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Family / Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by Daresh(f): 1:30am On Feb 13, 2015
Thank you for sharing your story. I try to protect my kids and teach them that no one is to touch their private part, but in the end it is God that will save us.

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Phones / Re: Android 5.0 Lollipop -- Who Has Used It? by Daresh(f): 4:03pm On Feb 11, 2015
emmatok:

If your M8 is branded for a carrier (AT&T, T-Mobile), you might not get the Update through OTA

The best option is to download the RUU From HTC site.

Its not branded o! I looked at the box well well yesterday, no branding.
Phones / Re: Android 5.0 Lollipop -- Who Has Used It? by Daresh(f): 9:56am On Feb 11, 2015
akpanikpe:
Yea bro, fantastic I can confess, runing smoothly on my HTC one M8 Jst did the upgrading some few hrs ago.

Am I the only M8 user who didn't get the update yet?
Phones / Re: Android 5.0 Lollipop -- Who Has Used It? by Daresh(f): 9:51am On Feb 11, 2015
I didn't get the update yet on my m8 yet but on my Nexus5 it was fantastic.
Car Talk / Re: Photo: Which Would Be Your Pick For Use On Nigerian Roads? by Daresh(f): 3:55pm On Feb 10, 2015
seedord247:
The first one is common in Nigeria.. Even pepper seller have Range now..

But wait ooo does Naija have Insurance that covers these cars cuz here in America, Insuring range will probably start from 500$ and that's some people monthly salary lol

Little do you know. What is $500 to someone who can afford the range? They will comfortably pay 3 times that every month or week sef
Politics / Re: Armed Forces Deployed In Lagos (pictures) by Daresh(f): 7:50pm On Feb 07, 2015
I was in Enugu this morning and I saw a long convoy of army vehicles conveying soldiers. I wonder what all this is about?
Romance / Re: She Broke Up With Me Because I Am Ibo by Daresh(f): 9:42am On Feb 04, 2015
glimpse33:
there is this girl named Anita that I was dating for two months, in may 2014. immediately she found out I was ibo, she said she hates my tribe with passion, that all we care about is money..money & said it was over. I begged her, that I 'm not like that, besides I was born in Edo state to Ibo parents. eventually she left

l began working hard, got employed at Hi tech construction company, worked there for six months and I finally hammered... got a new apartment, new car & I became the talk of the town.. *not proud*

One Saturday morning, I went to buy airtime, I saw Anita's parent crying and begging their landlord, I went closer , saw some boys throwing out their properties, I asked the landlord why, he said they can't pay their two years rent which was 160k, I rushed home signed a check gave it to the landlord, they returned back their loads and everybody was looking at me. since that day, Anita parents have been calling me their son, and Anita won't let me be. its either she's the one calling, knocking at the door begging me. I was like okay fine, I forgive you. But, she wants us to be together AGAIN...

All I want from you nairalanders is your Advice.. cos I am planning on getting married this year. I need the right woman. THANKS

What kind of question is this? Use your head my friend

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Romance / Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by Daresh(f): 9:19am On Feb 03, 2015
faceless04:
I read a story here where an angry guy shot a couple at their wedding reception because the bride left him for another man and this kept me wondering if my boyfriend can actually do same...........here is my story.

I've been in a relationship with this guy for 10years nw (yes, 10years). It all started in 2005 when we met, fell in love. He was and is still my first and only love. I was enjoying the relationship until 2years ago(though we've had our share of misunderstanding, I wldnt want to go into that) when I started thinking of settling down. I indirectly asked him if he had any plan of marrying me and I was shocked by the response I got. He said he doesn't believe in marriage, that everything is about understanding. I can move in,start producing babies for him but he can never carryout any marriage rites.

I thought he wasn't serious until last year when I asked him thesame question, he gave me thesame answer. But this time, I told him that I don't Share thesame view with him and that we need to go our separate ways. Since then he has been warning me that he will kill any man I get married to, that he cannt stand seeing me with another man........


Infact, I can't write down how the past year has been. I still love him and there is no doubt that he loves me too. But the big problem is that we are so so different, our views and vision are wide apart. I knw I can just forget about him and move on with my life but he wldnt let me be. He is always there at my door step, my office, giving 20 missed calls. Sometimes, I just wish I can relocate and start a new life, but I can't leave my job,not with this high rate of unemployment.

I forgot to mention that he is not the faithful type, though he doent flaunt it to my face but I just get to know about it one way or the other.
I really need advice on what to do,because even though I still have a soft spot for him, I don't want to continue with the relationship.

Babe you don enter one chance. You need to find a way to leave him and go o. If you have to change state or country then so be it. That guy is one insane muthafuka!

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Romance / Re: Top 8 Reasons Women Cheat – This May Surprise You by Daresh(f): 10:43pm On Feb 02, 2015
For me, it was revenge. I was tired of being cheated on
Travel / Re: U.S. Embassy Abuja New Procedure For Drop Box Renewals by Daresh(f): 11:14pm On Jan 30, 2015
VisaOfficer:


I'd just like to point out that this means that you assumed your father's identity and basically lied to the U.S. Government. Please don't do this again.

Thank you for your advice, I won't do that again. But I would point out that my dad was very ill, had a stroke and wasn't even sure of where he put his passport. He did however permit me to reapply on his behalf and i indicated that the form had been filled by someone else.
Family / Re: Divorce In Nigeria by Daresh(f): 8:55pm On Jan 30, 2015
Trayoralas:
I have similar case of a woman who is seriously threatening my life. Though she has no child yet but seriously fighting for property. Please help me with a lawyer who can start and Mr bngene, please cos she has collaborated with the police in my area and they are all threatening me.

Your wife + police are threathening you? Na wah o wonders shall never end. Move out first, as long as she doesnt know where you are, you are safe.

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Politics / Re: Why I Will Vote for GEJ by Daresh(f): 9:48am On Jan 27, 2015
Mynd44:
I will vote out GEJ for

1. Economic policies
2. Continuous ignoring of Lagos-Abeokuta expressway, Old ife roag, Ilesha road etc. Slow pace of Apapa expressway, Ibadan road etc
3. Despite the huge amount spent on power supply, we are still stuck with -4000MW
4. The Chibok girls
5. His administration's handling of Security
6. A huge corrupt government
7. His policy on corruption
8. Cosmetic agricultural policy. Price has not fallen yet
9. Refineries not working
10. No economic policies Selfish policies
11. Depletion of our foreign reserves despite the fact that his administration was there when oil was at its highest
12. His own aides turning tribes and religion against one another
13. Fuel prices. Including petrol and diesel
14. His sending military men to seize news papers from the stands and arrest editors because the need did not favor him
15. The numerous strikes
16. Delegating so many private jets to the presidency despite the huge poverty This one pain me well well
17. The abandonment of the Bama people when they needed him most
18. The state of our airports despite billions ploughed into them
19. Our failing international reputation
20. Priorities are Bullcrap. He did not meet his security chiefs when Boko haram attacked villages but met when Tambuwal defected.
21. The lies
22. Cases of corruption dropped against FFK and pardon to Alarms


I have more ooo
Family / Re: Advice Me On The Matter Please... Family Matter by Daresh(f): 8:05pm On Jan 24, 2015
After spending all her time cooking cleaning and caring for child how will she want sex. Also women who have had babies experience dry vagina and sex can be very painful. You will definitely feel unsexy after baby has thrown up on you a couple of times.

Take her out, spoil her, get her a maid and romance her, you will see how she will enjoy sex. Not just jumping her bones after she has worked all day and wants to rest.

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Family / Re: Fear Of Having A House Help by Daresh(f): 7:59pm On Jan 24, 2015
vkoni:
hello all.
i am a career woman doing night duty most of the time,i presently do not have an househelp/nanny for fear of wat might be going on wen im not around.Going for night duty leaving my kids, with my hubby and housemaid brings so much tots to my mind.wat do i do?Not even this era of hubby and househelp digging it while u er not there.Really so afraid

You don't need a live in since you are there during the day. Just an older lady who comes to clean and go. No tempt the devil grin

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Family / Re: Tales Of The Heart: My Husband Left by Daresh(f): 9:32am On Jan 22, 2015
kweenkong:
Madam get on your knees and pray for your husband . i see spritual manipulations here.

No be lie
Celebrities / Re: Chika Ike Glows In Floral Outfit,hit Or Miss? by Daresh(f): 12:38pm On Jan 21, 2015
Airforce1:
when is she gonna show us her husband?

Cuz a woman is nothing without a husband

Yeah keep telling yourself that cool

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Health / Re: Court Legalises Abalaka's HIV Vaccine, 16 Years After by Daresh(f): 9:25pm On Jan 18, 2015
Why release a cure when you can "manage" and collect money for the rest of the patients life? I'm sure the major pharmaceutical companies gave OBJ and NAFDAC plenty money to shut Abalaka up. That's the way big business works

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Romance / Re: How I Almost Slept With A Married Woman by Daresh(f): 7:03pm On Jan 17, 2015
It's odd how men honour others marriage vows over theirs. Many men won't sleep with another man's wife, but will happily cheat on their wives.

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Family / Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by Daresh(f): 1:18pm On Jan 11, 2015
You need to take your dad for a vasectomy. 8 kids in this economy is plain ridiculous. Even the rich no dey born like that.

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Family / Re: About Kissing Children,,,,,,,,,, by Daresh(f): 7:05pm On Jan 07, 2015
Ewuro4:


Only a mentally unbalanced uncle will do such disgusting stuff. Pedophillic demeanour isnt just a norm but a psychotic syndrome. That person needs to be taken into mental institution to get help. Simples

My point is, you never know who a molester is. No uncle has molested them, I don't suspect anyone but I must be vigilant.
Family / Re: About Kissing Children,,,,,,,,,, by Daresh(f): 12:15pm On Jan 07, 2015
bebe2:


but family again?

right in front of you?

atleast no be say d pikin dey go stay there nahh,

anyway sha, watever makes u sleep well at night smiley

My sister the greatest molesters are those closest to the children. Imagine my son or daughter kissing uncle and mummy is smiling. Tomorrow uncle tells her to kiss him when mummy isn't home. No big deal since mummy is ok with it. Then from kissing to touching. Abeg I no fit shout, don't kiss my kids , you never know who is a paedophile.
Family / Re: About Kissing Children,,,,,,,,,, by Daresh(f): 11:38pm On Jan 06, 2015
bebe2:


no let paranoia enter oo lipsrsealed

My sister you no dey read news of 65 yr old raping 5 yr old? Biko make paranoia enter, better safe than sorry.
Family / Re: About Kissing Children,,,,,,,,,, by Daresh(f): 9:50pm On Jan 06, 2015
My dear there is no advice in this one, I don't allow my kids to kiss anyone else, even my brother. I no dey hide am, I tell them in front of him "Don't kiss Uncle, you can only kiss mummy and daddy". Even my maid tried to kiss them, see se were! I don't even allow them to kiss granpa sef! Abeg this world we live in is very strange.
Travel / Re: Enquiries: Visit To Obudu Cattle Ranch by Daresh(f): 9:04pm On Jan 05, 2015
chiebube:


25,000 per night. Are there nearby hotels outside the ranch?

There are cheaper hotels at the bottom of the mountain. I got one for 8k
Family / Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by Daresh(f): 8:30pm On Jan 04, 2015
dinachi:
I am very sorry my brother, but you married a feminist! They are an extremely wicked bunch of man hating women...whose only understanding of love is when they in control...

He didn't marry a feminist, he married a crazy person. I'm a feminist and I can clearly see that woman is mad.

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Family / Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by Daresh(f): 8:20pm On Jan 04, 2015
Rep042:
My marriage is just 1 year and few days old,but within the last 365 days,I have seen torment and hell on daily basis. We dated for 2 years before tying the knot,she's a nice person,but her mouth is destructive,she has this overbearing attitude,always trying to control me or dictate the pace,and can keep malice,anger and record of evil done to her for a long time. She's the type of person that talks very well,I mean convincely well,but unfortunately,she speaks more negative words. She can talk for hours non-stop,especially when provoked,saying all sorts of bad words.

She has threatened to kill me & send assassins after me on different occasions in the past,though I just ignored such threats.

My wife has been abusing me verbally and always say nasty things at every slightest provocation and at the same ready to engage me in fisticuffs.

She can really say unprintable words such as "it will not be well with you","as you go out,people will deal with you", "you will work like an elephant and eat like an ant", "this your certificate will never yield you any good thing", etc, name callings,abuses,curses etc.

Please Nairalanders, I will like to know if it is wrong or out of place for a working class married lady to assist her husband in paying some bills or buying some foodstuffs at home. Because,anytime she assists in doing anything,she will record it and consequently use that to abuse and insult me whenever we have misunderstanding and or exchange of words.

After our traditional marriage on December 2013,I had some financial challenges,and then my rent was due for renewable,she offered to assist,at first I was skeptical about it ,because I know her kind of person,knowing full well that she will use that to ridicule and abuse me in no distant time. But,then,I didn't have any alternative,so I allowed her pay d rent. Now,she's claiming ownership,saying ..."which house,the one that I have been paying the rent or another one"...

She has done a lot of character assassination & damages to my personality before some of her relatives & family members(Her father and two sisters),thus they all support her & no longer regard me as anybody.

Few months into our marriage,she started wearing butt pads, I told her to stop ,because I don't like the stuff,but she flared up and we had exchange of words. She told me that she has to look good to outsiders.

Throughout her pregnancy period,she wore the butt pads on daily basis even at home,I allowed her because of her condition,even though it looked disgusting on her. After she put to bed,and few days later, I told her to quit wearing that stuff, but she refused,then I seized it,she started ranting to the hearing of everyone at home & neighbors that I have taken her padded pants(aka butt pad) to native doctor. I just ignored her. Few days later, she bought another set.

On Xmas day(2014),she dressed up & wore the butt pads again,I told her to remove it ,but she refused,then i tried forcing her to do so,and that resulted to a serious fight. She tore my already ironed clothes to pieces(an expensive Indian attire I bought when I travelled to India),I tore hers too and forced the butt pads out from her body.

Hell was let loose that day,because she called her sisters,they came to my house and created a very nasty scene in my neighborhood,they insulted,ridiculed me and made a mockery of me,her elder sister who is a police officer threatened to deal with me,she was talking and hitting her hands on the ground saying that,they are going to teach me some bitter lessons in this town. I tried to respond but my Mum,who's on child's visit(Omugwo) asked me to hold my peace. It wasn't easy though,they also insulted her too.

Since that day till date,my wife doesn't talk to me. The only thing that connects us now is the new born baby.

Her words have actually killed me psychologically, emotionally etc, to the extent that sometimes, I loose consciousness of my surrounding while driving to and fro from work , I will be lost in thought, and on a particular occasion nearly rammed another moving vehicle,if not for the speed bumps on the road that awaken my consciousness.


Her words:"if you are still regarding me as your wife,then you wasting your time". Its obvious she wants a divorce because to her,she's still very young(28 years),and can easily move on. She doesn't give a damn.

She has also repeated that same threat of killing me,these days ,the number of calls entering her phone is amazing,most times,she goes far from the house to answer those calls.

Please,kindly advice me.
Thank you.

Dear OP, your wife is INSANE!!! Pack your load and leave her and that child alone for your sanity. Leave her and her child. abeg o!

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Romance / Re: Am I Unknowingly Dating A Prostitute ? by Daresh(f): 5:23pm On Jan 04, 2015
unmask:
are you seriously trying to twist an obvious "gold digger" situation? Smh

Pray tell, how am I twisting it? I asked the OP to find out her true intentions. He needs to find out if she thinks her ass is all she will bring to the marriage.
Romance / Re: Am I Unknowingly Dating A Prostitute ? by Daresh(f): 7:28am On Jan 04, 2015
Toktee:
Thank you sweetheart,you said it all,if the lady is nt afraid of you nw that you cn walk out of the relationship,what will happen when you finally say "i do"
WARNING....don't marry some1 out of pity.
A lady that will shout when you shout and even asked you to pay 4 sexx is a prostitute,run 4 ur life.

Excuse meme but is a lady supposed to be afraid of her bf or husband? Why can't she shout at him abi wasn't he shouting at her too? I've seen some very strange things on this NL. She can't argue with him as he is God? Even a female is saying the same thing!

Dear OP, you guys had an argument. Don't gloss over anything u are not comfortable with. Ask her if she equates sex with money. This may even be a sign as to what the future holds. She might decide to sit at home or not contribute financially since she has done her own contribution in the bedroom :
Travel / Re: Enquiries: Visit To Obudu Cattle Ranch by Daresh(f): 10:49pm On Jan 03, 2015
chiebube:
thanks christembassy. More contributions please.

Calabar airport is 4hrs away from the ranch and it the closest airport. The cheapest room at the ranch is 25k.
Travel / Re: Appointment With Switzerland Embassy. by Daresh(f): 10:02pm On Jan 03, 2015
You have a good job and stable source of income, you are good to go. It's too late to prop your account, they will notice the unusual inflow and assume you are desperate to travel. Just show up do your interview and be honest.
Jobs/Vacancies / Marketing Executive Needed At Chattel Realty And Investment Company Ltd by Daresh(f): 10:39pm On Dec 17, 2014
Chattel Realty and investment company Ltd, a reputable real estate development company is recruiting executive marketers for immediate employment.

Applicants most possess the following qualifications
Minimum OND
2yrs work experience in real estate
Must speak fluently
Must be result driven

Intrested applicants should send their CVs to cricltd@gmail.com

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