₦airaland Forum

lugubrious:
I was just reflecting today on how Nairaland has been a blessing to me, so I decided to share my story to motivate anyone passing through anything similar.

This was my Erectile Dysfunction thread back in 2016.
https://www.nairaland.com/3024476/looking-how-cure-erectile-dysfunction

I stayed single looking for a medical cure to my ED. Having gone through all ED treatments prescribed by my urologist between 2017 - 2018, the only option left was a penile implant surgery which cost about 7 million naira at the time. I couldn’t afford it so I moved on with life hoping for the best. My life was a sad one hence my moniker.

Fast forward to 2019, I received a Nairaland PM from someone. Out of curiosity, I said hello back. She said she bumped into my post and decided to sympathize with me seeing what I was going through. I thanked her for showing concern and moved on.
Three months later same 2019, she remembered me from nowhere and sent another email requesting my number. We knew absolutely nothing about each other as there’s nothing from our Nairaland posts that mentioned anything personal like where we live, what we do for a living, etc.
I gave her my number and we got talking and progressed to WhatsApp chat. We got to know each other more and she was surprised I live abroad. Four months later in early 2020, I decided to go visit Nigeria as I hadn’t done so in 2 years. We had sex on the first date, thanks to her patience. And afterwards, the sex became so good that she climaxed so often, so much that she started saying that there’s nothing wrong with me. I was surprised myself seeing how I struggled to have sex having tried with about 5 different girls.
I actually suffered from venous leak but with her, it was so different as I was feeling any pressure and her body stimulates nonstop that my body responds like a porn star, lol.
Beyond the sex, she’s got a great personality/character, excellent cook, in fact 1000% wife material.
We got to know each other more. One year later in 2021, I went to marry her in Nigeria. I applied for her Permanent Residence and she left her sweet bank job and joined me early this year. Now we’re about 2 months pregnant.
My true life story of…what God cannot do, does not exist.
Now I wish I could change my moniker to elated.

So glad you are having a happy ever after story to tell... Congratulations bro

IvarDboneless:
That was where I learnt another name for cell is SANKO .throughout my two days stay in that cell I did not poo or pee, it was horrible.
On your first day the NUMBER ONE will ask for your CELL SHOW and if you dont have money on you, hmm...your guess is good as mine
But you'll surely bond with many the more you spend time and listen to different stories...
Have you been to a cell... Share your experience.

I pray I never have such experience... I learnt it is a terrible experience

Lol... Living life comes in levels

Found another Nigerian making sense...

They are doing well...

Twirelex:
Hello guys, I need your advice on which affordable solar generator I should go for and where I can get it.
I bought a 3.75kva generator a week ago but fueling it is a problem because of fuel scarcity, I buy fuel from black market and it is expensive.
Now I am thinking of buying an affordable solar generator
One which can carry just few of my appliances (TV, FAN, SOUND SYSTEM, LAPTOP, BULBS) and can be charged with my 3.75kva generator.

From your above discription, what you need is an inverter referred to as a back up system. 100k is too small for that as that may only buy you the batteries

You may not fully understand until you are married... Provided you are blessed with a lovely family and money is not ypur problem

I so much wish she suceeded in chopping it off!!!

Sir Alex Ferguson won th all over during his era ..

That one flying black beret is yet to receive resounding slaps

Aladin and princess Jasmine lived happily ever after with a dark son...

Hostility is everywhere for Nigerians

Stupidity on the part of the drivers is all i see here

Congratulations to her

JonOfAustrlia:
My wife got pregnant again even with an IUD. We werent planning for it. As these babies are so small and require so much care already.

Its not like raising them in the village. We live abroad and we dont get help. It means we always have to be with them if not for daycare but then we are working. We are already so tired.


I dont know if I am venting or asking for advice. We are grateful but we are so tired already... what to do...?

After this, please opt for a permanent family planning. You and your wife are extra fertile.
Congratulations in advance... Be strong

I am not accusing the pastor on the missing child issue but to arrest and detain this woman even in her time of grief is bad to say the least...

Congratulations to them

Wise diplomatic answer

Makes no sense in any way... So how many barrels do they hope to transport by trucks and how safe it that to be?

See their faces .. stupid boys in men's figure

Optimistic4life:
I'm trying hard to live a life free from sin and sexual immorality and I am doing pretty well but of recent, my hormones/body have been raging and I am finding it difficult to cope.

It's 18months I have been separated and there is no getting back together.

Were you ever in my situation, how did you overcome without involving in sex/masturbation?

I just need some words of encouragement.

Its really not easy and it has become some sort of distraction.

The reason I do not want to have a male friend is because of my fear for God.

I really do understand what you are going through... Be strong Sis

What is good for the goose is good for the gander...

Guys!!! Brace up... Winter is coming

As much as I do not fancy Tinubu to be the next president, he seems to be the only aspirant that has been proactive well enough thus far... I really wonder what others are waiting for while he subtly gains ground.
2023 will be interesting...

Victorakintunde:
What can we do to stop this menace?

Simole .. do your processing by yourself

Stay safe.... Stay alive

Here is why it is mostly stolen by road side mechanics...

Back to the roots... What BRT has joined together, let no man especially woman put asunder.

tolajay:
Growing up, participating and attending debates were a norm, right from the primary school.

I recall the day I blanked out at the Local Government Secretariat with the LG Chairman in attendance. I goofed big time, but I'm better off today. (You sef share your experiences below).

From the nomination process to the preparation, preliminary rounds, local governments rounds and state levels, school debates were always moments to expect and explore.

However, over the past 20 years, I haven't noticed much of such socio-academic activity. I had concluded that the debate culture in primary and secondary schools (perhaps nationally) had died in the country.

But guess what! This month - March 2022 - has been intriguing with a good line-up of student debates. Thanks to Nigeria Info Lagos, Paystack, Printivo, RLG, Obywezy and other partners I can't remember. NB: This is NOT a promotional piece. I don't know any of the organisers nor partners. But I think it's noteworthy to mention them, cos without their support the show would not be aired.

I have been wowed by the display of intellectual sagacity and eloquence by a crop of Secondary School students in Lagos who have been participating in the 'I Beg To Differ' debate challenge on Nigerian Info, Lagos.

Some have been exceptionally starling, while others tried to get along. In all, I am wowed by their foundation and what they can individually achieve in life given their mental state.

Do you think the culture of debate is dying or already dead in Nigeria?

What can be done to resuscitate this important culture for social development?

Cc
Lalasticlala
mynd.44

Those days... Representing your class or school was the hallmark of brilliancy!!!
Things have changed alot... Only few private schools get to do that now and most times, they stick to quiz

I have no expectations where Nigeria is concerned