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osegwu:
After all there is every possibility that she also donated to some of the tenents too.

LMAO

osegwu:
Let the young ones be. Let them not suffer for the sins of their erotic parents.

If you really are for the young ones being, then you'll feel sorry for the kids produced out of incest. The woman should try and find out if the girl belongs to the landlord, if yes, then she has to do something
And you just can't tell two people to break up without a reason, the lady needs a miracle, short and simple (for ex. the girl now belongs to the husband, or they break up willingly)

luxoire:
@cute, hahahahahahha, e be like say u sef don dey notice am dey pile 4 belle

Hahahaha , come to think of it, how sure are we that the girl didn't give him a wrong number?? lol

Maybe he tried the number after being here, only to find out "the number he's dialling is not in use" lmao

He hasnt been here in a while, i'm sure the girl played a fast one on him

Yea nosilla is right

Almost everything in the gorccery stores now have a version with lesser fat or lesser sugar, for those who arent so very good friends with the fatty things.

I've come across salad cream with 50% lesser fat, i've tasted it too, and honestly NO it wasn't the same taste but you can eat it without the guilty consience lol

The only diadvantage with these things, is that they to be costlier than the real thing, have wondered why many atimes

@ neelsel

I get you darling. . and no we dont owe each other anything Cos its a forum we all come here on our own. The only problem is "misunderstanding", we sometimes understand wrongly, and then one thing leads to the other.

Yea lets get it all out, all then know each other's opinions and then respect each other. Thats all!!

I'm sure program judges do not agree at all times, but they still reach an agreement at the end of the day, with each his or her view and opinion

luxoire:
@cute, i know hun

When me and my guy first started dating the first thing he made me promise was, ''the day u fall out of love with me, leave me, Dont cheat on me'', promise u will do that, and i will return the honour,

Funny darl

I too told my boyfriend that once, what a coincidence

viee:
lose u to a lesbo?
that will hurt me more ooooooooooo

Will you rather think there's something your fellow guy could give that you were lacking??

With the lesbo, at least you know you can not and will never possess her features.

Not that i'llgo about spying him, but if i knew, i wouldnt wish i didnt and if he could be so calous to cheat, i hope he thought out the consequences

But for those who were wondering . . NO, i'm not lesbo, it was all in the cause of a discussion!!

luxoire:
hell yeah cute-ass, i'm kind of tired of guys labelling girls for petty reasons!!, esp when it might be the case of the kettle calling the pot black,

we got to flip the script and let them appreciate the other side of the coin too once in a while

My sister don't say what you see ooh . .

I find some guys ridiculous with their comments atimes

one will say . .she doesn't want sex yet, what do i do??
Another will come along with . . what's the fuss about virginity??
next man . . she looks cheap!!
and don't forget . . why do girls play hard to get??

NA WA OOH. . girls don see tire this really is the survival of the "brainiest" lol

viee:
if he does all this, i don't want to know with the remaining 5% of his time

Darling, neither do we, as far as the 5% doesn't go to another woman's pleasure and sexual practice or satisfaction

We didnt say we wanted to monitor his whereabout and actions, we want to know when he's CHEATING

@ Luxoire

girl you are reading my mind so

No ooh, the circumstances should determine if he's gotten chances to last him a life-time or if he still could be listed as a deserver of one more chance. The point is, not making him think its OK, hell nah!

Make yourself his pride, that if you could be satisfied with just him, then he should be ready to do the same. All there is to sex is the girl's in-between and a guys "thingy", now why not make your partner the only one you want to do "it" with

Or does the other girl have some "diamond" in there that you're hunting for, if yes ,then you've totally ruined your partners pride and the trust and respect she has for you . . now why would you take that lightly??

If you're not ready to commit, then don't and then you'll have a free ticket to as many as you want, you can't eat your cake and still expect to have it in your palms

My boyfriend and i were kidding sometime back and he said "I'll rather loose you to being a lesbo than loose you to a fellow guy, Cos i'll keep wondering what it is he has that i don't have" . . now thats the emotional trauma and much more that these people that get cheated on are being subjected to

luxoire:
cute-ass, i am begining to grow a liking for your attitude to life, lol

hahaha 'arrant non-sense'

LOL dearie laugh ooh, i learnt that from my mum though and i laugh each time she uses it

But honestly though, its high time these guys get a taste of that "paracetamol' they've been serving us

And just for the records, i do not condone a "cheating girl" either, so it goes both ways

@ neelsel

You're so right, if 6 out of 10 refuses to settle for them "i don't want to eat the same soup every night" guys, believe me they'll all wake up from their slumbers

The fact that there are some guys that have actually stood out has made me know, realise and believe they weren't created that way, its just a path they choose to go so my dearest if you choose to walk down that path with rest of the "do you know who we are" group,

darling so be it, but do not come back

Whoever said girls liked having the same kind of cake for dessert, but for all the other things a relationship represents, they do. Now you better buckle up or go do it somewhere else!!!

I feel so sorry for girls who do not know their worth and think they were made for guys to come walk over them, NO ooh its not by far acceptable and i'll tell thet to any grieving ear that would listen. Yes, love is enduring, but both ways!!!!!!

This is a nice one

I heard one lady tell her friend that came to complain her husband was cheating "well all men do, as far as he takes care of you, your needs and your kids, you're covered ooh my dear"

What arrant nonsense, what makes it ok for him to cheat?? Does he have 3heads??

I want to know ooh so that i can walk . . and if we were married, don't think you'll get off that easily.

What is good for the goose . . . (you know the rest)

luxoire:
On THE OTHER HAND, THINK OF IT THIS WAY:, MAYBE U CAME ACROSS AS A LITTLE DESPARATE AND SHE FELT SORRY FOR U AND THOUGHT U REALLY NEEDED SOMEONE TO TALK TO, SO SHE OFFERED TO BE THERE FOR U AT ANY TIME OF THE DAY/NIGHT, JUST TO HELP U OUT!!, MAYBE U LOOKED CHEAP. works both ways

WORD!!!!!!!!

Ameena:
Cute ass, thanks a mil. I rily apprepriate it.

You're welcome, i've been there too but that was before i started using the forum

I hope this will help, and please don't stop at the second page, read the whole thread. It gets better and better

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-52250.0.html

bdaf:
I M WITH U. ONE LOVE. LETS MAKE NAIRALAND THE BEST WED IN NAIJA, BUT WHAT WE ARE DOIN HERE IS NOT HELPIN MATTERS @ ALL.
LET US ALL GIVE GOOD ADVICE TO OUR FELLOW NAIRALANDERS. ONE LOVE

Thats the spirit

If 1/3 could be like that, then we'll definitely be heading somewhere!!

Maleeq:
Even though it might be true that she's jobless, she still has a strong point here. You could feel the heat in some thread. Some seem to use this forum to air off their grievances sourced from their real lives.

Thanks dear, i didnt actually reply him Cos he was just a prisoner on the run. If you check all his replies for only the one night he was active, then you'll see his frustration wasn't just let out here. The silence policy has always been a nice one.
But thanks again!!!!!!!

fatliar:
If everybody agrees to everyfing @ everytime d world will never be a better place

Well dearest you, if you were attentive enough to read and get the meaning of the posts above believe me, you would have seen that this particular sentence of yours was so un-called for.
Whoever said we should agree at all times?? the point was that after we've disagreed, we can still shake hands. Thats how its always been in the "boxing ring" and all other games and oppositions!!!

fatliar:
A team that loves fights, quarrels, oral abuse and gossipsif u looking for someone with
d qualities u wrote it definitely going to be u

Doesnt this show how much of a peace maker you are??

Another irritation is when people get their definitions mixed up. I can proudly say that i do not get into fights if they werent sent my way, and i don't orally abuse anyone if they don't give me a reason to
And each and everyone that i've had a thing or two with has always been settled at the spot. We're all human bound to misunderstanding, there's always misunderstandings in real life, not to talk of the cyber world where its only natural to misunderstand a message someone else is passing through

Yea there should be fights, arguements but not unnecessary ones caused out of hatred. If you ever see me in a fight, hold me to my words, its because i hate to bear grudges. I'll gladly tell you my mind there and there, we either path as friends or not but i will definitely leave it at the particular thread of event

You, Fatliar, i've seen what you're capable of, and we all are responsible for our actions so don't play innocent here. The aim of it wast to point out the best member or the biggest trouble maker but to let the past lie, and move on together . .

What exactly was so difficult to understand about that??

Frankies:
Good one from Inze.

You Got the words,She seems desperate. That is exactly what I have been thinking.

Thanks Man.

THE GIRL LOOKS CHEAP, AND YOU ON THE OTHER HAND LOOK "EXPENSIVE" lol

Mr. you really are a piece of work, honestly!!

Why are you twisting the guy's words, he gave you some good points and reasons, and all you could figure out of it is "she seems desperate", where in his post did he say that??

Bia, if you don't want the girl be man enough and kindly say so and stop wasting your time, hers and ours for that matter

There's this thread here on our forum with the topic "WHY DO GIRLS PLAY HARD TO GET", come and see guys condemning girls for the same attitude you're complaining of, it seemed as all the girls that played "hard to get" were niussances, now the girl has served it on a "platter of gold", yet she's still not off the hook

GUYs abeg ooh, make up your minds . . we have other things to attend to

@ Jazzibella

Sounds like we have more in common than i thought Thats good to know. Well Norway is expensive, but you do get paid according to that standard, so i guess there isn't much to complain about in that aspect!!

The weather is freezing cold, guess you know all about that, Cos Canada isn't that much better but its really really cold

Some of the people can be as cold as the weather, you have to be very extremely sociable to get into their net unless you've grown with them and they know you, i guess i wouldnt say cold, they're shy and scared of meeting new people, thats all but in the cause, they seem cold get my drift??

what else to say about my darling Norway . .

its a very very rich country and they have their own language, NORWEGIAN

Get back soon, aight darling??

nossycheek:
_{I wish I have one and not the crowded living room with every relative eyeing a piece of cake you gave to junior}

LOL . . you're so right. Even adults will start whining over something very childish, for one minute you'll start wondering if they really aren't the same age as junior?? Because they sure as hell behave like they are lol

Like i always say . . different strokes for different folks. Evrybody is different

Some will do as creamish stated and for the reason she stated, some wouldn't because some have this twisted definition that by telling, you just want to get the person jealous

So i advice you go with what you think is best and find more suitable

As for me, sometimes i tell, sometimes i don't . . depending on the circumstances

You can't go telling everytime a guy winks at you, or each time a lady gives you the eye

The best video of the year, still LMCAO @ video LOL

dupebaby:
@ fuloshola, maybe im a little bit young, but my mum still do the same thing for me, im 17 and my mum picks my cloths, tell me what to do and not 2 do, it might seems harsh but i know she loves u that why, with tyme and patiences u will overcome this, maybe u all should sit your mum down and explain to her, she can;t beat u since u are 2 grown for beating, she might yell but she will still get the message, [/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000]

You are absolutely correct!!!!!!!!

If your talking to her over and over again doesn't help, then believe me nothing would But like my dear sister said, its all with love, though it can be annoying and frustrating with the harshness

chiegemba:
fine thanks; . "Hope everything is goin on fine with u"

Yes ooh, a Lil bit tired though. Will be hitting the bed very soon

YOU??

chiegemba:
@ cute; hi cutie! how r u doin?

I'm doing great ooh, how is my darling doing??

Let me now talk to/about some loved ones that i know are in the middle of this bad dream:

@ omo eko
Yea i know you've been pushed to the wall a number of times, and you wished we were all allowed to speak our minds, but darling please let it go. Lets all stand together and see how sweet this journey can be. I say this because i know Omo eko, she's shown me the sweet side of her, so please cut her some slack and the chance to be the lady she is!!!


@ Neelsel
Honey, you're one big nut to be cracked . . but please rest your tools. I beg of you please please, you've been here a long time and i know you're not a bad seed as it may seem but please forget and lets call it a new day. I love you too!!

@ Sisimose
Sometime i vowed never to speak to you, but I'm not so good at it lol. I've come to realize that behind the mask, is a sweet lady. Please for my sake, let the sweet one take over. Lets all walk together, believe me you'll not regret it. I'm happy about you reporting bad seeds to be wiped away, but always wear the extra glass to differentiate the good seeds who were just having fun of which others who are having a bad day canbenefit from and those who are really out to destroy . . the eyes can deceive , one love!!!

@ TOH/ Red_Lips
What can i say?? it all started like a joke, but its now turning into a night-mare abi?? lol. You've shown that you're a sister to many, you've shown me forone, I'm sure you remember the times you've stood for me Now lets generalize it. Lets let love reign and say no to the beef and hatred, we can't like all, but we can give them a chance to show they're worthy of our likeness!!

@ Seun
You're a story to be told. Yea, you're one hell of a dude (in a positive way). You've done great but please look into matters thoroughly beforetaking decisions, when nairaland was a better place in the past, I'm sure there was something you were doing differently . . were you more fun?? more open?? more forgiving?? more tolerating?? I wasn't here then but i have seen the difference, please i want the old Seun back
Always remember that in as much as we want to give educative points, we need fun once in a while to keep the ride going . . all work and no play makes jack a dull boy and a friend once said that all work and no play makes Jill a lonely girl . . let some fun be !!


@ Debosky
Seems you were offended, lets not go into it but please "forgive and forget"!!!


@ Davidylan
Lets make it the home it used to be!!!!!!!!!

@ all nairaland users
We're supposed to be a family here, from the young ones, to the older ones, to the older members, to the newbies, to the "everyday addicts", to the "not so active" to all and kind, please TOGETHER WE STAND, DIVIDED WE FALL

PLEASE ALL, I'M DONE. Can we all just exchange some friendly hugs and kisses?? Please I'm on bended knees with tears all over my face, lets let by gone be by gone. We've all been foolish but its not too late . . If nothing for old times' sake . . please darlings, I'm sincerely pleading

Lets call it a new day, we're all parents, or to-be parents . . now how on earth do we start to preach to them about love and maturity, when we can't behave as such to people that we were opportuned to meet on a forum??

*LET PEACE AND LOVE REIGN AGAIN, I LOVE YOU GUYS*

naijacutee:
Hehe for real o! I know how to cook these things sha but when you haven't practised for such a long time one tends to forget. . . . Please, nne biko, how do you go about the onubu soup? How does one make it thick in these parts where they haven't got cocoyam?

I know what you mean, but don't worry, when you walk into the food-office(kitchen) and bring out your tools,it'll run back naturally

As per the thickening of "Onugbu soup", you should have travelled back with some dry powdered coco yam, serves the same but in the absense of that, use some powdered yam (i know its there, my aunt use it), just prepare it like you prepare your "nri ji" but make it more gummy then use it in place of the "cocoyam"

Believe me, its the same effect

@ uspry 1

I get what you mean, but anybody that is a member should appear on the search page, now if you don't get any helpful information after you've searched, tell the person to "copy and paste" a link of their activeness, somewhere they've been active or their profile!!

Now if the person isn't willing to prove themselves to that extent, then they might just be lying