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goldcoinhub:
A Nigerian man has taken to Facebook to express his anger after he caught his girlfriend cheating on him.

According to the man identified as Isaiah Chidiebere, who took to a popular group on the platform, he was checking through her phone when he found out she has been cheating with 2 other guys.

But while he waited for her to explain the incriminating chats he allegedly saw on her WhatsApp, she grabbed the phone from him and smashed it on the floor, breaking it into pieces.

He wrote:



And now he is confused about what to do about the relationship as he claimed they have been dating eachother for 2 years now.

I’m just wondering what to do about this relationship. Kindly advise

Edit: We’ve been dating for the past 2 years.

https://lailasnews.com/see-what-a-girl-did-to-her-phone-after-she-was-caught-cheating/

Shukusheka:
Who are the "stupid" Nigerian women having promiscuous sex with? Is it not with "stupid" Nigerian men like you and I?
Who parented/brought up this Nigerian women? Is it not Nigerian men like you and I?
Who would eventually marry this "stupid& promiscuous" Nigerian women? Nigerian men like you and I
Who then truly is the stupid one?

iTearHerToto:
Being the only son in the family, my mother understandably also put me under pressure, that her time is almost up in this world and she would want to see me bear children before her final exit. That was the pressure that pushed me into getting married before my NYSC. We got married soon after and look forward to a happy family with our kids. But we both agree that she will not “take in” until after my service year”


I don't understand Why not just wait and marry her after service since you didn't want her pregnant then? Or why not get her pregnant since you were already on pressure before going for service Now the story doesn't sound like you were being pressed.

Plus you left a Hoe her starving all months and couldn't allow a Hoe her to visit you for once to get her punnna fed and warmed up. Something that you can rent a hotel for just a night and the story might have been different. Or you so broke you can't afford 3k to lodge per night?? Oh don't tell me you forgot she's a Hoe woman. Why Audu Why

Anyways

Lemme just say your friend understood your old momma's plight better than you did and decided to help. Your friend mike should be awarded unless you want thunder to strike you for not being grateful

Pukes

SageMK:
Damn. This is the ultimate betrayal that can drive a man down to his grave in tears. How can he get over this??

After working hard to serve his father's land, imagine the heart breaking surprise he got. My heart bleeds for him.

But this woman is sick. She's even dreaming of a life with him and the child together! Imagine the audacity??

So the poor man should father a bastard? Never.

Let her fúcking go and marry the man that impregnated her. Heartless woman. Thunder fire her stupid mouth.

After God ----) fear women ----) fear marriage.

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My people abeg help me ask her...how demonic can one be...we say the devil the devil and we are looking for a spirit not knowing he is living amongst us

Candiesramah:
No guy is actually worth being faithful to. That guy's gf may think she's got a bf, only for him to be sleeping with girls on twitter.

I've a bf I love. I tell him I'm faithful in order not to cause him heartbreak 'cause I care, but deep down I know he's not faithful too. Now, I have another one I make out with when I want. Nothing serious. Another dude is asking me out, I know I don't love him, but he's been asking me out for 6yrs now and all he gets is a no 'cause I was busy being faithful to guys who didn't deserve it. With the way things are now, I'm thinking of saying 'Yes' to him, but I'll make sure we don't have sex.

If you like call me olosho. Fùck loyalty! Being a good girl no longer pays.

damiloladuke:
A Nigerian writer Sugabelly has explained the reason why a child should take the woman’s surname, instead of the man’s.

In her opinion, she believes the pains of childbirth are enough for the the child to be named after the mother and not the father.

Read her post:

Everyone fights so much about women taking their husband’s name when the real issue is why should the child bear the father’s surname when women are the ones who face death to give birth, and the ones who do majority of all child care worldwide?

And it’s actually true. Every woman who gets pregnant knows or should know that there is a distinct chance of her not making it out of the labour room alive. That’s the reason why the first statement always made about a new birth is “Mother and child are both healthy” Women die.

One of her followers then wrote that he who proposes should get the name

She then responded saying proposal can never be equated with giving birth to a child and nurturing the child for a lifetime.

she replied:

Because proposing marriage is equal to giving birth and nurturing that life for a lifetime not to mention years of unpaid and unappreciated domestic labour

https://lailasnews.com/reason-why-a-child-should-take-the-womans-surname-writer/

JejeNaija:
I want to share this story so that we guys should know that we can always resist temptation if we decide to because just few minutes or hours of fun can change your life and your home for good.

I took a bus from Lagos going to Asaba for a business and the bus with filled with really matured guys and ladies. As we proceeded in the smooth journey there was a beautiful and very good looking lady who sat beside me. There were two guys who were just gisting anyhow and showing themselves so everyone already knew they were car dealers. If they see some certain cars zoom pass they started talking of the time they went to deliver such car to heaven and earth (you know how Igbo guys boast sha lol).
Well at a point I think a lady called one of them on phone and that's how gist changed to sex and stuffs like that, before you know everybody inside the bus joined the gist both guys and ladies. I didn't say anything at first so I was just laughing at some things they said and I observed the Lady beside me would always laugh and either hit me or fall on my body somehow but I just overlooked it all and tried to enjoy the gist and the trip. At a point she started asking why am not saying anything or if I don't have a girlfriend or wife and then I told her I was married and she also told me she was married and it didn't mean I can't join the gist. I just told her I prefer to listen and laugh than talk so she kept smiling.
Getting to Ore we came down and because normally I don't like eating when travelling just to avoid stories of running stomach and begging driver to stop on the road, I decided to just buy a little suya and had a drink. At this point trust me I had no single thought of that lady in my head and from no where this lady just approached me and sat with me while we were waiting for the bus to load and move. We then started talking normally and got to properly introduce ourselves. Being that she stated she was married and I too had made it clear to her I felt a little comfortable that this won't go pass normal talk and as soon as we get to Asaba its all history. She was into wedding planning and wedding accessories so she said she was going to deliver a wedding gown to her client in Asaba. I also told her I was going to inspect a property for my client who wanted to buy and I will be staying for just two days. She said she will be leaving back to Lagos the next day. Then she asked where I will be staying and I told her I was given direction to a hotel I could lodge and she told me she was lodging in a better hotel which is also affordable and I can lodge there too being that she always lodge there when she goes to Asaba she knows the place is very safe and comfortable. Having the whole she is a married woman idea in my head, I accepted to lodge in the hotel since now she has made me understand that the place is okay compared to the one I was given which I didn't know what to expect when I get there.

Long story short, we took off from ore and almost through out the rest of the journey the lady and I never had any conversion again as she spent most part of the remaining journey sleeping. Arriving at Asaba we got a taxi that took us both to the hotel and I think her room had already been settled so it was just me. She then told them to show me the rooms first and she followed us to see the room and it was nice so I said I was taking it for two nights.
Now knowing she knows my room I became very uncomfortable but I just had to be a little smart and vigilant in case of anything. I later went out to inspect the property and being that am a very adventurous person I decided to go somewhere to chill out after I finished the inspection. I stayed there till a little late like 10pm and headed back to the hotel. Getting to the hotel I decided to relax somewhere at the pool bar till about 12am or so before heading to my room to sleep so all these while I had not seen this lady but my mind was telling me its possible she came to check on me but I was around. I slept very very well oooo until about 6am I heard a knock on my door ooo. Like if my mind just knew it must be this lady I quickly wore a short and singlet then opened the door and behold it was this lady. Thinking that she even just came to say goodbye because she was meant to leave that day according to her, I was shocked she wasn't dressed like who was ready to travel. So I asked her and she said she had to stay an extra day and in my mind I was like yawa don gas be this. I did all I could to be calm and mature about everything so she showed me pictures of her husband and two beautiful kids. No this is why I feel sorry for young ladies who go to marry old men just for money. This lady is so damn pretty and fresh it I had know doubt this lady is loaded so when I saw her pictures I already knew her husband being a very wealthy man would definitely be spoiling her with money. I then asked her why she didn't use a flight instead and she said she is not even sure if the Asaba airport is even functioning lol... That one really cracked me up and just like play she just said she felt like getting a little naughty and do something crazy. I was like how do you mean and the next thing this lady just grabbed me and started kissing me. At first I felt lost and was flowing with the kiss when the spirit of my wife came all the way from Lagos to give me one dirty slap. As in instantly my head reset and I came back to my senses that this is totally so so wrong. I had to stop her in a very cool manner and told her it's quite early and I have to go finish up my inspection then when I get back I think it will be so nice to go really naughty with her. I told her I guess that would be our own little secret and she was happy to hear that. So I took her number I told her I would call when I return.

My dear friends, immediately she left I jejely went to take a shower, packed my bag and baggages, deleted her number, checked out the hotel and off I went to another hotel. Stayed two extra days so that by mistake we will not meet in the park for any reason. Up till date we have never crossed path again and sometimes I the thought of it come to my head I would just laugh it off. But then I thought about it, what if I had fallen for the temptation, imagine she gave me a better sex than my wife, that would have affected me in some ways that sometimes I might be making love to my wife and seeing this woman's face and body.

My good friends, I can confidently tell you that resisting temptation is absolutely something you can control with your head and your heart. Do not destroy very good things ahead of you just for a short moment of pleasure.

Think Fast.

wink2015:
Love or hate her, Tonto Dikeh remain one of the few intelligent woman who asserted her authority and want to say no to the yesteryears of oppression African women have been passing through under their husbands in a loveless relationship.

I watched the interviews she had granted and discovered that up coming singles need to learn the needed skills to make their marriage work.

DSoj:
FACT.

Only bully men and women with slave mentality will condemn Tonto.
She was bullied but fought back gallantly. Before u condemn her, imagine she's ur sister or daughter.

Tonto is brave!

damiloladuke:
Media personality, Daddy Freeze has said Tonto Dikeh’s son will not be in any way affected by her recent rants and interviews on various platforms.

In a video he posted on his YouTube channel, the OAP mentioned that in years to come, there will be a different perspectives on how a family is run and people will no longer relegate women to the background as their will more enlightenment on why a woman should be vocal about happenings in her home

He further said she will only be considered a hero.

Daddy Freeze wrote:

Those saying her son will be affected by her speaking out are only clowning around, afraid to let go, despite the world’s visible evolution.

They are, as a result of a flawed moral compass, creating forlornly, a deluded make believe world, as an odd in between compromise, between their reality and their delusions.–

In the actuality of the new world we are all creating, she’ll be a hero, so deal with it! ~FRZ

If you recollect, Tonto Dikeh had granted series of interviews ridiculing her ex-husband on the internet and even went as far as saying he was a 40-seconds man.

Watch The Video Here
https://lailasnews.com/tonto-dikehs-son-wont-suffer-in-future-over-her-interviews-daddy-freeze/

GLeesMODEL:
OMG!!! Popular Publisher Of Vivian Lam Glamour Magazine Escapes Been Raped By White Lesbians (video)


Popular Nigeria Publisher, pageant consultant, writer and event manager, Vivian Lam, who recently recorded massive success in her book launch in Abuja, has escaped been raped by white lesbians in Dubai yesternite when she visited a nightclub in the oil rich city.

The high class slay Queen flew to Dubai for a vacation and was sexually harassed by white lesbians who literally mistook her to be one of them. According to the Vivian Lam, two ladies at the club had the wrong target, she says, "they tried to harrass me, but unfortunately I don't do women".

The vibrant young lady is a well respected personality in the entertainment industry in Abuja and beyond. As the publisher of Vivian Lam Glamour Magazine, she has been behind the success story of several events and functions in the industry haven featured high profile personalities on the cover. Her recent book launch "Nigeria; Re-awakening the Giant " was a blow as it recorded one of the most historic events, having the presence of the high and mighty in the corridors of power in Nigeria.

She has equally reacted to the ongoing controversies thrilling the divorce situation of Actress Tonto Dikeh and her ex-husband Dr. Olakunle Churchill. She cautioned the Actors Guild Of Nigeria to be focus on improving and restructuring the Nollywood industry instead of delving into the personal lives of people. She stressed that it was a misplaced priority.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NOsHrBSqmGE

https://www.abujapress.com/2019/05/omg-popular-publisher-of-vivian-lam.html?m=1

Adakintroy:
Abeg staged! She gotten over this guy long . She's an actress, that's what actress do. They act. She acting mad ..your all can't tell the difference.

Freeze probably preped. her before the interview. Selling gossips and interview is big business.

Adding new spin to generate buzz.

chimjoshjuan:
Reno Omokri who waded into the Tonto Dikeh and Olakunle Churchill's marriage controversy, stated that when one choose to wash an ex's dirty linen in public, they devalue their child without even knowing.According to the former Presidential spokesperson, the value of a child is inextricably linked to the value of their parents.

Reno Omokri who however admitted that one is partly right when they think they are devaluing their ex by washing their dirty linens in public, however added that they also devalue their children without knowing. 

Read his tweets below; 


https://unclesuru.com/2019/05/02/you-devalue-your-children-when-you-wash-your-exs-dirty-linen-in-public-reno-omokri/

tachacute:
A Nigerian Lady has advised Girls not to marry a man that they are not comfortable with his financial status.

See screenshot below:

https://www.everywherestew.com.ng/2019/05/dont-marry-man-you-are-not-comfortable.html?m=1

joseph6071:
After the marriage of the young Nollywood Actress, Regina Daniels to Ned Nwoko, there has been alot of discussions online to criticise her move. But the Nigerian OAP, Daddy Freeze took has asked them to leave the couple alone to live their lives.

See what he wrote...

"Daddy Freeze and the lobsters discussed this picture that surfaced online, on #AfterDark on @coolfmlagos yesterday and arrived at the conclusion that these people should be left alone to live their lives, as Regina owes no one an explanation."

Source: https://www.musictori.com/2019/04/leave-them-alone-to-live-their-lives.html

popsy2:
Not supporting this but there are many men out there that has secret families outside their homes. I know it for a fact.

At the end of the day, it is a man's world tho. As for me, I will run tests on each of my kids at birth. Not taking any chances. Nobody should speak to me about trust here. Too many stuffs happening recently in marriages.

LilMissFavvy:
She is 100percent correct. Pity on any woman who would not heed this advice when married. With the current rate of divorce,and the way men cheat, marriage is now a big risk, it may work, it may not. Couple's no longer respect marital vows.

Jaymaxxy:
The National Christian Elders Forum has described the Thursday conviction of the former Chief Justice of Nigeria, Walter Onnoghen, by the Code of Conduct Tribunal as part of “the jihad” against Christians in the country.

The NCEF claimed the development was a continuation of the “jihad that began with the overthrow of General Yakubu Gowon in 1975”.

The Chairman of the forum, Chief Solomon Asemota (SAN), said this in a statement on Friday in response to an article titled, ‘What kind of elders’ published by a national newspaper.

He attributed the country’s under-development to the conflict between democracy and Sharia, adding that the amalgamation of the Northern and Southern regions had contributed to the problems of Nigeria.

Asemota said while proceeds from oil and gas in the South were shared by all Nigerians, “gold and other precious minerals in the North belong to the North alone to complete annexation of the South to the North”.

He added, “President Buhari in 1983 committed treason when he overthrew the Shehu Shagari government. This is in addition to the fact that he was one of the seven colonels who masterminded the overthrow of General Yakubu Gowon in 1975.


“It was the same coup plotters that retired Chief Justice Elias, a Muslim but was a committed democrat, in order to Islamise Nigeria by replacing a Federal Republic with a Sultanate.

“Today, Justice Walter Onnoghen’s removal through stealth jihad of the executive is the continuation of the jihad that began with the overthrow of General Gowon in 1975.”

https://punchng.com/onnoghens-conviction-jihad-against-christians-ncef/

omenkaLives:
You are right per the bad leadership angle, but so is Bruce per the population angle. The country you mentioned have positive economic indices growing faster than the rate of growth of their population. Ditto India.

Same cannot be said of the Nigerian situation.

That said, Bruce and his brood of incurably corrupt colleagues are part of the problems we have in this country. Has he for a moment sat down to think of the opportunity cost of what the country spends on them?

What about his debts? Has he ever imagined what might have been if he wasnt such a bad debtor?

His suggestions are good, but he's also part of the problem.

franchasng:
Niger Delta has suffered in the hands of Northern + Yoruba politicians!

From Goodluck to Patience Jonathan to Diezani to Onnoghen, and many other unpopular Niger Deltans!

But tell me, which Niger Delta politician, judge or public office holder can be more corrupt than these people below:

0.) Obasanjo
1.) Sanni Abacha
2.) Muhammadu Buhari
3.) Ganduje
4.) El Rufai who sold Abuja lands to his friends, dashed lands to his concubines and relatives when he was minister of FCT
5.) Tinubu who has single handedly borrowed over $1billion loan using Lagos state & Lagos Governors as his collateral, and with little or nothing to show for it with all Lagos roads and street roads all worn out! Traffic jam killing Lagosians and their cars due to bad roads that has taken over Lagos the presumed economy hub of Nigeria Yet no summoning by EFCC for Tinubu and co

Tinubu too refused to declare his complete assets as a Governor of Lagos, why didn't CCT jail him
6.) Babachir Lawal
7.) Chief of Army Staff Gen. Buratai accused of looting billions of Nigeria's security budget he used to buy costly houses abroad, why is he still COAS and no probe

They are too many of them to mention!

Before u come here to spew thrash are u aware that in all Hausa communities in Southwest, starting from Sabbo Ibadan, Police/Army/DSS/EFCC/etc are not allowed to arrest anybody there or carry out any arrest in those areas habited by Hausa-Fulanis

Niger Delta continue sleeping, they will tell u that Igbo people are your worst enemies, but see how they have disgraced all your illustrious sons and daughters for inconsequential crimes lesser than the bigger crimes they have been committing in Nigeria since 1969!!!

Una well done Niger Delta, keep listening to them, Igbos and Biafra are your major enemies, fight them to finish u hear

amakenny:
.... getting to Idi Amin's type of Uganda.

Who did this to Nigerians?

jchioma:
A travesty and miscarriage of justice. I hope he appeals the yeye ruling from this fraudulent government.

GLeesMODEL:
GOV. WIKE, EL RUFAI, BEN AYADE, AMINU MASARI IN TIGHT RACE FOR 2019 GOVERNOR OF THE YEAR AWARD.



Nigerians have been drawn to vote for the Best performing Governor of the year, ahead of the forthcoming Democracy Heroes Awards, holding in Abuja, at Transcorp Hilton Hotel on the 12th of June, 2019. The event is organized by Face of Democracy organization, and supported by FIRS, AIT and HIP TV to recognize patriotic Democrats who has done excellently well in the delivery of true Democracy in their states, Constituency, communities and agencies.

According reports emanating from the organising team, the nominated Governors that will be competing for the Best Performing Governor of the Year in the 2019 Democracy Heroes Awards are H.E Governor Nyemsome Wike, the Executive Governor of Rivers State, Governor Nasir El Rufai, the Executive Governor of Kaduna State, HE Governor Aminu Masari of Katsina State and Governor Benedict Ayade, the Executive Governor of Cross River state.

The category for Nigeria best performing Governor may have geared into a more competitive dimension, with developments of the ongoing voting exercise in Kaduna state, Rivers state, Katsina State and Cross River state.

However, with the re-election of these four nominated Governors in the just concluded 2019 general elections, it is obvious that their democratic devotion earned them the successes they attained. But the big question is, who will earn the majority vote from Nigerians as the "*Best Performing Governor of the Year*?

Amidst the inconsequential sectional crisis surrounding Kaduna state, observers have projected analysis of a fair but not considerate number of votes for Kaduna State Governor, Mallam Nasir El Rufai. However, his Rivers State counterpart has continued to heat up the waves with his influential might in the opposition party, especially the controversies that thrilled his re-election in the 2019 Governorship rerun election. 

On the other hand, Katsina state's, Governor Aminu Masari has remained undoubtedly responsive in his life changing initiatives to improve livelihood, through improved security and humanitarian initiatives for the people of Katsina State.

The monitoring and evaluation team for the voting exercise also revealed that a review of the daunted democratic commitments of Governor Ben Ayade of Cross River may earn him a more appealing vote, especially with his ongoing inclusive governance of youngsters who plays a more pragmatic role in the voting process.

The Democracy Awards organisers has encouraged Nigerians to be objective in their decision in voting, stressing that the Governor with more votes from Nigerians will emerge as the "Best Performing Governor of the Year".

http://www.alexreports.info/2019/04/democracy-heroes-awards-governor-wike.html?m=1

dainformant:
In continuation of efforts to rid the Abuja – Kaduna Expressway of Kidnapping and other heinous crimes, cracked detectives from the IGP Intelligence Response Unit (IRT) and other operatives attached to Operation Puff Adder have arrested one Mallam Salisu Abubakar, 48yrs old, a native of Dutsinma LGA, Katsina State.

The Mallam, a self-confessed spiritual father of kidnappers terrorizing Abuja-Kaduna expressway and parts of other North-West/North-Central States of the Country, was arrested on 16th April, 2019, following painstaking intelligence and subsequent manhunt, in his hideout, in a forest, at Galadimawa Village, Kaduna State.

Investigation has clearly implicated the suspect for aiding and abetting the commission of several high-profile armed robbery and kidnapping operations in the North West and North Central States of the Country. The suspect is notorious for providing spiritual guidance and intelligence for kidnappers, before and after their operations.

His arrest, no doubt, will assist Police operatives to apprehend several other kidnappers and vicious criminals still at large.

See more; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2019/04/police-arrest-top-spiritual-father-one-other-involved-in-the-kidnap-of-channels-tv-staff-%c2%b7.html

Dailyhappenings:
Oby Ezekwesili just blocked Reno Omokri on Twitter and he feels so indifferent about it as he claims it is an honor.

See his tweet...

Source: https://www.musictori.com/2019/04/reno-omokri-blocked-by-oby-ezekwesili.html