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I think this time, the military is saying the truth... But still, i refuse to believe what they have to say

yinkaOdutuyo:
So the main issue that led to me denying her food this night.

I asked her for the two of us to go and get ingredients for food, she said she's having serious headache so I went alone.

When I came back I washed the rice and put it on fire and I also start grinding the pepper and tomatoes with manual grinder.

After few minutes when the rice was done I asked my wife to go and put down the rice from fire, and fried the stew afterwards.

She just started shouting she's so tired, her head is hot and making hefty sounds inside that she can't stand up from this bed.

I insisted and she went to put the rice down and off the gas, instead of her to start frying the stew. She just came and meet me on the bed.

And she started shouting I didn't tell you am hungry, am not even eating this night at all. Do whatever you want to do, I'll never stand up to make any stew in this house. If you want to eat go and make the stew yourself.

I just stood up and enter the kitchen to make the stew. As I was making the stew, my wife that said she's not feeling fine was busy watching film om her phone. She complained earlier that her head is hefty and aching her that she can't stand up from the bed, but she stood up and start looking for the BT Audio to connect to her phone so that she'll be able to hear the film audio very well.

Immediately I finished making thr stew, I served the food on the table and the next my wife wanted to stood up from the bed to join on the table so that we can eat.

I just told her that You can never eat from this food this night and tomorrow morning, because you were the one that said you were not hungry that I was troubling you to make food.

I also told her that the headache allow you br watching films and also allow you to be looking for BT Audio. But denied you to cook for me.

So house I want to know if this is right or wrong pls or what can I do.

To all moniker saying have I ever helped her before this is for you below:

BTW I have cooked many times in the house, there are times she'll go to work before she comes back I'll have prepare good foods, that will atimes takes me 2 or more hours to prepare and she'll come back and eat and smile and say thank you. I use to get home between 5pm and 6pm latest, while she'll be coming home by 7pm, 8pm or latter.

At times the two of us may be at home and I'll be the only one cooking, while she'll just lie down watching films or doing another thing while I do the while cooking.

I think I have being helpful to her in cooking and other chores in the house. There are many times I'll be the one washing all the clothes in the house, while she's sleeping or doing something else.

I literally do almost 80% of everything in the house if not more than.

But me doing all those doesn't mean am a fool or I don't know what am doing.

Bit I think as a man you have to man up.

You are not a fool and you seem to be a considerate husband... Take the issue of the rice as one of those bad days in marriage. You guys should settle the matter and let it slide before it leads to worst issues.

His action at that critical time made the difference...

He just wants to rain relevant on social media

The beautiful city is gone

Let's see what changes it all brings to bear

Wahala dey... Ibrahim no wan hear

Elder brother is accusing his own younger 'sister' of introducing him to drugs.... That alone sounds too mumu in my opinion.

He is a living legend... I wish him all the best with his health

A beautiful Ekuke (mongerel)

This is breakfast served awkwardly hawt...

Blablamalala:
Will Smith. Assuming Will Smith is a White man....who slapped Chris a Black man.

and I am sure Will Smith wouldn't have dared such if Chris Rock were to be a white dude.

You are still warming up... Get a job first biko

Illicit drugs are everywhere you go like MTN...

Godknowwhy:
Greetings to everyone please i have decided to create this new account to stay private! My name is John and wife name is favor not our real name though. I catch my wife cheating on me through her phone after 5years been together with her and we have done our traditional marriage 1years ago with two children already and she confesses that she only Cheat on me once and i push her to do it which i cannot confirm if is only once, Now this is the main point she have confess to me is true but if i can forgive and take her back that she we never made that mistake again. So my own concern now is where can i do the necessary things according to our tradition because we are not correctly living in Nigeria should i do the sacrifice in my place or her place because we are from two different state and know that i have forgiven her already but we don't sleep together neither eat together and cook my own food for now because of what my tradition say about a cheating wife for my own good. Please remember my writing English is not that good is not my fault

I am not a fan of all these traditional stuffs. But since you belive so much in it and you have chosen to forgiver her, You've got to follow that of your village.
Contact your kinsmen and they will tell you what to do... Mostly, they will just tell you to monitize it while they do the whole thing on your behalf without you having to come back home.

Gracepikin33333:
Good afternoon Nairalanders!

I have been suspecting my wife for some weeks now, so i decided to go through his phone whatsapp chats when she was asleep last night.



I saw her chat with her ex on how they both had sex when they were together before we got married and his ex was asking her about the last time we both had sex. Questions like did she enjoy it? They were both telling themselves how much they do miss each other. He was even trying to persuade my wife to find time for him. Please advise me on what do!

My brother in da Lord, that is the what so many young homes are facing nowadays. Wives and husbands who are still non done eith ther 'EX'.

Luckily for you, they are still in the planning stage so seat her ass down and talk it over with your wife... Else, your marriage is headed for the rocks and mess ahead

callym82:
I was attacked at Post office, Pen Cinema Agege.. around 6am today
Somehow God saved my life....

I am glad you are safe... Thank God for your life

Didijiji:
Hello all,

A relationship was started in November last year with the guy planning to marry the lady Easter this year. Suddenly the lady said the age difference is much and she won’t be continuing.

Please is the age difference for a man, 41 and woman 28 much?

she's not interested... Not about the age

Nah! You ladies are just tired of the clouts and using your fake fight to ride on the trend it created. Trend dies down; fights ended

Djibril Cisse's ex-wife? Nah! The lady just have a thing for black and famous.

There is nothing you can do about it cos at the mention of crypto, you have made your case illegal to any security agency.

He really needs to be calming down...

This is a stupid man...

Some people are just too insensitive with their words... What has the boy got to do with this?

RedMac:
Crime has never been an option for me... And by God's grace it won't...

I will never bow down to their pressure...

I pray you get a good financial breakthrough that will make you standout the right way...

RedMac:
We all know we live in an unsteady world and the quest for money and wealth has gotten to it's highest peak...

I am a young man of slightly over 30 years and I understand my age needs to have gotten a stable and adequate financial source of income... But in a case where it's a bit difficult, should I delve into crime... I ask my spirit body and soul ... And the answer they all gave me is NO... Take easy man remain steady in this unsteady world and you will succeed no matter what... These were the world's I keep getting each time I think of money and crime


So... There's this friend of mine, I hardly make or keep friends anyway (this is one bad side of me)... How me and this guy became friends I really don't know... But the thing is, he annoys me with the topic he always brings when we are together... There's no day we are together he does not tell me about a small boy that just bought a GLK or bought a house or that's picking... He's always talking about yahoo, so many times he has asked me if I knew who could teach him... And I have been trying to avoid him... I just pray he does not end up using his mother for yahoo one day...

On the other hand, I was shocked the day my girl friend suggest to me while not try yahoo (damn cold catch my soul that day)... How on earth will my GF suggest I go do yahoo... Do they think it's easy... That was her anyway, I told her I won't and if she wants to leave she's free...

Then just this afternoon my cousin (a non commissioned soldier) telling me if I have anyone that can teach me yahoo, as he needs money badly... At this point I knew it's finished... I gave him my answer, there's no clean yahoo anymore what we have is yahoo plus and he silently agreed...

Now It's almost at the point where if you can't beat them u join them... It's so bad almost every body now wants to be a yahoo boy because of the harsh condition of living...

I contacted my spirit body and soul again... Told em all and they warned me never to consider it... I should be calm and everything will be okay for me legitimately...

I just hope it won't be my sister or my mum that will come next and tell me to go and do yahoo...

My brother... Focus!!! Do not let the pressure get to you

sanpipita:
Russia is no longer requesting Ukraine be “denazified” and is prepared to let Kyiv join the EU if it remains militarily non-aligned as part of ongoing ceasefire negotiations, according to four people briefed on the discussions.

Moscow and Kyiv are discussing a pause in hostilities as part of a possible deal that would involve Ukraine abandoning its drive for Nato membership in exchange for security guarantees and the prospect to join the EU, the people said under the condition of anonymity because the matter is not yet finalised.

The draft ceasefire document does not contain any discussion of three of Russia’s initial core demands — “denazification”, “demilitarisation”, and legal protection for the Russian language in Ukraine — the people added.

Envoys from both sides are to meet in Istanbul on Tuesday in a fourth round of peace talks designed to end president Vladimir Putin’s full-scale invasion of Ukraine. The concessions on Russia’s side come as its month-long ground offensive has largely stalled as a result of fiercer Ukrainian resistance than expected and Russian operational deficiencies.

https://www.ft.com/content/7f14efe8-2f4c-47a2-aa6b-9a755a39b626

At the end, thousands of people died and millions displaced just for this!!!?

No means of transportation is safe in the north again...

WisdomDannie:
Good evening Nairalanders,

Please, I have been thinking about this lately and don't know how to go about it.

I have this very loud neighbor who always likes staying in my room most of the times.

Well, I'm not complaining about that because I need company sometimes..

But what I really cannot put up with him is the fact that he likes flirting with numerous girls and always talk about them.

He can chat with a girl for a whole 8 hours and not get tired.

Even right now, as I type, he's in my room at this time (11:11 pm) and has been talking with a girl for over one hour.

And I get pissed off with that because it irritates me. Like he can come as early as possible in the morning to gist me about his latest hit.

I want to tell him to reduce his visits to my room since he doesn't have any sensible discussion asides from women.

But I don't know how to go about it, so I don't sound
Please guys, how do I go about this?

P.S: I would be grateful if this makes the front page. Thanks!

When he starts talking about his nonsense, just change the topic

The world is just realizing that Russia seems to be too important to the world than U.S...

Shalommy:
She's old already,no need to be scared. Chaii

Really? May we not be terminally ill... It is a terrible thing no matter the age