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Going t b candid here, I think ur being taken f a ride. Divorce here is generally frowned upon. Am from d South n here, u get couples who may b separated f years but won't divorce cos of d stigma assoc wit it. Esp if kids are involved, n in ur case esp now d families have waded into d issue. On d oda hand too, he might b lying t u but simply trying t open an Exit route f wen he decides t up n leave u.. Either way,He Is Married..f ind ur level.

[quote author=Okija_juju]My take on this;

He was most likely a cult member.

This hit was definitely carried out by a rival gang as retribution for a sin he must have committed in the past.

I am surprised that he wasn't packing a gun himself as most marked men do.

Final year cult members who have a history are more likely to be killed.


Reminds me of a case in Rivers State years back when a final year student was killed immediately after he finished his defence. He had anticipated it and had stationed his crew around the hall, but the guys who came for him where hellbent on closing his file that day.. Got hit in the leg with a pump action and then was slowly and painstakingly hacked to pieces.



MORAL LESSON: The wages of sin is surely death.. There is a way that seemeth right unto a man, but the end thereof is destruction. [/quote]seems u attended rsust. I remember that event..

while I don't condone physical shit, one tin ia evident .. Op is pussy whipped. dude is never going t b satisfied till he gets his own back @her. my advice,lick ur wounds, leave d skank. revenge?..leave it..in d freezer (if dats ur tin) #keeping it real

so far, Prof takes d belt.. no need t post #out

BAD! 24 t me is just right..

abouqi: From the way 90% of you guys responded to this post, it only shows ONE thing;, 'You are NOT yet there, it takes who is PROPERLY married, who is enjoying the marriage, to have a cute name for his (her) spouse you know. Or how would someone call his spouse Monkey & d spouse replies Banana , pussy cats, ......& so many nonsense names like that?
This post also shows the category of youth on Nairaland.
Please it's not all the topic that you must respond to!
You guys made a nonsense of an interesting topic!
Seun, kindly do something about these touts on nairaland!
Tanx.

Truth..came here expecting to maybe pick up something new, instead.. ... .. Nairaland has been overrun by intellectually deficient,diaper wearing touts that make silly jokes outta everything n cannot contribute meaningfully t nothing.
am outta here

Amaechi is far from being d best, truth b told. Don't know wat d old man is,talking about. Kelsey Harrison? that hospital has been leased out, to a local (h.m.o?) t manage n d cost of accessing care dre is higher than even some private clinics, so how does it benefit d common man on d,street . similar situation wit d Max Facial hospital . most of d projects, schools n health centres were undertaken without proper input from those in d know from those sectors, so more than half of dem,as at present r just lying dormant..go c f urself. As f d roads............
Amaechi by Naija standards has done ok, but let's call a spade a spade.

[quote author=شهيد عبدالكريم ]I'm trying to get this right...

How will a guy call u 5 times a day and you still want him to telll you that he misses u??[/quote]I tire o. instead of her t relax n enjoy her relationship, she b worrying about inconsequential tins. 5months is too early to know where anything headed, u still getting t know each other. U start fretting too much n u stand d risk of driving him away.
Relax n enjoy d journey n stop fretting about d destination ...

Every cult activity involves a blood covenant, in wateva form. It is some heavy ish t deal wit esp all at once. My advice, keep an open mind, u probably have lost her. U did right but u lacked Tact..

Never knew some of those.words even existed ..

Abeg who get Emmanuel Eboue number? Get some tins I want t tell him

Whether it be for defensive purposes or not, d fact still remains that a Country under sanction n arms embargo has come together t manufacture a fighter with such advanced capabilities and that in itself is commendable.
Self sufficiency is d game now n I hope we can follow suit..

stacomaster: So Late! Ave already Killed 2 Aboki..

S.m.h.. the blood thirstiness of d average Nigerian..53 likes!??

How wrong can a lot of u be? D dude is seeking f an annulment not a divorce, which means he doesn't want it on record dat he was ever married t Kim, cos wen u get an annulment it means dat event neva happened, n thereby all d TV rights n moneys accrued via d marriage becomes null n void. Kim, like it or not is thinking finance,, validAting Hums point, tho he on his part is being vindictive i.m.o.
Kim stands t lose more here.
@Victoria n Co,take note n stop driving aimlessly

komekn: I have always assumed nairalanders to be mostly educated, informed, conversant and not short sighted, however majority of the commentary i have read seems to put that view to the test.

This Mali insurgency could have been predicted by even a high school student, the Libyan revolution the fall of Gaddafi and his reliance for several years on Tuareg fighters and the looting of his vast armory by all and sundry. The escape of one of Gaddafi's sons into Niger in a column of 250 armored and military vehicles. http://www.reuters.com/article/2011/09/06/us-libya-idUSTRE7810I820110906

Where was the strategic thinking of our Military planners and intelligence agencies ? To create a contingency plan to restrict stop and void the possibility of military arms spillover into Niger and subsequently Nigeria. Boko harem where essentially local champions not anymore after partnering with Islamic Maghreb and Al Qaeda with a new staging and training HQ where almost next door Northern Mali.

The insurgency in Mali is not indirect but the very foundation on which the operational success of Boko-haram rests, indeed the insurgency is a Real, Present[/b] and [b]Direct ATTACK [b][/b]on the territorial integrity of Nigeria.

Its an abysmal reflection of abject failure in political leadership strategic and proactive.

Our continued procrastination a reflection of indecisive indecision.

Nigeria should be in the fore front of the military response now that world public opinion is on our side we should have sent a well established force to take Timbuktu and Gao if properly equipped the whole operation using overwhelming force shouldn't take more than 72 hrs.

But what are we doing being the sleeping giant caught in the GO SLOW of our leadership

Thank U. I had almost given up hope on these kettle headed; myopic NLanders until I read dis..

essy daniels: tanx gal,tel dem..even if i love him i wunt approach, i gat an ego i nid 2 guard it wel. D main truth is dz if he is mine he'll notice me and do wat he suppoz 2 do as a guy

dey dre dey dream, hiding under d 'if he's mine' B.S. If u luv him, give him Green light , if he Cant see it, give him a pair of glasses, if he still Cant see, approach his ass. Contrary t popular belief we do respect dem girls bold enuff t go outside d norm.

jacobscros: because she is manipulative or because she felt ashamed or because u did not do her good. stop fornicating tho....

ur options above.. take ur time..

a lot of Nigerian guys would rather ve d responsibility of marriage than ve Baby Mamas , which is generally frowned upon here as a sign of irresponsibility, thus d pressure frm home f him t marry. I can understand ur fears about stability but dat, to me, is a minor issue u can talk n work around. Every child deserves a Father figure. U got one willing t Man up n face his responsibilities, y complain??
In all, if u knw u can build a stable n loving home environment wit him; go f it. Its abt d child. Dnt b one of d 'baby mama' stats. 90% of black babies grow up wit single parents, y not b d 10%?
cheers..

just did a quick survey wit those arnd me n most r of d opinion she may ve sinister motives. Peoples perception is their reality..

[quote author=Mynd_44]Spouce killing one another happens everywhere in the world and as a matter of fact Nigeria is even low as far as that in concerned.

What is wrong in the woman asking that you put your house in order?[/quote]Nothing..except wen it's outta d blue, in a young marriage where both parties r supposedly healthy. It can b viewed as highly suspect. Besides, d manner of approach, ad has been previously stated, is an important factor. maybe d day ur newly married wife asks u f ur will.. ......

berem: who gives a flying fucck if she is sucking Governor Amaechi's 7inches dicck? why won't people mind their own business? a woman's greatest enemy is her fellow woman i tell ya! Haters should leave her alone jare! BAD BELLE PEOPLE.

**clears throat* erm.. erm.. how did u cum by dat measurement?? as in wen, how n in Wat position was d measurement made

omega25red: you should bang your head on a brick wall 7 times after doing this, re-read the .... you wrote and the answer will come to you.

..n make sure its a concrete wall..reinforced, d beta. if dat doesn't work u can always look f d nearest high tension wire t shock u back t reality. ppl sef!

@O.p.. be u a Bad guy or a Nice one, most women simply want A GOod Man..i.m.o..

[quote author=~Bluetooth]Most union with bad boys are always disastrous in the end.Eg Whitney Houston Vs Bobby brown.[/quote]..but then dey kip going back eg;Riri n Chris Brown..

Havent dey eva heard of 'vex' money? I hiss in Abakiliki

Another icon gone. An eminent scholar, a pillar of his profession. Hw many Professors of Surgery do we have t lose one so carelessly? Why can't d issue of insecurity be addressed decisively f once. What are okadas still doing on those streets wen most of d cases,dat was d mode of transportation used. Can't a ban b enforced?? What is Wrong with this country??
This is just horrible news.
R.I.P chief..