₦airaland Forum

ANGELMARVE:
Well i don't like ladies that chew gums, it's a very huge turnoff.

I don't like ladies that put on cloths that will reveal their private parts of their body, it's a very very huge turnoff.

I don't like ladies that are broke, the ones that depends on guys for recharge cards, i will never date any lady that finds it difficult to recharge her phone with her own money, i will never date a lady that don't have at least 100 thousand naira in her bank account, excluding her business investment, she must at least have a 100 thousand naira to spare for her upkeep, cloths and other miscellaneous.

On my birthday, my girlfriend should be able to bake a cake worth 30,000 naira for me, she should be capable of spending lavishly on me, on my birthday.

There are two things involve, if i am dating a Lady from a financially average home, she should have her own business, be independent and she should be capable of taking care of her younger ones and parents on her own without the support of any man.

If i am dating a lady from a very Rich home, her parents must be very very Rich, she must be attending one of the most expensive private universities in Nigeria or UK or USA.

She must be very brilliant in her studies, not proud, very respectful and she should have millions in her bank account, whether she will work in her dad's company after graduation or not, is not my problem, but she must have her own personal company she manages..

One thing is for sure, i will never date a lady from a poverty home or date a lady with a 5000 naira bank account,, God forbid..

You wrote about 450 words...only abt 35 words shows u re ok (par 1 n 2),n over 400 words shows u re not ok...(35/450)100%=7.7%
My guy at 92.3% stupidity,you should join politics in Nigeria...they have a way of idolizing stupidity

dingbang:
If you can't follow the African traditions then you should better remain in ya father's house.

Which African tradition ojere aboki...meanwhile op,u b slowpoke...so after marriage u go still throw ur sperm inside her tin because if as a king u kneel down even lie down because of do with d same woman...u be buhari..omo jatijati

NairalandFAYOSE:
being with the mum means being with me. I don't think I want that.
have read so many comments here where people are calling me names and saying am selfish without even considering if I have the means to take care of her plus my kids. but no one is blaming the useless father who abandoned her daughter because he is married.
I know for sure my woman won't take it if its the other way round.

I only seek advice and if you want to blame me, I will say you should first put yourself in my shoes

Bros leave all this hypocritics,your concern and seeking advice are enough evidence you have feelings n forethoughts....ordinarily u jst cld have dismissed d idea without much consideration...Having said that,my take is simple,in the game of alpha supremacy, d weaker man his forced by society n womanly manipulations to take responsibility for the damage done by the stronger....that you even married a single mother is enough mistep...DO NOT TAKE THE CHILD even if u have the financial means to do so...its better not to do it than to do it in bitterness towards d child n d mother throughout ur marital life...

TAKE THE CHILD only if u can do wat d first commentator said,n get a restraining order to stop the father from ever showing up...and have him sign d order...or dont take d child

RuthlessLeader:
True. I like jehovah witness but they use intelligent design argument which is just fancy word for creationism.

Yea...you have a point,...i engage them in deep discussions and try to keep an open mind...they have the truth but they re ill equipped to present it sometimes...and some of them de drink o

RuthlessLeader:
Abeg which denomination of church is the true heaven inspired one.
Catholicism
Jehovah Witness
Protestant
Seventh day adventist
African churches.

Please let me know

I joined Jehovah's Witness, They re not perfect as i can point out flaws too,but they re honestly concerned with pleasing God...and money is not involved....deeper life is trying too,but money is involved, pastor idolizing z involved too

kaymart:
lesson from this: Don't be too crazy about today....Whatever property/ properties you have today, be it latest/most exotic phones, cars, wares or even houses, any property at all....

In years to come, ppl will refer to it as old school....
Are you still going to flaunt that iPhone 8 or that latest galaxy S- whatever of yours?
I bet you, 20 to 30 years from now, u 'll laugh at yourself for celebrating mediocrity, for flauting absolutely outdated drvices....For placing so much emphases on supposedly unsophisticated tech products, when far better tech would have long taken over.

Ask those people who spent their life savings on buying mtn and econet sim cards those days....

Meet those people who paid through their noses just to acquire trending Nokia 3310 phone some years back....

I never joined the jamboree of Blackberry those days. Does it now make me less sophisticated today?

The phone I'm using now, cost me about a 100K 17months ago, today there are many newly launched series which are better of, and aren't up to the amount I spent buying mine.

lesson of this whole thing: Use your brain, set ur priority right. Do away with irrelevances.


Those who have ears, let them hear.........

#Best of Luck

Absolutely!!!!...apple launched iPhone 7 a month after i got iPhone 6,they just crashed d market value of d phone in a giffy..lollll,..if my phone no spoil or i dash person, i no de buy shingbain

QueenSuccubus:



Chaaaaii.. see the fate ooo..

But hang on, how does he know that she was truly a virgin? I will only believe if she got her medical certificate to confirm it before she was being "raped"...

Who knows, that rape might be a set up.. Well planned tragedy .. Its possible. Imagine, who the hell will tell her husband to wait til midnyt before he can fvck her? But before the midnyt struck , she was raped .. Na only her ooo #REDFLAG

If he is not happy anymore, he has the right to file a divorce..

All i can say is....i love you!!! Set-up toh madt

ubunja:
look who is polite only to girls and insultive to men. lol. you're just another vagina worshipper pretending to be polite to get sex. just look how angry you are.

Boss free this guy....pls send me that eye opening ebook...just pm on nairaland on your prefered medium of sending or if there already is a download link....thanks

Wole is impotent

Idiotic maranus

I can feel your really trying to stand up to the world but the extra pressure u have to contend with is frustrating you...logical but not proper....
Let me start by sayin you are who you are n am not willing to pamper you to motivation because you are just like every other person....every1 has got some form of shortfall or the other...your is physical(and ur not even close to d worse of),some re intellectual,some educational,others sexual,environmental,health mention them.....no one has everything to d desired decree.....
So rather than soak urslf in self pity whc is d average man's cushion....bros get urslf up and bcum a winner in what ur frnds re losers at....its d law of nature... we're drawn to those wu have wat we fail at....then watch then feel a need to av u around....
I got this mentality from Tyrion Lanister in d Game of Thrones...in other to compensate 4 his dwarfism n compete wit his other noble siblings....HE SOUGHT TO BE THE MOST INTELLIGENT OF THE FOLD BY PRACTICALLY EATING EVERY KIND OF BOOKS.....his brother was training to b a physical warlord,he traind n succeeded in being a mental warlord...try it!!!!

DeadRat:
In Life There Is A Limit To Everything Except Your potentials...


It Can Never Be Perfect But It Can Always Be better Than The Previous...


Women Are A Powerful Weapon, if You Doubt, ask Samson...

Stupid Op ,Stupid post.....When men dont undstd good English they act like u....u asked for a post but u stupidly clustered 3 dumb post trying to patronize us to win d empty competition u startd.....

pyyxxaro:
OP you de craze for TEETH

With your mouth when de smell armpit , u nor see better tin post naaa this rubbish




Olumo rock and thunder when de stay inside volcano fall one ur small intestine

So how does running down d Op show u 2 b any more intelligent....true,d info z not useful to commercial activities ,but its enlightening at least n no harm in knowin n keepin it...except of cos u dnt av intellectuals arnd u dat challenge ur knowledge base.

DeadRat:
Come On Shut Your Mouth... And Get Your Bended prick Out Of My Property

Bobo... o ti fagbo,meanwhile ,re u gay,how prick take enter d mata na..idiotic inteted

Have you read any ubunja red pills....n cummin from a person who cant even make first hundred,hw am i to trust ur wacky judgement.

Baba i well talk....amy sane person wld never counter this points of d Op....infact,isolate his religious reasons and lets consider only the logical premises of his conclusions...the guy nor lie,only those that have swimmed all d way downtown can relate well..

Blackfyre:
Now again, the "nice guy" you described in the last line doesn't quite fit the same description as the one in sheep clothing yet you term them both "nice guys". That sort of "nice guy" you are talking about is one who actually doesn't know what's best for him. He is more or less the one who gets what remains.

Now the other one you accurately defined as manipulator as opposed to nice guy you formerly termed, would never make such mistake of going for a woman who everyone has been with. This is because no guy whatsoever irrespective of him being a manipulator or his persona will spend five months with a girl who has been used by everyone and knocked up again, in this day and age where babymama or sex is rampant? I strongly doubt that. A dude who spends five months on a woman has seen that she is worth the chase. Plus there is a fairly good chance he can score a chick with that tactic, that he doesn't solely depends on the sort of female he is dealing with.

The nice guy in your last line,basically doesnt know what's best for him/ the one who isn't picky with them ladies/ a beta male as they often call them.

I think it will make more sense, you list the classes of males based on their approach to females and their true perception or personalities to females. That two ultimately defines what a man is, in relation to females. Although i think an experienced female would be in a better position to list such since they are the ones that absorb it all.

Looking at things from your standpoint (which unfortunately looks like a nice guy's)i must accept you have a point.but a closer look shows you re unwittingly sayin the same thing as ubunja...the guy knows what he wants but his cowardice caged him,and his only alternative is to try what he thinks is easier and require less of what he does not have (balls)....the girl on the other hand is not supposed to understand his plight of cos,so she assumes he probably he has mislead her into his supposed girly harms,sheepishly manipulating with every passin move....

Ubunja is litt,i usually dont agree with all the technicalities in his writeups,n i dnt av to,but av learnt a lot from him because i focus on the underlying red pill....and this time bro,it ' stop that shit'.

[quote author=marvin906 post=65669433]HONESTLY I DON'T SEE ANYTHING FOOLISH THERE...
ITS A LITTLE BIT FUNNY TO ME BUH NOT FOOLISH Baba evrytin abourit z foolish,he betrayed his future seeds,he missed d bigger picture,and 4 what POMO .....Having said that,its jst one of those exemptions nt d rule...when bae z in luv....even d guy mess na her mumu button

Obviously your just being open about it....am nt obligated to convince you so il rather u dnt flex ur disagreement muscles.....Truth z dat no calling anywhr,ppl re gifted in oratory,yes.and banking on d ability or gift as d case may b...they re called....d logic,the gift is d calling/invitation to a ministry

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ThisIsFlashh:
You are foolish. You don't need good advice.

Someone should advice him to give the girl the remaining ₦20k. Zombie.

Baba no take am personal naa...na ur money

Relationships like this can be dead complicated, so unless frm experience you handle complications well(and this time,in d long term),fire on boss.but if ur jst a simple bro(whc i smell all over ur write up),jst no go die young untop another man mata o...women re confused enough to add an extra complication.


My 1kobo

Savage,bro-caster,infidel.....u re hereby rusticated, expelled, extinguished and due for deportation fron the bro nation on grounds of treason.... Paiko pikin

Realitycheck007:
Me and my staffs are having a little argument, cause of the pix i brought to them this morning to explain.. Many people can't Say a word while others are contradicting each other so i decided to bring it up here, I know this isn't the right thread but For the reason this Section has the most viewers and active users... Let's do this, NOTE am a Christian that loves getting new idea of my Belief, Either Wrong or right.. Can someone explain this for me

Cc. Rocktation, farano, lalasticlala, mynd44 )

All them pastor confusionist mixing philosophy with paganism and serving it on the table as religious beliefs....op just hit the very foundation of a confused doctrine that 90%(the remaining 10% too go sa talk rubbish) of pastors cannot even explain without blaming without blaming d confused part on the mysteries of God....Op,here is an opportunity to debunk the joke ones and for all,am nt obligated to convince any1,just to lay the facts bare.

B4 anything,the question can be summarized as; is God a trinity?
Trinity is a doctrine in christaindom,first introduced by the Catholic church and later adopted by other churches that sprang from it.so,what do the Catholics mean by a truine God....the Catholic encyclopedia simply defines its as"God the father,God the son and God the holy spirit,coexisted(non existed b4 d others) are equal(in power and authority) and are inseparable (though 3 bt 1)....
So what does the bible really teach....

Fact1:is it true Jesus was never created,and has always existed from eternity like the father?

Phil1:15,16....He(Jesus)is the image of the invisible God,the FIRSTBORN (first to be)of all creation.....

Prov.8:22-32....The Lord produced me (christ)as the beginning of his way,The earliest of his achievements of long ago....

Fact2:is it true God the Father and the son are coequal (in power and authority)?

John 14:28...You heard that I said to you, ‘I am going away and I am coming back to you.’ If you loved me, you would rejoice that I am going to the Father, for the Father is greater than I am.

John 5:26,27...26 For just as the Father has life in himself, so he has granted also to the Son to have life in himself. 27 And he has given him authority to do judging, because he is the Son of man(obviously, the one giving the authority is greater than the one given authority)

Fact 3 is God and Jesus inseparable,the two existing on earth while both still exist in heaven simultaneously?


Omo ,thats really a dumb reasoning ,aside everything in the bible speaking exactly the opposite...i can quote a million scriptures to debunk this,its not just biblical....and what especially is unbiblical is the teaching of trinity which has its origin in paganism(its d easiest way new converts who previously worshipped a truine god can marry thr idolatry wirh the newly found faith)

Tahrah:
Which country would be stupid enough to buy

yinmu...abeg carry ur seriousness go joo

D experienced ones wld undstd dis Op z dead right...@ d end,ur always like....So? z dah really all..N den u cn feel it,dat something good jst left u...its nt jst worth it ojere

Isokuso