₦airaland Forum

MRbrownJAY:
@poster
that is a very mean thing to say but she was being honest (although she could have said it a better way)
YOU on the other hand should have told HER to teach you how she wanted  to be pleased as you were (hopefully) eager to learn with HER not any friends of yours who have no idea what she likes.
every women are different and therefore the only way to be better WITH HER, is by learning, listening, following etc WITH HER. she said it herself¨you dont know how to make love TO HER¨
therefore ask her what she likes and how she likes it, ask her where she would like you to caress her and how she would like you to caress her, ask her where she would like you to lick and how she would like you to lick.
and last but not least, if she wants you to eat that kitten then do it without giving her an hysterectomy.
communication is what is missing in this ¨relationship¨of yours.

bgees:
and they think this enhances beauty? africa is really in the dark.

TheSeeker:
Tell which race doesn't spend money on clubbing, drinking and on prostitutes? Americans, Asians and Arabs all flock in Nigeria into the streets picking up girls all the time. They go to clubs all the time, they party and they drink. You still haven't got the message that in spite of how the world had labelled us for being the most criminally minded people, we're still the best citizen who are modest in other countries. We tend to maintain a low profile especially when we're there for a serious purpose even criminals maintain a low profile.

We accept other people's culture and respect them, we may not practice them and that's not a crime -- there's a freedom right that allows that.

We tend to vent our emotions and thought that provokes our intelligent and that shouldn't be seen as an offense. We speak our mind, even in the face of criticism; that's what makes us exceptionally strong.  Yes, Nigerians are handsome, maybe the one you're living with isn't but sure we look damned good. Don't confuse flirting with friendliness and admiration of women. If I should pick the "best" flirters in the world, I'd pick the Arabs. If you see how they love women, you'll wonder if their religion they champion all the time allows them to flirt[i][/i].