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DexterousOne:
She has gained more financially and otherwise than most Nigerian workers
Even male or female


A woman will work her ass off for years and will not see the financial gains Chioma sees in one year

She has also spent more to keep up appearances. There are no free lunches anywhere...

It will be easier for the Nigerian man or woman to adjust to sudden changes in status quo than for her....

Reno Omokri, with all the books you have bought and read still get caught up in very petty talk in the name of opposition...

cray91:
looking unbothered is a big lie. don't judge with a moment picture. even ashawo sef no dey happy to see hin client come carry another girl for same lodge not patronizing her again

Prof!!!

Aizen123:
Please I need advice. I lost my Dad over 2 months now and he hasn't been buried due to the pandemic. My Uncle's are all in Lagos and can't come back.

So after the lockdown was over we decided to go to the village.. On getting I discovered that his shop was open and all the money going into the first Uncle (first son) account.. So I called my uncle because he told me it was locked and he was saying did he need my permission before to open the shop and i decided to just control myself because i like peace and i decided to go to the house in the village...

On getting there I called my uncle and he told me the keys are with them in Lagos ... That it was waybilled and i said ok and went back with my brother and sister.

Fast forward today... I got a call from someone in the village that my Dad's burial death has been fixed and i was wowed because as the first son i haven't been told yet by my uncle's. So right now i am about acting but i need advice.

If they fixed date and did not tell you means that financial support is not required from you and your siblings...so chill dey wait for them...

fallout87:
This is was "ultra modern" back in 2005.

Having desk, windows, lights and a visual screen isn't something to gloat about unless you're a fifth-world environment.

In contrast to the rest of the country. Why is it so difficult to give some credit when it is due....

Foodqueen:
Are u sure, u are not married to a gold digger.

Hmmm when he is asking about your finances, he is a gold digger...When you are asking about his finances you are his wife...una get sense sha o...

Amotolongbo:
The very first time Tonto Dikeh ever did something that doesn’t rape common sense.

Good for her. I wish she can continue like this

"She says protect our children"

Meanwhile her son Andre is being brought up seeing her IN and OUT with Bobrisky

"She alleged the Ministry of Justice has since received the case file for Fatoyinbo's
prosecution but has remained silent. She said her team has sent a letter to the Ministry of Justice over a month ago but no response yet."

Hmmm, the file was sent to DPP for legal advise, not for Fatoyinbo's prosecution...
There is a difference!!!

I hope your love trill can stand the storm ahead, should it come...

US, they have finished with WHO now it is the turn of AFDB. Once you fail to do their bidding wahala don start for you. Hmmm

Akanoaaa:
And the police even get involved. If na me wey I be guy sef I go vex pass that. She even called him but he ignored her calls. The girl fit forgive him but if she allow him make him come back to her life, the girl na mumu.


He accused her wrongly
Police get involved
He ignored her calls when she needed him. Maybe the police was threatening her on the money she didn't received and she called him to know what the next step would be but Mr. alakori no gree pick her calls.


Abeg @Agbagbaregoo, leave the girl alone. You are definitely not the man for her.


If something like that happen next time, tell the person to go to his or her bank, you can even follow the person if you are doubting.

He accused her wrongly based on the information from his bank...

Agbagbaregoo:
I just met this lady and everything seems to be clicking. she just started a business after I gingered her and I had to patronize her. in the course I transferred some money to her to patronize her far more money than she was selling the Stuff so as to encourage her. The bank debited me and I told her I sent it.

Throughout that day she claimed not to have gotten the money. Then throughout the next day same story so the third day I went to the bank to receive the statement of account. lo and behold her name was boldly written and the bank people told me she has gotten it. I got very angry and sent it to her but I didn't tell her anything I just ignored her call.

A policeman asked for her number at the bank that he will question her. throughout these period I ignored her and I was just imagining how a beautiful light skin tender looking babe will behave like this. Then lo and behold today the bank reversed the money. I can't explain the feeling of disappointment.

Now she said she doesn't want to have anything to do with me again that she doesn't want wahala for her life. She finally picked after many trials of calling and she insisted on me leaving her life.she even said she's not doing business again. I don't know what to do.

Thank your lucky stars, you never know!!!

Divine89:
Hello everybody. I am Nigerian based in France. My English it is not 100% perfect but I will try to make it possible for you to understand me with the help of google french to English translator and my story is also long sorry for that.

When I was 9 years old I joined my uncle, my mum's younger brother in France. He declared me as his daughter. During that time he only had one child, 2 years old. He and the wife were so loving to me. I never lacked anything in their house.

But when I turned 12, I went to secondary school. I met some bad friends there. This is where the problem started.I became a very difficult child. I will go to school come home late. My uncle will beat and beat me but I never listened. I smoked my first cigarette at 12 and had my first sex at 13 and I started running away from home to stay with boyfriends. Sometimes I can go for a week and when uncle reporta me missing, the police will be looking for me, then they will bring me back home.

Then at 14 I went to school and lied to my teacher that my uncle was abusing me. I told them he was beating me with belts, electric wire, they don’t give me foods and I really said a lot of bad things about them doing to me to make my teacher believe my story so they could take me away from them because I wanted freedom and my teacher believed me and reported to the police and child protection, they are people who take away abused children from their parents. They took custody of me and my uncle three children, the youngest was 6 months old to their care and they gave us to this white lady to care for us and my uncle and wife were arrested for child abuse and the police were doing some investigation.

After spending 1yr 9 months in care of the white lady I dropped out school. They found out that I was a difficult child that I lied to get freedom so they have decided to give my uncle his children back to him while I stayed in care of white people but my uncle had sworn because I made him lost his children for 1yr 9 months that I will never found happiness in my life and I will never enjoy the fruit of my labour which it is true as I am typing this.

I have given birth to 6 children by 6 men and none of the children is living with me. The first one was taken away from me at 2 months old because I beat her up and fractured her hands and I also tested positive for heroinn (drugs), so that did not stop me from giving birth second child was removed from my care 4 hours after birth she also tested positive for heroin the same way my other children were removed at birth too so I carry on with my lifestyles. I did not care about my children at that time all I care about was sex, alcohol and drugs this is what I wanted and I have been to prison several times for selling drugs and fraudsters. The longest I have spent in prison was 2 years then after i left prison, I met with this sister who introduced me to this church she attended so I went along with her, the pastor told me to confess my sin to him and promised it will be a secret between I, him and God which I did repented and accepted Jesus as my saviour. To be honest, my life did changed a lot, I fell the peace in my heart , enjoyed going to church every Sunday but this pastor went tell his wife my life story and the wife told everyone in church my life story and started using it against me so it made me so angry that I left the church in November 2017 without looking back. I have decided not to attend any church again. I have stopped alcohol, taking drugs and sleeping with men I no longer do it. I prayed at home, read my bible and behaving good and it's almost 2 years I havnt slept with a man and i went to look for my uncle asking him for forgiveness but he has refused and I send him many text messages begging him to forgive and I still no heard anything from him or the wife even their children I have tried to ask them forgiveness they have blocked me and they all want nothing to do with me even my own parents and siblings in Africa they have rejected me, none of them want to talk to me, my parents said i am dead to them, it is so painful I cry everyday in my prayers, as for my children 4 of them are adopted with new family. I can't see them again maybe until they are 18 years old If they want to know me if they don't want I will have no choice to accept it and my 2 youngest children i am only allowed to see them once a year in a children play centre with someone supervise because they don't let me to be alone with them and soon I will stop visiting them because they are planning to adopt them to a new family too that will mean I will have nobody on this earth.

I regret my mistake so bad I wish I could change it but it will no be impossible. I can't have more children because they will be removed from me like the others and I am only 31years old. I don't know if my repentance was genius because my family has refused to forgive me and my question goes like this if they never forgive me will I ever found happiness again or I will just have to accept it until I died?

Please, advise me in a Christian way maybe if there's more I can do and also prayed for me so my family will be able to forgive me and also pray for my two children that nobody will adopt them so I can get custody of them and i promised to be a good mother to them, please I am begging you in the name of God.

It is really a sad one for all involved. Like the prodigal son, you have re-traced your steps back. Unfortunately doing that does not guarantee you will recover all you lost like JOB in the Bible. Take solace in the fact that you are on the right path and who knows maybe someday everyone can truly forgive you for your wrong doings...for who the Lord loveth he chasteneth...take it one day at a time for it is written that all things work together for the good of them that love the Lord and are called according to his purpose...

Righteousness89:
Deep... really Deep.

My Sister, My Bible tells me that " For all have sinned and Come Short of the Glory of GOD"

If there is sin, there is also Mercy!

Praise GOD You are still alive because it's only the Living that can obtain Mercy. Irrespective of all You have done and those who have looked down on you and Disowned you due to your dirty past, There is a Loving FATHER who is Available to Receive you , Purge you ,Clean you up and Make you the most adorable.

HIS Name is JESUS CHRIST..

Man can fail you
Pastor can fail you
Parents can Disown and Fail u
Uncle and aunties can fail u
Your Twin can Fail and Disappoint you
I can Fail and Disappoint you

Only JESUS will never Fail, disown ot Disappoint you. HIs hands are Wide open to Receive and Forgive you.

My Admonishment to you is this;
Put All the Challenges , Events and Troubles away.

Take your Focus to JESUS CHRIST.
Follow HIM with all of your Spirit, Soul and Body.

Let HIS Word be your food.. Let HIM be your FATHER, Mother and Partner. Let HIM be your Pirioty



You will suddenly notice that all the Burdens will be lifted off your shoulders .

I Believe you have a job or some means of income.


Search for a Bible Believing place of Worship or GENUIE Believers of like minds. Don't Focus on the Pastor! Focus on GOD..


As for your kids, Uncle, Aunty , Parents and all who have Abadoned you.. The Master who has The Heart of Everyone in His Hands, He will Restore all of them to you in due Season

Leave all those Worries and Face JESUS CHRIST The Prince of Peace.. Walk with HIM with all your Heart. Love Him with all your Heart


I Pray For you that as you seek GOD ALMIGHTY, you will find HIM.
I Pray For you that as you turn to GOD as your Focus , the Peace that passes all Understanding will envelope you
I Pray For you that as you Completely Surrender to JESUS CHRIST, you will smile again and Everything that you have lost will be Restored to you IN THE NAME OF JESUS.. AMEN


I see you being a Great light of JOY Soonest

It is well

Trillyonaire:
You married someone who finds it hard to say no.
You likely saw it before you guys got married.
You have to live with it.

You loved him so much because he wasn't saying NO to your every request

Anni3e:
I am not buying behind his back, I would tell him but I am not including his name. Do you know how many times I have told him to buy a land and start a project. He won't, he prefers spending all the money on his siblings.

As far as when him buy and no include you, you no go vex!!!

Anni3e:
Hi, I have been married for 9 years now, the problem I have with my husband is that his family members keep sucking him dry and the way he neglects us his immediate family.

He is the first child of 7 children, his siblings even the married ladies keep asking him for money. He keeps spending money on them and their husbands. His brothers keep crying they are broke, they keep leeching off him.

His two junior brothers that always ask him for money, one of them built a house in Port Harcourt and the other one built a big house in the village. Still they won't let him rest.

His married sisters are the worst. If they cough they would call him to send money, every minor thing they would expect money. Just this evening his sister called him to ask for money. We don't have a house of our own, I keep telling my husband to stop giving in to all their demands and invest the money on something, he would say I am turning him against his family.

We have 2 kids and I have told him we need to start saving for their future, I pay the electricity bill, foodstuffs, and most times the children school fees, he pays the house rent and rarely keeps money for home upkeep, he sometimes drops two thousand and that's it for the whole week. He always complains he has no more, but once his family calls him he sends money immediately.

I have saved enough to buy a land and I am not planning to include his name in the property. I don't know what to deal with, his family entitlement mentality or the way he neglects the kids and I and treat us like outsiders.

I am really pissed off and tired.

Sorry for the long post.

I am the eldest child and had this same problems until someone told me that till date she had never seen anyone that died with another person. She further asked if l thought that if l drop dead that life will stop for anybody
People are adaptive and will find new ways of surviving!!!
Certainly no one will say they will die because you have died. It hit me...
The good book says love your neighbour or brother as you love yourself, not more than you love yourself.

Upritman:
Source: https://bittertruthmedia.com/2020/05/18/nigeria-doesnt-have-covid-19-politicians-are-using-it-to-eat-money-ibiyeomie/

Thank God Corona came and exposed these pastors for what they are...No more healing schools

oshozondii:
TOTAL E &P TO NIGERIANS : WE WOULD HAVE HAD REDUCED CASES IF OTHER STATES WERE AS PROACTIVE AS GOVERNOR WIKE

Total Exploration and Production Limited (Total E & P) has commended Rivers State Governor, Nyesom Ezenwo Wike for his proactive approach towards tackling the coronavirus pandemic, saying that the nation would have had reduced cases if everyone acted like Governor Wike.

Executive General Manager of Total E & P, Port Harcourt Administration, Godwin Barika made the declaration at the Government House, Port Harcourt on Monday when the company made further presentation to support the State Government's fight against the spread of coronavirus.

He said: "We want to thank the Governor of Rivers State, Nyesom Ezenwo Wike. He has been very exemplary.

"We have joined forces with him because he is wonderful and proactive.

"He saw ahead. If every other state did what he has done, we would have had reduced number of cases."

Barika said that Total E & P will continue to support the Rivers State Government to defeat COVID-19.

He said: "We thank you. We support you. We have also given what we think can support the State because we believe in the state.

"This is where we work. This is where our facilities are and we will continue to be here to join forces in ensuring that the economy of this state grows.

"We came to show that support. We also came to make requests for what we will require to ensure that our operations continue."

The company solicited the support of the Rivers State Government as they work to address challenges offshore.

"We also to be very sure that if we have challenges offshore, we are able to take care of such challenges. He has signed several approvals for us and we are very grateful.

"Even after COVID-19, we will continue to relate with the Rivers State Government to ensuring that the economy of this state grows," he said.

Responding, Rivers State Governor, Nyesom Ezenwo Wike commended Total E and P for their support in the fight against coronavirus.

He said: "On behalf of the Government and People of Rivers State, commend Total and E and P for supporting the state Government as regards the fight against coronavirus.

"You have shown that you care for the lives of those who work with you and Rivers people."

Governor Wike said that the Rivers State Government will publicly appreciate all donors in Newspaper Publications.

He said: "At the appropriate time, Rivers State Government will publish donations made by individuals and corporate bodies. Those who are friends of Rivers State, who supported the State."

Governor Wike said that this is the period the State Government requires the support of organisations and people.

He said that the great relationship should continue well after the COVID-19 pandemic.

"This is the period you require the support of people . We believe that this relationship will continue. Not after COVID-19, nobody will see you.

"Try as much as you can to carry out your corporate social responsibility in the communities where you operate.That gives you peace and good relationship with the communities, " he said.

Simeon Nwakaudu,

Special Assistant to the Rivers State Governor, Electronic Media.

11th May, 2020.

https://www.facebook.com/672482079562653/posts/2111895742287939/
Mynd44

Bros wetin you for talk before When na you go meet am for government house

steveneche:
Help My Friend Decide: 5million Or A 100k Job?

A friend of mine just got an offer from his late brother's company few months after his demise.

His late brother having been a prominent personality (head of finance) in the company he worked before he died, made the company to offer his younger brother my friend two options..

1. 5million naira cash or

2. a 100k job per month in the Same company.

we need your professional advice pls

5million divided by 100k is 50months or 4 years and 2months. Are you sure your 100k job will last that long

Kingsleyyx:
I love my wife but I have been hurting her for years. In fact I had make her look like a devil in the eyes of my parents and siblings. I will not hide any truth from you because right now, I am trying to find a solution on how to win my wife's heart back.

I womanize a lot. I have a particular side chick that my wife is even aware of down our street. I love this girl with the whole of my heart. Anytime am with her I feel contented. I sponsored her through school with her younger brother and I also set up a provision store for her mum. I so much love this girl and infact I stopped having numerous chicks because of her. She is everything a man can wish for. She pampered me like a baby and she is an expert on how to sex a man and make him draw spits. I invested alot on this lady and never cared for the mother of my children.

The first and the last time I beat my wife was the day she called my girlfriend to insult her and I was with the girl that night. She put it on speaker. I went home and beat my wife blue black. Though I regretted my action and apologized to her.

Since then I didn't hide my extramarital affair from my wife. My girl will call and I will speak freely in the presence of my wife. She won't say pim. I wanted this girl to be pregnant but she just wouldn't be.

After, I started frustrating my wife so that she can leave the house and the girl can move in, but no matter what I did to my wife, she will never talk. I stopped having sex with her and and she never for once complained. I started taking my girlfriend to family function in place of my wife, still my wife was not affected. I siezed her shop key and gave to this girl as her graduation gift. My wife did not talk and she didn't leave my house. I planned all evils but she wasn't affected by it.

This my side chick is now pregnant with another man's. I have threatened her to abort the baby that I will forgive her and marry her, but she said am too old for her. When she and her family was collecting and spending my money, she didn't know that I am too old then.

Now am tired of fighting for someone that can never be mine. I want to face what's mine. Can you imagine that I just realised that my first born will write WAEC this year. Am so ashamed of my self. My wife has become so old and very slim. I wanted to hug her, but I don't know where to start from. It's been years we last had a physical body contact. We don't even sleep in the same room. The kids are looking at me like a stranger. I can't even crack jokes with them.

Please help me, how do I start and what should I do to win my family love back? I promise to do whatever you tell me to.

Did you ask for help when you started with your side chick and was feeling like a don

A child was walking on the road one day, he saw a tuber of yam. He picked it up, got home and called for a family meeting. At the meeting he told everyone from henceforth everyone will be cooking their own meals.....

He had so forgotten how he fed and was kept alive prior to picking the yam!!!

The only reason you are going back to your wife is because you had been rejected by your side chick...

The good book says do onto others as you would have them do onto you...karma is a b*tch!!!

Nelso2:
Saw a contact on her phone late last year, saved as aa1 and each time he wassup her it's either he calls her my friend or my love.

Confronted her but she denied, saying it's her customer that is owing her money. Been searching for the contact but couldn't find it again after then.

Recently, I searched on her phone while she was sleeping, went through her wassup again, saw a number saved as 3, had to checked on it, behold the profile picture is the same man. Funny part of it, each time she chat wit him, she deletes the chat at the end of it. Been mad since and about to confront.

The man in question is almost 54 and I am in late 30s.

Bros she is cheating. If you confront her like you did before she will deny it and change her modus operandi.

Calm down and continue to play the fool while you watch...they will begin to make more and bigger mistakes. It takes a lot of self control but it is achievable!!!

macjireh:
Jesus never healed anyone from His house or from a distance,, there was always a physical contact... either d sick person came to Him directly or a relative to d sick person met with Jesus to pray on their behalf

Wrong, what of the Centurions servant
So you believe all the current confirmed cases do not have family members in his church...

Did you ask for permission for your previous healings you claim to have done

BonPatrick:
Guys can you date a woman with 3 kids and still in her husband's house but the marriage is about to be dissolved because her husband is not touching her for over a year and doesn't give her food or talk to her.

She met you on Facebook and loves you so much and wants you to sleep with her when both of you see. She even sends her naked video to you to show you how much she loves you. Will you sleep with her when you meet as she is about to divorce her husband?

You only have her side of the story!!!

A word is enough for the wise...

So called bad girls have seen all shades and colours of men and have come to the conclusion that there is no perfect man. They accept what they have and flaunt it as the closest to perfect. On the contrary the so called good girl are still in utopia believing always the there must be a man better than the one in front of them. They focus all their attention on the search forgetting the passage of time. Like a flash, menopause strikes and they are left wondering where they went wrong...

Ancientbeing:
Who noticed what am seeing?

The number of infecteds in lagos is greater than the number of cases in other states sumed up

Pastor Chris might be right about that 5G theory

Nigerian govt is lying to its citizens too much
Abba kyari's death which took place weeks ago was just revealed to us today

They think we dont know whats happening, they think we are not ok

When they closed the airports for international flights they left Lagos and Abuja open. Moreso Lagos and Abuja are the country's economic nerve centers. Nothing to do with 5G, with this virus, growth is exponential and not arithmetic.

Grateful007:
I say d Man gat balls

Abeg remind me where Fayose him man dey again

Pavore9:
The $500m a year funding from the US means so much to WHO in running its activities, abi you wan give them the money?

China is the emerging world power.
$500 million, can't china give it to them
Trump is a child, he acted too late because of his lack of knowledge of the capacity and resilience of the virus.
Your neighbours house is on fire, you should join and quench the fire there...he was the first to send a plane to carry his people, let the fire consume China, like say him get one medicine when him go give him people or arrival, them go well. Now him dey run around with untested hydroxychloroqine even against the advise of scientist ...but China on the whole had less than 4000 deaths, how many deaths are in New York alone, a state of the USA.
Him plan backfire, God pass them!!!

ThinkB4mention:
Is your 4G slow......tell me any technology or equipment currently in Nigeria that 4G can't absorb ?
Nigerians currently does not have any device that 5G will be required
Be guided

Be guided by?
Is it only about speed?
Hmmm!!!

Maestro21:
Dumb.

Do you know the difference? Comming from you, I expected nothing better

MyVILLAGEpeople:
I think Pastor Chris might be right. There is something sinister behind all these things lately.

So all the countries that locked down states wanted to install 5G.
Previously when they came to your area to install the mast around your area, did you go and ask the installer how many G are you installing
I think some people are beginning to go round the bend!!!