₦airaland Forum

4tomandchi:
Mother and son relationship you will never understand those 2 the father will always be in the background.

Fathers make deliberate efforts to love your sons stop forming strict, principle and hard man na background you go dey.

Listen, a man disciplines his son to prepare for the hard life a man must face.
By the the time the son becomes a successful man, the father is usually late. Even if the son later realises father was right to be strict, he's not there to be rewarded.

So, a man trains his son to be successful, selflessly. A man lives a life of sacrifice.

Marc3500:
widowed women are not bitter

Some are very bitter over hubby's death.

Often, they can't quite make the kids they brought to the marriage to see new hubby as father.
Also, no matter what the new hubby does, the kids brought in will always feel their late dad would have done better if he was alive.

There's a lot of psychology at play.

It gets worse if their mum dies before their stepdad. Most ignore the stepdad.
Imagine using your youth energy to raise step-kids before your own biological kids grow up. If you become very ill, die or become poor before you train your own biological kids, you go hear ween. No matter how good you were to step-kids.

I have seen too many pathetic cases. In my view, it's even worse marrying a widow.

I will only advise marrying a widow if you are a widower and your kids are already grown up. And her kids are grown too. Don't use old or young age to look after kids that are not yours. The world has nothing good to offer good men. Good men lose out. Let nobarry deceive you.

Lalami3232:

The list is 20!!! Why did you remove the last 2?
Anyways for those of you who didn't get the full list, let me add the last 2. And they are:
19. Marrying a non-virgin aka borehole and not going for a DNA test
20. Believing that your non-virgin wife a.k.a borehole is different from others who did paternity fraud.
What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news

Oga if you no meet your wife as a virgin, Oga go for DNA test oooooooo because non-virgins aka boreholes can't be trusted atall atall

Dude, nothing anybarry go tell me, you obtained your PhD from Yaba Left with distinction.
Look at her long list. Most men who meet these criteria are raising kids fathered by other men in their house.

The better a hubby you are, the more bastards you are raising in your house. Nor be only 18, she for make am 318.

Afolue:
This Lady is obviously a perfect example of a bad wife in making... The young man detected earlier enough and ran far away for the sake of his sanity. I pity that little child, she will definitely transfer aggression and be unloved by her especially when he grows up. I can relate!

Any guy wey marry single mother, na im know. One innocent guy will now help her raise this baby and the innocent man will get no thank you for it. I'm yet to see where it benefitted the man. She will transfer her angle to the innocent man, no matter how much he tries.

Some will say don't generalise. But chances of a single mother being toxic is high. Do you want to take a gamble with something as important as marriage? Widowed, divorced or baby mama, no much difference.

It's every man's decision.

Mbanda:
You are not defending tinibu well that's why I mentioned you. Those nurses need to know that tinibu is the best president in Africa according to what you told us here
Don't tell us that you only have power on NL.

Ah! Ejo. Edakun.

You wan still cut 30k abi na 70k when man pikin dey take hold body?

Nor loud am o. Don't be a wicked sombarry.

Nothing wrong with welcoming the First Lady happily. Irrespective of who her hubby is or politics.

Even more so, a lady with family ties to Delta.

But the MC should have been more sensitive.

daniwise:
Incoherent,very incoherent write up

Whether you are Cicero or Shakespeare, the message is clear. Nobody finds 9ja worth fighting for. Except the very unfortunate ones.

rosebowl01:
With the exception of a few hardworking and dedicated players, let's primarily use home-based players going forward. Regardless of the outcome, we can guarantee that they will put in their best effort. Nigeria has never been accustomed to this style of laborious football. Win or lose, we present ourselves well. The majority of this current crop of players is more concerned about their image than making sacrifices for the nation.

Look, aside some working class, soldiers they send as cannon fodder to Borno and very average Nigerians, how many of the elite put 9ja first or sacrifice anything for 9ja?

Many Ex-Eagle players of the days before football became lucrative are dying in poverty.

Most don't 9ja's care and so care less about 9ja. Simple.

mecuries:
Menopause at 32?... Did you complete primary school?

Yep. Rare but it happens. Seen a few of it.

But I doubt cuppy has reached menopause.

Ndabooski:
I like Atiku buy I doubt he was ever destined to be President. The best time ever for Atiku to be president was 2023. When a sitting president and almost his entire candidate were working against their party's candidate. Buhari did everything to ensure Tinubu never succeeded him , including changing naira notes and withdrawing same from circulation few weeks to elections. Atiku would have won that elections before 12noon. UNTIL there came a disruptor OBI. He warehouse 6m votes that would have easigone to Atiku..Gbam the whole calculation suddenly scattered. Tinubu 8.7m votes, Atiku 7.1m votes, Obi 6.9m votes. The combo of Atiku and Obi votes was almost double Tinubu votes.

For Atiku to have lost 2023 elections he was never destined to be President... He can try his luck again in 2027 but trust me , his time was 2023 and Obi made him to miss it.

Atiku has a more humane idea to run an economy. Neither trader nor loan shark/cut-throat rent collector type.
But he's a terrible politician. He inherited all of Yar'Adua's PDM structure, won governorship and was elevated to VP. He knew that OBJ was comfortable handing over to a Northerner (Shagari in 1979). All he had to do was play his game well with OBJ from 1999 to 2007. Even if OBJ wanted 3rd term, it would have meant 3rd term for VP too. Terrible idea, that 3rd term, but there are ways to oppose something without appearing awfully disloyal.

By 2002, Atiku already made it known through body language that he won't support OBJ second term. The secret service already knew his Ghana-Must-Go moves with NASS and so OBJ knew. He could have got OBJ impeached if OBJ was not smart.

Then came 2023. He could not even give Obi VP ticket. He could have argued that PDP needed consistency at the top. Obi could not lose out totally, so he left to join Labour.

The whole Obidient movement took Obi by surprise.

Atiku would have narrowly won with Obi as VP. At least with about 13 million to about 11 million for Tinubu.

Love800:
Yes, its also love.
Anything they can do to put their sons in the right direction is love!

But honestly, i don't whether this love is shown from a mother to the girl-child. But mother and boy-child love is very strong!

Mothers mostly replicate the love they have/had for their dads to their sons.
Fathers see their daughters as mini-mums.

I don't joke with my daughter whose habits resemble my late mum's so much.

Samantha125:
Some women are just not meant to be mothers and there's nothing spiritual about it.

In fact, some people, men and women, were never cut out to be parents. QED.

Ablesam171:
CFA is to the advantage of France and not to the advantage of francophone countries in West Africa besides who told you that Ghana cedis is more stable than Naira, Cedis has had it's own share of problems. Some of you people without knowledge of a country would criticize just for the sake of criticism.

I used CFA frequently in the 1990s. The Naira had far more weight. What of today? I have followed the currency since.

Cedis too with Ghanaians doing business from Europe to Ghana.

If keeping it's value and not losing value like Naira did since last year is in France's interest, far better.

Naira that is in Nigeria's interest in your opinion, how has it fared?

I saw relatives buy VW Beetle 1300 for 2,500 Naira, Peugeot 504 for N4,500. Naira fall has been catastrophic over the past 40+ years. A disaster.

How long have you used or followed these currencies? Naira, Cedis and CFA?

You think everything is politics?

Ablesam171:
CFA is to the advantage of France and not to the advantage of francophone countries in West Africa besides who told you that Ghana cedis is more stable than Naira, Cedis has had it's own share of problems. Some of you people without knowledge of a country would criticize just for the sake of criticism.

I used CFA frequently in the 1990s. The Naira had far more weight. What of today? I have followed the currency since.

Cedis too with Ghanaians doing business from Europe to Ghana.

If keeping it's value and not losing value like Naira did since last year is in France's interest, far better.

Naira that is in Nigeria's interest in your opinion, how has it fared?

I saw relatives buy VW Beetle 1300 for 2,500 Naira, Peugeot 504 for N4,500. Naira fall has been catastrophic over the past 40+ years. A disaster.

How long have you used or followed these currencies? Naira, Cedis and CFA?

These other W. African countries get mind o.

Why would countries with more stable CFA or New Cedis dump them for one to be diluted by Naira?

Is ECO going to be truly free-floating or propped up with billions of dollars like Naira?

There is even no true free movement of people and goods yet.

omooba05:
Im happy for Isreal.. More wins

He just told the gold-excavator: To your tent, O Israel!

This is a genial, hakimical super-maradonic permutation.

OUK, you are right.

A short second book would be in order.

It should contain Swiss Bank accounts details and secrete codes, assets in Monaco, France, Germany, UK, etc.

Include how construction company JB can help us locate some.

BeardedMeat:
Akpabio is the type that likes his friends babes, neighbors wives, his brothers wives, wives friends and sons girlfriends.

So you mean Uncle Bio Bio has Ebanga-nism?

Sense we nor kee you.

Ushman333:
Gibberish...not just defamation but libel as well.

"Yes, another person can sue on behalf of someone else in certain situations, such as when they are a legal guardian, have power of attorney, are the executor of an estate, or are representing a minor who cannot sue themselves; however, they must have legal authorization to do so depending on the specific circumstances and jurisdiction".

All it takes is for her husband to endorse it

But that's what a lawyer does. Is Akpabio a minor or vegetable that his wife needs PoA to sue for him?

You are trying to quote what even kids know.

She's not suing on his behalf or she's his legal representative? She's suing as a wife who she claims has suffered loss of reputation or something along those lines.

SANs will be ready to eat her money though. After all looted AK and NASS money still plenty.

A person who claims to trust his/spouse in 9ja, even Africa, in sex matters, is a clown. Worldwide even. That Ebanga and his equally cheating wife have cemented that assertion. TRUST NOBODY.

Mrs. Akpabio should not fool herself.

Ushman333:
The wife can act on his behalf because the embarrassment of the allegations extend to the wife as well, she also has locus standai to sue on his behalf as a wife. Natasha gather your evidence or pay compensation.

Legally, Mrs. Akpabio cannot. Akpabio is alive. Natasha did not mention Mrs Akpabio in the allegation. That is why Victor Giwa cleverly highlighted openly that they don't want to drag Mrs. Akpabio into the matter. Sense we not kee him.

Defamation is under Law of Tort. A tortious act is a civil one and personal to the person claiming to have being defamed.

Mrs. Akpabio should be careful not to eventually risk being accused of vexatious litigation (if she brings up more law suits) meant to further harass or intimidate Natasha.

Akpabio should be able to easily defend himself. If it's a lie, Natasha won't have any concrete evidence to tender.

Thomthom:
Biko haram kind of things

Maybe Boko ordered state govt to do or face mayhem. This may spread to all Sharia states and FG may be be forced to do nationally.
It seems farfetched now but don't be surprised.

amaridigital:
Those oloshos called Aristos in late 90's to early 2000s are their mothers.

They were called opio before that.

Once I hear single girl yeyebrity and Abuja, I feel sick. Olosho too much.

calabaman:
How you take know

Abi you promise am Ferrari...

Yeye girl got served.

Me sef don promise am private jet.
No evidence, she go wait tire,

Yampotatocarrot:
Is this picture from the back of the house or mama's children have signed a contract not to buy cars and drive to the compound?

Also, that entrance stairs, na valley the house dey? Hope there are hidden neighbours that we can't see in the picture o

If mama has kids with cars, maybe they would have fixed the house too.

If they don't have cars yet, when they buy, they will create an entrance. The nature of the terrain from the front looks funny. Maybe they can use the road behind the house.

But truly, they did not adapt the environment to suit and old lady.

Still better than nothing.

Mama Ajayi has become Iya Gomina.

Eku rire o.

jojothaiv:
Real women shouldn't care about a man's finances too since greed and lust is what dictates most relationships.

Anyways, I've never been real from inception so this isn't for me.

Lol, Hope she will gladly introduce the "community project" girl to her brother and future son.

Women want another woman's son to accept the rotten and wayward girl they won't accept for their relatives.

Very foolish.

Eriokanmi:
That's not even the case. Maybe he had personal issues with lukmon.
No be their fault but the perceived foundational inequality being exhibited by them. I remember when George Weah won the best footballer of the year. As a boy, I told my friends that he may probably be the only black player to win that feat in decades to come and today, I'm right, decades after. Mbape, Sam Etoo, Tienri Henry, etc were more than qualified but were voted out systematically, placing them second.

Even Vinicius Jnr. just last year here. He looks too African.

NewDigitalWorld:
This oyinbo people are just ungrateful sometimes.

Even if you want to criticize your player, do it in private.

Talk to him one on one, don't just go to a press conference and start criticizing your star player publicly.

Anyone can miss a Penalty.

Messi have missed a penalty.

C. Ronaldo have missed a penalty.

Hazard have missed a Penalty.

Neymar have missed a penalty.

Mbappe have missed a penalty.

Kane have missed a penalty

Anyone can miss a Penalty.

This is a player that won a Europa League for you.

I hope this won't affect Lookman confidence.

Roberto Baggio missed his pen in USA 1994 FIFA WC final game against Brazil. He blasted it over the bar.

That Pepperoni abi wetin be hin name of a coach na mumu,
Who better to take the pen than who just scored about 20 minutes earlier, 1 minute after coming on at half-time?
Pepperoni lost home and away. The two he wanted to take pen did not score home and away.
Where were they when Lookman was scoring a hattrick to win the cup final last year?

Lookman should be packing his bag. Any good offer from a good German or French club, just go. Avoid EPL for now.

Once these Italians start blaming you, the fans can become very cruel.

eepeepook:
The last time we saw was seven years ago. She blocked all forms of contact after marrying someone else. Now, she’s been on my case for money for six months and counting. I’m thinking of borrowing money so I can knack her one last time. How do I go about this?

Dude, block her. Don't stoop so low. She left, so let her be history.

Xisnin:
The issue is with messaging.
Labour may deport more but avoid clear communication or taking a definite side for fear
of being labelled as anti-immigrant, fascists, xenophobes, pro-illegals etc by left-wingers and right wingers.
So, they are considered pro- open borders on sitting on the fence.

To be fair though, both Tory and Labour have been very lax with immigration.
One talks about it sometime and may do little, the other prefer to work mostly in the shadow sometimes.

But voters wants someone who talks tough and can clearly choose a side and declare that
"We have immigration emergency and I will solve it" instead of the one showing infographs on
how many more they deported even though they can't be quoted to condemn illegal migration.
It won't matter if the tough guy eventually make no impact, it is the choosing of a side that convinces the voters.

I say, Labor, just like the American Democrats dug themselves into a needless pit and the conservatives or far right
will milk it for years to come.

The era of silent governance seems to be coming to an end in the west. It is all about showmanship now.

True. But it also reminds us of the fading memory of history. Hitler in his early days had a lot of supporters across Europe.
Many supported him in the UK, people like Mosely did so with his British Union of Fascists, BUF. Today, people in UK pretend as if Nazis/fascists were only in Germany/Italy.

Enoch Powell ranted "Rivers of Blood" against immigrants from Black/Asian Commonwealth as late as 1968.

Even as EU member, Labour often criticised EU while actually knowing the benefits of EU, just to not give the advantages of anti-EU positions amongst the electorate. So their position on EU was ambiguous. Most vocal conservatives disingenuously maligned EU, while moving their businesses to Ireland (EU) to benefit from it. E.g. Rees-Mogg and co.

So, the right wing Conservatives and far right won the Brexit argument.

Xisnin:
Stammer is jittery.
Immigration is the number one issue for UK voters.
It won't matter how well Stammer performs.
If he can't reduce the numbers, he is a goner in the next election.

Labour often deports more than the conservatives when in power. Labour tries hard to impress, but no matter how much Labour deports, they are never appreciated by the voters. Blair introduced huge fines for those employing illegals and deported a lot.

There is already the bias that only Conservatives or recently, the untested right wingers can sort immigration.

zero8zero:
Yeye talk, if he wanted something bigger, wouldn't he start from somewhere?, Is it his money that would be used to build the hospital?. Nonsense talk.

Once you accept a small one, bigger ones will go to APC states in SS (as Obaseki was in PDP). The guy confused by everything in Edo now won't know the difference. Let them take fistula centre "peanuts" to Yobe or Sokoto. Any obs/gyna specialist who can't diagnose and treat fistula in 2025 has no business being a medic. You won't know this of course. Everything is about tribal politics and "Baba so pe" nonsense for your like.