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She reminds me of Analeise Keating

Adefaze:
quoted wike speech on LIVE television

This guy is an idiot. The police should lock him up for inciting violence

This Jew discussion again? Oh my ! I dont particularly care if I'm a Jew or not but there similarities. I have to admit that the hatred of other tribes is a good pointer. Also the migrant nature and business sense of the Igbo is not unlike that of the Jews. Being Jewish is not on my agenda bo, I dey find money

ayoayo911:
My husband is a very faithful man, no extra babes or stuff but only makes love to me like once a month,yes we sleep on same bed under same roof. He disvirgined me after we were married 6 yrs ago. i feel sex starved, and cant even think of cheating on him. how do i tell if its low libido and what can i do to improve our sex life. i need help pls. thanks

If you want sex, initiate

richidinho:
But u luv him

I can only love a forward thinking man

germainediva:
You cheat on her many times,she cheats on you once.......then you go about calling her a LovePeddler......Abeg who be the original LovePeddler?you are looking 4 a faithful partner meanwhile ur not near the word "faith" tokless of "ful"...........cheating is not acceptable on any ground but why do men(African or Nigerian especially)kip tongue lashing women when they(men) are the main cheaters..........let's kip deceiving our selves"what goes around comes around".you are out dere fvcking someones wife or girlfriend....thinking ur own is safe....think again.

My dear dont bother arguing. They would give you all the reasons why they can cheat it is up to you to decide if you can live with a cheating man. If you choose to cheat then go ahead after all there is no meter in your koochie.

emusmith:
Can you whisper in my ears? At least, you don't currently have a bf, no one will fight me...

I currently have a husband and he will kill you

kolidave:
Dont know if this is the right place to post this but the mods can help me post it to the right place.
So here goes the problem.......
A friend's cousins are in this current position. She told me that both are cousins are dating 2 brothers from the another family. The eldest cousin knew one of the brothers first and started dating him. The younger cousin unknowing to her met the other brother fell in love with him. now both of them are ready to take the relationship to the next step which is marriage. They later discovered that they've been dating each other's siblings for quite a while now and considers it a taboo. The elder brother came to a decision that hes going to leave his own girlfriend so that his younger brother can get married which to me i think its unfair.
My friend wants to know if its ideal for her two cousins to go ahead and proceed to the marriage or just stop the relationship.
Over to you nairalanders,i need to give my friend an advice.

My father's cousin married my mother's sister. All is fine and good. A friend of mine had her father's sister, marry her mother's brother. They are genetically siblings and all look alike. Your friend is safe

richidinho:
Babes in the house

That man is on his own!

emusmith:
What happened?

We were 19, shit happened

softysparky:
Did he call you sugar mummy?


Mine will jokingly call me his sugar mummy and that I was supposed to be paying him after s*x after all I toasted him.

Anyway it's one of the best relationship I ever had, it's sometimes good to go for what you want.

I didn't try to toast him o, he just had really lovely eyes. It was a good relationship, pity it had to end.

Look on the bright side, there won't be pressure on you to hve kids at the beginning of your marriage and you hold the cards in this relationship. Please be kind to the child , he did nothing wrong.

emusmith:
Hmm, are you guys still together?

We dated for 8 months

Ilekeh:
Can Igbos try this in the North?

Fearless because your host is peaceful.

No be the same Igbos that left the North in droves after 2011 election?

This is not 1966. I bought the land so it is mine. Only Yoruba ppl will sell land to you yet claim omo nile

emusmith:
Be sincere...

Sometimes, you come across this guy and you wish you could get him to your circle of friends- you just want him around you.

I dunno if I'm hitting the nail...Do you sometimes feel that way even if you swing your face the other way when you catch sight of him heading your direction?

Again Be sincere...

Thank You.

I don't know what is termed as acceptable but I spoke to guys that I liked when I saw single. I don't have to wait for him to talk to me. In fact my first bf in UNILAG used to say I toasted him because I told him he had beautiful eyes the first time we met.

ItsAnderson:

A close female friend of mine confided in me that her fiance wants to pay for her bride price and do other traditional rights. But he wants her to first have babies now because of her age. She is in her late 30s but she says she does not want to have her babes out of wedlock, Dat none of her sisters did dat and its against her doctrine but the man insists he doesn't have money for wedding now so they should first start making kids before marriage so it doesn't get difficult when she gets older.

She is confused as to what to do?
Please any suggestions?

Why don't they go to court and make it legal. Even go to church and do a small ceremony. The priest and5 friend? Your friend needs it to be legal to protect herself

My own question is , WHY WILL YOU AS A WOMAN HER AGE? Seriously? FYI I'm 25 too

nickxtra:
Experience mothers in the house, please I need your candid advice on this serious issue of my wife, though nursing a baby of 10 months plus now, has not seen her period since she put to bed over 10 months. About 3 month after her delivery, we had intimacy and some weeks later, she said she felt as if she was pregant. This early pregnancy got us worried which I even shared on this thread some time past, but based on advices from good people, including from Nairalanders and a Nurse she visited, we were advised to keep the pregnancy. On an occassion, I had to ask her how was she feeling with the baby, thinking that she should be preparing to register for pre-natal, but her response was that she does feel as if there is a baby in her. I immediately asked her to go for a pregnancy test , which she did and came with a negative result. I was shocked bcause I was expecting a positive result. Now she said that on enquiry to know could be the problem and she has not seen her period months after putting to bed, she was told or counseled by the Doctor that delayed menstrual period is normal in some women, particularly nursing mothers who are breasfeeding. This situation worries me and I need to know from experienced mothers in the house what could be the likely cause of the delayed menses and if it possible for her to take in without her period. What could be the solution to this? I need answers seriously, to enable me get adequate solution for it. Thanks

It is perfectly normal not to see your period when breatfeeding. The babys sucking is contracting the uterus and gives no room for blood flow. This does not mean she is not ovulating and she can get pregnant. If you are not ready for another child please use birth control all the time. Go your the nearest family planning clinc to get more information.

When she stops breast feeding the blood will start flowing.

Someone who makes plans for the future, doesnt give up easily and always has a back up plan.

I'm surprised at the amount of hate being poured out on this poor girl. Every one is insulting her from gold digger to disgrace to her family to chop and clean mouth. Has anyone even considered what would make a bride run away from her wedding especially in Nigeria where it is almost a sin to be unmarried?

Who knows what the reason could be.

Did she find out something terrible about the groom? Did she find out they were related?

Does he beat her but she closed her eyes to it just because she wanted to marry? Finally she decided to make a run for it instead of spending the rest of her life complaining on NL?

Did the groom abandon her and she ran from home and is suicidal?

Is it cold feet? Fear of the unknown?

Can we spare a little compassion for a stranger instead of taking pictures and insulting her?

Those who say she should go home and change clearly have never seen wedding preparations. Go home and face ppl at home when you are to be in church is not possible.

Dear sister, if you read this, some of us are praying for you. Peace in your life and God's direction will show you the right path and ignore these insults.

God Bless you!

Sawreeee!!

Ishilove:
So after all the mouth they've been making they know how to congratulate? They were acting as if the presidency is their birthright, yet barely 2hours later, they're singing a new tune and sending hypocritical congratulatory messages.

How fickle. This is a lesson to all. They'll love you when you're in power and abandon you when they're done with you.

You should be happy they are declaring peace. Celebrate and don't taunt them, that just makes you a sore loser.

Thank God o!

henribj:
yeah right, you all keep acting as if you don't know about Incest. blame it all on the mindsets of the perverts.

If you marry a wife that you even remotely suspect is nyashing her brother, then the problem lies with you my friend.

Ishilove:
It's no big deal to me. He's my brother, for God's sakes. What am I hiding from him that he hasn't seen since we were kids?

Help me o! MY brother that we slept on the same bed, bathed each other with piss on the said bed. We baffed together, lived together, held hands, laffed and grew up together for 25yrs. What is the big deal. Men of these days are just so jobless I swear

olola4:
It happened last Thursday when my brother-in-law came back from school because of the election. I was outside the house doing some stuff when I heard my wife and her brother arguing over a political matter.

After i finished with what I was doing I went inside the house to join in the discussion, and to my greatest surprise I saw my wife half naked.

Immediately I left the room and she followed me not knowing why I left the room like that. I explained to her that I didn't like it. To my greatest disappointment when my wife will reply me, she just said "it's nothing".

Please to my fellow nairalanders. I want to ask is it right? Because since that time I have been confused.

Why are you making a big deal over nothing? Her brother? Na wah o!

Who be this one again

The OP must be drinking. PDP won NOTHING in Lagos. Not even House of Assembly. Nada

cr7lomo:
Comprehension is the major problem most people have when the read write ups.... When and how did I say the bible justifies brutality from men.... I simply tried to explain how the bible simply explained how to prevent issues in marriages . They have men that are naturally brutal , that hit women out of no just cos but because the society frown at these situations , women take advantage of it and say no man should hit a woman even after down grading the husband with verbal abuse mayb in public or in front of friends... If a woman cant control her mouth, she should not expect the man to control his hands . Men are not kids that u can shout on after he provides for u and the children . Control ur mouths and he controls his hands


U cant say because of u are a woman , u Hv the ryt to insult ur man like a kid whenever ... If u can preach walk away , then u should also preach sitting down to talk to the man instead of raining insults or abuses .... Some even go to d extent of telling the man " u are not man Enof and that's y I 4ked ur friend Hu is man Enof " at the same time she's holding his shirt preventing him from walking away . When he now hits u, u come out with pix for people to pity u knowing the society frowns at it . Women can be evil ooo

Guy people are evil simple and short. You are giving me extreme cases. Men beat women to prove superiority. Men with large egos and low self esteem. Most men beat wives because they can't fight back. If another man that can beat them comes around they will mellow.

buygala:
why would the young man insist on seeing the result sheets? .... Was he planning to run away with it, tear it, or butcher everyone in sight if he couldn't find it?

Is he a party representative, Inec Staff, or Attahiru Jega himself?

The Dude was acting like someone who had a death-wish, so the impatient Police-man promptly obliged him...One doesn't stupidlly insist on his rights even in the face of such palpable tension...The Policeman may have had good reason to feel that the irate and stubborn youth was posing a threat to the democratic process in that area, so he did his job.... end of story


This is the first situation this year, where I feel that the police-man who gunned the dude down deserves a medal ....

The dude should have quietly cast his vote and gone home to pray that his favorite candidate emerges the best rigger, instead of forming Rambo and testing the patience of trigger-happy policemen who can't differentiate between concerned honest citezens and Political thugs

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I have gotten a lot of negative mentions and abuses because of the above comment....

The situation in the country presently is very tense... This isn't the time for insisting blindly on your perceived 'rights'.... Even though the dude dude might have bee

You are an idiot. Waste of sperm and egg

cr7lomo:
Where in the bible or Quran did u c women and men are equal? God Made the man the head because two captains can't navigate as ship and that's y men marry women that they are older than so to command respect


In the bible , it's written " wives , be submissive to your husbands and husband love your wife just like God loves the church " if u understand the bible u will comprehend that the woman should act first by being submissive b4 d husband reacts by being loving . But the devil is using the women just like eve to confuse the world with this equal rite sh.itt . The sooneru understand that it cant work , d better

You see now you are bringing in bible and koran to justify a mans brutality. I never said a wife should not submit or a man should not love I said man and woman are EQUAL. We MUST have equal rights. Man cannot be more equal than woman. If you respect your wife or believe you are equal there is no way you will hit her. Its when you believe you are superior that you raise you hand to hit her. Submissiveness has nothing to do with wife battery. So many submissive women are beaten and battered EVERYDAY.

adconline:
Naija home of barbarians. You lose a football match, you call for a fight. Lose an election, you kill people. Beat your housemaid for breaking plates or glasses. Beat your kids for giving incorrect answers. We grow up beating the hell out of people and the cycle of beating continues

Thats the truth my brother. That's the truth!