European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Arsenal Fan Thread: For Gunners Only (A New Strength, A New Hope). by dayokanu(m): 9:48pm On Apr 20, 2011 |
GAYYners How market? |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Arsenal Fan Thread: For Gunners Only (A New Strength, A New Hope). by dayokanu(m): 9:35pm On Apr 20, 2011 |
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Career › Re: Welcome To My Office by dayokanu(m): 7:18pm On Apr 20, 2011 |
Jarus,
Share the money reach my side o, I no wan hear story today |
Family › Re: Married Men ,how Many Of You Would Want A Working Wife ? by dayokanu(m): 7:03pm On Apr 20, 2011 |
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Family › Re: Married Men ,how Many Of You Would Want A Working Wife ? by dayokanu(m): 6:54pm On Apr 20, 2011 |
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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Arsenal Fan Thread: For Gunners Only (A New Strength, A New Hope). by dayokanu(m): 6:52pm On Apr 20, 2011 |
When una wan win something sef?
Shey won shepe failure fun yin ni? You better go see Obadare or TB Joshua |
Family › Re: Married Men ,how Many Of You Would Want A Working Wife ? by dayokanu(m): 6:51pm On Apr 20, 2011 |
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Politics › Re: I'm So Proud To Be A South-Westerner by dayokanu(m): 6:48pm On Apr 20, 2011 |
Good thinking you sons and daughters of Oduduwa. |
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Politics › Re: Comprehensive List Of Jonathan's Promises That He Must Fulfill In 4yrs by dayokanu(m): 6:08pm On Apr 20, 2011 |
We are watching and laffing |
Politics › Re: Jonathan Suspends The Minister Responsible For Internal Security by dayokanu(m): 6:03pm On Apr 20, 2011 |
Fresh air indeed |
NYSC › Re: Rioters Lock In 50 NYSC Members, Set Building On Fire by dayokanu(m): 5:46pm On Apr 20, 2011 |
Are you guys now seeing the effect of got not being proactive in this issue?
When I mentioned it earlier ppl said it was because of GEJ hatred, The ppl being killed and maimed are also Nigerians and they look up to GEJ for their security |
Politics › Re: I'v Start Regreting Why I Voted For Gej. by dayokanu(m): 5:39pm On Apr 20, 2011 |
Abeg go and collect your vote back, Also remember to return the bag of rice and N1,000 you were given |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Arsenal Fan Thread: For Gunners Only (A New Strength, A New Hope). by dayokanu(m): 5:30pm On Apr 20, 2011 |
In the GAYYner typical lack of common sense attitude which borders on illiteracy and ignorance, The 4th CL slot kicks off in 2012/2013 season.
Bayern is 3rd and currently in CL qualifying spots.
BTW When is that useless club going to win trophy even Captain dey lament.
Igba ti me fi odun mejo pile were, Ojo wo lo fe ja si oja? |
Family › Re: Husband Abused By Mum-in-law Right In His House by dayokanu(m): 5:11pm On Apr 20, 2011 |
Ujujoan: Seriously Dayo, you are not allowed to hit a woman . . . let it go!  But a woman is allowed to hit a man? I thought it was any human is not allowed to hit another human unless you are saying one huuman is lesser than the other |
Nairaland General › Re: Dayokanu - Fan Club by dayokanu(m): 5:10pm On Apr 20, 2011 |
Awww A hug is nice. I also like to smooch b00bi
I wont mind if you can back it up alittle,
I like it from back |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Arsenal Fan Thread: For Gunners Only (A New Strength, A New Hope). by dayokanu(m): 5:06pm On Apr 20, 2011 |
slimshay: No be those utterly incompetent italians wey give them the fourth slot . But I still never gree. Europa advert no fit fine without bayern munshit and totoyam.  BL doesnt have the 4th slot yet and bayern is currently 3rd. The same position your useless club was last season. Bayern in their miserable season is till 3rd while Assanal in their best still remain trophyless No wonder captain is tired |
Nairaland General › Re: I Made A Terrible Mistake 5 Years Ago by dayokanu(m): 4:53pm On Apr 20, 2011 |
Saintly naija women |
Family › Re: Married Men ,how Many Of You Would Want A Working Wife ? by dayokanu(m): 4:43pm On Apr 20, 2011 |
Ujujoan: You took a woman under your roof . . . you took her away from her family . . . you changed her name to yours . . . you planted your seeds inside her!
errrm . . . I think you made her your responsibility. 
Your responsibility should be, not only to the children, but to the woman who bore them. Except of course she's only a means to an end for you!  Why did she bother getting an education if she sees herself as being the responsibility of someone equally educated and intelligent |
Family › Re: Husband Abused By Mum-in-law Right In His House by dayokanu(m): 4:40pm On Apr 20, 2011 |
^^ Let me ask,
If the wife or MIL had spoken rudely to him and he slapped them Would you have advised the wife or MIL to go and apologize to him cos they spoke rudely?
If a wife speaks harshly and rudely to her husband in the presence of her inlaws, I guess her Father-in law is also allowed to slap her. |
Family › Re: Ladies I Need Your Help! by dayokanu(m): 4:37pm On Apr 20, 2011 |
Odunnu: Na wa o! You too like woman! No be small thing oo. They need to legalise polygamy here or I move to Kano or UTAH |
Family › Re: Married Men ,how Many Of You Would Want A Working Wife ? by dayokanu(m): 4:36pm On Apr 20, 2011 |
Summarily
With these kind of mentality who now blames Men who treat such women like the parasites and leeches they are. |
Family › Re: Married Men ,how Many Of You Would Want A Working Wife ? by dayokanu(m): 4:27pm On Apr 20, 2011 |
jay bee: Most educated young men this days embrace the need for shared responsibility when it comes to house chores and upbringing of the children. It's not the money i worry about actually afterall who else is going to spend ma money if not ma family. I am more worried about the mentality clouding ya'all's reasoning. What would your daughter think she needs to be in life? She would definitely believe that Daddy is to bring money and mommy to spend daddies money. What a parasitic mentality |
Family › Re: Married Men ,how Many Of You Would Want A Working Wife ? by dayokanu(m): 4:25pm On Apr 20, 2011 |
Ujujoan: Ain't you assuming that every woman wants to/will get married 
If she has to make a choice b/w building her career and raising a family, she should be allowed some slack abeg!
Personally, I have to work to survive, but if I change my mind tomorrow and decide to be a full time HW instead, I don't need some guy whining about it! If equal amount is spent on your education and on your brother, You decide to be a HW and your brother decide to be a provider, Dont you think the money spent on you should have been better spent on some other person who would yield return and put the education to use. Just like the parable of the talents. Most ppl educate their children so that the kids wont be dependent on another human being for survival, Ujujoan: You know a working wife is perpetually on a double shift . , because after work, she goes back home for shift 2!
It's not about being 'intellectually inferior' but about shared responsibilities!
If my husband will rather hold up the home front while I work and bring in [b]all [/b]the cash, I'll be happy to trade places! 
What I don't however subscribe to is a man maintaining his 'manly front' and yet contributes just 50% of the finances. That's sheer cheating!  Shared responsibilities means Sharing the finances 50-50 and sharing the household chores too. One cook one wash the plates, One hoov the carpet, one mow the lawn |
Family › Re: Married Men ,how Many Of You Would Want A Working Wife ? by dayokanu(m): 4:13pm On Apr 20, 2011 |
Now tell me if a woman thinks this way why should equal amount be spent on the education of a male and a female child when one thinks all she can do is to leech on the other?
Why not educate her on how to be a better leech?
Whats the use of getting an education when all life ambition still revolves round milking another human being who has the same intellect and education as you? |
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Family › Re: Ladies I Need Your Help! by dayokanu(m): 4:05pm On Apr 20, 2011 |
Na woman I pursue reach this side.
I am not contributing o |
Family › Re: Married Men ,how Many Of You Would Want A Working Wife ? by dayokanu(m): 4:01pm On Apr 20, 2011 |
armyofone: african woman has been working for doggone years. so men on this thread, don't say it like na today the thing start, abeg!!
i hate to think that they want a woman who will help them to pay bills and take care of their mortgages . a lady's money should be for taking care of herself and help sometimes. not to help you take care of your responsibilities  And why shouldnt the man's money be to take care of himself and help sometimes also and not to take care of your responsibilities. Unless you are saying that you are intellectually inferior to the man and he can think and make money while you cant |
Family › Re: Proper & Legitimate by dayokanu(m): 2:21pm On Apr 20, 2011 |
Blazay: Like my mother always told me. If you [b]choose[/b] to get pregnant for a man who has NOT married you. . .you don't need a bride price. The child is your responsibility. Please, the man is not interested and has long left for Nigeria. He has moved on. Enjoy the memories, get a job and take care of yourself and the baby.
Next time. . .treat every man like you are gonna have a one-night stand.  Enjoy the consequences. Life goes on. . . and the best is yet to come with or without the 'sperm donor'!
Move on dearie. . . that ship has sailed.
Are you sure you are an American-born lady?  Only Nigerian women sing these kinds of "swan songs"of romantic lamentation.
If na real Ameri-dudu babe. . . she would have been on her 5th pregnancy with the 7th man on The Jerry Springer Show cussing all the prospective baby daddies out with another pregancy . . . .WITH GOLDEN TEETH AND ALL. . . LOOKING DAMN GOOD!
God bless the Black American! 
You will not even catch a Mexicana typing all these. . . na club she for don land since with the pregancy dey shack 'Tequilla'.
Ma'am, pleaaaaaaase move on. Enrol in school and find you a decent man! No need chasing after a loser of a dude to feel relevant in life. He has given you the greatest gift of life. . .creating another human being. . .with HALF your DNA.
What the phock do you need him for if he is NOT interested in you or the child.
Look at Shaquille O'neal? Did his father not abandon him? Did Barack Obama's dad not abandon him? Look where they are today.
Any man not interested in you and YOUR child. . .please close the chapter on his arzzzzze.
Gosh, I need to introduce you to some of my girlfriends.  If the man wants to have a relationship with his child. . .he knows where to find him or her. . . MOVE ON! Awesome post by blazay. If you are indeed in Coppel why not sneak out when your husband is not around and lets have a quickie. I am not Yoruba or Ibo I am from Aghenebode |
Family › Re: Married Men ,how Many Of You Would Want A Working Wife ? by dayokanu(m): 2:16pm On Apr 20, 2011 |
Amiga4u: abeg tell them,infact teach them , u will make a good husband and father if your a man or vice versa if your a woman as some people dont reason this way  Simply tell us you prefer to stay at home and monitor the daily activities of Genevieve and Ramsey Noah on Africa Magic. I wonder why someone who bother to get an education, pay to get a Bachelors would now want to sit at home You could have used the money you spent getting an education for something better |
Family › Re: Married Men ,how Many Of You Would Want A Working Wife ? by dayokanu(m): 2:13pm On Apr 20, 2011 |
dady2011: It depends. If she decides to stay home full time and look after the children, her work is as important (if not more important in raising and influencing the children positively) than the man that work and hardly stay home to spend quality time with the children. Are the children home schooled or what looking after is she doing when the kids are in school? Most of us were raised by mothers who work 8am to 3pm and still performed their duties at home. So whats the excuse unless you are saying the women of nowadays are not as strong as those of yesteryears jennykadry: I hate staying at home and doing nothing. Even on my days off sef na war to just sit at home And like I said before, the fact that I am working should not even make a man to begin to think that he can ''take'' from my account whenever he likes. My money is mine. So you better work hard and provide for me. Why should he provide for you when you can provide for yourself? Your money provides for you, his money provides for him, Household provision 50-50. Simple. |
Family › Re: Married Men ,how Many Of You Would Want A Working Wife ? by dayokanu(m): 2:10pm On Apr 20, 2011 |
Amiga4u: What do u mean not respecting a full housewife? what if she is taking care of your kids and home full time ,doesnt that earn her respect to u? cos its not easy taking care of kids and house chores plus school n doctors visits.
those of you men that want working wives should be ready to share the house chores,school activities,doctors visits 50-50 or i am wrong women ? That excuse of being an housewife is illogical. What does she do when the kids are in school? Between 7am and 3pm? What is at home that needs to be taken care of for 8hrs everyday? which laundry, plates and cleaning needs 8hrs a day Unless the household has 100ppl living in it and she has 150plates and clothes to wash with her hand per day or na everyday she dey go market?. BTW nowadays what are dishwashers and laundry for? Let her leave the plates and clothes, when I come back from work I would load them into the dish washer and washing machine. What other excuse does she want to make for being a bum sitting at home? |