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its not by shouting or giving order, calmly explain to her, like someone said, advise her.

imagine! SMH

Pearly255:
AMENNNNNN!!!!!!!

Thank you dear, God will keep you and bless you more to take good care of her.

Tell her how you feel, tell her about your anger and your love.

Afterwards discuss with her best way to end it which will be very difficulty. Best option is to move to a new location, do away with all her contacts.

It won't be easy

Pearly255:
I really don’t know cos he has always cheated and so much more....


The motherf***er nah NEPA on and off.
I realized I deserved better then I Quietly walked away. Ended up paying bills all alone for 5years now with our lil girl. It’s hurt badly taking care of her all by myself without a penny from him. Got to move on. Irony of life!! Shit happens!!!!

She’s my universe no absolute regret
For my daughter’s sake I forgive him because love is forgiveness and sacrifice.

beautiful. God bless your universe for you jo

Slimsly100:
Omo! Na shock I shock the guy Las Las. I had been heartbroken before and I almost died(my mum and friend were my godsent) so I didn't want to experience such again. Though I loved the new guy and we dated for almost four years. But in the third year he started to jonce, I approached him severally and he boldly told me he had 3women in his life and each had his purpose. When I ask what my purpose was, he gave me the silent treatment. After thinking about how he had been disrespectful to me and so many things, I pulled myself together and moved on without even telling him.
The next thing he heard was that I was getting married

God bless you there

Klass99:
My classmate's story when we were @ University. I'll call her Nengi because she was just as hot as the BBN housemate (if not hotter sef)

Nengi was dating a working class guy off campus and would often visit him at his crib, she had some of her stuff at his place as well. She visited one weekend and all her stuff were gone (clothing, toiletries, etc) When she asked where her things were, dude said his crib had been broken into and the thieves made away with her things.

Thieves broke in but somehow only her things were missing! This was the first sign that things weren't right but none of us saw, what was to come. Mike did a 360 degree turn afterwards and started dating one of Nengi's close friends and eventually married her. I don't think they did proper marriage rites cos Nengi's friend got pregnant and moved in with Mike (not his real name) I hear they are still living as man and wife, several years later.

Nengi was devastated because she truly loved Mike and wasn't playing games on him, she also had a good character as far as, I could tell. So, I didn't understand the switch he made either. The shocker for me was the friend he went for. Adams Oshiomole will best describe the girl he ended up with.

Mike had proposed to Nengi prior to all this drama and if I remember correctly, he had gone to see her parents about his intentions. Some people say jazz was involved. I didn't know what to think back then or even now, except, fear men

I believe there is more to it, which you may not know. All men are not like that, Some of us are different and have made great sacrifices for the ones we love.

Xcelinteriors:
God please dont let any of my son to marry wrong woman in Jesus name Amen

Amen

no excuse for failure please.

This is serious, very serious.

very funny. Thank God you know now.

What is their business?? it might be true, but it shouldn't be their problem.
External influence is part of the problem that we are having today.
May God help us all.

Please my wife's phone hot 8, has not been downloading from play store, what could be the reason. It keeps rolling without downloading.

frozen70:
Amen, Honestly just grace of God

you're very correct and that's what I usually tel people.

this is not the right time to ask her please.

you should meet with the pastor first and have a good discussion just like you did with the mum.

Constant visit is needed, you need to bond with the child also.

yeah, even right now, that's how I'm feeling cause of pressure everywhere then you know there is God. If not for God ehh.....thank God for God.

Don't give up bro, you're not alone on this, keep pushing and keep trusting God.

the guy is not serious, he didn't want to marry the girl, he is using it as an excuse

its not the side chick fault, unless if she use jazz to get the guy.

frozen70:
Some circumstances can make someyone to cheat

It's only the grace of God that will prevent it

God bless you.


It takes only the grace of God. Its not by bragging or saying I will never cheat, I can never cheat.

lusciouslyon:
We need a few more married matured guys

I sent you a mail now.

follow your mind, if you can forgive her genuinely, then forgive and move on but if you can't, then no need deceiving her, tell her, involve other family members and find ways to support your children.

if your kids will be staying with her, please try to visit them often aside the financial and material support and make sure you avoid sex with her, very important.

I don't think so, I beg to disagree.

Father God, Please settle us ooo, na beg I dey beg please.

This is money

Hathor5:
What fruit?

the sacrifices they made by patiently staying for the sake of their children.

His people luv him, nice

Rotjijatau:
There's nothing to call & tell them, I think they are suppose to be the ones to ask him what happened since he didn't send her out of the house.

He married her from her parents house so if she park her things and left, it is his responsibility to call her parents and inform them of the incidence.

What happened if she did not return to her parents house.

This is marriage, not girlfriend.

No, its never a bad idea. i know alot of women that did that and they're reaping the fruit of their patience now.

though most of the younger generation ladies will not agree but few of them still do it.

Why do some women like causing unnecessary troubles for themselves?

He should call his in-laws to tel them what his wife did, whether he wants to go for her or not, courtesy demands that he inform them.

Money that should have been given to ordinary Nigerians.
The money don enter voicemail already.