Health › Re: Italian Coronavirus Index Patient In Lagos Attempts To Escape From Quarantine by Danmaiduguri(m): 8:21am On Feb 29, 2020 |
ERockson: The Nurse' statement in the last paragraph makes me indifferent towards this popular nose covering. .endtime nurse, she shuld be quarantined too, |
Health › Re: Italian Coronavirus Index Patient In Lagos Attempts To Escape From Quarantine by Danmaiduguri(m): 8:17am On Feb 29, 2020 |
ZombieHUNT: A serious government would have taken care of this killer Italian .shot him kawai  |
Health › Re: Italian Coronavirus Index Patient In Lagos Attempts To Escape From Quarantine by Danmaiduguri(m): 8:16am On Feb 29, 2020 |
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Nairaland General › Re: The Snake I Killed In My Compound (Pictured) by Danmaiduguri(m): 10:15pm On Feb 26, 2020 |
Louiscutedude: Which kinda snake is this? Vine snake, very rare specie its not poisonous nd its venom is not strong enough to kill a human, d bite just mild tingling sensation at worst cause nausea. |
Phones › Re: Who Still Has Memories Of These Nokia Phones? (Photo) by Danmaiduguri(m): 11:08am On Feb 19, 2020 |
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Politics › Re: South Leaders To Malami: Why Is Amotekun Illegal & Hisbah Legal? by Danmaiduguri(m): 8:44am On Feb 10, 2020 |
Subduer: You don't know the CAPABILITY of nyamiri.
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Politics › Re: Falana: Zulum’s Reward Of Obiageli Mazi Indictment On Divisive Politicians by Danmaiduguri(m): 11:24pm On Feb 09, 2020 |
goodnessme1: Feeding your cow while waiting for the day to slaughter it.
That is what they are doing to that Igbo woman. Hater!! You will never hold 50k of ur own in your entire life. |
Family › Re: I Want To Leave My Wife For My Girlfriend by Danmaiduguri(m): 9:37am On Feb 08, 2020 |
papaejima20199: This is my first time posting NL , although I've been reading a lot in the last few months . I'll try to be as detailed as possible. I don't even know if I'm asking a question, or advice, or what. I just have to get some things out of my brain.
I’m 36 and my wife is 32. we've been married for 12 years and have two children, twins age 1. I would say happily married. As in, we don't fight, , never any abuse of any kind, no major life disagreements. I love my wife. She is a great mother, a great provider for the family, and we make a great team when it comes to raising our kids. However, she leaves me feeling undesired. Sexually, just intimacy in general, not feeling wanted or desired, missing that flirtatious quality that we all enjoy in a relationship. Our sex life has been on a steady decline, honestly since we got married. Less and less and less every year, and yes, kids make that even more difficult (and provide very easy excuses)
About 2 years ago, I was close to cheating. There was a girl at work that I flirted with often. We started hanging out , and we always seemed to end up talking, touching innocently, flirting, but nothing ever happened between us. The feeling this girl gave me inspired me to tell my wife how I was feeling, what I was missing, etc. I told her how important sex was to me, asked her what I could change, or if she needed to change something. Her response was that she "just didn't really think about it like you do" and that she would try to work on it. Well she didn't work on it, at all.
The flirty girl didn't work with me any more, and I lost that "flame" with her and let it go, and went about life as usual. I've been working a lot of hours over the last six months. I fell into this flirty relationship with one of my coworkers 22 and we just would have a lot of fun with one another. Mad sexual tension. A few months back things happen and she blows me. Its great. Best sex of my life. We set up plans to meet up off work hours and we do.
My coworker is in perfect shape. Its like my perfect woman. I love the way she loves me. She appreciates me, she satisfies me, she matches my sexual drive, and even exceeds it. She is everything I was missing in life, and I'm as happy as I've been in a long time. She is also crazy about me which feels unbelievable. Its been a while since someone has just wanted me to be happy and wanted to please me. I now consider her my girlfriend.
I don't wish to hurt my wife. But I do wish to be happy.
I do not wish for my children to grow up in a home with divorce. I want them to grow up with myself and my wife still being the team we've been so far, doing equal parts to take care of them, and always be there for them.
I realize a lot of what I'm saying are things that can't go together. I want to be with my girlfriend, I don't want to hurt my wife, and I don't want my kids to suffer . I can't have it all. Now I feel stuck
I need help because I can't seem to go through with this alone, and I have no one close enough with the time and level of trust that I can confide in, so I would really appreciate it if you'd offer me some advice.
Thanks for reading My advice is that since ur faith is against polygamy, Revert to islam and make her your second wife take care of both of them and live a happy life. Note: You dont have to renounce Jesus christ just acccept him as mighty Prophet of God. And his Lord is in heaven. |
Romance › Re: 13-Year-Old Russian Girl Pregnant For Her 10-Year-Old Boyfriend (Photos) by Danmaiduguri(m): 8:50am On Feb 08, 2020 |
MegaPlayBoy: Because they were white kids, nobody here could insult them or say bad thing
But if they were from Nigeria...... If they were muslims! If sumone legally marries are 15yr old girl they chant, "phedophile" hypocrites everywhere |
Politics › Re: Insecurity: Buhari, Ahmed Lawan, Gbajabiamila In Closed-Door Meeting by Danmaiduguri(m): 7:00pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
EMMNIG: IMAGINE ; THE THREE (3) OF THEM ARE MUSLIMS. WHAT WOULD THEY DISCUSS , CHRISTIANS ARE REALLY AT THE MERCY OF MUSLIMS IN THIS COUNTRY. If it were the other way round, we wuld be under your feets, imagine a leader will demolish a whole mosque and still brags boldly "it a christian state" |
Politics › Re: Boko Haram Beheads Lawan Andimi, Rejects N50 Million Ransom Offer by Danmaiduguri(m): 9:55am On Jan 22, 2020 |
Mcuzy: And captors are being rehabilitated , if I were the govt I'll create a special , secret intelligence service which will infiltrate terrorists , get their weak points and send feedback information . Bokoharam will end in two months . But what do I know am just a nyamuri. Sit back nd watch nyamuri boy,  |
Politics › Re: Boko Haram Beheads Lawan Andimi, Rejects N50 Million Ransom Offer by Danmaiduguri(m): 9:49am On Jan 22, 2020 |
Snipper007: If this killing of Christians in the North continues we in the south will not sit and watch anymore but will join the music too... Shut up, join naw if you dont have sense, you will wish for biafra. |
Politics › Re: South Leaders To Malami: Why Is Amotekun Illegal & Hisbah Legal? by Danmaiduguri(m): 11:15am On Jan 17, 2020 |
funmike83: , its so obvious you are oloriburuku somebody, just checked all your post now. Here comes the satan himself  Allahu akbar, May Allah turn your hearts to be muslims, ameen |
Politics › Re: South Leaders To Malami: Why Is Amotekun Illegal & Hisbah Legal? by Danmaiduguri(m): 10:13am On Jan 15, 2020 |
funmike83: Only God know what the northerners are up to, only God knows the evil agender they have or are planning, only God knows what buhari is upto Only God can save us in this country We will soon islamise this country gradually..! Non-muslim get maximum protection and right under islamic leadership. Afterall islam teaches kindness to non muslims. |
Politics › Re: South Leaders To Malami: Why Is Amotekun Illegal & Hisbah Legal? by Danmaiduguri(m): 10:06am On Jan 15, 2020 |
chiefolododo: Anybody that says Amotekun is illegal should be burnt to death Abi you dont know the mean of the word "ILLEGAL"  You better call your boys to order b4 we tell President Buhari to summorn operation scorpion dance to entertain you.  |
Foreign Affairs › Re: The 230Mph Hellfire Missile That Killed Soleimani (Photos) by Danmaiduguri(m): 8:52pm On Jan 06, 2020 |
Racoon: Good! More of this hellfire on all fanatics. Useless boy, poverty go kill you for dis county. Dirty heartless pig. |
Christianity Etc › Re: MURIC: 'Christians Enjoy More Holidays Than Muslims In Nigeria' by Danmaiduguri(m): 7:01pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
thepussyking: Muslims! very stupid set of people. no body take's them serious.
spit Idiot! You dont have sense. Dirty man, muslims will forever rule you. |
Celebrities › Re: Imam Abdulrahman Ahmad Reacts As Etinosa Threatens To Mess The Quran Up by Danmaiduguri(m): 5:46pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
GraGra247: Just clearly tell us you will slaughter her by the demands of your religion.
You have said nothing new.
You guys should simply stop claiming you aren't terrorists and your religion preaches peace and love. Cos it doesn't!!! Mathew10:34-36" Do not think that I have come to bring peace to the earth. I have not come to bring PEACE, but a SWORD" |
Celebrities › Re: I Will Mess A Quran Up - Etinosa After Using Bible As Ashtray by Danmaiduguri(m): 10:30pm On Dec 02, 2019 |
sean079: Aaahhhhhhhhh, you already signed your death warrant. Quran and prophet mohammed are the two factors that make a muslims feel that he or she is attached to something. Tamper with these with kids glove and sorry is your next name.
Throughout history, muslim have been shown to be more benevolent when it come to mercy compare to christianity but donot joke with their quran n prophet, they will kill you for that. Unlike christianity that beleive Jesús can fight for himself. All in all both religion are man made aimed at controlling masses for financial and political benefit Even christains makin picture of Jesus (peace be upon him) is blasphemy. Bcoz we love and respect him. |
Education › Re: NNPC National Quiz 2019: Dangote Pictured With Winners At The Grand Finale by Danmaiduguri(m): 7:42am On Nov 22, 2019 |
rafhell: Hmmm and the Hausa -Fulani man that came last or did not have a secondary school certificate will end up ruling them. We ruul foreba.  |
Crime › Re: Malam Niga’s Rehabilitation Centre Kaduna: 147 Victims Rescued by Danmaiduguri(m): 10:19am On Oct 20, 2019 |
donprinyo: De only thing northerners can offer is religious sycophants. Backward people. Buhari and co. already know abt dis rubbish since their childhood. Tufiakwa See the backwords in Matthew 10:34. Before u come nd talk rubbish |
Crime › Re: Malam Niga’s Rehabilitation Centre Kaduna: 147 Victims Rescued by Danmaiduguri(m): 10:17am On Oct 20, 2019 |
gaskiyamagana: Why now? This must be from muslim koran mattew because na dem dey use sword. Why wont you say such, bcoz u no nothing about your book, your just followin church wit your eyes closed. Yet you open ur mouth to say nonsense |
Crime › Re: Malam Niga’s Rehabilitation Centre Kaduna: 147 Victims Rescued by Danmaiduguri(m): 10:15am On Oct 20, 2019 |
Midas01: Go back and read that verse again, olodo. Shut up, you dat dont know you own book and ur talkin rubbish. |
Crime › Re: Malam Niga’s Rehabilitation Centre Kaduna: 147 Victims Rescued by Danmaiduguri(m): 11:18pm On Oct 19, 2019 |
realestniggah: The religion of peace strike again
Islamabad. "Think not i come to bring peace to earth but a sword" mattew 10:34 |
Crime › Re: Malam Niga’s Rehabilitation Centre Kaduna: 147 Victims Rescued by Danmaiduguri(m): 11:16pm On Oct 19, 2019 |
Awol1: Islam is a religion of piis . "Think not that i come to bring peace to earth but a Sword" Mattew 10:34 |
Politics › Re: Boko Haram Terrorists Fleeing From Soldiers During A Fierce Battle Yesterday by Danmaiduguri(m): 7:37pm On Oct 18, 2019 |
DWJOBScom: This is good news ! Am tired of the killings And you believed it? |
Crime › Re: Birom Militia Kills Fulani Herdsman In Jos (Graphic Photos) by Danmaiduguri(m): 9:08am On Oct 07, 2019 |
achikolo: yalakataza inihali walaka salaku bilika alajanah fura d nunu masha Allah Amin  So kind of you, wishing you same prayer dear wen you go to rest.  |
Celebrities › Re: Is The Fruit Seller Spitting Or Praying? Ali Baba Shares Video by Danmaiduguri(m): 9:49am On Oct 05, 2019 |
Asifiwe: We have said Create a different country for these Hausa people the YORUBA PEOPLE are under a Hex or a Vex of a psychic incantation from the north How can any sensible person live with this barbaric indecency by the uneducated and unwilling to change Tribe Kaii madam wetin be your problem? NOTE* Pls elongate and summarize, your answer should not be more than 20words nd less than 200words.  |
Celebrities › Re: Is The Fruit Seller Spitting Or Praying? Ali Baba Shares Video by Danmaiduguri(m): 9:39am On Oct 05, 2019 |
Stanweezy: The day I gave up on this mallam happens to be the day I was coming from Gudu close to NEPA junction for those that know Apo road well and it's traffic. This mallam was carrying fruit to hawk in the traffic, right in front of us this guy sneezed and use his palm to clean the mucus in his nose and still use this same hand to lift fruit to sell. We have unhygienic mallams as well as pastors.  |
Celebrities › Re: Is The Fruit Seller Spitting Or Praying? Ali Baba Shares Video by Danmaiduguri(m): 9:34am On Oct 05, 2019 |
GrabHisBalls: So, the mallam was so foolish enough to spit on the goods he sells in broad day light? Some things are just not logical.
Perhaps, his spitting on the fruit wasn't deliberate. . Its prayer, am sure there are lots of things in your faith dat doest seem logical to norml sense, but u believe it nd it works. Just think abut them... |
Celebrities › Re: Is The Fruit Seller Spitting Or Praying? Ali Baba Shares Video by Danmaiduguri(m): 9:31am On Oct 05, 2019 |
pyrex23: These mallams and their small knives shaa.. "I did not come to bring peace to earth but a sword" pls wuld u mind googlin this statement.  |
Celebrities › Re: Is The Fruit Seller Spitting Or Praying? Ali Baba Shares Video by Danmaiduguri(m): 9:25am On Oct 05, 2019 |
Dreambeat: He was praying and spitting too.I guess that’s how he does his own prayer No offense. Its spritual to normal sense its doesnt make sense, but it might actually work bcoz he believes in it. To heal a man born blind, Jesus “spit on the ground, made some mud with the saliva, and put it on the man’s eyes” (John 9:6). |