₦airaland Forum

GamalNasser:
Stop paying Fulani ransomes let them do their worse , they more they are paid they more they kidnap , if they are not paid for one year they will stop kidnapping

it would have been better, but the trauma of having ur love one in their hand would not allow u. Trust me I have been there.

Help the man nah.

Prosper82:
I Feel Like My Marriage Is Falling Apart

I would like in advance to apologize for the long post but I think some background information is needed so you can assess the situation.

My wife and I have two kids. The oldest is turning 8 soon and the youngest is 7 months old.

Since our first child was born she has been co-sleeping with us. And ever since our sex life has been going down hill.

Now since our youngest child was born he has also been sleeping with us in a queen sized bed. But after two months of very poor sleep, I decided I couldn't follow that arrangement anymore so I went to sleep in the next room.

So since our kids were born my wife has been sleeping with them and now I sleep alone.

As you could imagine, you can't really have sex with two kids on the bed. We have gone weeks and even months without having any sex.
So my wife says that we should have sex in the room where I sleep after she puts the children to sleep.

This to me sounds like making an appointment to have sex. It isn't something you can have if you have to set up a time in advanced. I also miss cuddling with her and sleeping in our bed.


I feel like us sleeping in different rooms and beds has been the biggest hurdle to get back to the point we were before having kids.

We have a crib for the baby and a bed for our oldest daughter where each of the children could sleep separately but she's into attachment parenting so if the children cry (which I suppose they will when adapting to a new sleeping arrangement) is something that she wouldn't tolerate.

I also I understand the 7 month old might need to be breastfed in the middle of the night so she says it's more convenient just to have him nearby in bed than having to get up to breastfeed him but I feel that my daughter should be learning to sleep independently.

Anyway, it's been quite a while without sex and I don't know what to tell her or do.
We have a lot of fights because of this.

I feel that attachment parenting might feel like you're doing the best for the kids, but if it also ends up destroying the marriage and we separate what good would that do for them?

What do you guys think?

get someone nice to be staying with them. I'm already foreseeing same thing in my home too. But i have to plan ahead.

Usually i don't get angry easily but right now I'm annoyed. Be looking for money so u can pay back the loan in case he fails to pay. And also prepare away to make meet with God. They say forgiveness is of God ur own is to arrange the meeting.

If this is real, it then means the so called woman pant is not expensive. For him to have gathered that number of pants and he still wanted more.

tritt:
This is a super storyyyyyyy

no be lie oh!!! If not for her picture i would have tot I'm the one cos same thing happened to me. My then useless neighbors call my girlfriend and she showed up on announced when they saw that i brought one machine home. jealous no allow them sleep.

ghettokid1:
When will they add Bull-hari?
Any way i will enter okada go mama-put, next tomorrow

buhari had been in the dictionary for a very long time.

Wendy006:
What I Found In A Fairly Used Car I Bought, Please Let's All Be Careful.

What I am about to share here is 100% true. You never can trust how discreet this pages are, so I had to create a new moniker lol...

I had already concluded plans to get a fairly used Nigerian Lexus. I got a seemingly good deal on jiji so last Friday I traveled to obiaruku to seal the deal.

Everything had gone on as planned, very great guy, I paid, he handed over all relevant documents and I headed straight to bact to Asaba.

At about 7pm, I was doing a final check on the documents so I sent my wife to the car, this lady returned back with a big black envelope directly behind the driver's seat.When we opened it, it was filled with Indian hemp. I mean close to 500grammes, I was in utter shock. I quickly called the seller and cautioned him seriously.

I had gone through over 15 police check posts, how on earth would I have explained that the stuff wasn't mine.

Please folks, we've got to be very careful. Very very careful. May God not allow us to answer questions about someone else's indiscretion.

I have decided not to share the pics here, for personal reasons.

maybe u escape their setup.

daddytime:
Laughable...

my brother it is real laughable. I was annoyed when read that they bought just 2. when i open the post i be came angry when i saw those small small bird that caterport can even bring it down.

I don't understand this boys case again, how comes he is allowed to live a normal life like nothing happened. When has Nigeria grown to this level. I smell a rat.

zionmde:
how on earth can people who are capable of buying such a property look as wretched as this. So when d chief saw them he couldn't sense that these guys don't have capacity for such a business

anyway wat do I know sef

don't u know police and how the twist story to suit people's hearing.

ambassadorgozie:
i later begged my boss on whatsapp but all no avail

relax there has been a plot to sack you. U will find another job. She did not even trust u, how can u be her PA.

Instead of Disco or what do they call them to change so that we will see the difference between them and NEPA they are here talking nonsense.

Okpa042:
Celebrity marriages do not last especially those which upload theirs online and refuse to keep it private.

Tbh, we are using style to be watching simi and adekunle gold

if no be say i dey wait for Simi so that i can marry her, i would said u are a very bad person.

They are always burning Bayelsa.

While i thing its not a problem to include skirt. After all all police, civil defense, costumes, immigration, airforce, Navy and Army all of them uses skirt so why exempting NYSC.

How much for the car?

I'm willing to pay 1.8

gidgiddy:
You should be more concerned with what would happen to the woman if the board she is standing on gives way

how else do u want him to show care?.

diportivo:
bro

in all sincerity, u need to find urself a friend that knows about cars

this friend shld own a car,and shld be driving constantly

this will mean that,this ur friend will av a mechanic

this way,all this ur vague (for lack of a better word) questions will be answered offline and not online

when u now want to make repairs,and u av been billed,u can den bring those to nairaland

a look at all ur topics before and after u bought this ur es300 buttresses my point

ire o

nah wah oh!!!! So people now goes to people history here before they comment.

TheSourcerer:
I think she's one of us.

u just made laugh very hard. Which people are you?.

2m i will buy it.

Bluffly:
Guy be a man. If your daughter will cry and bring down the roof. Lock her up in the room next time she won't. I have two daughters and I train them. My first daughter slammed my phone on the ground and I beat her with a stroke of hand on her buttocks she cried and slept. Since that day them no born her well to mishandle my items. The younger one almost scatter their mums laptop one in protest, as the mother best her I top it up and lock her in her room. She has calmed.
Train your child.

Also why are you observing your maids tolerance level when you ought to prepare her with serious warnings on how to handle your daughter. Give warnings prepare her and train your child as well.
Drop all this philosophy that they are just children
If your child will cry let her cry, if she no cry the day them born her you go no say everything dey okay.

chief no be so. U have to take thinks carefully. U should also know there's a way u will handle them, they become afraid and lack confidence.

KingAzubuike:
Some of these kids can be very stubborn and make you do the unthinkable out of rage.

RiP to the kid and as for the maid, she needs a psychiatrist and a psychologist not a death /jail sentence.

honestly this just got my attention because I can say it worse with my daughter. She is almost 2 year old. She does not wear any cloth except the one she likes and if u force her, she capable of bringing down the house with cry. My fear is, we just got an house help whom I don't understand her tolerance level. Before she breaks my babies head when no one is around.

Nice ride, let it go for 1.7m

1.9 mil I come for it

1.8, I pick it tomorrow.

Nice ride, can it go 1.85m.

2m I come for it.

1.45mil serious buyer

1.2mil I will come for it.

1.4m I come for it.