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Rotary Club was founded in 1905 by Paul Haris and 2 of his friends. its an international Organization that has presence in all the continents, Rotary also have a seat in UN.
Rotary is a Non-Governmental Organization, second most organised organisation in the world behind the Catholic Church, they are in the fore front and the chief financier of polio Eradication.
Rotary is involve mostly in community service/Development, Peace, building friendship, etc.
No Discrimination, but you must have a classification, you must be of high ethical standard and should be able to pay your dues(yearly dues)
Its a sweet place to be especially if you have love for humanity.

OBhdae:
I get so tensed up easily. I have tried meditation, alcohol even drugs all to no avail.. It's worse when I converse with people I get really sweaty. It is affecting me in so many ways. What should I do?

Pray about it (everything) read some Bible verses about fear and anxiety and pray. Always do things that will take your mind of things; rigorous things, brain task, or play games that needs lots of concentration to take your mind of it.

Know that anxiety doesn't stop or solve anything, it only cause you more pains and troubles. Also know that every problem or issue have an expiry date so why kill yourself about it

nahzyla:
Abi oo,

@ujujoan2 Sorry about the attacks and bitterness you had to deal with because of my thread,
These nairaland men have mental problems.

They cannot see a female oriented topic without descending on it to destroy it and insult women.

It would have been better to say some Nairaland men instead of generalising. How will you tel if the males that have been commenting here are men not boys that are always online. They are lots of responsible people (men) here, not all comment frequently on topics, I read through, I like some replies. It was fun (though some comments are unbelievable), but this your reply though.

It is well, Nice topic (thread).

May God bless all your homes and marriages!!!

limeta:
Watin make we do

you won't say this if you have relatives in the north, we should think before we do some things.

onyichick:
the worst nightmare of any parent is burying a child,see how she has lost weight.Kai I feel sorry for her,may God heal ur heart ma.may we not bury our children, they shall bury us in our ripe old age in Jesus name

Amen oooo

Men toast almost every woman on the street including the married ones talk less of your girlfriend that is not married yet.
Its actually not a big deal, how she handles it is what matters, you shouldn't be disturbing yourself. if she is giving them too much attention, then she is not serious, just leave her, simple.
A serious lady will tel those men 'I have a guy' and politely turn them down.

444crop:
Words in my mind... I will even like you more for being brave in identifying what u want

Exactly

@op, you're turning this thing the other way and guys that I guess didn't read the chat are supporting you.

from what I read, its not as if the girl have another guy outside, she is just coming out of a relationship that probably affected her and she wants to heal so that it won't affect your relationship with her. I guess all these is for sex, you don't really love or care for her, I think you just want sex.

IntersexSherry:
the thing is most girls are very shy and we scared of getting rejected or laughed at.

No reasonable and responsible guy will laugh at a lady for asking him to be her friend.
Like I said earlier, you can ask the guy for normal friendship, not dating. if you tel a guy to be your friend and he said No, you go your way, it won't kill you but trust me, out of 200 guys, maybe its just 1 that will say No.
You should also be careful if he wants to take it further, observe him to be sure he truly likes you before you say yes to him taking it to another level because some guys will take advantage of it, just for sex without true affection for the lady.

IntersexSherry:
I just give him the signs in a style showing i like him and if he ignores it then i move on.
My rule is.. ''He must always hit first then you will see me in action"
Even guys i like, i never hit on them directly to tell my feelings, just give those signs and if he doesn't start hitting then i forget him. I just keep praying in my mind when i come across a guy i like ''let him hit on me''
A Lady got to protect her esteem so you don't get disrespected. Putting on lot of makeup, dressing sexy, showing cleavage, talking in a sweet sexy voice, smiling, greeting him, aren't those signs enough to make a guy start hitting on us??
Or you expect me to walk up directly to him asking him to be my boyfriend or telling him i like him? Oh no, that's not me!
Even when me and my ex quarrelled, he stopped talking to me and i also stopped. I wanted him back but i wanted him to make the first apology. He never did and i never did too.
The thing is when a guy makes the first move in the relationship, he respects you more..

Others may agree with you but I don't, no offence.
"Putting on lot of makeup, dressing sexy, showing cleavage, talking in a sweet sexy voice, smiling, greeting him" etc is a normal lifestyle for some people. personally, I don't see anything wrong in telling a guy to be your friend. You can ask for normal friendship. You should go for what you want,most guys won't disrespect you for that, especially if the guy truly likes you. My type will rather appreciate you for the boldness.

waooo, alcohol is never an excuse.

I won't judge you either but that doesn't mean that what you did is right, just pray it doesn't backfire soonest

danyero:
If god is real, he should seek our mercy and forgiveness for creating a shit world.

God didn't create a sh*t world, humans made it what it is now?

How is that God's fault?

my neighbor too was shouting today, the only team remaining to collect his money but they fall his hands

Stop deceiving other ladies jor, everyone is different.

May God help us and safe our country Nigeria

congratulations to him

frozen70:
Stop making mockery of sensetive issues like this
No one goes to marriage to get divorced and no child was born with the intentions of being in a broken marriage

Go and get married and experience what it is

gbam

congratulations and happy anniversary. More peaceful, Happy years ahead

MJluv:
If a man can marry more than one wife why can't a woman marry more than one husband?

Afterall, what a man can do....

i hope you will marry 2 also

don't terminate it please.

Thank God and God bless the barrister With the golden heart.

Congrats, I pray for justice for your girlfriend and her workers.

stop treating the baby harshly please, non of these is her fault. Whether you're her biological father or not, she is your daughter and you should treat and love her as one.

you need to be absolutely sure before making such accusation.

Congratulations to him

Some things are more important than money! Though the main question is; can you handle that?

Its a new marriage, she can as well get another job with the experience gained already while you guys stay together and have more time for yourselves.

To me, Distance in marriage, especially new marriage should be discouraged.

yes oooo, it will help you tomorrow and save you from lot of things (stress)

God's own is final.


We seriously need take good care of ourselves o. Eat fruit, more Natural food and regular exercise.

Halfamilli:
And most time, it's all about discipline. But we must endeavor to acknowledge God on our paths in life.

true, its more of God and small discipline. discipline self dey fail often if not backed up with prayer.

chiommy123:
please what is so difficult in being faithful?

Its not by mouth, its only God's grace.

Aimerosa25:
thanks a lot bro

you're welcome.

Hmmm....Nice

Aimerosa25:
I dey

Nice. thanks for the reply. Beautiful evening to you.