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Tonyosas101:
Good one

I always feel this burning guilt in me whenever I intend dropping refuse on the floor
Jeeez, I hate that feeling

Same, I always search for a refuse bin, but if I don't see. Floor it goes.

She really gave them pepper
If it pain them too much, they should take her to court. Lol

He is right especially on Nigerians Hypocrisy when it comes to foreign gays.

vivaciousvivi:
So Kemi can recognise when something is done "in poor taste"?" Shocking!
When she runs her mouth about others, she didnt realise before now?

Epic
When she mocks people, she doesn't realise it is in poor taste.
Now someone has served her the same dish and she suddenly realizes what is in poor taste and what isn't.

LewsTherin:
I think this is what the OP means

This first picture is so cute.
N1000 and the roses. Love the way it's arranged also. Looks really nice.

Stycon:
How about we do Dollars or Pounds

Let's do it.

Why use N500 notes? What happened to N1000?

To limit the number of children per mother?
Is that all? Nothing about limiting the number of children per father also?
They better take this law back to whatever misogynistic mind thought of it and make sure it never sees the light of day again,
If they want to do something they might as well do it well.
Not limiting the number of children a woman has while keeping mum on the number of children a father as if if a man has 8 children from 4 women it won't increase the population of Nigeria, the same way it would if it is a woman who has 8 children.

I like the outfit on both, can't choose

hemlock0:
Is that what they asked you? Same reason you graduated with certificate of attendance...

Give him, some people will leave what they are supposed to do and start talking off point.

chuksville:
Will this question help in removing Buhari come 2019?

Oga take it easy

Na wa.
See unnecessary rules and regulations for women.


Please women do what you want and do as you please. Abeg.
You didn't come to this life to live for anyone.
Dress as you want to dress, play with your hair and make up as you please. Do what makes you happy. Just do you.

The only thing is to have the confidence to remain unshaken when anyone tries to bring you down for not acting as others are or for not dressing as they expect you to and you're good to go.
Self confidence will take you far.



And also women,
NO ONE, and I mean, NO ONE is allowed to disrespect you in anyway because of what you wear.
Not a single person.

Na wa.
Thanks for bringing this here.

WetinConsignMe:
As if he sat down one day and decided to be gay - his family begged him to reconsider, to change his decision!

SEXUALITY

Romantic Orientation- Who you are romantically attracted to meaning wanting to be in a romantic relationship with and is unrelated to sexual attraction.

Sexual Orientation- Who you are sexually attracted to meaning who you get turned on by or who you would want to engage in sexual behaviors with.


*note all listed below are applicable also to romantic orientations. These take the prefix of the word and the ending -romantic, i.e. heteroromantic, panromantic, aromantic.


Heterosexual- The attraction to a gender different from their own (commonly used to describe someone who is gender binary [female or male] attracted to the other binary gender).

Homosexual- The attraction to a gender the same as their own (commonly used to describe someone who is gender binary [female or male] attracted to the same binary gender).  Sometimess referred to as gay.

Sapiosexual - A sapiosexual is someone who is turned on and attracted to intelligence, or someone’s mind before their appearance.

Lesbian- Women who are attracted only to other women

Bisexual- When you are attracted to two or more genders.  This term is generally used to describe being attracted to men and women, but can apply to being attracted to any two or more genders. Note that you do not have to be equally attracted to each gender.

Pansexual- When you are attracted to all genders and/or do not concern gender when you are attracted towards someone

Bicurious- People who are open to experiment with genders that are not only their own, but do not know if they are open to forming any sort of relationship with multiple genders.

Polysexual- When you are attracted to many genders

Monosexual- Being attracted to only one gender

Allosexual- When you are not asexual (attracted to at least one gender)

Androsexual- Being attracted to masculine gender presentation

Gynosexual- Being attracted to feminine gender presentation

Questioning- People who are debating their own sexuality/gender

Asexual- Not experiencing sexual attraction (note that you can also be aromantic and you do not necessarily have to be asexual and aromantic at the same time).  Sometimes the term, ace, is used to describe asexuals.

Demisexual- When you only experience sexual attraction after forming a strong emotional bond first or a romantic bond

Grey Asexual- When you only experience attraction rarely, on a very low scale, or only under certain circumstances

Perioriented- When your sexual and romantic orientation targets the same gender (for example being heteromantic and heterosexual or being biromantic and bisexual)

Varioriented- When your sexual and romantic orientations do not target the same set of genders (for example being heteromantic and bisexual or being homoromantic and pansexual)

Heteronormative- The belief that hetersexuality is the norm and that sex, gender, sexuality, and gender roles all align

Erasure- Ignoring the existance of genders and sexualities in the middle of the spectrum

Cisgender - a person whose sense of personal identity and gender corresponds with their birth sex.

Cishet- Someone who is both cisgendered and heterosexual.  This is sometimes used as a slur.

Polyamorous- An umbrella term referring to people who have or are open to have consensually have relationships with multiple people at the same time

Monoamorous- People who have or or open to have relationships with only one other person at a time.  The term, monogamous, is also sometimes used

Queer- A reclaimed slur for anybody in the LGBT+ community or who do not identify as cisgender and/or hetersexual/heteromantic

Ally- A supporter of the LGBT+ community that does not identify as LGBT+

GENDER & SEX

Sex- Your assigned gender at birth and/or the gender of your reproductive organs

Gender- Where you feel that you personally fall on the spectrum between male and female. Commonly people identify as male or female, but some fall in the middle or move throughout the spectrum.

Cisgender- When you identify with the gender you were assigned at birth

Transgender- When you identify with a gender different than that you were assigned at birth

Transsexual- When you have had Gender Reassignment Surgery (GRS) to change the sexual organs you were born with to that of a different gender.

Male to Female (MtF)- When somebody that is assigned as a male at birth identifies as a female

Female to Male (FtM)- When somebody that is assigned as a female at birth identifies as a  male

Genderfluid- Moving between genders or having a fluctuating gender identity

Agender- Not identifying with any gender. Sometimes referred to as being genderless orgendervoid

Bigender-  Identifying as two genders, commonly (but not exclusively) male and female.  Sometimes you feel like both genders at the same time and sometimes you fluctuate.

Polygender- When you identify with multiple genders at once.  Sometimes referred to asmultigender.

Neutrois- When you identify as agender, neither male nor female, and/or genderless

Gender Apathetic- When you really do not identify nor care about any particular gender. You are fine passing off as whatever and you really do not have an opinion towards your own gender.

Androgyne- This term overlaps a lot between gender identification and presentation.  It can be used to describe others and as an identification. This term is used to describe people who are neither male nor female or are both male and female.  Basically anyone who does not fit into a binary gender category.

Intergender- Somebody who's gender is somewhere between male and female

Demigender- When you feel as if you are one part a defined gender and one or more parts an undefined gender.  Terms can include demigirl, demiboy, demiagender, ect.

Greygender- Somebody with a weak gender identification of themselves

Aporagender- Somebody with a strong gender identification of themselves that is non-binary

Maverique- A non-binary gender that exists outside of the orthodox social bounds of gender

Novigender- A gender that is super complex and impossible to describe in a single term

Designated gender- A gender assigned at birth based on an individuals sex and/or what gender society percieves a person to be

Transitioning- The process of using medical means to change your sex

Intersex- A biological difference in sex that is when people are born with genitals, gonads, and/or chromosomes that do not match up exactly with male or female.  Intersex individuals can have any romantic/sexual orientation and can have any gender identification.  Intersex individuals are about as common as redheads.

Dyadic- Someone who is not intersex and when their gentinals, gonads, and chromosomes can all match into either a male or female category

Trans Woman- Someone who is assigned as a male at birth, but identifies as a woman

Trans Man- Someone who is assigned as a female at birth, but identifies as a man

Trans Feminine- Someone who identifies as feminine, but identifies as neither a man nor a woman.  They must also be assigned male at birth.

Trans Masculine- Someone who identifies as masculine, but identifies as neither a man nor a woman.  They must also be assigned female at birth.

Social Dysphoria- Discomfort experienced when acting in ways socially different than your gender or being addressed in ways different to your gender

Body Dysphoria- Discomfort experienced because of the difference between gender and your sex, role, or gender expression

Butch- A term used to describe someone who's gender expression is more masculine than feminine.  This is commonly used in describing women or lesbians.

Femme (Fem)- A term used to describe someone who's gender expression is more feminine than masculine.  This is commonly used in describing women or lesbians.

Binarism- Putting gender strictly into two categories (male and female) and refusing to acknowledge genders outside of male and female.

All these people who have never fallen down leave this thread na
Let's read from those who have actually fallen, before you guys use your mockery to chase them away.

Ioannes:
Ogbeni Seun, oya come and answer this question. If na Islamic tread, na to lock am with the padlock of oaths and curses make person no fit comment ...

Chaiiii

Noel1:
Seun is a pretentious atheist manque islamic nitwit.

And you have not been banned

abjisperson:
i opened twitter: Oni's wife, opened facebook: Oni's wife, everything i open, Oni's wife is there, now am even afraid of opening my cupboard

Unfortunately the fact that he pays her fees and gives her money for upkeep monthly doesn't mean she will do whatever he wants.
Your friend's girl should help wash if she can, but this one he is looking for hand washed clothes specifically (meaning he doesn't want the use of a washing machine.) it's to get and pay someone who will wash his clothes for him
Her reason for not washing the clothes is quite unnecessary

She is right.
Same thing with wizkid, no one bats an eyelid that Wizkid has 3 kids from 3 different women but let a woman do it and she will experience hell on earth
They make too many excuses for men

Mklanceee:
depression are self inflicted. only you can heal yourself of depression

How can someone say depression is self inflicted?
Just how?

This girl is mean and cold blooded.
I feel bad for the guy

Why did he release these chats?

MaziOmenuko:
She's got a beautiful body; and she's bold.

Nice combo.

She is, the best part

See broad shoulders, see chest, even the height
Guy is cute.

What does unconditional love mean?
I don't think such love is healthy.

romenna:
u rubbished ur intelligence post with the last two sentence.
But If this was a man sexually harassing a lady, u will call him a DEVIL!

Thank you
Nice post but he really spoilt it with that last sentence.
Everyone is cracking jokes now because it is a man being harassed,
Then later in threads about ladies being harassed they complain there that no one talks about male harassment nor takes it seriously, mtchewww
Annoying things.

romenna:
Your observation is correct. Anyone that supports either gender (male or female) to molest the other is a potential molester too.

True.

easy1960:
After some time, the lady demanded to know my house and i was so scared of taking her to my house since dad and mum are always against that. One day, i had to act like a man and i took her to my house. She admired my room and fell in love with almost every thing that was in that room.

What do you mean by you had to act like a man? You didn't want to take her home you shouldn't have, does acting like a man mean you do things you don't want just to impress others? Someone you don't like?
Don't feel pressured into doing things you don't want just to seem like a man next time op.

Right now, any time i go to work, this lady will at times sit on the table, open her legs and ask me to see what is inbetween her legs.

See useless play, what kind of rubbish is she doing?

She will insist on kissing me at times. I am a guy that is always shy, i am not comfortable with her in that office again.

Serious sexual harassment and now you're uncomfortable,
So because she sees you're a shy gentle guy she feels she can be stupid.
This is quite sad and annoying,
Kissing you? This is has graduated to assault na.
Very sad.
However, please op, Why are you acting like you are scared of her?
You haven't given her a warning to stop or said anything, why?
Please do.

biterkola:
Op,
You are actually being sexually harassed at work.
It's nothing to laugh about as she is making the work place uncomfortable for you.You should not be ashamed at all,this is totally unacceptable.

Very true op, listen to this

I would be livid if a man whips out his Di ck to show me at work,I would give him a very stern talking to and escalate if he doesn't get the message.

I'm quite surprised op didn't do this.

You can tell her you are not interested and you would be grateful if she stops what she's doing as it is making coming to work difficult for you.


If she doesn't listen,please report to HR.

Also Get evidence op, so no matter what she can't turn the tables on you and accuse you of nonsense.

Sorry you have to go through this.

Most of the male monikers here did not take op seriously,
Typical with male harassment stories.

Then later when women complain about sexual harassment they face from men, fools will jump out and whine about how it's only harassment done to ladies that is talked about and proceed to whine further about how men are harassed too and no one speaks out it as much as they do for the ladies.
Yet such fools are silent on this thread.
Very irritating bunch.

I don't know how they don't see that it's hard to complain about harassment men face when these men themselves don't take such seriously

This is good news

I wonder if he will still come back to this country.







Lol, this is another angle.

sCun:
Desperate Yoruba man trying to escape returning to Nigeria after his student visa expires.
If this trick works for him and he's given asylum expect more Nigerian students in the UK to do the same.
Another Yoruba scam

LadySarah:
Rings are irrelevant anyways,with or without it a cheating partner will still cheat.

Also a lot of men wont wear theirs while women outdo themselves by wearing eng ring,wedding ring and other slaying rings like we are lord of the rings.

LOL, leave women abeg

I wear mine when I feel like and I don't loose sleep over it cos I'm not naturally an accessories kind of person.

When I'm going somewhere and I'm looking hot ,my dh will make sure i wear it though even when he hasn't replaced his that got lost 1 plus yrs ago.

Once a man hit on me and I showed him my ring,he looked at me and showed his too then said"Does it matter"?

Lmao
You want to show him ring. He wants you to know he has a ring too and you should calm down. some. Men eh
That's how they behave,

Congrats Eagles!!!!!!!!!!!!!