpekus matter because the snake is not a loyal animal and a hungry hole swallows all victims.

Your competitive sister inlaw doesn't visit because she is lonely or because she misses her sister so much; she only visits because she is yearning to taste what her sister has been tasting.

Don't expect her to place the kpekus on a saucer and serve it on a tray because she has given you the best clue.
So don't mess up this golden opportunity.

Show her extra attention and affection. One day when you two are alone, indirectly let her know you've seen her package and it is better than any package you've opened all your life.
With intelligent use of suggestive words, you'd get to know if she is the type you can play ball with or the type you'd stick to peeping on.

You'd never know unless you try.
You have not much to gain but so much to lose.

what an advise? you try oooo, SMH

stop thinking about it before you go fall hand.

Strongwoman444:
Amen thanks

you're welcome dear

Happy weekend sir.

Please I have this dream that my wife's cousin brother came to our house, I was surprised cause I wasn't expecting him and it was late. He said he had something to do in town, though in real life he usually stay in our place whenever he come around to do anything. Later his younger sister followed him inside holding a black polythene later and after his sister, the mother too enter. He said he drove down and it's like my wife was cooking (turning slower) for them in our bed room while he was seated on the bed, I lay on the bed and his mum too sat on the bed when she came in.

Strongwoman444:
Thanks you are right I am very grateful to have my 3 wonderful children

That is the spirit, don't regret anything, you have your wonderful children to thank God for and be happy.

Wish you happiness, peace of mind and may God grant all your heart desires

its not a wasted years dear, you have a handsome boy and 2 beautiful daughters, so its never wasted.

Sorry your marriage didn't workout as expected...

get her to sign an undertaken and also relocate if you can.

I had a dream that I went to meet my friends, I can't remember what happened their eventually but later how many of us were going, we saw a woman and its like she want to buy something for us, and its like they don't have it so she said all she have on her is 200, that we should manage it, someone collected it and after small time, he showed us 50, I was so bitter, angry and saying why will someone do that, we are suppose to trust ourselves, why will someone cheat us etc.
2.
We were going through a place that look like a big hospital, someone said, he came for a seminar and the white men said who ever is effected should be killed but our people refused and I said why Will they say that, is that what they are doing in their country? I saw ourselves sitting waiting for result. My name was called, I went and was attended to, later my surname was called again but they first name was wrong( the first name was a friend name), I went and explain to the man and he said he has corrected it. He ask me to sit down, started cancelling me, asking me of my parents, what killed them, etc, he was not comfortable talking straight, I saw the screen and saw the the first result was positive while are the others was negative, I was contemplating in my mind to challenge the result before I woke up.
please what could this mean sir?

Thank you so much Sir.



Please I had some weird dreams in the night, can't remember some part.
1. I pass through somewhere like in the night, some dogs came attacking me, I fought them while running from their side, we fight until they eventually left. The road I was passing though was covered with bushes from both side, I have to bend down, shifting them up before passing and the place was dark, I saw keke coming, I was trying to cover my light so they will not see me and be frightened but it refused to be covered, we eventually met, I came out at the other side, turn the keke back, let them and show then where to follow

2. its was reigning and we were by road side, the rain was drenching others but I was not wet