₦airaland Forum

Klass99:
Lol I enjoyed reading your story.

When I got to the part in bold I was pissed off as well and I wanted to say please collect your money by any means necessary, until I read to the end.

Her audacity in saying if you love me blah blah blah....is so annoying. Why didn't you collect the full amount sef? What caused the 3k deficit again?

People like that always pay back installmentally.
A very terrible way of paying back.

SeaTrade:
Well,I have just one debt that is trying to look like a bad one at this point,
Huge,but it was business we did,something we've been doing for more than 5 years now,since I moved to other things ,the guy is coming up with all sorts of stories and funny thing is we aren't even in the same country.But I know anyday I see it important to collect that debt,I will recover it so I'm not worried.

In my line of work,you can't cope without giving credit, but i give out smart and secure credit by collecting post dated cheques.
When it is due,I just deposit it without consulting you,
If the account isn't funded,your loss cos bank go deduct charges cos of the bounce when e bounce,and I will still deposit again after collecting the cheque almost immediately.
So that when you lose like 15k on return charges that week,no be person go tell you to fund the account.
Real business people don't like losses at all so they'll rather pay you your money than to be losing money on a steady to Bank return charges.

And also note this,avoid giving credit to people who feel too big or care about their appearance and how society perceives their status than running a business/organisation,they will more often than not "chop your money" and most times dem no hold shishi.I've experienced this many times in my line of duty/life and also all the so called contractors(runaway from these ones).

The worst part is, they keep funding their businesses, appearing flashy on Facebook, but to pay back is always a problem. Anyway. I keep learning.

Obaxxx:

The truth is that some people are very good at Owing debts and the same time showing the i-don't-care attitude . So now tell me,how we go do that kind person without exchanging punches? .

Very true. And after the punches, you turned enemies.
Very sad

Kondomatic:
I have never given anyone loan and they paid complete, that's for those that paid at all.

There was a close friend that I explained everything to because I was beginning to think it was a curse.

She felt bad for me but she called me one day that she needed urgent 20k, her reason was genuine and she has a good source of income so I was convinced that paying back won't be a problem but I still reminded her that people don't pay me.

She was like haba, how can you say this, you will get your money on (she gave date). I sent the money.

Four months later, money I no see. I wasn't ready to lose her friendship so I let the money go.


But I learned my lesson. If you need 10k and I have 1k, I go dash you. Go find the rest elsewhere.


To get your money back, you have to be rude and brutal but that's not me so I no give again. I kuku no get again


Unloading a gun is always better than shooting at someone with bullet proof vest.

The exact sinero here. I learnt a lot

Why is it so difficult for most people to keep to their promises, to remit debts?
You help someone with loan based on aggreement and trust, but when it's time to remit, they come up with excuses, default, making you look like you're too weak, too simple and when you get upset and raise your voice, they tag you as being Money conscious.
On your own part, you don't want to lose relationship/friendship/family with them. you consider their struggles, yet, when they have your money either From their salaries or other means, they wouldn't still pay back.
Have you ever been in this kind of situation?
How were you able to handle this kind of people without becoming enemies?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BmNFHNyHUEU

money121:
I wish i can help but someone scam me on this forum
I loan him 20k
Uptill now baba never pay back
Stories up and down
Na poverty Go kill some people on dis forum

Checkout my chat with him

Bloody scammer

It's sad. Sorry for everything. Some people deserve what they're going through

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BmNFHNyHUEU

Matheusmartin:
..
'Are you sure this friend of mine' is not YOU
:

Even if is me, still not a crime.

7victor:
Please I want to know if you are the one who would pick where you want to do your PPA,


or if it is the NYSC which will select it for you,as it happened during my time?

Even as at your time, people were selecting PPA by themselves. You were just not aware.
Nigeria has not been a serious country since independent.

It's better you serve in a place that gives you opportunity to do your research and write up. Teaching will be stressful for the kind of activities you're involved in.

frozen70:
There is no problem at all good enough the child outside wedding belongs to both of them

If their church refuses to wed them, let them start going to another church

That's their current decision.

damilareoye:
sorry for quoting you here. You may just be of help to me in this regard. My church is looking for a possible camera as an addition that can perform dual functionality of video and photography. I'm stuck here thinking it out. Please can you suggest any offordable one for me and its price. Thanks

Go for Canon 60d. It's perfect for both video and photos.

bukatyne:
Most pentecostal churches would do what is known as vestry wedding or marriage blessing.

They can join/wed/bless them in the Pastor's office with family & friends present.

After that, they can have a reception as big as they want.

They should also talk to their pastor on the options they have.

Goodluck.

Alright. Thank you

They're both menbers of living faith church. Yes

What's your take on this.

A friend of mine is preparing for her marraiage. She's planning on having a church wedding as well. But the issue is, they had a child together outside wedlock from their University days. ( About 5yrs ago), recently, they decided to live together while they aee making preparations for their marriage. They both desire to have a white wedding.

Do you think they are still qualify/ elligible for church wedding? Especially in a Pentecostal church?
What would you advise?
Your suggestion, recommendation, advice is welcome.

Adewale1603:
a core i3, i5 or i7 will fit in that same board. a bios update is necessary while changing processors.

Alright.
Thank you

Adewale1603:
there is incompatibility issues with the board it was replaced with or not properly done, like changing the heatsink, fan and applying thermal paste to the processor. the board is the same for all laptop models except if it is either a board with dedicated graphics or integrated graphics, so it is the processor that will be changed. you can still use your core i7 instead of the core i5 the engineer gave you.

Okay. I was told they're going to update the Bios. I'm yet to have any response.

If after the update, it works, I'll request for my corei7 processor. If you're saying the combination isn't wrong.

Tobichuks08:
The engineer that changed the processor needs to be held accountable,
Take it back to him and tell him to check and clear the bios and reset the clock speed to the former processor.
Just that it back to him and highlight the problem i believe he can solve it

Alright. I will take it there this morning and tell him to do this. Thank you

lilvicky68:
Since it's going off on its own..
Kukuma off it and rest

Lol.
Why? I bought this laptop last year and it's perfect for my job. I just can't allow it to rest like that now

Tobichuks08:
Does it heat up?
If yes check the cooling fan

No. It doesn't

davidadenrele:
I suspect your Corei7 processor what kind of quack engineers do we have as computer engineers this days, they changed your Corei7 motherboard for Corei5 and rather add the replaced motherboard with Corei5, processor they put it with Corei7 and expect it to work normally,..... hmmn!! my advice to you look for another competent engineer request for the exact board processor of the Corei5 you have and your laptop will be fine, before you make payment have an agreement with the engineer if you can you test the laptop for a few hours if he agrees before you make payment the better for you, else you could be scammed for another bad processor since it's appears you are a novice as per laptops issues.

Alright. Thank you sir. I will try someone else today

OgogoroFreak:
You should have repaired your corei7 board.

Madam, all I can say is, go buy another laptop.

If you dont have money, fvck some pricks, collect money go buy another lappy. You are a darling.

You are very inresponsible. Is that how your mother, sister, girlfriend fvck pricks to solve issues? Well, not every female gender does that. Nonsense

Pls. Help
My corei7 laptop developed a fault. My charger burnt the board.
It was replaced with corei5 board (that's corei5 board with corei7 processor). it's working perfectly. But the problem is, it goes off on it own after 30minutes of usage. I've returned it severally, and they keep testing, but till now no solution.
Pls, what could possibly be the problem? Why going off on it's own?

Most of the things most men do in marriage, if a woman do the same with the same measure, men will have hrt attack

Offpointng:
Atimes when 9ja girls decide to copy their male counterpart and settle for one old cow just to feel among I just shake my head in adoration cuz when you drill a hole into a jug in anticipation for a barrel of oil but what you get is a hand full of coal the best way to test a resolve is to understand why a mirror atimes go at logger head with a pillow without the whistle of a king fisher

Please, come and translate

If you're a descent lady, once your guy Impregnant any another lady before marriage, don't marry him. Move on

Nice. God bless him.

.

Pinkzebra:
I don't have friends anymore as I don't visit so they , too don't visit. I have enough taking my attention for now, raising my toddler's, attending to home chores, going to work and building a career, worrying about not having friends is the least ! My kids and my hubby are my friends for now , but I do have a healthy relationship with my colleagues

I wish I could develop that mind. Maybe with time. But right now, I missed everyone and wish everything could be the way it used to.

But it's okay. We're learning everyday

Thanks @all for sharing.

So, after marriage, life becomes somehow isolated. No friends around as usual, everything is gradually becoming just you and your partner. Especially if there's relocation to a new environment.

It's really fun doing everything together in love though. But sometimes I, it seems so many loved ones are so far away both physically and emotionally.

How do you overcome this? Especially making new friends with fellow young married ladies of your type? How did you build and create your new world in your marriage?
Pls share

How can someone be shouting ''say baba'' and still be begging under the bridge eating decompose bread?

@op, if you want to go about snapping all the beggers, under the bridge, eating decompose bread in this country, you will get tired o.