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200 nd above, a basket is 3500

Prettygirl200:
Oga rest and stop the hating, u will get married one day too, stop making yourself look stupid

vavulence

Chuksyno:
Yet, none of the above is affordable in this economic harmattan

lol

Antihypocrite:
I have been married for 3 years now, I have known my wife for 5 years altogether. She was and is still the best thing that ever happened to me.

I don't know where to start from, I can't come to terms with the fact that my wife is leaving.

Guys, I think the problem started last year after some hoodlums stole my bike. That was my major source of livelihood apart from some home lessons that I used to do, but stopped due to health reasons.

It's been difficult financially and I honestly don't know what else to do.

Shortly after my bike was stolen, I got a loan from lapo and added with my little savings to enter palm oil business. I wish I had not done so as I ended up losing about 80k because the guy I worked with cheated me whole heartedly.

My wife had to get a job as a teacher in a private primary school. I told her it was just temporary as I was working to raise money for her start a poultry.

In order to clear the lapo loan, I had to do odd jobs and take loan from loan apps. My wife's little salary of 20k became the major source of feeding while I battled to clear the loan.

Sometimes I would borrow from friends to pay the loan app to be able to borrow a higher amount from the loan apps again. This was a mistake and a trap cos now I am so much indebted to these loan apps. I am even owing some friends and right now I am unable to pay back.

I have been in debt for over 8 months now to these loan apps. They have tarnished my Image to all my contacts.

I even stopped going to church because most of my church members who received messages from these loan apps did not even care to hear me out. They believed the loan apps that I am a fraudster on the run.

My wife started feeling ashamed of me. She stopped associating with me in public spaces. I know she has tried. Nobody deserves to pass through what she is passing through.

This afternoon when she came back from work, she told me that she would be going back to her parents house

She said that it is best she goes back to her people until I am able to sort my self out.

Guys I have tried to be strong for so long. Right now I don't think I can hold on anymore. I have always believed that things would turn out well, but right now I am in a low place. I don't know how long I can hold on again.

Last month I tried to even get a security job that pays 25k monthly. But I feel so discouraged to do the job. How long will I work to clear a loan of 320k that keeps adding interest daily.

Thoughts of suicide have been crossing my mind today. I really need help

What can I do? I don't even have the energy to pray. Has anyone ever been in my shoes? If yes how did you come out?

can u send me a mail

Thinkam:
Telling her to her face, don't think i can do that

lobatan ..thats the best thing u can do..or tel her u need space u want to work on yourself

Thinkam:
How do you suggest I do it, a plain text message or WhatsApp

call her and sit her down, let her know u love her but you are not ready to settle down and u wouldn't want to waste her time because she's a wonderful girl..she might be upset or hurt, after that u start cutting tiles with her gradually, stop picking her calls nd don't reply her chats till she stops bothering you

forMom:
Forgive me but I have a strong attachment to my father's name.

Not because I detest my fiance's name or anything like that. No, not at all. But because I feel like my father's name is my identity.
To think I'll let go of my identity just like that after marriage is distressing .

Besides, my surname sounds so lovely whenever it's mentioned. In fact, because of that, I love being called by my full name.

I've mentioned this to my fiance a few times but he doesn't understand lol .
Honestly, if I had a choice, I would not change my surname after marriage .

So ladies if it wasn't a thing, would you take your husband's name after marriage?

my husband bears the same name with my dad

preciousele:
For sale.
3kg gas cylinder 6k
small gen 9k, need plug and service
electric jug 7k
hand hair dryer 2.5k. All working perfectly 08167695383

location..hair dryer 1.5k

Potbellyman:
Says who?
The egg and milk made it heavy. Very filling for me.

I repeat it will not belle full me but it looks yummy

. By the time u consume 2 full loaf or breads u will satisfy

Gizzard

Righthussle:
For the sake of the people working there. Please dont scrap it.

dey should scrap it jor, its blood sucking program

Uptown7:
When will Abia state ever get it right ?

good afternoon

Ninisun:
Shouldn't be world war 2 rather gently.

God abeg oo

Ninisun:
If he's a good pounder, you'll always look forward to having it every day.

hum mm..there will be a time someone will get tired

Petyprincess:
Nigerian men need to learn how to be romantic to their wives, most of them just want to pound their wife like a mortal, they have forgotten women body works different.

If you want your wife to always in the mood, please her take her out, surprise her with gifts, buy her flowers, cook her favorite meal and lastly stop pounding your wives like they are the cause of Nigeria problems.

I agree with you jor, some men will pound every night..na food?

StrafordSTONES:
I am

can u waybill to kuje

rawe45:
LG home theatre with DVD Player #40k
Tv stand & Coffee table - #30k
Rug #15k
Kids wardrobe #25k

0.9.0.3.5.2.3.6.6.0.0 WhatsApp

how much is kids wardrobe last..locations pls

StrafordSTONES:
Lugbe.

Reading table -7000
Drum -- 9000k

I'm not getting your reply..ain't u selling again

Shalommy:
They wanna force everyone to use gas. Chaii

even gas sef cost..1kg is 950

mariahAngel:
Yeah, there are two types of Ekuru; the dark one, which they make by blending the beans with the peel, and the white one, which they make without the peel.

Aren't the leaves the same as the ones they use in wrapping moinmoin?

its different, I'm not in Kwara now but anytime I visit I'll show the leaves

StrafordSTONES:
Lugbe.

Reading table -7000
Drum -- 9000k

water drum 7k

StrafordSTONES:
Lugbe.

Reading table -7000
Drum -- 9000k

5k.. can u waybill to kuje...can I have your WhatsApp numb..

solidgold:
DRESSER FOR SALE CALL 07082083024. EXACTLY AS SEEN

how much and location

StrafordSTONES:
Clearance sales!!!!

TV console: 15k
Torn mattress/foam: 10k
A long centre rug--- 15k
2 bedframes one big and one small ----25k
Bedframe with an upbunk...13k
Butter/drum for water- 10k
Reading table...7k
A small book shelve ---7k


Location is Abuja










Call : 08ONE, 4 two 6 zero 2 five 5 eight

how much is reading table last and water drum....where are you in abuja

Smiles

mariahAngel:
Ekuru is quite easy to make, if not very easy.
It's like making moinmoin, only you don't add any ingredients to the blended beans, except salt, then wrap in leaves and steam.
Then you prepare spicy obe ata with palm oil to eat with the ekuru.
I would even say it is easier to make than moinmoin.

Let's just say moinmoin is to ekuru as jollof is to white rice.

yes, but if u want to enjoy a good ekuru, u have to mix very well. some people peal their beans while some people don't..I love ekuru especially the local leaf own...there's a particular leaf they used in Kwara...

Czario:
Ask your boyfriend or husband the importance of presentation....as for me I couldn't even touch that...

I don't see anything bad in her presentation, we all get the cooking procedure...
Do you have an idea of how much cooking wares cost now?
U can't understand sha

Zonefree:
The one with only panla na

lol

Zonefree:
Deborah, I can't wait to devour your soup with panla

what soup are u talking about

Zonefree:
Mercychen is not yet married. I believe she will change her cooking pattern when she marry. How can a sane woman cook soup without stockfish?

lol..If I prepare soup with just panla u won't want to eat another food again

Na person wey get money dey go eatery..

Romanoff:
New yam is cheaper than old yam. They shaved your head but na very small. The yam no spos pass 1k.

in abuja here 5 tubers is 3k nd its big