@ OP: Guys have skeletons in their cupboard, ladies have cemeteries in theirs. QED!

Why?. . . ladies are secretive and the African settings frowns @ ladies who aren't virtuous, hence the ladies be forced to hide their previous conquest(s) from the poor bobo and when/if he ever gets to know. . . it becomes a tale of, how she kept so & so from me.

Nura723:

Arent u ashame of urself, havng a crush on white boy, `tofi akwa`. Wat a pity.

. . . oh, I get it u must be from the medieval age! Wake up sis, its the 21st century.

@ topic: I was 8 or 9 then, watching this fanta advert, the babe in the advert was one blond girl much older than moi. Nor be small thingy oooh! My heart literally stopped beating when I beheld her face on the T.V!

Omo mehn, e go hard gan ni ooooh! Who knows?. . . if she's had a change of heart and God touches my heart as well!

Its disheartening that a new bride would keep a phone from her hubby, a phone containing nothing but male contacts. You should try to resolve it and table it before God. As for me, she'd be out the door if she can't give me a reasonable explanation.

@ OP: It might be fun initially but u tend 2 get tired of the constant jealousy and suspicion!

@ OP: Although it's ur sis' life and she may well date whomever she wants, but WTF, what kinda friend is that? It's an unwritten code amongst guys never to mess wth ur friends sis! My friend's kid sis was once smitten with me, I simply looked the other way.

Where the real friends @. . . SMH!

Armadda:

Lol. Why are they everywhere? Are they stalking the threads? Hello?! Looooooooool!

so so romantic!

I'm yet 2 do anything really, really crazy 4 love, I probably may never do it but I'm sure capable of doing it if she's worth it.

@ topic: I wonder what the brouhaha is all about OP, keep ur peace. Tell ur girl about her so she knows how to handle things.

dblambo:

she could av been a uncle yu know.

E be like sey u dey craze! Uncle ko, uncle ni!!!

@ op: Guy, find a better lover than her and quit whining!

@ topic: Some mothers do have them!

whitelexi:

Dude, I'm still yet to experience that condition where a man becomes a boy, so i'm afraid, we're on the level on this one

From what I've heard it is appointed unto man to undergo that phase once in a lifetym and the older u get the more dangerous it becomes. . . do the math!

Btw, where's my [b]ke[/b]t[b]ch[/b]up

kech:

LOL! You no well. Are you looking for someone to chop your money?

Nope, I know what I want! I need a savvy babe who's also got a tender heart and would know how to treat a guy am guessing u're all these rolled into one! .

Whitelexi, have u any advice for ur bro? Me am getting womanliness whipped even b4 meeting her (kech) ooooh!

kech:

I talk am oooo Look, move on. I'm serious. She's still keeping in touch cos she needs to make sure your end is solid. Her mind is really somewhere else, most likely with "that guy". The fact of the matter is, at this point, "that guy" is not forth coming so you are her INSURANCE, someone to fall back on in case all else fails. A lot of ladies do this. Please run!! This is not true love. Don't deceive yourself. And Pray please, cos you are beginning to sound coco

Miss kech, I dey feel ur advice, infact I dey feel ur personality and I don't mind to be ur driver and ur insurance! Any chance of meeting up with u?

@ OP: God save u, should u ever break her heart!

Forced sex or not, I think u're already womanliness whipped!

Thank ur stars we're drawing close to the end of the year. Just let the babe follow 2009 go oooooh! If u continue like this for next year. you most probably won't have a roof over ur head for u'll be so distraught u'll lose everything!

Now be a man and snap out of this ur comatose-one sided love affair!

@ Seeker: Is this thread really necessary, just cos NLers are not publicizing their affair don't mean there's no hook up going on.

^^^ wahala dey!

I'm So Paid - Akon

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. . . perhaps the ladies would be able to throw more light on this!