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mondi_cheeks: but its still hearsay

Hearsay yet the wife stormed the church and scattered the wedding all the way from PH. So how did she hear of the impending wedding

kulyie: i read it myself on fb and i am disgusted and dissapointed to say the least.we chatted on bbm weeks back before this ugly scene happened and he didnt tell me he was up to this nonsense,he just told me he was busy with some arrangements,i cant believe he can be this stewpeed.infact i am still contemplating about calling him on phone this week but i have not contemplated on what to tell him.when i pinged him this morning he said i should just let him be,he is not in the right frame of mind to talk about it.folks what do you think i should tell him because he is a close friend of mine.

Tell him GREED has overtaken him. Tell him there is another trap he must avoid NOW so that he does not self destruct....his EGO; he must tame his ego and only humility can do that for him. He is a public figure and he can only redeem himself by being HUMBLE.

A man who called his wife, sent some money promising to come home next week, eventhough he was planning secretly to undermine that wife, cannot now describe that marriage as iredeemable. There is something sinister about this second shameful James Bond 007 move. More Money is the Temptation! God just helped him and his EGO will not let him see it.

Plead with him to tame that EGO now and you will see God's hand trying to rescue you from the pit the devil has dug for you. A man's EGO is a monster and is all consuming if not checked.

mondi_cheeks: solomon spoiled things for himself...or was the woman who asked for his hand in marriage whilst he was under a spell? No! He made the choice, he knew the consequences but still went to act in accordance with such appreciation for all we know the 2nd woman might have been oblivious of his first marriage

The full story about this saga is yet to be told. The wife read a text msg from this mistress to hubby asking him if he had taken care of his wife's side so they dont have any hitches during the wedding. The wife's sister gave out this info on Linda's blog.

How this supposedly educated and maybe slightly exposed man does not know the right thing to do if he must wed in the church a second time beats me. It is just not normal, his father with or without formal education knows better.
GREED can drive a man to hell. Everything about this secret second attempt, for me, is HELL....from Solomon's decision to mistress Uloma's personality to the church pastor's ungodly comments to Lancelot Imasuen's involvement in the whole saga. Nobody was thinking right, ALL taken over by EVIL.

coogar: there's no bigamy in nigeria
polygamy is not illegal in nigeria....

Ignorance truly stinks and makes a mess of anyone it takes hold of. Run from ignorance!

uj_sizzle: you're a Christian. What do you call Solomon's numerous marriages, or David's for that matter....adultery??
Marrying more than one wife has never being deemed sinful. Make una stop to add extra commandment for your own Christianity hah.

Pikin do bad thing, papa tell pikin say hin do bad but teach am d correct thing.....papa still love hin pikin no mean say the bad wey pikin do don become good thing.

cheddarking: If that is his original wife in Pink.....I can see why he ran away

Dont be too quick to conclude. Check them out on facebook and you will see a pretty lady. She is 8 months pregnant so she is expected to look like that at this stage of pregnancy.

Now go check the picture of the mistress on Stelladimokorkus blog and you will quickly shut the door on that man in disgust. Cant comment without offending God. Somethings are better left "unsaid".

The mistake, Yes o MISTAKE, our dear pastors make is that they choose their investments according to what they think is right in the sight of God without first asking for the leading of the Holy Spirit. All things are lawful unto me, but all things are not expedient. Worse is that majority of christians have no real relationship with God Himself so give their all to the pastors instead. Non ever stops to inquire of the Lord whether their pastors' actions fall in line with the desires of God. Pastors are human, they make mistakes too.

I really have nothing against Pst Adegboye flying a jet as long as he did it by the express leading of the Holy Spirit. By now, Pst Adegboye's will should be buried in God's will and should beat his chest to say "God told me to do it" with confidence, no further explanations. "As many as are LED by the Spirit, they are the sons of God". Every christian should strive to get there.

In the garden of eden, b4 the great fall, there were no pastors, prophets, evangelists, etc. no church buildings, only Adam and Eve and God all communing together for God's pleasure. Christ came to reconcile us back to that same state of communing together one on one with God. Simple. All we see now is the process of reconciliation having pastors, etc and church buildings that God Himself says He does not dwell in. Hmmmmm.. Deep things and enough said. God give us understanding and cause us to ask You questions as christians without fear or favour.

solomon111: The attitude of Nigerians disgust me.
I can't believe people are trying to justify this.
Any Nigerian that support these jet-hugging charlatans do not have any moral right to castigate politicians for reckless display of extravagance.

...because the judgement of God begins from the church.

You cannot imagine how much they pay hourly in dollars to any airport authority for parking. It is pretty expensive to run especially when you consider the very poor financial state of most members of his church.

I just hope this decision is as a result of the leading of the Holy Spirit for anything done outside that is lacking in wisdom.

Roland17: So is looking out for the poor souls who give their hard earned money in tithes, offerings and donation.

According to James 2: 14-26

"What does it profit, my brethren, if someone says he has faith but does not have works? Can faith save him? If a brother or sister is naked and destitute of daily food, and one of you says to them, “Depart in peace, be warmed and filled,” but you do not give them the things which are needed for the body, what does it profit? Thus also faith by itself, if it does not have works, is dead.

But someone will say, “You have faith, and I have works.” Show me your faith without your[a] works, and I will show you my faith by my works. You believe that there is one God. You do well. Even the demons believe—and tremble! But do you want to know, O foolish man, that faith without works is dead? Was not Abraham our father justified by works when he offered Isaac his son on the altar? Do you see that faith was working together with his works, and by works faith was made perfect? And the Scripture was fulfilled which says, “Abraham believed God, and it was accounted to him for righteousness.” And he was called the friend of God. You see then that a man is justified by works, and not by faith only.

Likewise, was not Rahab the harlot also justified by works when she received the messengers and sent them out another way?

For as the body without the spirit is dead, so faith without works is dead also"

What point are you trying to make or what are you trying to justify or judge. I am confused. Remember, "The Letter Killeth but the Spirit gives life". It is not by how much of the Word you can quote, it is so much about how the Spirit of God interpretes the Word. Applying the Word of God using the wrong interpretation is death, meaning you are on a wrong dark path.

Ejiné: I don't mean to incite a tribal war, but why is it that all the Igbo women I know who married Yoruba men don divorce dem sharp sharp?

Steph-Nora Okere don quickly dump and erase her Yoruba husband, and this Ikwerre Monalisa lady has also divorced her abusive husband, who also happens to be Yoruba...

Does this have something to do with family values or are all these dudes just isolated cases? But then again, they just happen to be too numerous to mention.

And it's not just Igbo women divorcing them... Even Yoruba women divorce them in record numbers - Ayo Adesanya is one of the many cases.

And also, if this link from Linda Ikeji is anything to go by, Monalisa's ex-husband quickly went on to marry a Louisiana-based lady Lamide Richards (Yoruba), who has quickly seperated from him and filed for divorce in less than a year, making this the man's THIRD failed marriage

http://lindaikeji..com/2012/11/monalisa-chindas-ex-husbands-second.html?m=1

Please, bigots should kindly stay off. I'd really like answers from reasonable Yoruba people on this issue.
My guess tells me it has to do with their history of polygamy, but it's a wild, dumb guess from me anyway

The yoruba culture has the tendency of disrupting marriages if you lack God and patience. It is a culture where the women in the family tend to have so much control over the wives while the men take the back stage after marriage. It's subtle now, otherwise in the days gone bye an IYAWO (wife) is called "Eru" meaning slave. This till date explains why a wife must not call any member of the husband's family nuclear or extended by name, whether older or younger than her. Uncle, Aunty, Sister and brother are replacements. In any gathering, she is expected to do the necessary chores while other members of the family, older and younger, relax. If you are not yoruba, this might be strange and sometimes agonising. Their culture makes their wives great pretenders until the bubble bursts.

This way of life affects their marriage negatively as it makes a wife feel inferior and unwanted. Most cases the wives look elsewhere for that affection and special treatment they seem to have lost in marriage leading to separation, divorce or outright infidelity. I criticised them in the past but now I know why. Every woman wants to be loved tenderly even in marriage.

Most yoruba men do not respect marriage and it is from their upbringing, not their fault. We see it everyday in real life where a yoruba married man would take better care of a girlfriend than his wife and kids. This is not putting them down but it is the bitter truth that should challenge them to change. Culture should be dynamic not static. This goes to every tribe that has a way of life that is so retrogressive.

Please spare me, I am only on the path of truth not war not discrimination. I am in it and God, Patience and Love have been my weapon. I will make it to the end... no shaking.

orgy: By the extreme right is Kaduna Nzeogwu.

Obasanjo is still responsible for Nzeogwu's family. He is really a true friend. He even gave Nzeogwu's mother a befitting burial. God bless him.

mathskill: 1)Bamanga Tukur PDP chairman is married to two southerners.
2)Gov.Murtala Nyako married to an igbo.
3)Gen.Buba Marwa has an igbo wife.
4)Atiku Abubakar has an igbo wife
5)Maryam babangida was from edo.
6)Gov.Yuguda of bauchi has a yoruba woman as a wife.
This are just a few of the prominent Hausa-fulani that i can remember not to mention countless others.

5) Maryam Babangida was Asaba, Delta State not Edo

Yahaya85: She is pure hausa woman,i know both of her Parents

Haba malam, Mariam Abacha is Shua Arab, not hausa, not even a nigerian.

nagoma: Shallow as usual. Looking for a pushover.

Accepted. I see you have quite some depth but remember that the WAEC cut-off mark for the north is still LOWER than that of the south and I am left wondering why. At least you are happy now and can go to sleep a fulfilled man knowing that you have "trashed" a southerner today. Hurray, congratulations on your life long ambition! Do it more often to slip out of your complex issues that makes you unable to mix/live with people not entirely your kind. Anything for a weak brother! Much love and goodnight.

Those who the gods want to destroy they first make mad.

nagoma: My argument was not about whether north is behind or not in terms of development north is definitely behind for many reasons some of which you may have read about in school (and development that should not be measured by number of ministers who became rich in office, I mean real development). My argument is about the so called northern misrule as compared to southern sagacity and ability to rule well- which we have not yet seen. In any case Jaja Nwachukwu and Okoteh Eboh were the richest ministers in Balewa government thousand times richer than Balewa himself and Mobolaji Johnson who ruled under Gowon was and is thousands of times richer than Gowon and all other Northern leaders.It would be the same with Shagari and Ekweme and other goverments (perhaps with exception of the Babangida government, who was very rich himself).To say that the millions of tomato, bean and onion farmers and meat sellers in the north depend on government largesse is a gross insult to these hard working people.They may not be rich but they certainly eke a living with their sweat.The fairy tale that northerners depend on government at the expense of southerners must be challenged. All corrupt government officials northern and southern help their families only.And Nigerians from all parts were always in goverment.You cannot use this to justify what obtains now from a retrogressive insincere administration lead by a southern so called academic- GEJ. I see you are in a hurry to go, may be because your argument does not hold water.

I dismissed you long time ago and trust you will never agree with the points I made and I know that "tough love" is usually rebuffed. Malam, kwowa de kayan seruwa, ni kam na geji da dogon magana. Ka chi gaba, kwo ka huta lafiya. Na pasa.

nagoma: The bandwagon assumption that northerners lead the country when all southerners were sleeping is shear nonsense. There was no government of northerners in nigeria ever, all governments including military had full representation and if they looted . They looted the country together, Musa, Chinedu and Bolaji and all the others . Stop propagating untenable rubbish.Bring out the full complement of government appointments at any time to show how any region was excluded.Meanwhile a southerner GEJ is not performing as Nigerias president should.

Nagoma, you are still way behind the southerners in spite of everything WE said. You know why? Because my northern brothers and sisters depend on government largese for survival. It is part of the legacies of misrule for upwards 30 years. You are never happy when your own is not in power and seek every means to disrupt government. This attitude is propelled by some wicked spirit that you should calm down and check or it will consume you all. This is tough love but in times like this we must spill it for the sake of sanity and progress.

Take care, Nagoma. Mu huta lafiya, sai wata rana.

nagoma: So the gross lack of capacity to understand and rule the country exhibited by a southerner GEJ is all caused by the north? Why can't he show the much hyped education and civilization and move the country forward? A dumb president with nothing to offer is the best the south could present. A so called PhD who doesn't know his left from his right.That is a southern president for you.Presiding over the most monumental corruption seen anywhere in the world.

Yes, I am not holding brief for GEJ and have not praised him either. In the meantime, I made very vital points concerning the so many years misrule through CORRUPTION by northern leaders, ministers, managing directors, contractors and how they milked Nigeria which you conveniently overlooked to inject GEJ's incompetence; can we take things one after the other. Are you running from the truth? I advised you to let sleeping dogs lie because you cannot contribute beyond what you know!
You just want to flex muscle here riding on tribal/regional or religious sentiment.

Anytime, you are free to question my opinion but please drop your tribal/regional, religious, colour or gender sentiments.
I speak not minding whose tribe, religion, colour or gender is affected but the truth.

swedbase: You must be very sensless, mindless and stupor. Aren´t 40 - 50 percent of Yorubas Moslem Who told you they dont want the islamisation thing in your Yoruba land?? Beside your Yoruba land has been a conquered zone by the Hausa- Fulanis going by the current observation in your Kwara state. you idiotic yoruba apa

Why the abusive words? They are not necessary. You are mistaken. This is a fact, the yoruba muslim is not recognised by the hausa/fulani muslim. I knew this whilst living amongst the latter group. Once a hausa/fulani colleague asked me to show her a koranic school for her children. To my surprise, she rejected the school simply because it was being run by a yoruba alfa. She quickly told me that they do not reckon with them as true muslims! This is true even in the north.

Majority of yoruba families practise mixed religion, father muslim, mother christian or vise versa; children can follow either of the two. They are liberal, tolerant and celebrate together. Going the way of boko haram would mean to self destruct. To my mind, religion can never be a reason for war in South West; they are enlightened too. Even when everybody in the family is muslim, they are still at peace with others.

nagoma: Even NORTHERNERS did not provide good governance and you think southerners can do it? Just look at the trend of progressive failure of governance.

This mentality of "born to rule" is exactly what I have been harping on but you called me "too ignorant". What arrogance. You just said above that since Northerners did not provide good governance, then southerners cannot. Hear the home truth, Nigeria is in this mess today as a result of the misrule of the years past by northerners as head of state and ministers of ministries and managing directors of parastatals. They ruled and led through corruption and it is now a cancer. Those were the days when every tom dick harry northerner depended only on government contracts which they in turn sold. Of course they couldnt execute them yet were the prefered contractors because of their origin. So much evil transpired so let sleeping dogs lie. Corruption was an open affair! It was their style, they had both military and political power! I repeat, let sleeping dogs lie. What was the reason for Okar's coup?

With all that corruption, they still did not develop the north! LET SLEEPING DOGS LIE.

nagoma: Why do you think amnesty means money? Have you ever been to school?

Empty vessels ALWAYS make the most sound. You have been to school, so tell us what amnesty means here. If you say something is WRONG, then tell us what is RIGHT.

nagoma: Too ignorant . I wonder how he was able to write when he clearly cannot read.

I knew my comment would be difficult for you to grasp so I take it that your above reply was based on what or how you understood mine. You 4got to show me how much knowledge you have. Glad you are just one in a million + and you do not matter at all.

franchizy: I think Islam is the best religion dat suits Nigeria cos its a religion of peace.
The National Assembly shud enact a Law islamising Nigeria so dat Nigeria will b back to the promise Land.
The christians have failed us wit so much corruption and looting. We need a change in dis country and Islam is the only solution.
Insha Allah

Nigeria has been ruled mostly by the hausa/fulani who during their time ruled through corruption. Most of the relevant ministries were headed by them including parastatals. Mind you, Islam forbids that a fellow muslim snitches on or penalizes another muslim. They milked the nation with impunity and nobody could complain. In fact, it became a case of if you cant beat them you join them. The trend then was to convert to Islam or affiliate just to belong. A few influential men did that!
The hausa/fulani had the political and military power then. Corruption turned "cancer" during Babangida's reign and then Abacha. That cancer is eating us up now...so difficult to cure but I am still positive we will sing Halelluyah one day. Everything that has a beginning has an end.

byteem: call it an insult, a slap on the face of all those northern thieves who thought they could use bokoharam amnesty guise to to fund their election campaigns.. ..

but the shekau is right on this one .. only a defeated man can be granted amnesty .. amnesty is a product of surrender.. in true facts, the federal government surrendered to bokoharam .. so they (FG)should be begging for pardon and amnesty.. what a shame ..

so why wont shekau blab, brag and boast now .. they succeeded in bringing the govt to its knees ..let all scared,shameless northern elders and politicians go on their knees and beg for pardon from bokoharam .. they couldn't talk all this while cos they were too scared ... but suddenly in the name of amnesty they all open their big, shameful, smelly , brown teethed mouths .. because the saw it as an avenue to make quick box.. i curse the day i was born a Nigerian ...

the 1914 amalgamation was and still remains a crime against humanity, done selfishly by the British for trade benefits..there is never strength in diversity..just chaos and anarchy ..history has this shown time and again.. this entity called Nigeria is a flaw, founded on lies and deceit ..the only way forward is rip it into shreds. delay only invites more bloodshed...

God bless you for understanding the fact of the case. This people have been drawing us back all these years and out of fear we have been bowing to their wishes without knowing it. They have held 9ja in captivity and God is about to deliver us by using them. Oh yes, God uses your enemy to promote you! Strange but it is true!!.

byteem: call it an insult, a slap on the face of all those northern thieves who thought they could use bokoharam amnesty guise to to fund their election campaigns.. ..

but the shekau is right on this one .. only a defeated man can be granted amnesty .. amnesty is a product of surrender.. in true facts, the federal government surrendered to bokoharam .. so they (FG)should be begging for pardon and amnesty.. what a shame ..

so why wont shekau blab, brag and boast now .. they succeeded in bringing the govt to its knees ..let all scared,shameless northern elders and politicians go on their knees and beg for pardon from bokoharam .. they couldn't talk all this while cos they were too scared ... but suddenly in the name of amnesty they all open their big, shameful, smelly , brown teethed mouths .. because the saw it as an avenue to make quick box.. i curse the day i was born a Nigerian ...

the 1914 amalgamation was and still remains a crime against humanity, done selfishly by the British for trade benefits..there is never strength in diversity..just chaos and anarchy ..history has this shown time and again.. this entity called Nigeria is a flaw, founded on lies and deceit ..the only way forward is rip it into shreds. delay only invites more bloodshed...

God bless you for understanding the fact of the case. This people have been drawing us back all these years and out of fear we have been bowing to their wishes without knowing it. They have held 9ja in captivity and God is about to deliver us by using them. Oh yes, God uses your enemy to promote you! Strange but it is true!!.

Amnesty for the corrupt NORTHERN ELDERS to share! Hahahahaha. I have said so many times that boko haram is a RELIGIOUS jihadist group with an agenda to uphold the Koran.....A muslim MUST not be led by a non-muslim. To achieve this, Nigeria must be islamised or they go their separate ways. All the agitation in the north including Taraba, Benue, Kaduna and Plateau is part of the plan to first get them under their rule. The least hausa/fulani is more politically sound.

A jihadist group is always loyal to the koran and they do not compromise.

We are left with that ULTIMATE DIALOGUE - (Sovereign) National Conference. This is the only solution to bloodshed. Whoever says we must be together as one entity. These northern elders must know that they cannot eat their cake and still have it in their hands! They support boko haram because of their koran, but corruption and the quest for relevance and material wealth would not make them want to go their separate ways. This latter group (northern elders) are even more dangerous because GREED will make them want to put NIGERIA under islam to gain all. Whereas the boko boys do not mind taking complete control of their hausa/fulani + Benue, Taraba, Kaduna, Plateau, Kogi and maybe Kwara and rule themselves as an islamic nation.

Picture becoming clearer.

Princeojua: does Age count? I don't think so.

Oh yes, maturity will not do what you just did. When you grow older, you will laugh at this your post and wonder what you were thinking.

T-smooth:
Fulani are Nigerians and have the right to defend themselves. Why is it that thay hardly clash in any other Northern state except Jos and Benue? I guess Suswan and Jang are plotting evil against this fulani.

These two are not muslim states. The fulanis are settlers and are now pushing to take over using the jihadists tactics to reduce their hosts to the barest minimum. This is so subtle and they are not giving up. You give them, the fulanis, a little today, tomorrow they want more and even all. Remember what happened in Zango Kataf in Kaduna axis.

Kaduna originally was a non-muslim region with Gwaris in the majority. They infiltrated and now want to consume them. There are pockets of christians who are indigenes in Bornu, Bauchi, Sokoto, Kano, Adamawa. These too live in fear. While Taraba, Benue and Plateau are predominantly christian states. That's the picture so you can understand the frequent disturbances in these places.

Anini the notorious armed robber did not become an armed robber from day 1. He got there. I am sure his parents would have been shocked! People change.

Why do we often think and argue like children. If everyone here has taken time to read the BIBLE you will all base your comments on the word of God: "The heart of man in wicked and very deceitful, who can know it except God". God Himself says that man is subject to change. Only God can tell us who Jonathan is by daily revealing his true character to us. As it is now, GEJ 2007 has become a different person now!