₦airaland Forum

Senior bros, how far wetin I do you

@Tpia

No wonder. The guy must also be one of those yabbing Nairalanders or internet commandos like dalby and Blacklion.

1. na them dey front pass, but put them in a serious situation and watch them fumble like nobody's business. Na socializing problem o.

2. See what happens when you refuse to learn from your interactions on the web. Or interactions in general.

People will complain about everything- English is not our mother tongue, women are too forward, etc etc. Instead of them to learn from the world around them, na so so yab them go dey yab, only to fall flat on their faces at critical moments.

@ blacklion and dalby- na una sef una dey explain o. You're not talking to me at all. 3. I don't give a flying fig for anything you might have to say. In fact, say more.

1. What I like about myself is that I face problems head on, if you like a lady in the house find away to contact the person and tell her how you feel, not going around in circles and patronising them.

2. I decided to check your general statistics and found only 2 hours of nairaland-inactivity, that is 9 and 10am in Nigeria or 9 and 10pm in newzealand, when do you sleep my guy Burning the candle at both ends is not the best way to make money o. Handymen for be the richest people

3. I know you don't give a flying fig about anything, so jump out the window from a multi-rise building and end it right now

@Tpia

when did I say you are an accountant in nz gawd, look again
I think we should just drop it, I dont have any problems with you and I am sure the reverse is also true
We are friends now right
Take care

I forgot to add that I am not that desperate, no body dey pursue me from house

@Tpia

Na by ship and road you go now, that one dey too strenuous, person go dey road for 2 months never still reach

@D-reloaded

Read the previous posts then you will understand. Sleep tight

tpia:
You're limited only by your imagination.

them refuse you visa? Or are you that pawpaw guy?

You be my man, no hard feelings
I go code your true situation for them.
I need to actually go and sleep, some of us have to work you know
Wifey is also waiting for you know, , how would you know when you are not married
Save well well, we go convince am to wait for you, at least in 5 or 6 years, at least traditional money go dey ground. In another 5 or 6, church own go don ready (damn if not for these taxes )

tpia:
knock yourself out.  

You're limited only by your imagination.

The beauty of it is that I don't have to do 3 jobs, and also become an accountant because of tax

@tpia

I dey tell you say I dey country and wetin the man (blacklion) talk na true , you dey talk another thing

I dey tell you say I dey country and wetin the man (balcklion) talk na true

@tpia

Na female conditioning make am agree, so dont feel so smug
Wetin I dey go find for sokoto when e dey for shokoto.
I think that even in Nigeria, I earm more than you when converted

Never judge a man by his actions, but by the intent
Thats why it can be classified that I have sinned looking at a woman lostfully

blacklion:
As AJ pointed out, a more appropriate response could have been to do the usual Nigerian woman coy act e.g. 'I need to think about it, ' or 'lets pray over it, ' and then later point out to him that his choice of language was poor to say the least and possibly rude. After the guy re-formulates the proposal, the lady can then swoon in accepting his proposal to the violins and the fragrance of roses,

Two wrongs don't make a right!

tollu:
I have been reading many comments that say the girl over reacted and that us girls are blinded by the movies we see and books we read.
Why, for goodness sake, would anyone propose to a person in that manner? We aren't talking about romantic gestures here but about a PERSON's insensitivity to another. That cannot even be considered as a proposal (more like his personal musings) and as such, deserves no answer.

To all the people saying the girl should count herself lucky, men are scarce and other blah blah blah, I say to you: if the only way I would get married is by being 'managed' by a man, I'll rather stay single.
Having a man is important but not compulsory.

No go talk the one wey go hunt you for future

tpia:
hmm, I was about to comment on the bolded then noticed you're gearing up for a fight.

I used to think you were a peaceful person? I guess I thought wrong.

anyway, why must we Nigerians/Africans constantly denigrate ourselves and feel we're not Worthy of anything good? We should always confirm the Tarzan stereotype while swinging from our trees. That's what I'm reading from your comment.

Chief wetin you wan add
I can also claim to be out of the country, so nobody is intimidated
Lets assume you are out, our grand parents were forcefully taken to the west, some  of all after evaluating situations force our self, by ship, land or air(very few) to go increase the number over there dey post 1 every payday dey make so much noise. You no dey here, person when e dey here, dey tell you wetin dey happen back home you dey argue

Assuming I have a girl, and for one reason or the other, I have had reason to question her love and intensions, maybe somekind phone calls or I dey travel go see my uncle and I come catch am with somebody for eatery ("HER UNCLE". I no know watin to believe and she don dey worry me to define the relationship. When I wan propose to am wetin I go talk

windywendy:
Thank you o! I been wan tell am but you beat me to it. It's obvious the guy is under-aged.

Even if somebody batter somebody to marry, marriage na marriage
Only one illicit gin (shnap) under the iroko tree too na marriage

I am sure they all use condoms

almondjoy:
Well thank you! One love to you too! I still dey here jare, don't mind bad belle people!

Are you sure you are not an old poster?

You no dey tire to fight, this is not china O

Advise am make e help am.
Anytime one person wakes up at night to urinate, he/she should wake up the other person

No go cheat on am there o!
Their life dey different from our own!!!
Girl fit cry enough for this side, but for there she go shoot and them go find one legal name take cover am

Lord_Reed:
The concept of original sin does not mean that one gets punished or held accountable for Adam's sin what it means is that the nature of 'sinning' has become part of human beings n will require redemption due to the fact that everyone since then exhibits this nature by several ways (lying, cheating, stealing etc).

Just to clarify issues a little.

I think I could not have put it better. Human nature has been same since Adam, we are all subject to the same frailties, strengths and temptations to which we give it to every now and them.

May kelly:
I think is because of that Pic above

Please how do you mean?

Efuah dear who is taunting you, abi you never tell them

janami:

@poster
em --- i think it comes wit "in sickness and in health"

You guys sure know when to draw that line out

@aisha2

Marriage is not something to be confused about. If you start now being confused, when children and school fees come wetin e go do. I bet he will end up more confused.

Most men in Nigeria dont even propose.
When people have been going out, marriage just seems the next line to follow.
Most often it is presumed. Make she dey there allow train leave the train station