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emmatok: Neither you or your family can fight your in-laws in that house and win.

No women tries such at this age.

LEAVE THAT HOUSE NOW TO YOUR PARENTS PLACE, IF YOUR HUSBAND WANT YOU BACK HE WILL COME AND NEGOTIATE.

I agree with this!

Madam poster thEre are many reasons to leave your husband, but this isn't one of them. Unless theree is something else you are not telling. I am not an advocate of blindly sticking to a man, but my advice is, stick with him thru thick and thin. I would advice a man with this problem the same thing. Did you marry him for him, or him for children?

Haba this womans family must be very hungry. I saw the list for my Igba nkwu and it was a lot of drinks and kolanut. The only other thing was some wrappers and make up for the umu ada, nothing serious. As for cash my husband paid N1,500 and he was given change of N500. I'm from Anambra but I hear Imo girls na die!

My first year of marriage was HELL. We fought over EVERYTHING. We dated for about 3 yrs b4 we got married so I thot I knew him. We gought physically 2ce that year and I was pregnant. My pregnancy was emotionally tasking and I tried to explain this to him but because he is so headstrong and thinks he knows everything he didn't listen to me or understand my pain. We were a pair and we used to go EVERYWHERE together till his stewpid friends started to say things like, "how you go carry ur wife go club" and all sorts of rubbish. Then I started to see messages, and I even picked d phone from one Jane girl. Imagine trying to talk to someone who just doesn't listen! I get crase b4 and I called d girl and gave her serious warning. Then I saw condom in his trousers! That one I no kuku bother to confront him, just shook my head and nodded at his stewpid explanations.
One day after another serious physical fight, I packed out of the house. I didn't thinl he would even look for me.. I left town, turned off my phones and did not read emails. The man went around calling all my friends and family looking for me. After 2 weeks of pleading I went home and that was last time we had a physical fight. For his infidelity, I am yet to come to terms with what he did. I can see him trying to change, coming home straight from work, not seeing those friends anymore and putting in more effort to make it work and drawing closer to God. I'm being positive about it all and lookiNg to Him.

I don't know about others o, but my MIL is the most wonderful person in the world to me. She treats me like her daughter and she doesn't let anyone mess with me even her son! There was a time we were having issues and she told her son how disappointed in him she was and sent him to apologise to me. Lol! She will call me and tell me not to cook that she has cooked soup for me and the is sending it down to me. She always buys things, calls to see how I'm doing and is always looking out for me. She even told her brother off when he was saying stuff like, "pregnant women shdnt be wearing jeans"! She told him to mind his own business! Lol!
On my part, I treat her like my mom. If I see something I think she would like, I get it for her. I call her,take her grandkids to see her and I love her dearly. I'm so so lucky!

Tell him you are ready to try for a baby and go and put in ur birth control.

[quote author=joelala][/quote]You guys truly do not understand how forgiving God is. He looks @ ur heart when you ask for forgiveness and if he sees a repentant and truly sorry heart he forgives. You see our ways are different from his ways. You may not understand it, but he is who he is the all mighty and all forgiving God. Please free Coldfeet, God has forgiven her so who are you to hold on to her sins like na you be judge? No sin is greater than d other. You wey dey fornicate your sin is not less than her own in God's eyes.

Just saying

lagcity: Men and women are equal? Since when? Anyway, me I never get the memo oo becos that useless female secretary of mine doesn't know how to operate the damn fax machine. Kai women!

Its not women, its ur daft secretary. Just like my daft male assistant doesn't know how to drive or put on a seatbelt! Kai men!

So off all the problems in this country it is faulty Hyundai they saw to summon ppl up for? Na wah for Naija legislators.

Tayour na wah 4 you o! So u intend to raise your daughters believing they are not equal to their brothers? My dear women are EQUAL to every man she meets where ever they are. We are to submit to our husband not to every man you see on the road. I was raised mostly by my father(I lost my Mum when i was really young) and he raised us all equal. Everybody cooked, everybody changed light bulbs, everybody washed dishes, everybody fixed pumping machine. My father told me, he would educate me to any level i want to empower me so no man will treat me anyhow. I will raise my children the same. I am to submit to my husband and he is to love me as he loves himself. I will not subit to the man on the street, not only am I equal to them, i am even better! Yes o, feminine power.
You tell me I'm not equal to a man so he shd earn more? Or you think its cool that as a woman I cannot post bail? Get some self esteem woman and pick urself out of that gutter.

born2fuck: The devil she knows is far better than a stranger angel out there.

Ok then let her stick with the devil she knows till he kills and dismembers her for going out without his permission!

Buy her a rose, on your way home from work.
Open the door for her, what would it hurt
Show her you love, by the look in your eyes
Send her text messages from work
give spontaneous hugs and kisses just because.
Women love attention and it'll make her love you more.
By the way, sitting at home and watching kids its the hardest job of all. I did it for a year and nearly ran mad. I was so glad to get to work and away from the kids, I was close to committing murder/suicide

Come back when you are 35 then we will know you are truly desperate!

[quote author=chukwudi

One other thing you must know is that there is nothing like jewish christian just like you cannot have a christian jew.jews are those who believe salvation lies in obeying the mosaic laws.They don't acknowlege the diivinity of Jesus and are still awaiting the messiah.Mary like the apostles were born into the jewish tradition and clinged on to it till the birth of the church on pentecost day,after which they all dumped the garb of judaism.[/quote/]You are wrong about that. Jews are Isrealites. Jesus himself was a Jew. Being a Jew is just like being Igbo or Hausa. There are Christians who are Jews.

born2fuck: You will let all the unmarried nairaland ladies ruin your relationship for you, your boyfriend maybe jealous cause he love you and he is protecting you for his future interest,if he doesn't care about you, he will not watch over you

Let me get this straight Mr born2fuck, the guy is cheating on her left and right, trying to control OWOWher life and to you that is LOVE? WOW! That's d biggest load of bullsh*t I have ever heard. Like seriously? Madam poster, you better cut your losses sharp sharp and leave the. geezer. If he is doing all this now, what will happen if you marry him. You no go dey comot for house noni! Just go ur way now b4 u enter d one wry go hard pass.
FYI Mr born2fcuck, I am married.

Pls move to dating and hook ups.

I left MTN, 7 years ago and no Jupiter will make me go back. Their calls are too expensive, customer service is bad and they feel they r just too big. Me, I want my network to give me freebies, dem fail since. Na glo for me.

goodjack: Women! Women !! Women !!! How many times did I call u people. why did I even get married chai? Last time my wife took of her clothes and left the house with the so call anger. She came back in the night begging and I opened door for her. She is claiming that she went o her friends place. Who knows if she went to my friends place and my friend touched her. Chai I dont die. Well as I am writing now, she is back in my house and had earlier deleted my phone number from her phone. I believe she has deleted her marriage to me. The part two of the whole film now is that I will be the one that will make the running in the next movie.
Bad women, una dey craze. Vagabons.

Goodjack you are so crazy! Lol! ROTFLMAO