This is wrong though, in a developed country, the lecturer will have to resign from his work.
Now that he has proposed and the girl is still a student, what happens when she fails his course paper?

My take on this is very simple, if your motivation is to have kids look for another person, But if love is your motivation then you can marry her.

So you are now a universal donor? continue

Get Aloe vera plant, open it and use the gel

Hmmm, I really don't think this is your son.

Yes, because if his your son, you will not allow the head to get to this level.

Either you are careless or the boy is not your son.

Hey bro, forget about a new relationship.
1. You need to "Repent" and what is repentance; change of mindset, lifestyle, direction, etc. because right now you don't see any wrong in what you are doing. keeping records of your mishap.

2. I don't know your faith, you have to believe this, for every lady you slept with, they have transmitted a spirit to your spirit, soul, and body. You need a second Repentance which is to be born again.(this you will confess your sins and forsake them.

Bro, The truth is that: 1. You and your wife are not supposed to sleep in different rooms.
2. Communication between you and your wife is crucial, what you brought to this platform would have been best discussed with your wife, let her know you are not comfortable with her kind of dressing within the house.
3. You can approach her(your sis-inlaw) to let her know that you are not comfortable with her dressing. it's your home and you are the head, you determine the direction of the house.
4. Bible says "Flee from the appearance" You might need to tell your wife, it's time for her sister to leave the house. and let your wife know is for the sanity of your family.

Madam, I couldn't finish reading the whole story, but from the little I read, Your husband imposes his will over the boy's will.
The remedy is for your husband first to realize he was wrong....... and call the boy and apologize to him.

Let your husband take him out on a date and explain why he wants him to read pharmacy at the university, and also let your husband free him from his mind to read his desired course, computer science.

both you and your husband need to give him the word of affirmation, love etc

I don't think you want the job? it is the money you want.

this is your own statement "I wouldn't want to be a victim of robbery circumstance because of a job whose salary cannot even meet one's needs". with these statements; I doubt your passion for the job, which means you did not count the cost(what it will take), you just counted the money..........

Hi, Mr. loverboy

Permit me to use that name. The main issue here is your WHY of marriage is wrong.
take a look at your reasons for marriage" she is cool-headed and calm, intelligent and ambitious. Her skills match someone I dream of marrying" these are wrong reasons, who tells you marriage will make her be more peaceful, you don't even have an idea of what you are capable of doing when married.

I am not here to insult you no, but to bring alignment to your plan. 1. You have a vision, you are going somewhere.....(am not talking about building a house, you can build a house without getting married). 2. Then you look for a woman that will complement that vision of yours.(a woman that will make the journey "what while".)

Yes, is very possible. both options are possible. what is the difference between people in hell and heaven? the people in heaven acknowledged they are sinner and accepted the free gift of God, Jesus Christ.

pray for direction.

The truth is, your WHY of marriage shows that you are still a babe. am not saying the to insult you.
If you want to get married because; you are young, have money, need someone to manage the business and the money you've make since 17. Trust some people are doing the above better without marriage.

The truth of the matter is, 1. Do you also like him? so as not to make us think is the one who is falling in love.

2. Both of you are mature, you can pen down terms and condition for the relationship. such as no kids or more kids etc define expectations...

The truth of the matter start from you.
your reasons for wanting to get married is wrong. 1. age is not on your side.
you need to align your vision of marriage. It is when you know where you are going, you will also know the road that will take you to your destination. (you will know the woman that will help you get to your destination)

One thing we need to know about the things of God, is that it has to be by faith.....
God cannot be read up, like chemistry or physics, God is revealed. Having said that, Tithe belong to the levite, and your pastor is in this position. giving tithe to yourself, your mum, or the less privilege is wrong. Jesus said give to caeser what belong caeser.

Hey!!!
The truth of the matter was that your mummy told you that, based on the reverential attitude, and, comportment auth to have in the presence of God, and she did not explain to you.
In the real sense, we close our eyes to avoid distractions and to enable us to concentrate

Run for your life when a woman is dictating the pace for you

What stops you from being an already-made woman?
You see !!! you have a wrong mentality and going into marriage with this mentality is already a faulty premise for marriage.

Hmmm, do you know what marriage means? let me help you. forsaking all others and cleaving to your spouse.

Bro,
Please don't take the Job.
It's a modern-day slavery
Considering the location, do you have accommodation in Lagos?

You are very stupid!!!!
And you bold to expose your weakness "you are mummy's boy". Why don't you marry your mummy?.
Its shows that you guys just married, no counselling, because if you did you will know that slapping, or beating your wife is a disgrace to you.
You even titled your post " I slapped the nonsense out of her"

As far as am concern you are not mature for marriage. Your wife is more mature than you.

Kindly go back acknowledge your wrong and ask him to forgive you

1. you need to stop watching porn
2. the mind id divided in two a). the conscious mind and the sub-conscious mind. the conscious mind which are your five senses gets information to your heart, and when you fill the heart with the same information, its get downloaded into your sub-conscious mind which is your heart(hard drive). guess what when you format a hard drive, you think the whole information has been wiped out? no. when you run a data recovery sofware on a hard drive it will bring back the whole data inside the hard drive.

This is to say porn images has been downloaded into your sub-conscious mind which is your heart, that is why it trigger even without your permission.
3. getting a girl friend or marry will not stop this, because it has now become a habit.

SOLUTION
4. The same way you filled your mind with porn videos etc. you need to stop watching porn and fill your mind with another habit. you must be deliberate about this if you want to deliver yourself. and it not going to be once or twice everyday, any moment of idleness etc. inbox me: ayordaviz@gmail.com