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It is not impossible...

Nigerian banking security system is too vulnerable...

They should so be dismissed including the men...

May his soul rest in peace... He really gave us some wonderful laughing moments back then before comedy became more sophisticated.

That is what the true Islam should be about... Not all these brainwashed fanstics filed with hatred that are many today.

I have suffered such in time past and my bank did nothing about it... So, I choose not to belive the bank

rippa:
Good day guys!
So today i went to the primary school at Kola bus stop in Alimosho local govt in Lagos that INEC said my PVC is to get it. Below are what i witnessed today;
1. We were on queue when the INEC officials announced that those that did transfer and still have their old PVC will drop it when they have the New one. One elderly woman created a scene and said she will not drop hers that they want to use it to rigged the election

2. The APC councillor (he was on APC cap) in that ward came around and he went to the INEC officer to greet him and when they were discussing the people on the queue told the man to leave that he is distracting the INEC officials and the next thing, they started singing "never we will vote APC again after 8yrs of suffering"
and it all happened in Lagos.

People are really ready to do the right thing come February and we pray that the will of the people prevails

P.S: I got my card today and I'm ready to vote Obi for presidency, and Sanwo Olu for governor.
Please congratulate me

I love your choice of candidates

They are demons in human form.... Can't believe they own these kids

thesolutions:
I did a Bill payment transaction of N20,000 last year September but the transaction failed. I was later debited for the same transaction but reversal never happened. I contacted My service provider for the token but they confirmed that the transaction was not successful and advised I get in touch with my bank regarding the issue.

I raised several claim with my bank and they kept insisting that it was successful and instructed me to contact my service provider. This constant turning and whining frustrated me a lot. Facebook was the worst place to make a complain or maybe the handler was not proactive like those on twitter.

Yes, I took the issue to twitter, not public but DM, and the handler escalated the dispute just like those on Facebook but still the unit involved tried to dismiss my claim by providing a token for a different transaction done a month after. Very fraudulent of the unit involved.

I made a quick search of the token they provided and found the fraud they were trying to cover up. I got them the screenshot of the token that was provided and the date the transaction was done and also the one that my claim was for. They also tried to dismiss my claim because the transaction was showing that it was successful on their portal but why try providing a fake token instead of contacting the service provider themselves. They also told me to contact my service provider but later requested I have patience as they have put message across the service provider. I still went to my service provider for the third time and they still requested for same thing I have been providing them with on my previous visits.

Finally, the money dropped in my account.

Those that told me to go to twitter, thank you.

If not for shege that person is seeing this new year I would have forgot about the money and save myself from English.

I am coming after my debtors next.

Twitter is the fastest resolution spot now... No company wants to trend in thewrong way!

And he must come to show it to the world
Many really do not understand what it means to lose a child... The best you can do for such family is to try not to bring back the memory and let them live without it in peace!!!

breakthrough22:
Good evenning ,

I came back home from work this night to find out my wife and my son have packed and abandoned me .

My son is 4 years old and I really don't mean to hurt my wife .

She travelled on the 26th of December to her dad house here in Lagos .I missed her so much and I sent her money to come back last Saturday though she said she will be coming on Sunday only for me to call her between 2pm and 8pm without her picking the call .

The phone rang times without number .I later gave the last try and the no was busy answering other call .She later picked and said there was no light .So,she couldn't charge. I was mad because the excuse was too flimsy .I challenged her to tell her but your phone rang .I was mad and I lost trust in her that moment and flashed back to the excuse that she will not come on Saturday.

Seriously ,I was angry and different thoughts came to my mind like May be she went to see another man .

That hour ,I told her I don't want to see her again .I was angry though .She didn't come on Sunday. She came back very early yesterday which was Monday.

I will not lie ,I have been so angry ,ranting and telling her to go back to her parent house that I don't trust her again.

To my surprise ,I came back tonight and she already packed all her loads ,packed my son things without leaving any thing .Her wardrobe and my son wardrobe have been empty as I am typing .She packed everything .

Seriously ,I am depressed cos I love her .I love my son .I can't even allow him to stay over there to start schooling. Me and my wife have been together since 2013 .We have gone through a lot of difficulties together and now ,things are beginning to look good for us .I am so down right now .I called he dad and her brother .It is like they took that decision together .

I have never beaten her before but I do nag especially when bills are weighing me down .His dad and his brother was just shouting at me .Fear of been a single dad or living alone at this stage of my life will make me a walking ghost and the fact that ,I really love my son too and also my wife too will one day kill me .

Imagine ,that Saturday she changed what she saved my no with and saved with my son name.I attached my call history .Check the image of the missed calls.

Please what do I do?I am devastated .


Some of her chats this night ..

[1/10, 9:35 PM] SWEETHEART: Hv always endure with u even though u did not hv money,but u always rain insult on me everyday .am not coming back I want to work and make my own money,u said u hv never achieved anything good bcoz of me!u said I am your biggest mistake in life and now hv made up my mind with you.you pushed me to the wall!u make me carry luggage in the hot sun and cry ,am tired,I cried and cried and endure all bcoz of love so nao am ready to work and earn good for myself and my son.
[1/10, 9:40 PM] SWEETHEART: U can change ur key am not coming again
[1/10, 9:46 PM] SWEETHEART: Am not ,u know is too late for me to come back to .... and u urself know is my biggest fear bcoz I don't like coming here but u make me come back,is too late. Even wen u always tell me to go,I will still wait but u make me come back to my fear It is too late.
[1/10, 9:46 PM] SWEETHEART: ...will start school on Monday here and just take responsibility of it, if u don't want to loose ur son too.

Man up, go to get father's house and apologize to your wife... Stop regretting and go and get back your family!!!

Only God knows what everyone goes through in his or her closet...

Giving us bad reputation...

orohbiro:
If oshimhen no win this year caf player of the year enh, na Ogun go kill CAF
The boy dey play ball he is bigger than Napoli the premier league need him asap

Newcastle or manutd will be preferable

He will leave Napoli after winning the Seria A for them. Dude is the new African star!!!

Yabsun:
Thanks. You think Samsung galaxy Note 10 is better and if it is, can I get it at the 150k?

Note is always better... The S-pen is always a game changer and yes! You should get the UK used for that amount

Oboh662:
My wife lost her immeiate elder sister , she left behind 6 children including twins who are 3 months old and a husband , the man is nothing to write home about he had abandoned all 6 children with my inlaws , he doesn't call nor send them money for their upkeep.
My wife is a nursing mother our baby is 5 months her family want us to take over the twins so my wife can nurse them but I refused because I am managing myself to provide for my wife and baby I can't afford to provide for 2 extra babies and my inlaws are not financial buoyant all the responsibility will be on me ,buying pampers and baby formula every week.
My wife is angry and she said I am heartless for refusing to accomodate these orphans.I told my inlaws to report there father to welfare so he can provide for his 6 children they don't want to report him, they said they reported him to God and they are forcing me to take his responsibility when he is alive this is something I can never do.
I don't know what part of I can't afford 3 babies they don't understand , at the moment we haven't renew our rent and I am working hard to get the money to pay the rent and she is giving me attitudes. Do I have a point or I am a bad person for not accepting them?

Edit : admin do not push this to the front page

I admire your courage to face the reality of things... If you can't cope with it, do nor agree to it

She spoke with high level of sense!!!

Yabsun:
I contemplated getting either IPhone XR(UK used) or Samsung S10+. After so much comparisons, I decided to settle with Samsung S10+. The problem now is the issue of money. Would 150k fetch me the phone?

It will get you the UK used... If you can get Samsung galaxy Note10 instead. Try to

Shots fired... Chelsea comerades calling for backup!!!

Otitipupa:
She has been staying with us for over a month now. I don’t even know how they met each other, he just brought her one day and introduced her as his girlfriend.

I have tried to tell him it’s wrong being with an underaged girl but he told me to mind my business. I can’t say much to him because I don’t have a job and I’m squatting with him. He is the one feeding me and giving me money to go for interviews.

He is treating the girl really bad. I sleep on the floor while they sleep on the bed. One night, he wanted to have his way with her and the girl said she was tired. I heard him tell her that she is not a real woman that is always ready to please her man. He threatened her he won’t marry her again. She told him she is sorry and allowed him.

He has slapped her 2 times in my presence. He is treating her like a slave. I am afraid to advice the girl to go back home as she might tell him.

The guy is a notorious cultist and I don’t want to step on his toes. Please how do I report this matter anonymously to the right authorities without it backfiring me.

We stay in a akwaibom

I pray God blesses you so that you can move out of there as soon as possible.

Alesa3341:
Hello Guys, please I need a sincere and matured advise on what to do. This will be long, please bare with me.

I'm 27, am a businessman, I have this girl I really love so much and intend to marry her this year December, but one thing about her is her bad character. She challenge me, talk back at me, shout at me, get angry with me for days, refuse to cook when she is angry, disrespect my family, most especially my mum, always trying to paint herself good and paint me bad in presence of people, these are just little of the things she has done to me.

When she lost her job, and had nowhere to go, I had to bring her to my house, and provide everything for her, food, I change her hair twice a month, subscribe unlimited for her, I just provided everything a woman need to be happy for her. Last year November, she told me she haven't seen her mum for 5years and wanted to travel to see her, I spent close to 200k to take her to and fro, including other things she needed. She insisted on collecting the bride price list for me when coming back, I spoke to her mum and they gave her to give me. I was planning to finalize all on the weeding this year.

Last year DECEMBER, I took her to my family to introduce her, but this was the biggest mistake of my life. She was completely disrespectful to my mum, talks to me anyhow in presence of anyone, even to the extent of refusing to cook for me anytime she is angry, I go to kitchen and prepare food myself.

I love this girl so much but I still thought of continuing, with all this attitudes, I advise her everyday, I also took her to my pastor who advise her too most of the times, but she never changes.

Fast forward to 2days ago, we had issues because she told me to join her in washing and I refused because I was working on a client project, she got angry, washed the clothes and when it was evening she brought the clothes inside, folded her own in the wardrobe and just threw mine into the wardrobe without folding or arranging them. I was angry about this, but I kept mute. The next day, she sent me "sorry" on WhatsApp, I told her to come to me physically and apologize but she told me she can never do that, and why was she even apologizing, that she did nothing wrong, we exchanged words and she left my house.

Today, she called me and told me she is pregnant, and that I should send her money to remove it. I was like "just like that"? We didn't discuss about it, how will you just tell me you want to terminate my pregnancy, I told her to go to hospital and confirm it and also get the test report, she did this and sent to me, it was true she is pregnant, but she insisted on removing it, I persuaded her and she still refused, claiming she can't be a single mother. I told her I will take responsibility, but she insisted on removing it, I told her to go home and think about it, and she told me she can't leave there without removing it. After so much persuading I decided to give her the money, and told her if she removed it, that it's on her, that I didn't consent to this.

I asked her why we can't keep it, and she said because my family is bad, we support evil, if the sky is blue, we say it's red, that my mother is a bad woman, and she doesn't want to come there. She said so many bad things about my family, I was shocked! I asked her, how are they bad, she said "how can my mother be telling her to wash my clothes" I was just confused, After all I have done for you, is it bad if you wash your husband to be clothes, I left her!

Later she told me the doctor referred her to another hospital, I still tried to persuade her and she said her decision is final. She asked me to give her money to go to the hospital she was referred to, I refused! I insisted that we keep the baby, she told me "I'm a nobody, that she will call now and she will get money to go" I angrily blocked her. Later, she called my other line and told me, she went to the other hospital and the doctor told her, the cost to remove the pregnancy is 125k, she told me and I insisted on keeping the baby.

Please guys help.me, I don't want to terminate my first child, the girl is too disrespectful and rude, I don't want to continue with such woman, but she is carrying my baby, what do I do? And if she later agree to keep it, how do I go about it?

You all are just saying "don't marry her" what about the baby? Should I agree to abort it and give her the money?

MODIFIED

Since you did not consent to it, do not give her money to abort it. If she wants, she should look for the money and do it at her own risk!!!

And how are you sure you are the father of the baby?

And biko, no matter what you do, do not make the mistake of marrying that gal

@makurdiliki are you the Brother Etiokwe

Wahala no dey finish be dem matyer
What a foolish man the hospital Administrator is. I gues he was into the whole thing as well

This is evil... And you will expect such doctors not to move to UK enmass

What a coincidence...

7david7:
Good morning my people, I am writing you people at this delicate hour of 12:39am because my son's condition, it's getting worse by the day. Dandruff wants to kill this beautiful boy, I know it's weird because we all know, myself included that dandruff doesn't kill, but watching myself lose a part of my son everyday. He's been suffering from this condition for over 6yrs now, we've gone to the hospital and after buying and using all the prescribed drugs (Nizoral shampoo, selsun blue, head and shoulders, tea tree oil, miconazole cream, ketoconazole cream, terbinafine cream, fluconazole tablet, terbinafine tablet:almost killed my son, griseofulvin etc) nothing has changed, instead it's getting worse by day. From complaining of headaches, to weakness( my son that was filled with energy and plays all the time now barely moves, he is always one place complaining of tiredness and pain), to joint pains, to confusion. According to him, this dandruff has ate up his scalp so much that he can now taste his bathing soap on his tongue the moment he washes his head. We are now scared of washing and applying anything on his head because he will complain of tasting whatever we put on his head in his mouth and he will start having reactions. It's almost as if the skin on his scalp no longer protects him from outside soaps and other ingredients. The moment he washes his head, his lips and tongue will swell up and he will start having reactions. My once active and lovely boy is now a shadow of himself. He's refusing to play, always complaining of tiredness and pains. Pls help me my people, I don't know what to do anymore. I've tried every hospital and everything, I've done all I know, and now I'm watching my son deteriorate gradually before my very eyes without having a clue what to do, pls I beg you, help him, help me.

I can understand how you feel. I pray you find solution f or your son

Words can not explain the Nigerian prisons... I pray nothing in this life takes me there!!!

flejnr2:
Lisa Marie Presley, daughter of pop star Elvis Presley, 54years of age, passed away after she was rushed to the hospital following a cardiac arrest.

May her soul rest in peace...

It was a very great disrespect... I wonder what the president of Ghana was thinking.

I love all she represents and I respect her husband for making her be herself.... He must be a respectable Muslim.

At the long run, it is her life and her business... she got a good publicity