₦airaland Forum

Upset700:
I've been having issues with guys for years now, especially with guys I sleep with.
Whenever I like a guy, or get interested in a guy and then i have sex unintentionally (he wants it but I don't).. After then there's this irritation, I loose interest, I cut the person off.

It's more like he has sold his value to me, like there's no prize, probably he is a great guy but that act alone makes me very uncomfortable.
I know this is usually a guy thing, but I've been struggling with this for years.

I feel men should also stop selling themselves cheap...cus they are women who wouldn't value what they can get easily.

I like you already

I love her disciplinary nature

No one is smiling

I fancy the initial part of his advise, but to encourage pre-marital sex for me is a No! No!!!

Marriage is not all about sex, but it is very very important... Over to d elders

pimplucious:
I am looking at investing in hospitality business but I’m not sure if 60Million naira will be adequate to erect a 20 room hotel and event hall with a capacity of about 500 people max.

Cause of the paucity of funds, I’m looking to make it a single story building such that hotel will be on the ground floor while the top floor will hold the event hall.

Engineers in the house do you think this amount will be enough to achieve this? Pls let’s have your expert opinion on this. Thanks in advance.

It all depends on the location and size.... plus the structural design

lazynairalander1:
Yesterday I was really bored and decided to do a very quick BI dashboard for data survey captured. I collected my data from GitHub, analyzed it via Power Query and below is the visualization.

Nice job...

No problem... Good personal decision

The luckiest baby on earth

Wahala... We will all adjust with time.

Smarttec:
Dell latitude E4310 corei5
250Hdd 4gram
Screen size:13.3
Processor speed:2.6
With keyboard light
With CDROM
With wapcam
Double cell Battery
What’s or call
07068922402

I have 55k right now... quick deal

KeyEndurance:
i have this friend of my who like visiting my house every blessed day. before that things are moving well whenever he visited he must demand for food and i usually makes him happy by given him his need, but now every body knows how Nigeria is, since last week this my friend never stop coming to my house and am the kind of guy thats struggling to survive and he Is Coming To my House to add His Problem To My Own Again. The Things Is Disturbing my Mind But I Dont know What To Tell Him to Stop coming For Now

Start by stop offering him food...

jendor123:
Hello tech guy. I want to ask if it is possible to repair HDMI CABLE. I have a very long HDMI CABLE buy the mouth that goes it my lable is shaking, I want to know if it is possible to repair that. And where can I have it fixed

Just get another one instead...

Oluwatimileyin1:
Fastest buyer
Location: College of medicine university of lagos
I will sell it on auction

What is d configuration?

Lovely thread...

funkmrflexx:
I'm looking for large email list for marketing purposes
I'm willing to pay

kindly state the following:

1) rate per a thousand.
2), Location of email owners (imagine having emails of pple in USA while and you are marketing betnaija for instance)
3) Age range of respondents and interests...

Mention me in your reply

The wife is a governor is wanted and the governor is just over there in kogi...

If she's innocent, i pay she gets off the hook

SUPERPACK:
We sincerely apologize to the general public for this very act of nuisance. The poster is one of our psychiatric patients who escaped last night. We urge the public to go about with your various businesses as everything is under control.
Thanks for your understanding

Please, kindly ensure you re-capture him. He is a threat to the sanity of many

Testiebobo:
Damn it! My best friend is after my girl. Am broken in disapointment and feel cheated, how could he? I usually see them together on several occassions without me with them. Or maybe because his pocket is heavier than mine, I hope is not what am thinking. What should I do to him? Cuz am in pains. I need ur comments guys

If your 'girl' is showing interest in him as well, my broda, walk away

A man that was once referred as NLC leader is today been booed cos of what politics have turned hik into...

Testiebobo:
I was once saving money with one of my female friend at school, nobody knew it except one of my friends who is very quiet but malicious. To summarize the story, this guy always study my movements and I began to notice it but I ignored, however he will not steal my money I thought. One day, I found my bag opened and my savings missing altogether with partner's money, so I began to panic as I was searching for the money, but to no avail. Since then, I and my sister have to always trek home for about two weeks using our T-fare to refund the money of my partner. The school was unable to unveil the thief but I knew the person was close to me. Till today, that guy is still battling with his theft spirit, and he has been arrested in several occassions for stealing and robbery. So I need your help and advice on how l can help him as a friend BECAUSE IT DOES NOT SEEMS ORDINARY

Sit him down and first speak sense into his head to start with. I wish i had a friend like you who will still have my interest at heart even if I had once f**ked up.

If Psquare said this, I will take it as the final Knockout!!!

Hypocrites...

man4woman:
I have this sturbond tenant in my house that refused to leave after the quit notice given to him expired. I don't want to involve illegal mode to evict him.

What other legal means do I use to evict him immediately. This is in Ogun State (Mowe to be precise).

I need this urgently?
Admin please help push to front page.

Thanks in advance

The court is your best bet... The court bailiffs will throw him out for you

It ended with them been 2m richer... Not a bad one at all.
It was a blessing in disguise as they will now have 2 kids

OvercomeShine:
My father is late. I live with my mother and siblings and we have been surviving on our small fruit business. I hawk banana, plantain, pineapple and so own. I finished secondary school 4 years ago but since no money to further, I joined my mother in the fruit business. I was to go learn fashion design this year but a woman who was once a woman-friend to a man in my home town came to the village to see her friend when she saw me and showed interest in me. So she met my mum and told her that I should follow her to Lagos to help her in her business, that after a year, she will put me in a nice fashion design school. That was like a saviour coming through for me. Living in the city and doing fashion design, that was my dream. So my mum agreed to it and I left with her to Lagos on Sunday morning. That was 22nd of January.

In Lagos, I stayed in her place for 3 days and she didn't take me to any restaurant she claimed she had.

In the evening of the 4th day which was Wednesday, she took me to one place, a hotel and we sat at the restaurant. There, she met another woman. She introduced me to her as her new girl. Later she asked me to excuse them and sit somewhere while the two of them discussed. After the discussion, she told me that her friend will show me where to sleep as her house was not ok for me to sleep that night. The woman later called a man whom I believed is the manager, he took me to the main hotel and showed me a room I will sleep. That was where I started seeing girls dressing half naked and hanging around. I also head another section where loud music was play. May be a bar or club.

On seeing that, I was afraid and I started asking myself, I hope my mind is deceiving me and I wasn't in the place to do prostitution.

The fear in me was doubled. So in the room, to my shock, the manager opened up to me that I am to join the girls in the hotel to sleep with men for money. That it is no big deal. That he understands I am a village girl who doesn't understand city life. That I will be well taken care of and lack nothing. The following day, I will be taken to the market and be buy new clothes. That there is much money in it that can change my life in a very short time. He said a lot trying to convince me.

During that time, he said normally before any girl joins the business, he would sleep with the girl first before any other person. He also said that normally the girls don't say no or reject the move and he does so for free but because he likes me, he would give me 10k to make me happy.

I was shock and confused at that point. I didn't even know when I started shading tears, asking him why my Aunty wants me to join prostitution. That prostitution wasn't why I was brought to Lagos. The man cut me off and said I should forget about all that and start work to earn money everyday to better my life. He said if I refuse, he will through me out and my madam will abandon me in the street of Lagos.

By this time, he was already touching me sexually. I am new, I don't know anybody in Lagos and I didn't even have a phone with me as she collected it from me. My mum in the village is without a phone either. Nobody to contact or anywhere to go. Since he was trying to have sex with me, I told him fine, I will do it but he should go and come back later so I can take my bath first. He left and about 5 mins later, someone came in with food for me, noodles and egg. Even though I was hungry but couldnt eat the food.

Then, my plan was to disappear from the place and God helped me to do that successfully. I ran out of the hotel and nobody catch me. I left the area far away so nobody can even find me. The next 3 days I was on the street roaming homelessly, hungry and tired. I slept in filling stations after begging the security to allow me. So the last filling station I slept, the security man told me to wait and see his manager in the morning that he may help me out. I waited, met the man and God used him to see me through. He felt bad when I told him about the problem especially as I didn't bath, eat nor sleep well the last 2 nights. He first bought food for me. He noticed my clothes were dirty and he bought top and skirt for me, and since he couldn't take me to his house for whatever reason, he took me to a guest house and paid for one hour, so I could just take my bath and change cloth. Later on, he took me to a park and book for my return. Mr. Folarin, I don't know you but God will really bless you for being so kind to me even when you didn't know me from anywhere.

So in the night, he dropped me in the park to sleep over and follow these first bus in the morning back to my place, Delta state. I have been calling him with any available number to thank him. He has talk with my mum too.

Since I returned and told my mum, she has been in shock. We went to that her friend in my home town and she denied having any idea the woman is into that kind of business. My number has been off and I don't have her number off head.

Please if you have any advice for me, drop it.

Glad you escaped... God will make a way for you

SalemPrince:
Here's what I've been passing through for some time now. It happened that my MTN sim card just began to malfunction.It refused to browse.I thought it was my aging phone,so I bought a new phone(itel p38 to be precise) but it did not browse still. Infarct I bought a new SIM yet nothing changed.Note:the new SIM I bought is MTN as well. The service is just fluctuating. However I was surprised when I inserted a Glo sim belonging to someone into the phone,it started browsing immediately.
Meanwhile my own MTN Sims don't browse until after 12 midnight even though they're all loaded with data. What could be wrong? Please help.

Simple, call customer care.

ritaprincess:
Good evening
I want to start a business this month, i already have a shop in a good area in lagos,and i have money to get some goods in the shop(jewelry business). But the money i have wont be enough to stock my shop the way i want.
I was advised by my friend to try one of these microfinance(lapo). She said they do give loan and the interest rate is okay. I dont really know much about them,please if you have experience with them or know about them kindly share

Never ever get a loan from Lapo for a startup biz

Hatrick01:
Good morning fellas

I am planning of getting a new phone this week but dont know which i should go for.

The current brand in my head now is iphone 11 or samsung s10.

Pls which is better than the other, even if they aint thesame price.

Which one should i go for?

If you can go for samsung Note10, that'll be perfect!!!