Try to read English and understand it before you start pouring frustration on people here.

He Said "If your wife can't come" he dint say if my (him) wife can't come".

You people should shift please with all those cheap public attention. Don't come and form some irrelevant life here... It's all fake online lifestyle.

delishpot:


Are you him, is she your wife? Did he insist that you must do same? Wetin come be your own if he decides to take her to every place he goes?

You have shallow thinking. No body has right bah? Go tell you daughter or even u your self go and wear such dress in the North or Arab nation then you will never try such in your entire life that is if you escape the trouma.

Zimmermann:
NOBODY HAS THE RIGHT TO SHAME THAT LADY FOR HER CHOICE OF DRESSING!!! BUNCH OF PERVERTED RETARDS!

I don't know you thoug, but with this your comment you gain my likeness. I don't need to talk to that local comentatator. U have finished it already.

sinceraconcept:
Idiot,so whites don't arrest people that masturbate in public? After all, it's nobody's business. Wanna be white with black brain, black ass black everything, that's what you are. Who knows maybe you even have tribal mark. Your black brain refuses to hint you that some people might be fasting and if they see this, it could break their fast? Nigerians are just so foolish, they would never copy whites when it comes to scientific development but when it comes to perversion,homosexuality,kinkiness that's being practised among some whites, they would rush to adopt it.

OP: Don't listen to all this unmarried people. They will tell you they can't take such shit but trust me in their relationship they take shit and even drink urine join am...

Look at the way he analyzed how the lady should behave like say this is nollyhood... This one don watch all those ZeeWorld tire... Awon.eyan Raj & Tufaan... Lol... OP... The last advice here to listen to is from this woman o.. pls. I get u... He can't do this in her own home o if she had one. Pls.. be worned.

LadySarah:
Bearing in mind that your name sounds muslim,are you sure a second wife isnt loading?

What needs to be said.
1a.When someone says hurtful things to you during a quarell,that is wht they have been thinking about you.
1b. 5x and you always come back.You are a good woman but Its time to change tactic.

2.The house belongs to both of you.If he says leave,dont leave.If he didnt push you or your stuff out,stay.Dont give him room to keep disrespecting you.Go to the fridge,take enough food then back to the sitting room.Make sure you stretch your legs well on the cushion and watch your favorite movie.You can Play a song and sing away .you can also Run around the house with your bby

If your presence irritates him,then he should leave.If he doesnt come back and the house is rented,make sure you stay till the last day of rentage and go back to ur parents,thats if he refuses to renew it.
Thankfully,their home is opened for you.

3.The baby's welfare should be paramount to both of you.so,if he didnt buy it,both of you should endure the crying.Do not initiate any discussion anymore .

4.At this stage,you shouldnt think of another baby.Theres no peace here.Work on yourselves.

5.Pray.Counselling is also neccessary.If he refuses to go then let him be.
6.If it gets physical,Nne,run!!!!!!!!!! .

PLS,Thankfully you work.Stop these arguments.Ignore him when he tries to provoke you.Dont watch warroom .Pls make yourself happy.You owe it to yourself.Dont let any human define your happiness.

OP, truth be told, You don't need advice from online. (2) Try to do attitude evaluation between you and your husband. There is definately something deep that is making u guys uncomfortable between both of you that you dint discuss here in this your report.

This matter is be young baby food etc. It's a cumulative matter that has being lingering in your home.

Call him, tell him exactly what u do that he doesn't not like and add this that you are ready to change. (that's character evaluation)

Note what he said and tell him too some of his attitude you do not like all in friendly way.

Forget all this talk (He probarbly keeping concubine or the way u people call it.. cheating on you) stop listening to people.

Work on your marriage. You said you are insinuating of looking out for love and respect? Did you keep any perfevt lover man out there? they Don't sell those things dearie, you have to earn them and it's via attitude evaluation and correlation.

It will take u an unlimited effort to find perfect lover at this your level which one does not even exist (No perfect lover). So, don't be deceived. Work on your marriage. Except you want it to fall.

Stop giving excusses. All of us here we do not have 100% perfect marriage or relationships.

Lastly minimize frinds you keep if you have many. Form a winning and loving home team. May heaven help you
Amen.

Zhuhilat:
How Do I Deal With This Level Of Disrespect From My Husband

Dear all

I and my husband are just 2years in marriage.

Every time we have issues concerning anything, he is always telling me to pack my things and leave his house or he will say things like you are off no importance to me and you bring me no value and stuff and stuff. But after a while he will apologize and say he doesn’t mean it.

Last month, what caused our fight was because my mum sent some food stuffs to us because she traveled and got them cheaply. He was angry because he felt that was disrespectful. And the argument degenerated to him telling me to leave his house,

i got tired, called his bluff and left the house but everyone advised me to go back and make it work., well except my dad. Mind you, this was the 5th time.

On my return, we talked about it(like we always do) and i thought it was genuine, and i said i was going to give it one more try.

Today, we had an argument because of baby food. I told hime to buy on his way back. I couldn’t go out because the whole road was terribly flooded .

But he didn't buy it, and that lead to an argument. And the next thing he told me was to fuc.k off and leave. Or he is leaving. As a matter of fact, he just left the house now 12:00am.

I am actually tired of it all. and right now, i don't think i have any love left for him or this marriage.
I think he is cheating on me and for some reason i am beginning to look outside and crave attention, love and respect from someone else.

I don't want my child to grow up seeing me treated like this but most importantly , i don't want her to think it is okay to accept being disrespected and under valued like this.

Married people is this one of the challenges in marriage or what?

Why cant we have an argument that doesn’t lead to leave my house, i dont need you, you bring me no value and all

Also we are very very comfortable, i work and he works too.

Emotionally, i am done.

OP, this are the kind of people you should run from.. They don't have home and wants some of you that has one to join them... You can make your own war room for men, if it make sense than this your comment we will watch it ok? So, go and relax. Don't spoil sweet home.. keep quite if you can not add value. Ok? Eseun.

elektra:


Somebody needs to make an equivalent of War Room for men
A movie that will provide solution for all their marital problems.
Women cannot be enjoying magical movies alone

Stop reasoning like a daft... Any body has equal chance to kill each other in marriage either man or woman but not only woman... may God not let us marry devil that will send is to early grave... Stop commenting with emotions... quote author=figure007 post=83051775]Its very funny when you beat your wife incessantly ,the same woman that will cook for you ,the same woman that stays at home more than you do, they have all the power to kill you without the world knowing ,either through poisoning your food or using voodoo.... Men ought to know this ... Why do you think men die mostly in marriages that women ?? Asides too much responsibilities,some women habe found a way to eliminate their husband cos of things like this in home... Men stop maltreating your wife !!!! Only a foolish man does beat his wife ...why not just walk away if provoked [/quote]

What I believe you lack is self control and greediness. If you don't feel a partners vibe anymore u can tell him or her then quit honorably that to come here typing rubish... It's not new every one can't be compatible. If you have find another deceiver u can take a leave. Once he is tired of you then soon, u too will be irritatating him.. So, good luck in your journey of life..

Ellatee256:
Hi everyone,
I'm 23 yrs and currently running my HND program.
I have a bf and we have been dating for almost a year.

We do almost everything together and we see each other every single day...
But now am irritated by him.

He comes to my hostel from his office everyday but now seeing him irritates me the more.
I just want a break but I don't want to hurt him.
This isn't the first time its happening to me,
I've had two boyfriends before I met my new bf and same thing happened with them.

Its just like I meet a guy I like..,we love each other and I get excited and then few months later I get irritated by them....

I told my elder sis about it and she dragged me to church saying I have spiritual problems but that's not the issue....

Sometimes I just want my time alone but my bf doesn't seem to understand that.
Have tried to ignore him and all but he doesn't get the message am passing........
He wants me to meet his mum but have been giving him excuses....

I don't know why I feel like this with only the guys I date cuz I don't feel that way with my friends and family in fact I want to be with them everyday but its different in my relationships...
I want to end things with my boyfriend without hurting him cuz I can't keep acting and I can't keep wasting his time.

I think I have a problem and I don't know what to do.
I don't want this to affect me when I get married cuz there won't be a break in marriage...
Pls kindly advice
Thanks

Lass lass, most children are SCAMMERS. they only love the father or mothers by mouth. They will still buy Lamborghini, expensive phones, etc for one strange girl they love and leave their aclaimed parent in delapidated building.. Bone that bro, Children and scam na 5 & 6. To me, this can't even border me. You will see them shouting may you live long to enjoy fruit of your labour.
All na scam. Parent just do your own and move on. Most children are selfish and too much of entitlements...

genq:
As a child it is none of your business whether your dad is polygamous or not - this solely between him and your mother. Afterall, you were not there from the beginning. You have no clue what they promised/negotiated with each other. Any child who judges a parent based what the other parent told them is a fool! Yes, your mother may be sweet, but she certainly isn't an angel - both parties are prone to make mistakes over the course of a marriage.

A father deserves maximum respect for the mere fact that he provides the needs of his household. In most Nigerian homes, the man is mainly responsible for putting a roof over the heads of his wife and children, he pays the bills, school fees, feeding, outings and other upkeep with little to no assistance from the mother. It's not easy and the old man should be appreciated for that.

I love my mother - ever so gentle and wise. But my father, gets my ultimate reverence and honour irrespective of whatever mistakes he made in his personal life.

I still imagine how people say we are in 21 century main while nothing change in this your country since 20BC.... Keep deceiving your self. We are not in any 21century... 100yrs to come the coming generation would still imagined how we survived our jungle days... No he only... .

Pettyprincess:
I still do not believe parent still dictate who their children should get married to in this 21st century,bt anyways her mom told her not to marry someone because of an utterance with an igbo person,like seriously?
At this point i really do not know what to say bt you should hear her decision out first.
I can't imagine my mom telling me me i can't marry my bf because people from his race colonised Nigeria.

When failure sees colleague in same nediocracy mind they rushly grab each other... The only time I will take you and your role model "Kemi" serious is when you write your own book that tell exactly the truth about the world and it's existence.

Joshmodest:
Religion is the most believed lie by mankind , even the loopholes clear to everyone in the Bible , are still being considered as the wisdom of God ....
The Bible is a book written by men filled with stories to impress kids !!
A book that tells us that for a whole day sun refused to set ..
A book that tells sees nothing wrong with slavery !
A book that encouraged murder and incest !
A book that encourages the killing of innocent children and women !
Adults who read such book with passion should just sit and watch Jim jam or Nickelodeon !!!
Kemi I'm with you on this one !!

Y do strange and babaric act common among the poor people? It's so alarming. May God never let you that's reading this post be poor. Amen. 95% of bad news happens between the poor to the poor... Poverty will never be your portion.

I don't think u recide in Lagos & if you do may be you don't have non or mush experience on uber matter vs lady clients. Most of this rude clients to uber drivers can never try such stupidity with the Lagos Danfo drivers or in BRT buses... If you know you know...

fowlyansh181:
His action was barbaric

Sincerely, you need people around you to motivate you. You are so much in pain that no one here can actually define your state of mind. Local Man really needs help.

GoTV:
Even though I'm a born again Christian, i think this silly move by the governor is to score cheap political points and blackmail the previous Administration because it was headed by a Muslim governor. No matter how we Christians try, our religion can never be as popular as Islam

You'll get 1million, plus 2 plots of landed property in one of the villages of your choice...

bestman09:

How much will i get if I marry 5 Abians?

Local girl has being duped severally... she is now in love with dido... Happy married life to you & fridodiddo... Lafff

niaralandtopuser:
men are worthless. Go and buy dilldo

Local Girl Wants It shaved... Lafff...

tee59:
I just hate guys with beards sha.

Point of correction. Akata is not oyinbo. (2) Mr OP, don't go enslave your self. Be careful of greediness. Marying Akata will open you to what you won't expect... Me personally, Instead of me to marry Akata I will rather marry Nija women.. Anything that makes me wants to marry foreigner she must be pure white... Oyinbo... No negotiation on my decision. Thank you honourable speaker... lol

RDPMAN:
You think oyinbo women are like the black woman, she doesn't need you to pay her loan, how much do you have, after her course she will get a better paid job and the loan will be removed in her salary ... Common, leave the fucking country.

If not for stupidity, would you say Ondo Youth are Lazy? 7 out of 10 youth in Ondo State are graduate and have family plantation farms wich are their means of earning. Average Ondo Youth don't travel to other states and make noise but to be focus because they are learned. Or is it because you don't see them owking on the street or do Okada in cities across Nigeria. Is that why you tag them Lazy?. I tell people to read and reserch, they won't listen. Type in your google, the most educated state in Nigeria then see your self. See how you disgrace your self. Now in Public? Ewu.

passyhansome:
ONDO YOUTHS ARE LAZY, HOPEFULLY THIS WILL HELP

Lol.. this man, your jealous for youruba women no be small o.. hahahaha... It's like they have bleeped you ass b4. This one you are angry. Because this post does not refered nor mentioned any tribe... haha. Sorry bro. I feel your pain.

HARDBUOI:
Yoruba women ND greed.
Marry one at ur own peril

Fantastic One...

All this our comentators are very mean and funny.. chai. Women like power I swear. Madan did not encourage women to fight bookharam among other insurgencies group, na senate and minister they hungry her... lafff... hahahah.

Sincerely u can't make heaven... lol.. so when Amsat went to church last week and serve as usher there u were in Mexico then bah? U no see road... lol..

Igbobyblood:
Lagos is now a Muslim state

Over hyping will not kill you... I greet you.

yerokunphilips:
Nigerian are the most intelligent set of people on earth ,our major problem in this country is bad leadership . 80% of people in Europe won't survive what an average Nigeria is

Bros you old.. all this name u listed, I only heard of 1 or know 1... which is.. Wiliki...

stag:
These guys are relatively easier to remember.

I expected to see names like:
Alex Zito
Alex O
Lt. Shotgun
Blackie
Daniel Wilson (Mr Raggamuffin)
Tina onwudiwe
Felix Liberty
Oritz Wiliki

Stupid haters did not talk about him now. But when he flies his Jet the wishes and wiZard will garder for village meeting... You people will not see gate of heaven let alone entring it... Lafff.

Most married women keep concubines, you people should stop all this pretend life... Most of you s*x coleague, boss, neighbor ex, etc... We know that.

doyinbaby:
Married women please bother about infections o....don't allow a promiscuous husband infect with HIV or gonorrhoea from side chick o

And so? What's the big deal there? When children attain age of teenager won't they fight to get access to their father? People just give them selves uneccessary headache over nothing. No wonder people of this days dye b4 time... They too overload their mentality...

StarUp:
Once she lays her hands on those children, he will be the one begging to see them... She is just using reverse psychology on him.

PMB man of the people by the people and for the people... I hail thee... Loyal VP that's y PMB trusts you to the biggest percentage... Ride on my man.... Kikikikiki

Nice one. FullStop.

Please, please please, I can't laugh jare. Judge self will be confused to judge this case because it's just too funny...

No problem, you guys should not step leg in church again because u were being corrected. Such can happened I don't see big deal in it. u are not doing God, he does not need our prayers neither does he needs populations in heaven to vote him into power. He reings forever. Lol...

neonly:




Believe me Dat kind of thing had happened to me
Sat in d church a couple came sat beside me I was in middle a member came from no where to ask d couple why they allow some one to separate them not knowing I speak Yoruba very well belief me till date I have never step my foot in a church again