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gud4dbest:
Dress anyway you like but not in public. The public belongs to everyone...

If public belongs to everyone then it also belongs to her. So she CAN dress how she pleases.

Rich4god:
So that dress up there is ok by you... Where ever you are, obey the law of the land... I have seen some ladies dress seductively pass in front of where Muslims are praying. If the Muslims harrass them now, we will all come here and be shouting that Muslims are intolerance. But even their fellow Muslim ladies fully covered up always try not to pass where prayer is going on... Am not against anyone dressing as they like, but dress according to your environment and laws of the land.

Why should it be acceptable to harrass someone who hasn't done anything to you just because you don't like the way they dress?

Such wickedness.


I hope SARS comes back to harass men based on how they dress, and i hope such men will only be men who have this your stupid mindset. Keep the same energy then

Congrats to her. Not only did she start something beautiful. She got featured on BBC 100 women. Congrats again

quivah

Reading through the thread I can see some fools left what they were doing to try to police you on how to respond, what to say in response, how to feel and who or how many people you should respond to.

Please ignore the goats. Respond to what you want, how you want, as many times and to as many comments you want to respond to.

I don't see all these people trying to police the men who started this rubbish by trying to blame and shame the women for being targeted by ritual killers, but when you spoke in defence they want to police you on how to do it, SMH.

quivah:
. You are a leech, runs girl, make your own money, student, married, single ....we are potential victims!

We can't even walk on the road these days.

Please say this loud and clear.

I think some foolish human beings(men and women) have this messed up mentality that as long as I'm ( the lady is) not a leech, not a runs girl not greedy. I'm hardworking, make my own money married. E.t.c. so I can't be used.

As if ritualists dey reason all those ones.

quivah:
IamD, thank you for this advice. I work and I make my OWN money, any one I see or hear or notice to be into fraud or yahoo or robbery, I flee from them. Guys that patronize who.res, smoke or drink heavily and womanize, I flee from.. Invariably, I flee from people like you and most %% of naija guys, cause you are evil and heartless.
I am not a leeche, but I am human enough to know being a leech or not, evil people are using women all around. A 15 year old girl was killed for rituals, she was leeching? A student seeking accommodation was killed, she was leeching?

I don't know if Nigerians (men and women) are under a cures to always look for how and whom to victim blame, victim shame and victim terrorize instead of attacking the perpetuators and looking for solutions.

They are so irritating with this she must have been a leech, she must have been a goldigger bs that they like to use to blame victims and make excuses for ritual killers.

But When we see threads about kids of 12 years. Babies of 4 years and below used for ritual, they become silent

Bunch of stupid goats.

Na your sisters and mum dem go use, even your unborn girls, after all if dem go use dem, cut their private parts, comot their eyes, dem go use dem!! I am ranting cause people are killing people and you are here looking for justification!. You must be very stu.pid, evil doer!

But abeg no vex, leave his innocent sisters and mum abeg. It's him they will use. Not any of his female relatives, it's him,
Don't punish innocent women for the sins of these men related to them. No one chose their relatives and to be plain honest. Some of such men don't care about what happens to their mothers sisters or female relatives at all. Shocking I know, but it's true.

megamank:
Wow....so lovely....

You see a watery bean from your end what my phone shows me is fried rice salad and chicken....

Please just imagine that is what you are eating then keep smiling and swallowing it...

My brother abeg chop make u belefu....bele nor be show glass...

The reason why Nigerians are suffering. Always managing, always enduring,
They see something wrong, they can't speak out, they say just manage it.

Ugosample:
It's a sad thing.....

The root of this is inferiroity complex.

Because most of them feel worthless and empty, they bully, harass and intimidate those that they think they are higher than, to feel good about themselves

Very very true

mynairaland2018:
Koko is friends wt every FAMOUS person in Lagos - male and female. The pple Ive found her conversing wt on instagram.

She even got a brand new car from obagoal a few months ago. I'm beginning to wonder about her. She must have some serious interpersonal skills.

No lies. She has some damn connections

myettiallah:
why do women envy themselves too much. I am sure that if you were given a chance, you wont mind being a concubine

Even some men won't mind being a concubine.

YomzzyDBlogger:
I like how SDK reports her stories, She is never direct but when she talks she hits the nail on the head

Damn truth. She never gives you the name but she gives you enough Info to figure It out.

Happy birthday Niflheim, wish you all the best.

HappyPagan:
Im dancing naked
Swinging my lala
Its Sinday
Time to go gaga

I no dey go church
But all the sermons dey reach my mansion
Church speakers loud pass my igbo,
All my windows dey receive the transmission

Islamization? Na dem dey colonise
Na church make NEPA bring transformer come my street
All the instrumentalists from my hood
If no be church, dem no go fit make beat...

Make I go find food out for belle
These my rhymes no dey give protein
But e go give your brain vitamin A
Make you start to dey see wella...

You write so good.
And this was done under an hour right?

SonsOfLiverpool:
Let us respect the gods real or not, let us drink alcohol, let us get high, let us take marijuana, let our souls dance every season
But let us not hate, let us be constructive with our criticism

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If in your own philosophy there are no rights or wrong, what is the ideology behind this?

for we all are victims of consciousness trying to find the right path.

And if there are no rights or wrong, what is a right path?

In my own philosophy, there are no rights or wrong,
there is only survival.

Does this philosophy have a name?

Ugosample:
I'm wondering what's the link between keeping your father's surname and rebelliousness? ?

The million dollar question.





Any answers? Anyone on this thread?

DaddyNimo:
will your lives make sense if we don't marry y'all? you're not even happy someone decided to marry you, you still wanna drag name after paying brodeprice Ko possible Men

Lol, this is a new Era, women are no longer happy with "at least I'm married, at all at all Naim bad pass" kind of marriage,

Either you step up and give women what they want or you step out of their way and manage your single life.

How will men like you cope?

JeromeBlack:
Did they even use surnames in the bible?

What is John the Baptist's surname?

Even Jesus did not have surname.

Moses did not have a surname

LOL

noturbusiness:
does that mean he is going to treat his wife better? what harm will bearing your husband name do to you?

Absolutely Nothing,

but it's a free world, everyone should be able to have choice., if i was a man and I want a wife who will change her surname to mine, then I should be able to find such a wife and marry her and live in peace,
There are women like that definitely.

Not attacking the women who don't think that way and trying to force them to change to what I want. Like I said. Free world, everyone should do what they want.

Now my question, what harm will a woman keeping her surname or even the man changing his surname to the woman's own do to you guys? That makes some guys campaign against it like this?

Seems most people don't believe in a free world everyone should do as they please kind of life.
Why trying to stop women who want to keep their surnames and browbeat them into changing it? , why not marry women who don't have an issue with changing their surnames? Why this irrational need to Control women?

Small thing, Women should add keep their surnames in addition to their husband's names is disturbing you guys like this.

How will you survive when women refuse to change their names completely, insisting on keeping their names even in marriage,

Or when women insist just like you guys are doing that the man must change his name and bear their surname to be a family.?

Elliot2:
if we must discuss things that don't make any sense then it should be why a woman should bear her husband's name;it doesn't make any sense. She is not a property a man acquires.

Men with sense

naijawisdom:
This person you're quoting is busy SCAMMING unsuspecting Nairalanders.


He has defrauded about 22 persons on this thread alone of N2,500 each.

N2,500 x 22 = N55,000


Be warned!

gimmehear:
2. The husband only puts food in his wife’s mouth only when she is terminally ill and cant feed herself.

3. If you see a man opening car door for his wife means the door is faulty.

4. The only thing that makes an african man touch his wife’s neck is when she complains of fever. He wont touch it again till the next fever.

5.The only time he can carry his wife on his arms is when she is in labour.

6. If you see them seated outside at night, don’t think they are romantic. They are only waiting for the smell of insecticide to vanish.

7.Many wives buy gifts for their husbands only when they are hospitalized.


11. The only time a wife looks closely to her husband’s eyes is when he complains of dirt in his eyes.

LOL!!!!!

humandroid:
You prefer to worship brother Jesus but refuse to worship brother Brahman. Is brother Brahman not a white man also ?

Some one needs to deprogram both of you from Yahweh Virus.

l'm scared of starting again, looking for someone all over again, What do I do? What would you do?

You marry him
You don't agree with a core part of him. Instead of you to leave, you say you are scared of starting over, oh well, no other choice then than to marry him then and carry your cross in peace

babyfaceafrica:
what I don't understand is how can people start dating without knowing the church and denomination the other is going....what were you people discussing albinitio... .carry your cross

I was confused also

Lol
I like her style
Why spend her money buying a car when her boyfriend is willing to get her a car?

Xisnin:
Poor boy, control your jealosy.
The boyfriend is not complaining.

The way some people on this forum cry whenever a guy gets his girlfriend something expensive or gives her money,
You'll think the funds is coming out of their pockets

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fishmillan:
9ja girls please learn ... Some will even gift you kpekus , like have you not been hitting this same kpekus ... I tell you they have nothing to offer ... Brainless scallwags

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You and all those that liked your post, don't deserve Nigerian girls at all. Nigerian girls really need to start ignoring idiots who make such derogatory statements about them.

I don't know why you guys feel very comfortable denigrating Nigerian girls and yet are delusional enough to think you still have the right to date them, even more delusional enough to tell them to learn. (maybe lack of common sense is the issue)


The lady is from Zambia, get your next girl from there next time. Nigerian girls deserve far better then your trash.

HungerMustGo:
Happens but totally wrong. Any man that does this growing up will definitely hit his wife when married. This is a true test.

It's obvious, that's how they start, then they'll graduate to hitting their wives because she was rude to them,
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Franklyine:
You said it all, when you Are Rude. He is trying to correct you. Try not to be rude and the hitting will stop.

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Nope, this is bs. Does he go around hitting everyone that is rude to him?
Violence, physical abuse and toxic family relationships should never be excused nor normalized.
The brother is wrong and trash, and so is the mother.

Franklyine:
Watch and see how this same brother will brutalize any human being that touches her outside.

Still not acceptable nor is it an excuse to physically abuse his younger sister. He can only hit when hit first, not go around hitting her because she is his younger sister and she was rude to him, that's a messed up mindset.

Ilamina:
What he considers rude

I don't think I am rude, I am just defending myself

Even if you are rude, he has no right to hit you.
Nah,
People need to stop normalizing violence.

The clowns here supporting him would be the first to attack women calling them gold digger, hoes and oloshos.
Yet here they are, supporting their fellow golddigger, scammer and hoe. Hypocrisy of the highest order, And the babyish men are still here foolishly trying to blame this rubbish on women and feminism.

If he is shedding tears what does he expect the girl to do?

Lol, I guess he thought he would receive support after shading her, but seeing as it backfired on him, he decided to do damage control and delete the post

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chineji:
Did I talk about Italian women? I have never met such beautiful women in my life. Beautiful and very interesting. I used to think it was impossible for women to be interesting and funny but white women proved me so wrong. My Co workers were always so fun to have conversations with. They knew absolutely everything about everything cause they read a whole lot. In Italy, the women are always smiling all the time ( it's a total different ball game in most African countries where most women are always ugly and angry all the time) and the greetings omg. It's not weird to hug a woman and give her a peck on both cheeks and say bounjourno or bounesera depending on what time of the day it is. La spezia had a lot of beautiful women but then we took a road trip to Milan and it was like a total different ball game. It was just like a real life miss world beauty pageant.

Italian women are the most beautiful I have ever seen in my life. I just pray I can marry a Nigerian because ever since I got back all the girls are just ugly to my eyes

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This is the problem I have with reading these travel threads. A guy will travel out the next thing he does is to insult Nigerian women left and right for no reason.

"Nigerian women are always ugly, nigerian women are always angry, Nigerian women are not interesting,"
Absolute rubbish.

You don't deserve Nigerian women, and i just pray no Nigerian girl looks in your direction. I really pray so.

racist, color struck misogynistic black man.
Nonsense.