freshness2020:
His downfall just got closer!
..go check the latter end of those that mocked God!

My friend give chance! Where did he mock God? He mocked RCCG and the pastor. Which one of them is God?

Thats the thing with you Nigerians, you like to worship man and his creations.

The pastor is WRONG and he is gone now. Bullshit.

kennygee:
What about the Ogas at the Top doing it behind closed doors?

Have they been jailed?

Guess the law is only for the Defenseless.

True that! The law is only for the defenceless

Bump

HTC ONE M8 Ann IPhone 5s

Rapist shut up and cover your head in shame. You want to paint the victim black abi. You will go to jail

tobechi74:
Overall, when I think about how society views gender roles nowadays,I can’t help but feel that women are now afforded greater freedom than men in many ways, as I’ve listed

I have read all you wrote now let me list the basic freedoms women don't have.

1) We cannot walk alone into a club or bar for a drink and not be judged as a prostitute.

2) We cannot drink and get drunk because you must always be in control

3) We cannot wear what we want to wear so as not to raise a man agro

4) We cannot walk on the street after dark for fear of being raped.

5) We cannot jog alone in the mornings or evening for fear of being raped.

6) We are not expected to have an opinion when "men" are speaking. I have personally been a victim. A security guard at my friends estate would address my husband not me even when I spoke directly to him.

7) Women are paid less for doing the same work as men.

This is a short list, I need to baff and go to work.

blank:


Mehn. That's great o. I searched for play station and kept refreshing the search. By the time the play station came up it was showing as sold. I was so frustrated. Actually thought they uploaded it as sold. However, i saw the playbook when it was up for sale so i kinda believe them sha just that i already have a playbook which i bought for way more than that amount.

Do you want to resell any of the items? At a little profit of course.

I already sold the iphone and the generator. The playbook and Hp slate haven't arrived. I'm using the HTC one M8 and sold off my Nexus 5. The JVC is waiting to be hung up in my sitting room, I need a bigger wall hanger. I bought the Play Station for my cousin, not really a fan

@sucess001, my cousin bought the iron too and he was refunded too.The dealdey does business through suppliers. Right now I'm still waiting for an order I placed early November and the supplier is dulling them thats the way business is. Sometimes your supplier disappoints you.

I'm just saying, dealdey is still a young business, they can't get everything right but it is not fair to call them scam. It worked for some, it didn't work for others no need to spoil somebody else's business.

blank:


Daresh, tell me it's not so. I refreshed my browser so much waiting for the deals but immediately i see them they were already sold out. I so wanted the playstation and generator. How were you able to get all the good deals?

My sister it was crazy. I no comot for house Thursday, Friday and Monday. I was stuck to the front of my system. I wasnt refreshing the whole page and scrolling down that takes too long. And I use ultra fast internet and system.

I bought all the items no be joke.

sucess001:



Let's c d pics of wat u bought na.

Dealdey pr manager.


And why not address d refusal to refund my money too?

Since na my money dem dey use do 'handwrk'

If you believe or not its not my cup of tea.

I still have money in my wallet and they told me 7 working days, you dont see me bitching about it because I already cleaned out mehn.

sucess001:
With the frenzy that the Black Friday sales as advertised by all the online retailers brought, one would tink we have been able to add a new dimension to our online purchasing culture.

However, as the writer in this article observed, it was all a big scam and i doubt if most of the products offered were ever available.

http://www.ventures-africa.com/2014/12/the-three-blunders-of-jumias-blank-black-friday/?utm_source=Monday+1st+December+2014&utm_campaign=PR%2C+Africa+Business%2C+Africa+Economy%2C+Africa+Entrepreneur%2C+Ventures+Africa&utm_medium=email

for Jumia and Konga, i would even overlook since you do not have to pay till you get your product.

With dealdey however, lies the biggest scam.


I had personally planned to buy the PS4 and IPhone 6 and had called to knw how the sales would run and if i can be guaranteed of buying it before i credited my online dealdey wallet. I was assured twice.

Then i kept refreshing till I saw the product as "sold out". that was annoying. then i called and was told it was a fastest finger model.

I did a mail asking that my account be refunded with the 75,000 i transfered but was told it would take 7 working days.

Then I wondered....why will I have to wait 7 working days to get my money back? wat will the money be doing for 7 days? despite several mails to them threatening legal action, they have refused to refund.

Then it occured to me that collecting differing sums from millions of people will mean getting a pool of funds that will inevitably run to billions of Naira.


Imagine having that for a week.


The question then is...who gets the interest accumulated by this large pool of funds that dealdey has held on to? will the monies be refunded with interests?


Therein lies the scam.



I transfered to dealdey on friday...as I write this on wednesday, my money is still with Dealdey..


I just wonder why these online retailers and their fraudulent practices are not investigated.


Shouldnt we all institute a class action?


Mods...front page pls.

Dear success01, I bought the iPhone 6, Htc One M8, Playstation 4, 3.5hp generator, Blackberry playbook, JVC Smart tv and HP Slate from Dealdey during Black Friday and Cyber Monday deals. It was fastest finger and fastest internet. Sharp up next time and don't spoil someones hardwork.

I bought toys, clothes, make up, perfumes and household items from Konga. It was a wonderful experience for me and I completed my Christmas shopping. 100ml designer perfume for 1,500? No be God?

I didn't even know we had elephants in Nigeria! Fantastic!

skillzbae:
Im scared of hospitals *covers face* Im scared of going out so i dnt throw up evrywhr. Is it more dan wat home remedies wil do?

You are scared of going to hospital? How about being scared of dying?

MrsAwesome:
Honestly!!!!??
This is wrong by all ramification personally ......honestly!!!! Couples shouldn't even have a say on this issue if this is how they go about it, any thing less than six weeks is incorrigible, irresponsible and...and ....oh God. I mean the risk is high please....puerperal sepsis, postpartum haemorrhage are the major complications. The bruises on the uterus and vaginaaa are yet to healed ..which can trap microbes and even cause reactionary bleeding etc. Then comes the exposed nerve endings that causes pain or unpleasant sensation on walking or urination etc. Most women won't even allow you to examine them during postpartum visit at 6 weeks because they still feel sensitive down there. What about the lochia...the drains from the vaginaaa after birth that last up to 28 days or more, full of debris and all Whatnots... jeezzzzz.

Men please zip the fuccck up until your wife heals, the risk is greater than the enjoyment therein. Any man that has to be kept by all possible means including this is............yawn!!!!! Damn!!!!

It takes at least six weeks for things to go back to normal, if there is no associated problems postpartum.

Thank you jare. They think once you stop bleeding you start f+++ing.

I couldnt even shit after 2 weeks and someone will willing open her legs, no fear of infection.

E no kuku concern me, the world is overpopulated as it is a few more deaths will help us sef.

fr3do:


home breaker

If you like sleep with your wife the day she comes from hospital, e no concern me.

dosht:

Must you use insultive words
Mind you FYI I wasn't bleeding anymore
He is my husband not my boyfriend

Pardon me.

You are not very wise. If he loved you he would NEVER subject you to pain just to please himself.

You didnt enjoy that sex, you just did it to please him.

You had to be restitched and I know it is painful even with local anaesthetic

That is not ver wise.

Childbirth has plenty complications and you use your hand(or prick) to introduce more.

Try and be wise next time.

vivianc:


Yes, I'm not married but when I do and start having kids, I'd use creche and I won't do any job that will take me away from them thereby leaving them in the hands of house helps. For me, my family comes first.

It's always easy to make mouth until you see situation wey make water pass garri.

I feel for the homosexuals out there. It is terrible how we judge people based on their sexual orientation.

coogar can you justify the instance of forcing 2 men to have sex and recording it? What did the perverts hope to gain? Where they catching cheap trips out of watching 2 men f***?

Can anyone justify the rape and killing of peoples sons and daughters just because they are different?

I'm not gay and I won't wish being gay on anyone especially in Nigeria but you cannot kill people or burn them based on their sexual preferences.

My sister I tire. hats how a friend who had her daughter around when I had my son was insinuating my son was slow because he wasn't talking by 2 and her daughter was talking up a storm. I explained to her that boys start talking slower than girls. I even thot she heard me. Until she had a on who didn't start talking till 3 she came to tell me "ah you were right, boys don't talk quick", that was when I realised that she was competing

Dude I have to be rich. I can't even imagine being poor abroad.

xkris11:


But really Expensive

Netherlands! I really would love to move there and live a simple quiet life.

mifavour:



will he also go down on his kneee to apologize to me when he does sth wrong if he can i can.

God bless you my sister

Thats why I love my parents. It's as an adult I realised men think they should not work. Everybody dey cook for our house. Wash plates, wash toilet scrub floor, wash car, change bulb. No man and woman work, all na the same.

Please dont be evil. That child is too young. At 2 yrs they are singing and scribbling.

XX01:
Who dug up this my old thread and brought me out of hibernation? Lol.

I am doing great. I have even started doing some trading by the side. I have employed some young analysts to do the main brain work. All I do is train them and supervise their work and the returns are fantastic. Way more than my job would have paid me and I have flexible work hours. Honestly, a lot of my clients have been via my husband's contacts but I am not complaining.

Just remember me in your prayers so that I can get my twin kids and I hang up my boots.

I am very happy for you my dear! At the end, the most important thing is family especially our children.

Two years ago I was in the same position as you. I didn't believe my calling was to be a stay at home mom, but I certainly didn't want to leave my kids for any maid. But thank God , I started my travel consulting business and it has been such a blessing. My time is mine. I'm opening an office soon and I'm hiring staff. Thank God o!

bigheart2013:


I have really thought of the bolded but didn't want to look childish and petty. She said a lot of nasty, unprintable things I can't post here. I was just being civil in describing her utterances on the phone. She's super ungrateful! She even tried to compare me with some men she claimed built houses for some female celebrities but don't go about singing their praises...also said during her NYSC, a guy made sure she had everything she wanted but never for a single day ask for anything in return....that she will respect that man forever....SMH! I felt like a piece of used up and dumped shit when she said that!

OP did you ask for anything more than a "THANK YOU"? I don dey fear. Anyway not every woman east of the Niger is like that. I remember one of my fathers friends who was a Professor got me into his school. I went to his office a few times just to say thank you, the old man no even remember me sef but I still had show my appreciation.

blank:
@ OP, don't call her. She will think you are still upset with her and went to speak with her oga so as not to confirm her. If she eventually loses that job, she will say it was all your fault. She can even say that you are monitoring her so that she can fail.

Before it gets to the point of not being confirmed, she will have a performance discussion with her boss who will tell her where she is failing and what she has to do. It's not your place to have that meeting with her especially as you guys are no longer on talking terms.

Exactly! OP she has showed you the type of person she is. If you warn her, she will start saying "oh you have turned against me because I didnt do (whatever)''. Just blank it after all like she said, it's God that gives job, God will keep her job for her if its hers,abi?

Hahahahhaha! What will I do or what will he do? He and his baby mama will figure that out but he sure as hell won't be my problem anymore

dsgirl:


I agree she doesnt have any business with the lady but it does not neccessarily mean spark is missing in their marriage. I complained of something similar not long ago about my hubby too. Men just like all these side attraction n attention, i really dont know what this other women talk to them about that their wives dont talk to them about.

My sister I tire! I have asked this question before, why in heavens name will you seek such attention to jeopardise your family? Wetin? My dear OP, NO GIVE YOURSELF HEADACHE! You see this tin your husband is doing, my own did it well well. I wish I had blanked him, I was there giving myself headache. It's when I stopped sending him and blanking him ehn, he started behaving himself. It's going to be very hard, but just blankhim.

Phase 1
Don't try and look at his phone, don't check messages or call records just blank him.

Phase 2
Put a lock on your own phone. Go out with friends, come home late. Receive and make phone calls and be happy with your life. Don't even act like you notice his bullshit. Keep a positive and happy attitude I promise you he will start to fear

This worked for me and many other women, don't fear, be strong. In this life, it is only you that can make yourself happy my dear only you. And at the end of the day, you are on your own.

The OP has frustrated his wife with his cheating ways that's why she is cursing him. He will now act like he's innocent and she's insane. Below is a thread he opened in July stating his wife was insulting him

https://www.nairaland.com/1826230/wife-wishing-me-dead

She probably wishes him dead for the pain he has caused her and is probably still causing her.

Madam just leave him. Killing him isn't worth it. Even if no one catches you, you will live with that all your life.

The way society is, it would better for him to be dead than for you to leave him, but remember your life is yours and his is his. Let him go.

You need a medical clearance from them if you have a medical visa. Non refundable and non changeable tickets are usually cheaper so you need to know the fare rules. This is where a good travel agent could have helped. I don't know about court, you agreed to the fare rules before buying the ticket.