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No.... But y you come fu*k her kwanu

Tufiakwa gi... She will soon leave you cox of your wahala... Shift may we hear people with real relationship problems

Qxty:
PLEASE IS IT RIGHT FOR A GUY TO SAVE HIS GIRL FRIEND'S NUMBER BY HER NAME AND CLAIMED HE LOVES HER? PLEASE MATURE MINDS

There's this my friend i love so much, i hate cheating in a relationship, but he saves my number by my name, he calls me by my name, if i complained, he will say i am nagging too much that he only did that to his first date that he is not a fan to baby and other pet names, but he will be teasing girls online with sweet names, he will be teasing girls in my presence, if i complain he will ask me if he can't play wit girls again because of me, though he try his best in little things he can help me since we are both corpers, he hardly introduce me to his female friends and every girl he meet is his friend, but he will not do introduction except few, the most painful is that the girls he call these sweet names are not up to me(sorry for saying that though but it sucks) please advice me.

you will lose that guy if you don't grow up

HannahHitler:
she is not gay, i am gay. But must you always show your foolishness? You sound very bitter and unhappy, if you have problems, why not look for solutions instead of projecting on others?

You cannot even contribute intelligently to the conversation. Na wa o. And the Mods will not see this.

you are even proud saying it.... Tufiakwa

ReinaFarine:
Useless people including the CEO of Apple, Ellen Degeneres and co?

Stop defending this people the act is sick

ReinaFarine:
Does their action hurt anyone?
Is their lifestyle causing pain tonyou or the environmenf?
Will of be sane for someone to say.... 'I'm not religious or anything but any man that likes big titties is abnormal and deserves to die'
Because he is an ass man? ( I mean he prefers female with big ass)

bia you are starting to sound like one of those useless gays

Animalistic behavior

Daniwes:
Hii guys... Pls help with this situation really bothering me.
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Early this year, I met a girl who just started her undergraduate program in the city I live. Things moved so smooth, in a week, we were already making out with hand and MouthAction
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Things moved so fast, she came to my house (2nd week in January )and we has sex. This time, she complained of pains so I stopped and pulled out the CD. After a while she began riding on me for like 15seconds, then I pushed her away. I didn't 'cumm' and I wasn't even close to it... However, that same day, she started complaining of severe cramps, which continued to the following day and days on when she developed mild bloating.
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I researched materials online and figured pregnancy symptoms shouldnt come so quick and assumed it should be symptoms of something else.
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Anyway, fast-forward to first week in February, she said she saw her period, which came at the usual time. She ended her 4 days period on the 7th. On the 8th, we had sex with no protection at the start which lasted for a few seconds then I put the CD on. On the 10/11th, we had sex again and no protection for sometime again. This time a bit longer (as I was finding it hard to cum), before I put the CD. All through, I was never close to ejaculating.
It was later I started reading more about the sperm content of precum and other stuff. Hence, on the 13th, I gave her the morning after pill(plan b) cos I was really scared of what might go wrong. A week from then, she started exhibiting all manner of symptoms, from spotting to bleeding, to cramps, sore breasts, whitish discharge. I also read that the morning after pill causes such side effects but I was still worried. ..
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I know I made a mistake, which i really regret. I just want to know the chances of she getting pregnant. I m being very careful of the way i m dealing with her now, cos I kinda realise she won't mind having a baby for me, and somehow even wants it.. And I m not ready for that.
Pls advise from you guys with similar or more experience.. What are her chances of getting pregnant?

why did you have sex when you weren't ready to have a baby... Mumu

boyjo:
How possible?

I don't know bro... I guess am just that way

Am super shy around girls I like
I love romantic movies and high school drama
I hate people
I always feel alone
I think I might be suffering from depression

Why would you want to have sex in a self con off camp apartment... I think it will make more sense if you focus on your future...... God Don dey save you now you no wan hear

Ok na go on.

ofegge73:
Good evening Nairalanders, I have no idea how to go about making this as clear as possible, but truth is I married a stranger.
I met this Lady in 2012,we became friendly, and talked on consistently.
At the time she was on NYSC in Ikom cross River State. By the way she is from Obosi in Anambra state.
She was visiting me in Lagos every week, of course I paid for her flight tickets back and forth for all the times she visited till we got married and beyond. I have never let her use the bus or public transport to anywhere, it's either I drive her, she drives or a taxi.
A few months to her passing out, she told me she was pregnant, so I thought I would marry her and cut the drama short, but that was my undoing.
We got married, but all through, she spent more time with her parents and siblings.
Fast forward to 2016,my wife got a job through my sister in Abuja, and everything got worse, she wouldn't get back home till very late everyday.
Her explanation was that her boss delayed her.
I got to find out she was dating her boss later, even caught her at hotels in ikeja G. R,.A and on the island with her boss at very odd hours of the night.
Don't get me wrong, I am okay, I live in a 5 bedroom duplex in ikeja, the house is very comfortable and cosy, and almost completing my personal building at awoyaya in ibeju. i am not a poor man.
Well, she gave birth to my first child a boy, but insisted on C. S, then my daughter, through C. S too. All were elective!
She wouldn't come back home,and spent more time at her parents than in our home, always saying she needs herMum to watch the kids,while she is out, we got maids, but she was so violent with them, they all left.
Fast forward to 2017,i asked my wife to come back home, she refused, well I told her the marriage wouldn't work anymore,as she wasnt living with me for the past two years.
She immediately went and petitioned me at office of the Public defender in Lagos State citing domestic violence, irresponsibility as to my kids and stuff, I have always provided food, toiletries, medicals,as well as pay my children's school fees till this minute. But she teamed up with her Mum and brother to make up so many fabrications because they demanded I pay a stipend to them every month, and I said no, I won't do that, your daughter, my wife is in your house cos she wants to be there, not because I sent her away or anything like that.Her father is the only person who is sane, but the man is a pensioner and can't help himself much, so she treats him with intimidation She reported me to the police and all agencies you can think of, well at last they conducted their investigations and found out she was telling lies.
I am no more interested in keeping her, and she has vowed that I can't divorce her or I die, but my kids are the issue now.
I need sound advice on how to go about this.
Please no mockery, I am in dire need of good advice. Thanks.

first of all am never getting married

FluidQueen:
Dude. Let me start by telling you, YOU ARE AMAZING!
You are what you are, A Gay, Beautiful man.
No amount of prayers and anointing oils would change that, but it's okay. Your god obviously made you that way. In his words, he created man in his own image. You're his image, and your sexuality too.


Stop torturing yourself. Go find love and happiness. Embrace your sexuality. Find a dude. It is who you are. If you eventually meet God and he judges You, ask him why he didn't change you. His fault, not yours.

PS- Send me a message. A DM. We need to talk. Suicide isn't the option. Life's too short to feel this way. Pursue those Orgasms, boy!

are you OK?

Bro are you looking for a way out.... Just say it?

It can't be worse than baba

Anoda one...

Bro.... I will never marry a girl older than me by even one day

Thunder fire you dere.... Mumu

Come on carry that clothe sharp sharp... You fit Bleep am as if you be his wife but u no fit wash clothe Abi

Protest and be shot..

Just move on with your life..... Seriously girls are stupid

Upcoming rapper??

Hmm

Techguidenigeria.com

God help u

Leave her alone na

NaoSlay:


see what supposedly sane Nigerian youths are discussing?


While China youths are busy inventing new things in betterment of this civilisation.


Y'all are here discussing difference between masturbation and sex.


No wonder politicians are looting away your future.

how many have you invented?

No girl will ever chop my money

prettydani:
Hi guys. This is my first post here and I want to be as sincere as possible...

Sometime in December last year, I was sick, having series of chest pain. So my boyfriend of over a year called me and told me about a party in his company and they were told to come with their spouses, girlfriends, fiances. Although we've been talking about it, so I came over to his house irrespective of how I was feeling. Just so he wouldn't feel left out in the party. So I took my drugs and was trying to rest a bit on the bed. The next thing he said was "my friend is coming and I want you to make her up. " note : I'm not even a makeup artist. So I was like " I can't. You know I'm not feeling well, I don't even know how to make myself up for the party that evening" he got angry and refused to talk to me. I was surprised. I ignored him initially then went to the kitchen to fix something to eat. Then I overheard him on the phone talking to a friend of mine that he would send her a number that she should take the girl to a makeup artist around and do her makeup. So I came out from the kitchen and was like " baby let me join na, you know I'm not feeling well "... He got angry and was like after embarrassing him and refusing to make up his friend that I should leave him alone.

I tried talking to him he just stood up and went to the bathroom. So I took my bag and left. When I got to the junction, I wasnt at peace with myself. I needed to know if it's cos of makeup that he's so angry or I did something else without knowing. So I went back and he'd locked the gate. I knocked for a while before he opened the door. So I told him we needed to talk, I was trying to talk to him but he was snubbing me and moving around the house. I was like do you want me to leave, he said yes that would be better. I told him if I leave, he shouldn't call me again, He said that's not a problem and deleted my number in my presence. I got angry and even broke my phone. I told him so because of another lady you want to throw away all that we've been through. With tears in my eyes... He didn't care. Just wanted me to leave ... I left his house in tears and he never called me back. I got home hurt, couldn't sleep was thinking, my mum asked why I didn't go for the party again I told her It was cancelled. That night I took sleeping pills regardless of the fact that I was on other medications...

It knocked me out and I found myself in the hospital the next morning. My mom called my supposed boyfriend, he came there and after that he never called, texted to know if I've been there or discharged...

It's been over a month and he hasn't called. My mum invited him over for Christmas he didn't come.
I tried talking to him yesterday and told me that he wasn't interested that I have anger issues I need to fix my self that he can't deal with me....

I need advice here. Cos I'm finding it difficult to move on. Cos even my pastors and family are aware of our relationship.

the guy is immature.... Plus he is fed up with you.

I will never date or spend my money on someone am not married to yet... The guy should Just buckle up and hustle.....