₦airaland Forum

Azmanaty:
6 southern states out of 7. FG is mad. They should site such things in Fulani/Hausa states since thats the people he gives appointments. He only sites prison and uneconomic stuffs down south. Tribalist bigot of a presidiot

Juliearth:
Exactly... Imagine going as far as sleeping with her mother...

Jabioro:
She should have consulted her Mummy before took her dasdard action..Your Mummy endured more than what you saw with your father before she gave birth to you...Rest in peace in advance..

hisexcellency34:
It seems our military is doing far better under Jonathan than Buhari

Leebeedo:
If all you said is true, then I'm sorry to say YOU MARRIED A BOY

healthserve:
Shut it. His attitude is toxic. Read beyond the lines. Also, because I see many rights and wrongs on both sides I almost did not comment beyond that he's holding his wife a prisoner in the guise of marriage. Healthy marital relations is a sideways relationship and not vertical horizontal, master slave relationship. Go and learn the difference.

healthserve:
It's now becoming a norm now for men in the name of marriages to deliberately ruin women lives. They don't know. They do this deliberately. That's what surprises me.

SBL28:
Shut up there, chairwoman of the suffering and smiling club. The same Bible asked men to love their wives like Christ loved the church. What the OP's husband is doing to her, is that an embodiment of love. Or the poster told you she has not discussed it with him calmly? Why should a man even want to control his wife. Is that what the Bible preaches
So being submissive is letting a man ruin your life and then you wake up at 50, children have left the house and you have absolutely nothing to show Radarada.

SBL28:
You have to take some hard decisions. Your parents failed you by not fighting for you, it is now left to you to save yourself.

You should be doing something meaningful with your life. Why did he not marry a stark illiterate instead of imprisoning someone's daughter.

Go and start looking for a job and avoid getting pregnant at this period (that is what some men use to pin down their wives). If he wants to break the marriage because of that, let him. You can't just be sitting on your hands waiting for him to feed you for the rest of your life.


Edited to add for the slow pokes here yarning dust under my comment:

No sensible man will divorce his wife because she got a job. She can't be crying about not being able to do a job she does not even have on the first place. For how long will she continue to nurture her husband's insecurities?? She should look for a job that won't be too far, somewhere she won't have to close late so he won't have more ammunition to use against her.

Many older women today regret not standing up for themselves on time. The earlier the issue is trashed out the better.

Butterscotch92:
I know I'm going to receive a lot of bashing here but I don't mind as I'm looking for solution. I've been following other related threads on the topic and it seems most men don't forgive women that cheated on them.

I cheated on my man. This happened over a year ago when the relationship was going through a rough patch. Actually I didn't set out to cheat and never planned it.

In fact the person it happened with was a person I was confiding in when I was trying to get solutions to my relationship issues.

This person was my married colleague that I joined to work in his car. I thought I could get mature advice by telling him. I was weak and emotionally down and on one of such days of crying to him it happened in his car.

It happened like 3 more times because I go to work with him and come back with him. But I was overcome with guilt (because he was married and for cheating) that I had to stop. But my mistake was that I didn't cut him off completely.

I remained cordial friends with him since he is a colleague and I stopped joining his car. He also moved to another branch. He called occasionally to try his luck but I never gave in. Somehow my man became suspicious by his calls and one thing led to the other and I had to confess.

My man said he has forgiven but can't get back together again. I have been following other threads with similar topics and I saw that men find it very hard to forgive a woman that once cheated.

In this case I'm truly sorry, I have learnt my lessons and I can never make that kind of mistake again. I don't love the man in question, I never wanted anything from him apart from advice from the onset, I stopped on my own, I only remained friends because he was my colleague. I love my man and will do anything to keep him and win his trust back. I'm not a cheat by nature.

I'm heartbroken and filled with guilt and regret. I can't talk to anyone in my circle for fear of condemnation because I'm wrong in every area.

Please is there any hope for me? How do I go about winning him back? How do I convince him that I truly regret my actions? How do I help him heal?

Birdeyeview:
Love without forgiveness irrespective of what err has been commited should not be regarded as love...asides any criminal activity!

Birdeyeview:
Love without forgiveness irrespective of what err has been commited should not be regarded as love...asides any criminal activity!

chriscrosss:
Many times..yes..we all make mistakes..from wat they explain, sometimes temptation causes it..

lawrenzooo:
Even in true love people make mistakes!

AwkaetitiBabe:
No cos I won't even ask to be forgiven if caught cheating.

aishauju:
Ladies and guys in the house, does anyone of you have such experiences?

sochey:
Errr..... If you find out that he/she is cheating, you be patient. Ask questions why, everyone has reasons why he or she does anything. If the reasons doesn't add up, the ball is in your court.


Blimey!!

Every cheating relationship ends up in shackles...

aishauju:
Ladies and guys in the house, does anyone of you have such experiences?

Firefox01:
A little exchange occured between Reno Omokri and Toyin Saraki on Twitter. Reno pointed out what can be said to be a salient point but quickly recanted when he realized that it's Toyin Saraki.

Does that mean if it were to be another person perhaps the first lady, he would look for an avenue to shine?

https://mobile.twitter.com/renoomokri/status/1195621464726294529

kinzation:
come and fanta.lol..
lovely couple

you wanna break his back abi

after you will say he can't perform

inspire700:
The Buhari administration has been known for enforcing the Nigerian people to patronize Nigerian made goods though without much strategy to make life easier while this transition to economic growth is enforced. Many Nigerians have tagged it a harsh move that is insensitive and inhumane but moreso, Reno Omokri has singled out signals of hypocrisy in the President of Nigeria by outlining certain traits of family moves of the President that shows that he(Buhari) as the No.1 citizen has no regards for anything made in Nigeria but yet wants other Nigerians to embrace Nigerian made goods.

Reno Omokri‘s tweet reads:

His kids schooled in England. His wife just returned from a 3 month UK stay. His daughter gave birth to his grandchild in Spain (made in Spain), yet
@MBuhari
, who is London, wants us to patronise made in Nigeria!

SOURCE: https://gistparkmedia.com/2019/11/buhari-is-made-in-london-reno-omokri-blasts-presidency-on-nigerian-made-products.html

YOUNGELDER1:
I can’t even imagine not giving my wife upkeep money.
Working or not maybe because of my pride as the man of the house lol.

Then again can’t trust this women they be needing the slightest reason to cheat on you & i don’t want a “stingy husband” to be one.

SamuelAnyawu:
Those of us here in Borno ain't scared of Bokoharam anymore because they have been subdued by the Military and ISWAP faction.

What we fear now is ISWAP who don't release audio messages but are now in control 5 LGAs in Borno North senatorial zone.

That name Al-Barnarwi

newsynews:
Former President Goodluck Jonathan’s ex Aide, Reno Omokri wrote this on Twitter

Source: https://mobile.twitter.com/renoomokri/status/1182357646738907137

https://mobile.twitter.com/renoomokri/status/1182367316526403585

DennisEche:
LIGHT AND DARKNESS. THERE WAS A TIME WHEN EVERYBODY FOR NAIJA DE CHOP BELLYFUL BUT NOW NA HUNGER DEM DE USE RESET PEOPLE BRAIN. WE BEEN DE BUY FUEL 87 NAIRA BUT NOW NA 145 NAIRA, WE BEEN DE BUY BAG OF RICE 9K BUT NOW NA 19K, ONE DOLLAR USED TO BE 199 NAIRA BUT NOW NA 350 NAIRA. PLEASE JUDGE WHO IS THE LIGHT AND DARKNESS. SINCERE ANSWERS PLS. LIKE FOR JONATHAN SHARE FOR BUHARI
SEE THE LIGHT, THE PEOPLE HAVE SPOKEN