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We should keep waiting for others to come and build our country for us... Was he not part of the PDP that ruled and rigged with people like Maurice Iwu??

Supers:
A tailor has been left heartbroken after thieves broke into his shop to steal 9 machines overnight.

It was gathered that some thieves had broken into his shop which he runs with others.

They carted away with 4 industrial machines with 5 manual machines.

A video that was shared online shows the raided shop which had a lot of machines conspicuously missing from their normal spot.

The man who was heartbroken over this wondered where he was going to start from replacing the machines.

He wrote …

“Omo where am I starting from exactly the man asked? God 9 machines gone. 4 industrial, 5 manual they left not even a single one for me”

Check out reactions that followed …

Flora&Dad said: “Everything no be church water ooo make una de put juju for shop ooo”

@holarzpet1 shared: “same thing happened to me yesterday ”

OBlissMobileTechnologyHub  wrote: “But this shop is small for those machines that you’re mentioning here.”

Temitope Joshua remarked: “omo this happened to my tailor 2yrs ago now, d lady just call her Alfa, they pray and do some sacrifice, after 3day those thief just carry d machine”

katty revealed: “Funny enough we catch 2 thief’s sweeping my landlady shop last week.. her juju no be here”

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https://supers.ng/tailor-heartbroken-after-thieves-broke-into-shop-to-steal-9-sewing-machines/

This is sad and disheartening...

Idye:
I actually do not know where to post this. But I believe I can get the needed traffic and advice here.

Yesterday I read with Sadness, tears and pains about the gruesome murder of a security man by two dogs. Up till this moment, I haven't been myself due to the experiences I've had and the psychological impact of the death of that security guard.

Here is a Brief Experience.

The house I live has no borehole or any source of water. I and other immediate neighbors who occupy same building would go to our neighbors houses to fetch water everyday.
There are three neighbors who have boreholes, say Neighbor A, B and C.
Neighbor A only allows others to fetch water on Saturdays and Wednesdays. Aside these days you won't get water. You can't even go into her compound. She has a tap outside her building where we fetch whenever she puts it ON. On these two days, there must be Power(NEPA light). If there's no power, forget it.

Neighbor B is a pastor who has His church in his Residential Building. If u must enjoy fetching water here, u must be a member of his church, else you won't be given water when there's no light. Anyone can be allowed to fetch if and when there's light, but as soon as light goes off, don't go there except you are a member.

Neighbor C has two heavy dogs(Rottweilers). This is the house I fetch most cos of my cordial relationship with the owners of the house. When these dogs were brought home, they were just puppies and I was familiar with them, but as they grew older, they became extremely violent. One is Smart, the other is Bella. Bella is female while Smart is Male. Bella is so aggressive. She torments anyone who enters the compound. Neighbors don't go in. Despite the fact that they are caged, they sometimes break out and attack when they hear a stranger's voice in the compound. There was a day these dragons broke out of the cage and before I could realize it, that had come close to me. I had to make a very fast decision, If I had ran to escape through the Gates, they would catch up with me. Thank God, the Tap is very close to the fence of the building. A very tall fence like that of Prison's fence. I had to jump over, even as I was jumping, they almost caught up with my legs. I didn't land properly so I had a dislocation and sustained some bruises.
On a second encounter, they broke out and attacked. I had to climb the overhead water tank to hang in there.
The last one was when I went to fetch water while I was putting on a towel. They attacked again, and I jumped the fence. The towel pulled off my waist and I was naked. I had to quickly run into the room of a neighbor whose house is closer to the fence to cover myself. I felt so embarrassed.
These dogs had already bitten off the penis of a 12 year old boy.
Any cock or hen that innocently strolls into that compound is a goner. The dogs attack the fowl, kill it and eat it. They even jump at a flying Bird and caught to eat.

The dogs almost ate a baby of almost two years of not for the timely intervention of someone.
We all must be careful when visiting houses with Dogs. Please.
Thanks for reading.

Pls my brother, so going there...
It is better to lack water than have a dog attack you. It is their territory and they are territorial.

Oshiofe:
Please house, your advice is needed this is from a friend of mine.

I have a sister 27yrs old, who has been into a relationship with a guy for 5yrs now or more...

Last 2yrs she got pregnant from the guy, I took her to the guy's place, to confirm if he's is responsible for the pregnancy , he didn't deny that he's not responsible, but he's said he's not ready to get married to my sister now.

I tried all I could to force him to marry her, we have met the guys parents several times with my mom and my brothers but it didn't work out...


I even planned to chase her away from our house but my mom chilled me. Later she gave birth and it was a boy , the stupid guy started showing interest claiming she cares, bring foodstuffs and money.

I warned my sister not to receive anything from him, unknowingly to me she has been receiving money and other things from him at the back.

I later found out, that he even sent money to my sisters account to pay for hospital bill , I got angry the day I noticed that, and got mad at my sister, and she made arrangement with the guy and left our house to a place where they guy rented a house for her with the baby. I felt sad about her attitude, but decided keep calm

In summary.

Unfortunately, the baby died this year January, we then went there and packed her load from where the guy rented house for her back home and warned her to leave the guy, not knowing she still visit him .

The worst is that she's pregnant again from the same guy. we recently met him the same story he used at the first time

My major problem now, my mom is so attached to my sister and wouldnt want anything to happen to her , because she's the only daughter she has, and can't sleep always thinking about her condition.

I swear If have money I would have locked the guy up tey tey.

At 27 yrs, my brother; you have tried as a good caring brother... She is old enough to be wise.

Let her be

Igodomigodo419:
Good evening guysssssss! Tho I’m not a regular poster or commenter here but Omo I’m in between two crossroads here and I really need una advice!!

I’m a contract staff in a bank and my salary is 70k for now tho the bank is planning on increasing the pay this month. I’m dating this girl and I really love her so much. We’ve been dating for a year now and honestly we really love ourselves. Tho she’s a single mother tho but I don’t mind spending my life with her.
She’s a worker and she even earns better salary than me, and we’re very comfortable sharing things together.

The problem now is I opened to my mum about my relationship with her and my intentions to settle down. She immediately kicked against it. Why? Because she feels since I’m the last born and my elder brothers are yet to get married so I’m not even supposed to even talk about marriage. I’m almost 30 and I think I know what’s at stake when it comes to settling down and I’m willing to take my chances as a man. But my mum is failing to see reasons..
she feels im not ready, I don’t have a good job, and because she earns better than me so I shouldn’t even talk about getting married.

Note that I’ve already discussed my introduction with with her family by January and making plans to visit my babe’s parents but now my mum is against it already and I don’t think I can go back on my plans.

Should I go ahead to do the introduction without letting my mum know and wait to see if she’ll eventually consent or I should disappoint my girl and her family and cancel all plans? I don know how she’ll take it and I really love her so much..

I need advice oh 😭😭🤲🏾🙏🏽

Well, all I will say is this: Our parents will not be here forever... It is your future-DECIDE IT!!!

And coming to her concerns about your salary, my brother; try to get other sources of income... Financial strain can stuff out the kove from a marriage when the honeymoon is over.

RSAV:
Experienced parents please comment.
My 3 year old daughter, she would be 4 years old in Feb, is sharp and very bright.
It only happened occasionally that she would pee on herself. Usually when engrossed in cartoon.
However, it the last 4 weeks, it has become an everyday occurrence.
She would even poo on herself!
I've talked to her, yet no serious change.
I just had a baby boy few weeks ago. Could this be responsible for the change in my daughter? If yes, how best can it be handled? It's already affecting her in school.

Hehehe... @4 yrs old, that should not be the case.
Maybe it's time to go the african mama way...

Fintechs from Nigeria has the mammoth population to sustain growth.

The gods of soccer have smiled on him...

Shnew:
Open box of hp Spectre 13, x360, gem cut, core i5, 8th gen, 512/8gb ram, keyboard light, touchscreen, usb port, type c port, hdmi port, faceid, fingerprint, come with pen and charger, available at dashing out price

Is it SSDand how much is it?

EmmyMaestro:
My father's second wife told people she will keep giving him kpekus till he forgets he has another wife - Nigerian woman says.

A Nigerian woman, Ezeh Deborah, has revealed that her father's second wife once told people that she will keep giving him s3x until he forgets her mother, the first wife.

She disclosed this in a post about Yul Edochie's second wife.

As that was all she had to offer the man... She brought Kp***s to the table.

Splendid202:
Hello sir, pls can you help me with Palmpay Nigeria contact email address and phone number? Pls and pls. God bless you.

Pls just quote me on this thread, or alternatively, send me on my WhatsApp number on my signature. Thank you.

support@palmpay.com and going forward, activate wallet shield on your palmpay.

#Cheers

Real hard work...

Simongm:
Ademola Lookman took it personal against Napoli early today by scoring two goals in 30mins.
Before today, Napoli had won eight of their nine matches, drew one and conceded two goals.
People believes he was angry with the way Napoli treated Oshimhen, and he had to pay them back this way.
We are proud of you bruv!
Oshimhen is super proud of you 👏

He is the Avenger of his brethren.

Morbeta11:
https://news.sky.com/story/worlds-largest-captive-crocodile-dies-aged-110-13246456

The Croc lived a long life with prosperity in capitivity...

Afodot0022:
Good morning and happy Sunday to my nairalanders fam and happy new month.
I know so many of you will have clue about my history here and my stories, if you don't, kindly check through my profile. This forum have helped me to navigate some difficult situation especially on marriage, even though I still get bashed and insulted, I can tell that I still get genuine advice from matured and experienced people here. It's all about taking the wheat from the shaft.

I and my wife had been separated for almost 2yrs and reason was that I saw some chat on her phone that she was having emotional affair with another man under my roof, I sent her away due to this and have been leaving my life since then, the kids have been with her and have been taking responsibility over them, recently she took my kids to her parents without my approval due to her traveling for months and now that she is back from the official trip, she had refused to pick the kids from her parents place to start living with her, that was the recent issue we both had and up till now, the kids still stay with her parents instead of her.

I have tend to move on concerning this matter and we have already had an agreement concerning the kids welfare and the rest. They are just 7 and 6yrs.

I married traditionally and ever since we separated, there had not been any formal divorce and the bride price is yet to be returned. Now it happens that I and my wife started chatting back on Whatsapp and my reason for allowing this was to know the situation of my kids and to keep track on them, but in those chat with her, I could see some form of remorseful from her and some calmness from her to the extent that she pleaded that I should forgive her for all the wrong she had done to me . I was surprised to see all this write up from her cos I never expected her to apologize cos of her over bloated ego. In her write up, it seems she want us to resolve our differences and come back together as family but I wasn't buying that.

Now my question is to matured and experienced men that have gone through this particular situation of separation from you ex wife, does it worth it given such woman a second chance knowing what lead to the breakdown of the marriage, she had an emotional affair but didn't caught her having sex though, is it worth forgiving her and taking her back, I just want to be sure I won't regret these cos I don't know her true intentions, we have been separated for two years now and I asked her if she have had any sexual encounters during those period, she told me she never dated or had any sex during our period of separation, I am finding it difficult to believe that, how can a woman that was once married and separated not feel the urge to have sex for almost two years. Pls experienced
married women in the house, is it possible for a woman to keep herself that long, I am assuming she is just using that to make me feel good about taking her back.

TBH, I still care about my kids cos they are my focus now and if I will be doing this, it will be for my daughters cos they have really been through alot during this separation, they have been staying with their grand parents and only God knows what they are passing through there.

I just want to know if it worth it given the marriage a second chance again despite everything that occurred or I should just move on with my life and forget about her and just take responsibility over my kids cos I don't want to regret this move, pls men that have gone through something like this scenario, kindly share some advice and tips on how to navigate through this situation. I know I will be bashed by some but will still appreciate honest opinion and advice from both gender and especially from experienced ones. As it is been said, the devil you know is better than the angel you don't know . Pls all advice will be welcomed and well appreciated.

It is worth it... It is your family and only you can win your family back!!!
Only do this if you're genuinely ready to forgive and let go of the past.

codedgalaxy:
Stepping in church today with a heart full of merriment and praise for a new month. I was ready to scatter the place with some good dance moves as soon as the praise session began.
After a while it was finally time for praise,
But to my dismay, while the ladies where busy dancing and grooving to the vibe, the men on the other hand was just there standing like some damn mannequin.
Damn!!
Which some how managed to dampen my spirit and vibe.


Which begs the question,
"why do men
Hate dancing in church"?

I think it is just a kind of vibe we men grew up with... As a kid, you go to church and you don't see men dancing. And the one that do, they seem to be looked at like 'dramatizing'.

Also, men are not naturally akin to dancing..

By next week; we will know the new president...

DarlingtonC:
Please what can I do with this money to be able to double it in 3 months?

Please, kindly keep the money and hand it back to the owner in 3 months time.

He'll soon be unrecognizable...

Mind your business... E get why!

SecurityRiskGuy:
Absolutely!
Maybe if we know what @dawnomike is building, you can recommend a verifiable and reliable team.

I am building a pan-african digitalized cooperative society using SAAS native app.

Very unfortunate... When matriage goes sour; it downward spiral from there.

Ibrahimado:
Please I want to be straight to the point,
My woman that we got married late last year, no children yet was just accuse of stealing in her place of work. And the evidence is very clear that she committed the crime. But she has deny it vehemently. But all evidence points that she did it. They did not disgrace her but silently told her to leave the work. She has be a supportive wife right from when we where dating. I did not see stealing during our courtship/dating. Last week, I had conversations with her boss and her boss open everything/story for me, it break my heart that her name is associated with stealing and just that last week, when she came to my place of work, I gave her 50k for her up keeping. And I do send her 10k weekly feeding, we don't stay in same place. She stay in Benin why I work in lagos. She stay alone. She is a very fervent Christian and it is hurting me since a week now, that my woman can be accuse of stealing. I don't steal and it is against my principle. She don't lack in that place of her work. I have not informed my family and her family. Because I don't want her to lose the respect they accord her. It is breaking me since a week now. What should I do my fellow people, I will be glad with all your inputs. I'm a nairaland of over 13 years.
Moreover, she has not steal from me and she don't ask too much money from me, she is always a contented person. She don't spend outrageously like me, no extra expenses/bill on her from her side or my side. Still I'm hearing all this thing from the first time. She is even her church treasurer for over 6years and her pastor has been calling me and telling me that she can't do it but I'm confused because the evidence is very glance in my eye from her boss narrative.

No matter the evidences against her.... Believe your wife!!!

I was one accused of what I didn't do; the set-up was so perfect that there was no way I could prove my innocence. Even if your wife did it... Stand by her in this tough period.

I understand how hurtful it is to you... But, let her know you choose to believe her. It is a choice!

Stacie96:
I'm 28 and I wrote Jamb this year scored 224. The school I applied for have not given me admission yet. Am I too old to write Jamb at 29?

You are not too old to pursue your dream of getting educated... Just have to try to work/have business while you study at this age.

SecurityRiskGuy:
Turning a great idea into a Minimum Viable Product (MVP) is one of the toughest yet most crucial steps for any tech startup. Whether it’s lack of funding, trouble finding the right talent, or technical roadblocks, many founders struggle to get their concept off the ground.

Whether it's Edtech, PropTech, Agri-Tech
or Any Tech at all.

What’s been your biggest challenge in moving from concept to MVP? Is it a technical issue, resource constraint, or market validation? Share your experiences, and let’s discuss potential solutions to get your project moving forward.

The software developer...

nigerdoncast:
Hello Nairaland,
Please find attached the chat between me and a friend not that too close. He requested for my certificate to get a job and promised to settle me when he gets the first salary. However I never care about asking how much was the salary, but concerned about my reputation.
Have I done wrong to him or good to myself?

By refusing, you've done something good to yourself

Shnew:
Hp pro 11 g2
Core i5
Screen touch
Ssd 256
8 GB Ram
Processor 64 bit
190k
09078589062

What generation of i5 is this and what is the processor speed (GHz)?

Finally gone to rest...

manmidtexy:
Good morning everyone,

We Nigerians need to expose any criminal or fraudulent activities from these HNI or their business associates as a company in Nigeria.

I got my POS terminal From Palmpay like 2 years ago and I have documents submitted as a duly registered Business entity with Corporate Affairs Commission (CAC), Nigeria.

I didn't sign any low or poor performance with palmpay. But just got me commission on daily, weekly and monthly on
performance. There was never any penalty as regards holding my money or suspend my account.

Since yesterday, they are holding funds which are trapped and the excuse palmpay provided is poor or low performance to hold to my mobey which I never sign with palmpay.

My question as regards financial laws of Nigeria holding companies in financial industry, Do they have the right to hold my money because of poor or low performance.

No call or email or any form of notification before pal pay took this unlawful action I think.

Please, help with suggestions before I escalate further to CBN, and other regulatory bodies. Is their any regulatory body that can help look into this even before contacting my lawyer.

Thanks.

Send a mail to palmpay, copy cod@cbn.gov.ng and contactcbn@cbn.gov.ng in the
mail

cl0r0x:
https://x.com/Rightanglenews/status/1852022667735634355?t=zj2gyn4iVC4ELNfqtdbWew&s=19


This is unbelievable see where he clicks and see what the machine choosed

They've learnt from INEC and improved it....

onyfrank:
Greetings great friends,
With the situation in the country, I started searching for my Jotta where I wrote down all the little online investments I made 18 years ago or there about.
I noticed that I have
1. $98 on ACX Meta/Adclick Xpress ( formerly Justbeenpaid). I invested $10 then.

2. That I have 1 BTC on my Coinbase wallet.

Then, the issue is that on,
1 ACX Meta- no way to withdraw.

2. Coinbase - I tried to access the website but couldn't, until I used VPN.
After logging in and confirming my phone number with code sent to me and confirming my device via email sent to me.
I was directed to verify my account.
When it got to document, I snapped my NIN ID and sent.

So after much loading, I was told that they don't accept document from Nigeria, only from Norway or any European Union country.

I don't know what else to do.
My 90 million naira, just looking at me.

If any body have solution to help me get these out, naa. your get 5%

WhatsApp zero81four08one2eight3nine.

Send a mail to coinbase support team...