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That is his own way of showing love

2023 will be interesting... I see Tinubu stepping down. This has been the game plan all along

What else can we say!!? Happy marriage life to the son of one of the best free kick mastro of all time!!!

Mode5:
Good morning all.I just open this new account to remained anonymous!

I believe this the right section to post this,I need mature minds and advice's,because am writing this with a sad and heavy heart.

I have find it difficult sleeping since when I came across a WhatsApp messages on my younger sister phone (last born) who is just 20 but would be 21 by Dec.

She is in her final year in the uni,very intelligent girl,even her course mate's do tell me that,she is supposed to have graduated from the university last year but Covid and ASUU have not help matters.

We came from a strick Christian family.my dad and mum have tried their best to bring us up in the right and best way!

It happens during the weekend I was home from work and my phone was down due to reasons because I couldn't charge it overnight.

So I decided to make used of her phone to google something on the Internet,the moment I put on her data a particular WhatsApp message came in saying 'Bleep YOU.

This made me shock and I decided to check it out.only to see erotic and sex chats about Cumming with this boy saying he don't last long,who she claims to be her boyfriend or what according to the chat.

To the extent she have been send sending him money(saying she is sending him the money not because of what between them but because she loves helping people).I have never known her to be having a B.F.

I have seen the boy few times when ever I go visiting in her school,they both school together in another state.

After some few hours to think right,I confronted her about it only for her to deny it,that it was only just a chat that nothing was there,claiming i invaded her privacy this got me angry and her slapped her.

I collected her phone to show her proved of what I saw to my greatest surprise the chats has been deleted.

This is a girl that have never look at me in the eye's but on that day she looked at me shouting on her Voice..

Please house I don't know what to do because am confused right now.

I would be needed your mature advice's on what to do next!


sorry for any typing errors.

You simply handled it the wrong way... First work at making her calm down peacefully and have a heart to heart talk with her.
She is an adult now bro... Dialogue and diplomacy is what you need to get through to her senses not slap!!!

ALLNIGERIANSMAD:
Good evening Nairalanders, please I don't want to bore you with much stories, I just need a legal advice from lawyers on the FORUM. my sister who has been Legally married 8years ago to this guy, I wasn't around during their wedding because I work far away maiduguri then, the wedding took place in OSUN STATE, few months she gave birth, this guy travelled abroad on invitation visa by his family members, the guy has shown so much responsibility as a man and as a father at the beginning when he first arrived at his current country home of residence, my sister always told me how he use to send money for her and her child(only daughter) upkeep and communication was good between them, sometime in 2014, this guy having learned I work in Abuja, he personally contacted me and told me his plan to take his wife with him to abroad that he will need my assistance to help Authenticate all my sister's documents from Federal ministry of foreign affairs which I did, probably this doesn't go down well with family members or God knows what happened this guy sundenlly make U-turn and stop communicating with my sister, after several findings, he claimed his family had told him my sister was lying to collect money from him and spending such recklessly! That's her offence which he stated in the divorce letter. When I got the story like over five years ago, I heavily criticize my sister believing she must have done something worse than that for her husband to suddenly take Such action against her but what brought my interest in the case was when she sent me copy of divorce letter and I read through, I can't pinpoint to any serious offence she might have committed to warrant divorce all his excuses was baseless and earsay as the husband in question has never return back to nigeria since he travelled and from information my sister got, the husband secretly married to another wife in abroad Netherland to be precise while he still legally married to my sister here in nigeria.
My question now are:
- is it possible to divorce a woman in
absentia?
- The husband was requesting the custody of the only child the marriage produced to take to abroad, in my opinion I objected to that since the husband has married to another wife over there,the safety of the child is important.
- she's currently living in the house they
both built together which she
superviced during construction! They both contributed to the project while the husband was also sending money to build. Will she
be sent packing without any form of compensation?
Please MOD should please help me push to the front page to to have legal interpretation to the issue. Thanks i will be in comment section to take your advice. Ignor any error and advise

Visit the embassy and inform them of his illegal marriage in Netherlands while still legally married in Nigeria... Expect him back to naija in few months time

This is sad and disheartening

I don't fancy this... Making it hard for the lady to reject the proposal

Battle of the bellies...

Ritzybeauty:
I thank God for life, though I wasn't the one who killed it because I hate the sight of these creatures.. One should be very careful especially sitting under a tree as a relaxation spot.

You killed a Sunday guest

She simply followed the wrong route to good deeds and suffered for it...

We are getting there... May God help us

Bro. Martial could not hold his body...

He deceiving us with his attire photoshoot...

In all that, na how to sleep with his wife be hin problem ba He is very lucky.

Nnamdi kanu's case is still wearing Fendi in Nigerian courts.

Dorwadora:
.... But there are some people who can sleep without a protective net even when there's an influx of mosquitoes ....

Example my younger brother.... I woke up one night and saw up to 5 mosquitoes feasting on ma Nigga ... Walai fear catch me...

That of your brother is what I call 'Mosquitorization' of the human body

They have both been 'de-goatified' by their respective clubs...

This is no longer a country...

Why wait till lines are blocked to comply with simple regulation? The same thing happened during the days of BVN registration.
Most of we Nigerians like die minutes forced actions.

Zchi1052:
[/b]Happy Sunday my fellow NL[b]
My wife is pregnant for the first time and she continues vomiting profusely

I have done literally what I can
Even what the doctor said we have done so but continues,she has no little strength and can't still eat because of vomiting

Am just helpless ...the pregnancy is just 3months old .i want to know what can I do to ease the vomiting so she can eat and have strength and when would this vomiting stop?

Please I need solution

let her eat more of fruits of food will not stay in her stomach... Once she's well past her first trimester, she'll be just fine.

Dorwadora:
I know this is not the right place to put this....

Mods pardon the offense

My people, Mosquitoes or heat, which one can you manage while sleeping in the night?

I recently went to visit my mom at Sango ota and the visit was hell for me.... After one month I packed my bag and ran back here.

The heat was always bad in the night so I take my bath and dress light in the night to cool myself but alas my doom ... Immediately those mosquito fukas detects my entrance in dreamland, they start mining my blood. So I'll wake up and cover myself but heat go still show me shege, then I'll uncover myself and my blood get mined again ... So was the routine for one full month.

The worst part of the mosquito's battle is their wack 'humming' sound close to the ear .... I was so traumatized that I imagine hearing a mosquito singing Kiss Daniel's 'Laye' song to my ear.

While naturally Ekiti is cold in the night, I can still manage Sango's heat but ladies and gentlemen I can't manage mosquitoes.

Which one can you manage ?

Lalasticala
Dominique
Myndd44

I choose the heat under my mosquito net biko...

It will be interesting if he declares...

I really like this Sheik already... He's won my distant admiration.

TheSourcerer:
We are Animals (forget ego of been divine begins) Murder , hunger, greed , aggression, survival is our niche

The presence of our very soul makes us deviate from the categorization as animals... We have more control on our actions and inactions unlike animals.

Animals are mostly moved by instincts...

What do you think?

The world was filled with, is still filled with and will still be filled with CRAZY PEOPLE!!!
Evil will always be part of how the world evolves.

Ukrainian could have avoided this... But, they were spurred to war by the west.

My brother, take heart... Lesson learnt for next time.

I know a lot of folks will not agree with the last one...

Amerengues2:
PSG ran out easy 6-1 winners in that encounter, and though Messi did not score, he produced a hat-trick of assists for the second time in Ligue 1 this season. The Argentine was unlucky not to get on the scoresheet himself as he had a goal disallowed for offside.

**13 Assists in Ligue 1 (402 career assists)

*** 2nd Hatrick in Ligue 1

** 2 goals, 7 assists in last 8 games. (8 goals)

** Broke a record of Most Hatrick in ligue 1 in just a season (6 Hatrick in all career)

***Only Thomas Müller has provided most assists (15) tha Leo Messi (13) in Europe's top 5 league since his PSG debut, 29th August, 2021.

Enjoying the life of a playmaker


**** Being the worst season for him, I think he is doing well and gradually getting better.

he stopped hustling for goals and tend to assist since his later days at Barca. He is not doing badly for his age

ImahGabi22:
For the past one month or so, I’ve been binge-reading Robert Greene’s 48 Laws of Power. It’s a really great book for succeeding in life, gaining influence and as the book says, attaining power.

I’ve practically gone through the book cover to cover and it wasn’t until I had a second read on the 32nd chapter that I was reminded of my transgression of the law.

Play to People’s Fantasies.

Here’s my story;

Immediately I graduated from secondary school, one of my teachers helped me find a parent that I would help homeschool their child. I was chuffed and did that for several months. Along the line, I found another and was feeling on top of the world.

A fresh undergraduate and I was already earning good five figures.

A few months down the line, I found a school to teach in, and having developed a relationship with the principal he knew I was good at teaching and he linked me up with a place to teach private students preparing for WAEC.

I couldn’t have been happier.

But like Denzel Washington said, “At your highest moment, that’s when the devil comes for you.”

I got word that I ought to have been paid higher in the lesson he found for me, and within me I felt cheated and angry.

I was told not to confront or show any emotions but as a naïve teenager I faulted at following the latter instruction.

The next morning, I wasn’t really happy and it showed in the way I greeted him. He called me to his office that morning and fired me and sighted financial constraint as the reason.

Bullcrap.

The part that pained me the most?

I was fired from the lesson too.

Interpretation: The truth is best avoided because it is ugly and unpleasant. Had it been I had never found out I was being underpaid, I wouldn’t had negative energy that day. You see, I stopped playing to his fantasies of me being happy with the fact he found me a job and it did’t augur well with him.

So, in life, if you want to win play to people’s fantasies.

48 laws of power is a great book in the hands of the reasonable but a terrible book in the hand of crooks and criminal minds.

yanabasee:
He's a woman....


Even the white who introduced this to him can't categorically referred to themselves as men or women, but transman or transwoman...


Bobrisky is a dummy with fish brain.

Las las he/she will be fine...

It is very very unfortunate