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Ol boythat person you call your friend is a bad friend. What was his motive for coming to tell u? After messing around he came to tell you so you can kick her out. So he can take her in and continue from where he stopped? He might even be lying! Talk to your wife and let her know.

I never have and I never will. My husband says I'm Miss perfect but I just dont like to apologise so i try not to do things that I have to apologise for. The day I feel I need to screw someone else, I'll quit the relationship.

THe last time my Daddy gave me money for personal use was when I went to NYSC camp. Since then its On Your Own.

Coldfeet: [color=#770077][/color]I discussed the issue with my husband and he asked me what I intended doing? I said confront my dad ofcourse! And he said so you believed her? To even want to confront your dad based only on her words? Do you know your father at all? And i was like why would she lie? If my husband is a violent man he would have hit me! The hurt on his face would make one think the man in question is his father! I was shocked when he said my "adorable" cousin also came to him a few weeks back accusing ME! Of entertaining men in my shop and the sort of things i and my girlfriends talk about whenever they visit! He said he didn't bring it up then because of the stress i was on due to my mums life threatening operation. I took my cousin to my aunts house when asked to repeat all she told me and my husband she became mute! Until her mum was called to speak to her and before i could finish narrating what was going on her mum cut me short and said she is lying!! such was the reason why she sent her to lagos, that she did the same thing to their neighbours son! Whose father dealt with mercilessly when the matter was reported to him, she gave herself away when she was heard boasting about it! She was sent to lagos cos the boys in their street vowed to beat her up! It was when i threatened to send her back to ABA that she opened up and said aunty am sorry i lied! I asked which one? She said about daddy! Why? Nothing! I was so LIVID i pounced on her!. There won't be any need to confront my dad after all and i hope he never gets to hear about it either! as for my cousin? ABA awaits her she must go back and make amends with that poor boy and write her exams there. She'll never step foot in my house ever again!. I shudder to think of the damage this girl could have done my family! I thank everyone!

Men that girl is a MONSTER! Please send her away sharply! See this is y I do NOT want any relatives in my house. I am so paranoid I don't even have househelp! Abeg o this one na devil sent. Haba!

My greatest crush was on Paddy Adenuga, Mike's son. I watched an interview and I was like damn that guy is hot. And then I started seeing him everywhere, newspapers, magazines,I had friends who knew him talk about him.I even harrassed a friend who was an engr @ glo sef to tell me about him. All my friends were like, "babe, if you see this guy what will you do?" I'm like I dunno we'll see. One night I went to Soul Lounge with my friend, I was at d bar and lo and behold who was standing behind me with his pals? Paddy himself! I no fit talk, na corner eye I take dey look am. Can you believe I was in d club for hours but I cldnt even say hi? Kai! After that night wey my liver fail, I just slowly lost interest jor, bbut the boi is still fine o!

tivta: Like i said. I personally find it difficult keeping friends with my ex due to the fact that there is always the chance of hooking up again. Well as i also mentioned, most or some women have no problem with keeping friends with ex's and they usually end up being intimate with them either knowning or unknowingly. So ladies is best to eat with a long spoon when dealing with an ex. Yes your ex may be in the position to help but usually they will require you to pay in kind. I just wish most girls will learn that something goes for something when dealing with an ex.

That is not always true. My ex helped me and never asked anything in return.

Forget the dude!

ducksoup: This coldfeet is a mysterious person. Your comments and posts lately are mysteriously conceived. I wonder what you are really behind that virtual you. Are you not the same coldfeet that claimed of using diabolical means to attract a sugar daddy to your own advantage. Here https://www.nairaland.com/903900/what-worst-relationship-advice-youve
Your dad is a respectable man in the society yet you are a spoilt brat with 'larger than life' attitude. Get a life fast.

Haba this is not very nice of you o. Coldfeet is sorry for what she has done, sought repentance and has moved on. He is married and happy with her own family yet u judge her so harshly! Have you not done things u are ashamed of? You need to let it go already.

@ Coldfeet, pls sit down with ur Dad and. Tell him that such behavior is intolerable. That it diminishes him in ur eyes. Don't send d girl away because she will feel like she did something wrong.

emiye: I dont suggest it, never be deliberate friends with your ex.

I noticed most ladies sees nothing wrong in it, the irony is that ladies are the weakest emotionally and are the most liable to being manipulated.

To the ladies who claim they can still stay as close friend to their exes, i will advice you stay clear, it has been proven to be the cheapest way for a Lady, married or single to cheat, though sometimes unintentionally.

I get what you are saying, and I sort of feel you. I don't think you shd be close friends, like hanging out and all that because true true, anything can happen. Sometimes when I want a man's view on an issue I call my ex to see what's normal and what is suspicious. But, I haven't seen ANY of my exes in a while and I don't plan to. They r more like far away friends and truly they can help you.

I don't think it pained them like it pained me o! Haba 12 hours of excruciating pain and you say I shd not shout? Oti o!

I'm friends with my ex's, we catch up, they r on my bb,fb and i have their numbers. Its no biggies, we were friends while dating, y shdnt we be friends anymore?

People why can't we just get along ? Must you guys turn everything to a war and insults? I mean seriously?
And for those who don't believe there's jazz, hmmn hmmn, little do you know.

another one, "Ignore him and concentrate on your children". I'm like, so when the children grow and leave the house you have 2 strangers living together.

No thanks.

[b][/b] For me it's "stay with him, what makes you think the next one will be any better". Like seriously !

I was 16 yrs and 4 months. I had just finished high school but hadn't started college, it was crappy and I wished I hadn't bothered. After that I didn't do till I was 19, that, was the real fun!

ronkebp: So the man cannot go to the kitchen and serve his food abi? if cooking was the issue here, i will say No it is not good for her not to cook, as long as there is food in the house, how many seconds will it take a man to go to the kitchen and dish himself a plate of rice and ten chiken thigh in the pot? People should start learning how to do things on their own. Kai!!!

God bless you my sister. So to go to the kitchen and diah food is now the issue? Men are just jobless gossips these days.

I have seen a marriage where this happens and although I do not support it I can understand where she is coming from.The man has slept with everything and evryone. He fights his wife, so tey one of his gf's tried to move into the marital home. So tell me how much respect she can have for her husband when he doesn't respect her? this colleague and his cousin won't tell you all the husband has bn up to to make his wife so mad. Like I said I don't think it isd right at all, but therE are always 2 sides to d story,

GboyegaD: Absolutely abnormal. To me, the guy has since lost his respect and it would be better he has a heart to heart talk with the wife to know why she is acting in the way she is and that way, they can get to resolve the matter well enough.

I agree totally!

Make I no lie b4 I got married I entered a couple of free rides . Looking back now, I realise it was just plain stewpid because you can't pick out a rapist or a killer from his face. And I kept wondering if girls were so jobless cos I'd be like, I'm going to Surulere and the bloke keeps saying 'oh let's stop at Ikeja for drinks. ' And I'm like ' you think I got dressed, left my house to hang out with someone I no know. Geez I was stewpid'

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alfablondy: op and any other person in the house. I will like to know the benefits Nigeria will get when Ngozi becomes the world bank president and what impact it will have on the life of an average Nigerian.

Why can't we just be happy for her

Adaeze003:

what's the point of this thread? like men dont sleep around with both young and old.

I tire o!

*rolls eyes @ yet another attention seeker and exits thread"

Na wah o, even virgins get comma these days .... She no dey fear say pesin go rape am?

age aint nothing but a number. There are 50yr old irresponsible men and 25 year olds who act so responsibly. If you are sure he treats u like a queen then go for it.