₦airaland Forum

Whois:
Aunty Joy School. Seems the party fee is important to them than the tuition fees.

From their name we shall know them

And the school has no joy.

aspabay:
See what future leaders are doing. 6 out of 148. But they will line up and blame politicians.

Nigerians are the problem with Nigeria.

The politicians are their mentors.

Vision101:
See trap set for PBAT. So that the nay sayers will say Yoruba paid Yoruba.

Tinubu is taking notes down. He will do many things in his second term. Many of those things will be controversial. But will be certainly bold steps.

hitekk:
Maybe na native doctor u go end up with

With that score, as a babalawo, his concoction of leaves no go cure fever o.

E fit be poison sef.

If you are a good hubby material, you have a very high chance ending up with an end time woman (baddie). Because you are more likely to be naïve.
Baddies have been around and easily know good guys.

Bad guys pick the best women too. They easily spot good girls because they've been around.

Growing up, I knew several men who were useless but had 3 or 4 wonderful wives. Educated and pretty too. Not like they were rich or very handsome.

While good men had one agbaya wife.

judewrites:
From the biblical standpoint:

1. A man should love his wife

2. A woman should submit to her husband

If these two principles are followed, no need for marriage counseling, separation or even divorce.

Dazall. Even Bible tok am say woman nor dey love man. Na to submit.

All the men wey dey find woman to "love them for who they are and not for money", na long thing una dey.

Na you go love and provide. Her own na to submit.

Sheuns:
Dick measuring contest between the two parties will begin.

I have rulers to sell to them.

Even tape, for those with bent d!cks.

National Character observed. North & South represented.

North is marginalised here though.

Ebubu7:
A Pharmacist is not a chemist.

A Pharmacist's title in the USA is Dr. And after his name he puts a bracket (Pharm.D)


Medical Doctors are not the owners of Dr title. What they were admitted to study is MBBS and not Dr. Show me proof they were admitted to study Dr. and Dr. was written on their admission letter. Rather it was Bachelor of Medicine, Bachelor of Surgery.

The real Dr. are the Ph.D holders and it is called Dr of Philosophy (Ph.D). Yet they don't get angry that medical doctors call themselves Dr that they didn't study for because what they studied is MBBS.

There is love in sharing.

Like I said, Dr title does not belong to anyone and in America, Pharmacists are referred to as Dr with (Pharm.D) in bracket

So there is a justification for that, everybody is a healthcare team member.

But remember the US pharmacist would have spent straight eight years to do it. It's in 9ja people are obsessed with titles. In many countries, dentists are technically Dr, but don't use the title. In 9ja you will see Pharm. Adebayo, Engr. Okonkwo, Arch. Audu, etc.

Right from time, any medical qualification conferred the Dr title. Not so for other health care fields. Govt should focus on training care professionals faster and better. We need loads of them. Not about even longer years and titles.

Australians train Pharmacists in 2 years, if they already have a sound 2.1 BSc in Biochemistry or such chemistry-heavy courses.

adams123:
Why them no d marry, which verse in the bible them the follow sef?

Matthew 19: 10-12. But read verse 9 too.

Jesus didn't say don't marry. But the apostles found the terms of marriage, especially the only valid reason for divorce and remarriage, quite strict. So the apostles felt marriage is not worth the stress on those terms.

As we know, no apostles got married after joining Jesus' ministry.

In most religions, the acts of early religious men become a guide to later leaders.

So, if apostles, with all their gifts and anointing found marriage daunting, it's even more so now. Catholics follow that practice.

But long ago, catholic priests could get married.

Kobojunkie:
1. So, the woman is to blame for her hubby ignoring all of these habits before marriage, only to turn around and assert them as reasons why he would no longer sleep with her afterwards? Isn't that some sort of entrapment?

2. And just yesterday, I read someone extolling arranged marriage, declaring it the solution to finding the right marriage partner for Nigerian men. Talk about people being all over the place. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

3. Love has no place in marriage, and this lack of love is the reason why women are denied sex in marriage. Yet many a Nigerian man wails regularly over how they are not loved by their wives. 😐😐😐😐

Let's not fool ourselves. Marriage is overrated. Love, if it exists, is fickle. Those who have spent decades in it know better.

Fact is, men or women, most go into it for the wrong reasons. Often rose-tinted in the beginning. If not for procreation, I see no reason for it anymore.

But women never accept responsibility for anything.

I can only say what I have seen from a man's perspective to the topic.

The topic is from a woman's perspective.

Sunmolar:
What led to her been untouched for 2yrs. Blame game tactics that ends in crocodile tears

When the hubby finally finds out her dirty habits, behaves like a log of wood in bed or never takes the initiative, the dude will tire.

Especially if you left a good girlfriend, to marry current one due to tribal or religious preference, the dude dey regret.

In any case, in our clime, love has no place in marriage. It has become a transaction. So, most are doomed from the beginning.

Two major reasons the West shut the door against a country's citizens are:
If a country is at war or economically ravaged or both. Citizens leave by any means mostly never to return.

9ja is at war, tribal and religious war. One slow baba once said, GEJ killing Boko is killing the North. He meant civil war in disguise. 9ja people don't realise that banditry is war against Hausas and Southern people by religious elements. kidnappers are mostly same people. They use the proceeds to fund religious extremism.

Corrupt leaders and officials wrecked the economy already.

Two major reasons the West shut the door against a country's citizens are:
If a country is at war or economically ravaged or both. Citizens leave by any means mostly never to return.

9ja is at war, tribal and religious war. One slow baba once said, GEJ killing Boko is killing the North. He meant civil war in disguise. 9ja people don't realise that banditry is war against Hausas and Southern people by religious elements. kidnappers are mostly same people. They use the proceeds to fund religious extremism.

May God preserve this dude o.

Our youth need to have mentors. Correct ones.

Not Ebanga Eganga type leaders or those that won't leave power to vibrant young people.

Ha! Dis na sessua arrazmet o, as one aunty in Ibadan would say.

9ja.

One woman will soon come to say how he ate gbegiri and amala or ofe onugbu and fufu at her bukateria that year.

Lol. Dude should threaten to break off the whole Sh@@t and see list reduce quick.

Haba! Poor people have no understanding of the value of money.

Rich people spend keeping an eye on value, and proportion of expense relative to income/wealth.

Poor people most times spend all income to survive daily or even borrow to spend.

So, if they believe a relative or in-law has money, they will bill them, having no idea of the value of that amount.

It's like a very hungry attending a party with lots of free food. He will just eat and eat.

Funny lady.

So, she doesn't know that she has no sister yet?

A bad sibling is worse than a bad friend. You can easily cut off a bad friend. You cannot totally cut off bad siblings (family occasions, etc), but keep them very far from yourself.

When you bring bad people close in the name of forgiveness, they refine their wickedness. They will just come and finish you off.

Be wise like a serpent and innocent like a dove.

No surprise here.

On two different occasions, different women once threatened to accuse yours truly of sexual assault. One was a bit drunk and physical with me o. I only explained a procedure to follow to her. Na workplace back then. Hustling days. Luckily, we were being recorded on CCTV. Oyinbo girl o. She later apologised.

Another girl, darkie, also threatened to accuse me. Because I corrected her behaviour. She knew I was right but they don't take correction. She said "you know as a woman, the police will believe me. We are in a lift and no witness in your favour." I dey fear women since then. I nor dey enter lift wey only one woman dey inside. They don't care about fairness or justice. Only oppression.

Some of these women can weaponize accusation and it will set the bar for conviction higher and higher. Many true victims will suffer and some will even refuse to come forward.

RepoMan007:
Expect a counter thread.

Young black women with their rich older husbands.

All inspired by that paper that is always at the behest of things.

But the thing is that, one 9ja woman will later benefit from these guys' "hard work".
Once abroad, they will be forming woke and kick their husband from their home.

The same women are laughing now.

publicenemy:
The Ooni of ife's consistent manner of approaching people for handshake puts him in position to be disrespect. If you get to an event wall to your sit and sit down, you are supposed to be the king of the yoruba nation. Stop walking to up to people to stretch out your hands for handshakes.

I think the Ooni goes to a bit too many occasions. He could be more selective. Being selective gives less room to speculators and those who interpret every move wrongly.

I know he's using a modern touch and wants to be more visible and accessible.
I don't think his manner is wrong. Just that our clime does not value humility. GEJ comes to mind.
Monarchs in Scandinavia, especially Denmark and Sweden, are popular for their simplicity. Advanced countries value such humility. We are not there yet.

From what we know historically, the Alaafin is an imperial warrior king and the Ooni is a priest king.
In modern times, both the empire and priesthood are symbolic due to modern Nigeria and Middle-Eastern religions.
So, this supremacy battle fanned by people without any voice in real life is too bad.

Dude, stay away from that family.

Send a gift. You can meet them at a family function BUT NEVER visit their house.

Certainly never ever be a lone anywhere with the lady. And keep shush. Since you didn't speak up at the night.

Lol.
In a disorganised country, everything is a miracle.

A prof finally stopped playing "god" and did the job expected of him and that's a miracle?

Seun,

(1)-Find a way to curb bigotry/tribalism. The Igbo vs. Yoruba stuff is nauseating.
Same with religious stuff.

(2)-Educate mods to stop pushing useless topics to FP.

(3)-Beggars spam every topic/post. Even sombre ones about tragic incidents. Curb it.
We need something like our good, old TENs back. A dedicated charity section would help.

(4)-NL needs a face-lift, biko.

The guy na fool.

You don't make noise like this.

After dealing with her, the new fiance go run leave her.

correctyourself:
Now i understand some of you reason with anus.

I you think what the lady did is normal, pray for yourself to experience such.

Actually, Victor may have just dodged a bullet. It shows she just wanted to marry to tick the box, not because Victor ticked most of her boxes.

Victor should dust himself up and move on. He will meet the right lady ahead.

JoeEeL:
PAINFUL TO SAY BUT ANOTHER MAN DON LIKELY MOUNT HIN WIFE.

SAME THING WITH SOME OF UNA WEY TRAVEL ABROAD OR TO ANOTHER STATE.

Even if you spend 24/7 with her, no guarantee. She nor dey go market?

Nature abhors vacuum. Common 3 days travel you travel, is enough for her to forage.
Every man, just do paternity test on ALL kids. Then leave the rest.

God protect and raise JP's family.

The first wife na legend.
A confident lady.

They don't make many like her these days.

UHLmoving:
Has he offended Chioma again?

Good map

phemmie06:
Is their lawful possession of human parts?

Yes, rare, but there are lawful ones. It could be anthropologists or palaeontologists moving old bones from place of discovery to the museum or institute to study. It can also be a body, or parts thereof, exhumed in the cause of investigation and going for pathology exam. The police may already be involved in the latter.

Lol.

So, IMF dey form empathy after supporting mass impoverishment policies.

Wonders shall never end.