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HappyPagan:
Give me links pls.... I get confused, ehn, sometimes.

Mostly the stories you showed me yourself, especially the Adam and eve creation story you wrote in pidgin. I'll look for a link

You seem to be financially stable, divorce him and move on, what about your parents? Run to them and lean on them while your free yourself from this man.
It will get better as soon as you start doing that.
Wishing you strength to raise these kids on your own.
As for the giving him your car so you can jump okada. This idea of displeasing yourself just to please someone else, it's not healthy,

All the best.

ednut1:
so divorce means depriving ur kids the father lol. He is broke and chasing after a woman. I am currently in my father's house for xmas opposite us is a man's grave and his wife . Both Died around 2003. From Aids. D man was a chronic cheat.

That's one of the reasons why cheating scares and pisses me off. Exposing me to diseases, some which can kill, imagine treating HIV for life when you were not the one having sex like a rabbit everywhere.

That woman is 70??

Black don't crack. At all.

Body is banging. Is it real though?

What is the point of this marriage ceremony? What does it change?

Ranchhoddas the entitled sadistic controlling misogynist.
Just because he is not happy that single ladies have the choice to state that they want to date and marry only rich men.(Ranchhoddas wants to control and tell a woman what her standards can be and gets angry when these ladies ignore him and set standards for themselves .) Uses that as an excuse to say that it is right for men to cheat on, mistreat and torment their wives and yet SOMEHOW thinks he is justified.


Sickening.

Ranchhoddas:
Not at all.
The problem is that you stand by it only when it suits you.
What is good for the goose is good for the gander. How many men have you made miserable because they do not measure up to your financial standards. Is misery gender-specific?
So you see nothing wrong in asking women to go for rich men?
You also torment men who are not rich with your desire for wealth you have not earned. Why is it permitted for you and not for me?
Calling out a hypocrite does not a sadist make.
Apart from being a hypocrite, you also have a short memory. The word "bitterness" was in the post I alluded to. Na you I learn am from.
Do not gerrarahere. Dance, revel, and make merry in the garb of hypocrisy that you have put on. It becomes you!

HappyPagan:
Ok. Going through my old posts is giving me wild erections.

But you didn't get any urge to finish your old stories?

HappyPagan:
This is deep. I need life, Sir. How do I go about eating the flesh and blood of this Jesus?

Do I need a cup, and a set of cutleries (I've got some distilled water I could cleanse them in)?
Are there any side dishes? Like raw goat kidneys, or a pube from Jesus' pits?
Can I finger Jesus' holes?

https://previews.123rf.com/images/tommyandone/tommyandone1205/tommyandone120500004/13510389-hungry-man-waiting-for-dinner.jpg

Oh my gosh

Ranchhoddas:
According to your post on a previous thread women should be able to choose what is best for them.

And I stand by it. any problem?

A guy has chosen what he deems to be best for him and you are foaming at the mouth saying useless prayers.

So he should be able to try to make an innocent woman's life miserable just because it would be best for him? So it's OK for people to make your life miserable because it is best for them?
Hmmm, Good to know.

I don't know if it is a crime to want a menopausal woman so that he can be free to chase younger women.

So you see nothing wrong in what he said? No wonder.

Seems you are also praying for a menopausal lady who can't bear children to marry you, so you can cheat on her while she desperately tries to please you just to get you to stay faithful. Stressing and tormenting the poor innocent lady just for your pleasure
The wickedness of men.

Double standard much.
If hypocrisy had a face it would be yours.

And if sadism and lack of common sense had a face, it would be yours. (And the clown who made the original post)

Perhaps you are just a bitter misandrist.
https://www.nairaland.com/4922375/need-very-rich-wealthy-man/1#74136387

Misogynist like you, is there any other word you guys know apart from bitter?

Common gerrarahere

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haladadon:
it's better to marry a woman who's closer to menopause so that she won't be able to have children for you and watch her desperate to please you while you keep going for younger girls.

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May you and all the jokers who liked this post be rejected by all the women you want to date and/or marry, in fact, even if you just want to talk to them, I hope they ignore and brush past you.
Amen.

These people are funny, awesome God? Thank you God? For what? Putting fibroids inside the body of the mother? Especially when she is already pregnant? Is that what the thank you is for?

It's honestly a slap in the face of the doctors to say thank you God as if God was the one who performed the surgeries.

Freezer should allow us enjoy this Christmas without his noise, this pagan story is getting boring.

Can't guys be friends with ladies without complaining about being in a friendzone?

Rich Wealthy and GENEROUS man fall on you in 2019
Don't mind all these bitter nairaland and twitter misogynists who don't ever like it when women have high standards and want the best for themselves.

I wonder when it became a crime for a lady to state that she wants a rich, wealthy man as a partner.
Bitterness everywhere

Just sounds like an advert.

sopas2019:
Nairaland Original: 2 Nairaland Besties Getting Married After 11 Years

There is something so amazingly exciting about getting married to your best friend! And it becomes pretty fairy when she's like the full kid sister that he never had; and he's like the full big brother that she never had.

But it feels even a bit heavenly when (as a bonus) she instinctively acts like the mom he lost as a kid (like trimming his nails at any chance, and putting her feet firmly on the ground about how he should dress, etc). Whilst, on the other hand, he instinctively acts like the dad she lost as a kid (like pushing pretty hard against both her Dean of Student Affairs and the DG of NYSC, when her service year was delayed for no wrongs of her doings).

This friendship began more than 11 years ago. At a stage, for 5 years at a stretch, we were opposed by an all powerful stakeholder who would have nothing else but see us go apart. Of course we got so discouraged severally and can't count how many times we almost gave up altogether. But the bond wouldn't just break.

Well, here we are today. We have become totally victorious. It is the day of our power and everyone is now willing to see us together. Every entity and all elements in creation are collaborating harmoniously to make the day a reality!

This is the lord's doing and it's marvelous in our eyes. It is the day which the lord has made; and we will rejoice and be glad in it. Please, kindly join us to rejoice and praise God for this amazing day!

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cc: Rocktation, farano

Congrats to you both, HML.
Did you guys meet on nairaland?

It's pretty, I love Christmas decorations, but those of you strolling around upper iweka at that time of the night. I heard it wasn't safe.

This thread, topic and op so straight to the point. Op you didn't share your experience, you just left.

True. Freedom from fear most especially. Fear of demons and all the paranormal stuff, where I'd go if I die etc
You just have peace of mind

I'm really tired of these muslims.
She doesn't want to respect the dress code of the school, so her religion is greater than the rules of the school?

Odutan said that the refusal of the defendant to allow her client to use her Hijab, violates her rights to “freedom of thought, conscience and religion, freedom from discrimination and right to the dignity of the human persons and right to education”.

How?.

That overzealous teacher that dragged the hijab off her head needs to be cautioned and disciplined

She can't order chicken?
But at least the boy took her to somewhere he could afford and told her what he could pay for. Not those broke guys who take girls to restaurants they can't afford and watch her order something he can't pay for.. Then start causing drama when it's time to pay.

Dogalmighty17:
Her family has been very accommodating. They have been open to see my mom. My mom however, keeps finding one excuse or another not to go.

After reading this, I think the girl and her family are right. She is better off without you and your family wahala

They don't beg someone to marry, the person either wants to get married or he doesn't.

they shouldn't have to drag you to set a date neither should they keep waiting for your mum to come down from her high tower and deign to see them to set a date.

You and your mum should carry your marriage and go.
Her family has been very accommodating but you and your mum are busy playing funny games. SMH

Nairalanders can be very biased and very against women, it is seriously nasty and I'm more than tired of it at this point. I wonder what this submission is about. What do you mean by she isn't being submissive to you?

That aside, all the clowns attacking attacking this lady and saying she is bringing her family into the relationship, I hope you blind bats could read that it was op who reported her to her family first.

Dogalmighty17:
I was at a loss on what to do that I had to voice out the issue to her family.

Her family then gave judgement and she followed it.

When they asked her, she told them that since I requested for a shift in wedding date, she became uncomfortable with the relationship. Her family then told her to call off the relationship

That's what op wanted, For the family to talk to their daughter and they have, So why the funny comments towards the fiancee and her mother?
All op's fiancee's mother said was that since op doesn't feel like her daughter is respectful enough for him and now he has started with shifting the wedding date then he should leave her daughter for her, and some of you are saying rubbish.
I wonder if you guys are angry that they didn't lie on the ground begging op to marry their daughter? That they consider their daughter and her happiness before any marriage? Is that what is making some of you say rubbish about the fiancée, her mother and her family?

They asked me that since the date I initially agreed for the wedding wasn't going to be convenient for me, when then do I think will be convenient? Since I didn't want to loose my woman, I mentioned February. The desperation on my path was much

This just shows op wanted to shift wedding date without any idea of when he would want the new date to be. No wonder the fiancée wasn't happy, So OP, if her family didn't ask you when the new date would be, you don't even have a date in mind?

My mom on the other hand wants a wedding in April. She has said February is not convenient for her. All my pleas have fell on deaf ears. She has threatened not to bless the union and has even gone as far as threatening to curse me with her breasts if I wed in February.

My girl has refused to even entertain the thought of shifting the date again. She maintains that it is better that we outrightly call off the wedding, than shift it again. I understand her fears. She feels that I may just be wasting her time. I am not

After understanding her fears, instead of op to try to assuage her fears and find a way to fix or resolve the situation amicably between all parties, Op decided to turn it into fiancee vs mother issue.

This is my dilemma. Should I go with my woman who has spent three years of her life with me or do I go with my mom?

Op what date do you want? You are the one who shifted the wedding date because it was no longer convenient for you, what date will be convenient for you? Don't hide behind the skirt of your mother or fiancee abeg. All your fiancée wants is for you to choose a date you will follow through on and she will be OK, so Choose a date and the same way you took issues into your hands to get your mum to agree to the first wedding date is the same way you should get her to agree to this one, You are the one who caused this problem, fix it.

I must also mention that my mom was informed of the initial date of the wedding over a year ago. But she foot dragged in her support for months until much later in the year that I now had to take issues into my own hands.

So your mom dragging her feet because of wedding date is not a new issue, but some nairalanders won't consider why op's fiancée's family is very wary of op and his wedding plans.

Olamide loves to support evil. First he sang a song supporting rape now it's ritual killings

nwaanambra1:
THE THREE ARM OF THE BENZ LOGO IN THE PIC IS MADE UP OF A GIRL PANTIES.


OLAMIDE JUST SIGNED THE END OF HIS CAREER.

Just noticed it, you're right.

True

sojayy:
meanwhile...

Lol

This guy is just bad toy car?

Funny enough I didn't see
"Attracted to indecently dressed children" on any of these profiles shown here.

The past few days have shown me how thoroughly stupid a number of nairalanders especially the "dress well, dress decently" gang here are.

A child can give consent
Something is wrong with you

Trash pedophile

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jesmond3945:
what are you saying, who told you those children don't consent? If a woman can consent to sleeping with another woman and it is acceptable then by all standards a pedo has the right as far as a child consents to it. A time would when bestals and inbreeding preverts would be accorded the same right infact the business you want to involve in would come knocking at your door.

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sacx:
Much of what is referred to as home training in Africa are whipped up sentiment. So a child can't show disapproval of a parent's action but a parent can.

That is what they like.

What is that? Double standard. We are all humans and everyone deserves to be respected irrespective of age and size

Say it loud and clear.

A human being used a whooping $144m to bet?

donhils:
And what made you think she was referring to one country? Is it not possible that she has designers from different countries in Africa?

You'd think that should be the first thought of everyone, but When people just want to be angry and "correct" others for no reason, the bs you see on FP is what you'll get.
Beyonce never said she thinks Africa is a country, but the "Savage and over intelligent" crew just want to show themselves.

hahn:
Why you no go talk like that?

You get wahala I swear. I don laugh tire