Hahahahahaha Heifer deserved that slap!

The truth of the matter is, kids are very very malleable and they give off what we give to them.

You said it yourself, you threaten them. Threaten to beat, flog, slap, knock. They pick up on this and in their minds you don't love them.

Take the time to talk to them,look at their homework when they come back from school. Give them their bath in the morning, make breakfast weekends, take them to watch movies and pizza or whatever they enjoy doing. You will see them start to open up to you. That is how mothers get close to their children.

You are hardly home and when you are you are threatening. What do u expect them to do?

LewsTherin:
https://www.nairaland.com/1180790/intolerance-nairaland

The chic is high. Monday morning tins

sexybash:
Most women who did that always regretted it
Even if your husband is extremely rich as times goes on you get bored and want more out of life
Expecially when you see your peers who were able to still. Keep it together as in work and family
I was watching bloom TV
Okonji iweala said her own was just to give birth
Family members where on ground to help
If you want to enjoy your life as a wife,mother and carrier woman (Don't be. Stingy)
I can't remember when last I did my laundry
I have a help, there is washing machine, she does the cooking, she does the shopping, she comes to work everyday, I give her weekly transport allowance, I pay her salary on the 23Rd of every month. If I have to travel I talk to her mum to give allows her sleep over. I even go as far as calling her madam
I will advice every woman who intend quiting job for hubby should think twice
Life does not go as planned. Even in the biblical days women worked
We are virtuous and will remain so

Abeg give me that your househelp biko.

The one I have here is just eating my food, getting fat and cannot do jack.

I sat down to work at my system this morning and floor around was so dirty and she claimed to have swept this morning. Na so I pick broom dey teach 25 year old how to sweep and mop well well

Na me dey cook. Na to boil rice and yam she dey do.

carefreewannabe:
I haven't gone through a pregnancy yet but I sort of find it wrong to excuse everything with hormones.
I have worked with pregnant women many times and I have never seen any of them having mood swings at work and taking them out on their colleagues, clients or bosses. I can excuse a woman who is going through a difficult pregnancy but a normal pregnancy is not an illness, is it?

Little do you know. Pregnancy is the WORST illness you will ever encounter. because there is no medication for it. FYI all women are not the same. Pregnancy affects women differently. The same woman will have different reactions to diff pregnancy. Just pray your own won't be bad and don't blame others for things they can't help.

2sexi:
Hormones? Na wa o. Which kind hormone be that?

Anyway, I had been wanting to just know why they act that way.

I pray my wife does not end up such o. I can't stand it. I hate stubborness or cruelty in any form.

Ol boi you better prepare your mind.

Hormones will do some nasty shit to the nicest people.

During pregnancy I was such a bitch and I just couldn't help it. It caused many problems cos my husband was like you say " You are using pregnancy as an excuse to insult me". I told him I didnt need an excuse that I will insult him if I choose

Well the pregnancy passed and things went back to normal and I couldn't believe how evil I had been. He apologised and I apologised but he knew what to expect the next time.

Belle sucks

richt75:
he can, why not. Transit onboard. The craft is carrying US and Canadian passengers and must stop in the US and only citizens and those with transit gets off.

That is not how Delta works. Atlanta is their hub, and they do not go direct to Canada from Lagos. You MUST , I emphasize the MUST, disembark clear immigration, and do a plane switch. You cannot clear immigration without a visa. This is my job, I know how it works. He's a liar

ElijahFobs:
I was denied january 17 dis year...I was not bothered and d nxt tin i did was to apply for canada visa n it was granted...so i made my trip to ontario via Delta airline n had stop over in atlanta in US..so my dream of goin to america was achieved... dem denied me buf I stil enta deir land witout dem visa.

Thats a lie! You cannot stop over in Atlanta unless you have a US transit visa. You can only get a transit visa at the embassy. Stop lying

Raiders:
according to the op, she said her friend husband ask to submit her salary at the end of the month which probably means she is not helping with the bills. No man would ask his wife to submit her salary if she is contributing to the house bills

Please dont say that. I have a friend that pays rent, school fees, NEPA bills, water bills, buys dispenser water and insurance on the kids. Yet her husband was demanding the rest of her salary. You know what she did when she got tired of being locked out if the house she pays rent in, she moved out. Now he's homeless and sober.

gaczee99:
I was talking with my partner on the need to get a dish washer and a washing machine and he jokingly said it was for lazy wives. I dont agree with that because it is a way that has been made to make our works easier. Its not easy on wives and mothers especially working ones. There tends to be too much chores that tires out and most men dont even see the need to help out. The least a man can do to ease the work for his wife is to buy some of theses electronic gadgets that makes life easy foe women. Whats ur candid opinion

Yes o, for extremely lazy wives like me. I no dey hide that one. I would rather spend my time with my family or money producing ventures, rather than spend hours washing clothes and plates

mygeeZ:
How am i suppose to use condom with my wife? Weird. My last child is close to 2yrs now.

I've heard this statement before and it confuses me. Why can't you use a condom with your wife? So what form of birth control are you using? Are you aware that she could carry belle immediately after your last child was born if she didn't find some form of birth control? Why are you even discussing this on NL? Go and talk to your wife and discuss birth control options, visit family planning clinics, prolonged use of postinor 2 is bad for her health.

I don't know about you, but I have been hustling since. All my friends are hustlers. My own is, if he dies, how can I take care of my children myself? I use that mindset when hustling and in planning family size.

Gorgeous58:
Strive to be the kind of woman who, when your man hits rock bottom, when his business fails or he is retrenched from his job, can carry the family through. You must be able to provide what he otherwise would. This thing of women who sit doing nothing, and when a man goes through a difficult period, cannot come through for him, or at least even help him make a plan, is not on.

Let us start hustling with our men. We must stop being liabilities when we have what it takes to be assets.

Ladies, what's your take on this?

cherryice:


haha, some men wont care esp if they are into the mistress.
Some galz tho..flirting wt a married man

Me I've reached realization that I cannot kill myself for any man. If he wants to follow mistress, odabo, good luck to him.

carefreewannabe:


Exactly, it is too early.
Why the hurry?

Are you guys serious? Too early? My 3 year old can write 1-20 and a-m. Not just identify, write it too.

My son could read 2 letter words at 4 years old.

Please put the boy in a good school, he will learn.

My dear let me give you good advice here, blank him. Don't read his chats again. Dont ask him anything. But you start chatting on your phone
even if na ur gf, rename am to Steve or something. Put lock on your phone. Fear go catch am you go see repentance

The man should start digging his grave

kenny987:
A man is concerned that his wife has kept silent, knowing that he knows that she knows that he has been cheating on her and she is ordinarily a confrontational person. He wonders if he should be worried or it's nothing to to worry about as she has known for the past two weeks. Should he be worried?

phantom:


@the bolded.....let me guess.....mummy told you so abi?? you see why someone was asking how old you are.

No my mummy didnt tell me. She doesnt have that kind of time. I read. I read a lot. You should try it.

honeric01:



Now that your lies about him being a thief debunked, it's his age you are now on?

Hopefully you have learnt, stop peddling lies, you're setting yourself up for a great fall.

The way you pour your venom into this na how much GMB dey pay you. I stand by my words that he is a theif. How can Obasanjo, the father of all thieves call someone honest and you chop it. Seriously?

ollyboy009:

SMH for you,and where are the young men that can do it better? the likes of your presido?, lets assume the briefcases and PTF are true as you are brainwashed (2.3million in 1983 wen you were yet to b born), what would you say abt the $20b in d Min. of petroleum unaccountable for under our presido's nose?, the $15m arms deal and the shame it has brought to the nation,indiscipline and massive corruption that decorates Jona's administration to mention bt just a few,do you call those good governance? thank God you dont own more than one vote!

I am not a Jonathan supporter. My argument is, can't we get a credible canditate? Must we recycle past leaders? So no one of over 170 million is credible to rule? Why should we have to use Buhari again? The guy has his own shady past. Them 2.3mil was a big deal. Yes thank God no one has more than 1 vote. And I was born b4 Buhari came into power, why should he rule me now over 30 years later?

honeric01:


It's easy to believe anything when you do not have a mind of your own, please have a neutral mindset before you go through this thread to see the truth in the lies leveled against the General.

https://www.nairaland.com/1966616/n2.8m-missing-53-suitcases-saga/3#27467247

I see you are a staunch supporter. Thank God we all have one vote. The dear general should go home and rest.He is almost 80 years old.

ollyboy009:

This is why it will take centuries for nigeria to meet up with the 2nd worlds not to talk of the first. A country whose youths follow "them say" instead of inculcating a change mentality and take their destiny to their hands. I am sure you cant evidently say anything abt those two personalities. How old are you by the way? SMH

And people like you dont know that we have other options besides old men who should be carrying their grandchildren. What exactly did they leave behind that they are so eager to go back to? I have my own opinion and don't need to follow anyone elses. Atiku and Buhari have nothing new to offer just the same old bullshit. Buhari will probably try to make us an Islamic state. And FYI, my opinion is mine, my vote is mine.

honeric01:


Is the question too hard to answer?

https://www.nairaland.com/1338941/crimes

Please pay special attention to the case of 30 suitcases of cash that were taken out.

Also remember Buhari headed the PTF, pray tell what did he do with all the billions?

honeric01:


Unintelligent comment IMO.

Buhari is a thief because?

Are you for real?

Suarezilla:
Why you no open your own school n enrol ur kid there so you can teach him/her urslef? All this indomie generation parents. I pity ur children as u will rise in protecting them from teachers! Protecting them from knowledge !

You cannot teach by beating. You will only make the child afraid to learn. I teach my kids by making it fun and exciting to learn. I do not flog, my parents did not flog me, I am not a goat and my kids are not goats, they understand if you explain to them.

My parents were born in the village, nothing indomie about them. But they knew beating didnt help. I learnt to love school and so did my siblings. There are more effective ways to discipline children outside beating. Abi you be goat?

Talk your own, no teacher will flog my child.

Suarezilla:
It can never be an abuse to use the rod on your children. Parents of this days(educated) have missed this. Some parents go as far as confronting teachers @school whom flog their children for good reasons...this is very apalling to me..I support flogging a child to make dem see wats good and bad

I dont see what the big deal is. I wanted to surprise my MIL cos I knew she badly wanted a girl, I told her I didnt know. When she heard I had a girl she was dancing all around the house . I told my sisters tho, and my oga and my aunt figured it out cos of all the pink.

If Fashola comes out for President, I would vote for him. However if he comes out as VP for Atiku or Buhari, I will not vote. Buhari and Atiku are THIEVES. Buhari is even the worst. Never ever try to vote for that man

Please keep quiet woman. Who made you judge of Israel?

You are calling her a bad woman because he has told you his version of the story.

Let her come and tell her own side, you will see cheating is even small sef.

If he is right why is he still in the marriage?

It's wives like you that make men feel all women are fools and they can cheat and be forgiven. You see now he will NEVER cheat on her again. Because he has seen how it hurts.

What's up with all the grammatical errors? Spell check is your friend o!

anitaoluchi:
u mean ur wife is doing this just because she cut u cheating hmmmmm it a petty as for me that [/b]not enough reason to do that I also [b]cut my husband cheat but I had to forgive him do u know why?cus I love him,cus I have a fulture with him,cus GOD forgives me of my sin so I never cheated on him nd will never my brother ur wife is not a gud women no matter what u do she should be there to forgive nd make sure ur @ home nd in another womans arm she is gradually Pouching you out of ur house to another womans arm.

I dont understand all the noise. If you still like her date her. If you dont like her don't date her. Everyone has their opinion on NL only you know how you feel about her. After all it's not like you didn't sleep with other girls in the 6 year period.

Is that your problem? That she dated other guys who used and dumped her? You clearly dont like her enough because if you did, you would jump at the chance to show it.