₦airaland Forum

anastasius:
Useless fool. Already having sex at 20
U want to be useless in life. I pity you

u to Nko how old are when u knack or dem knack you,,yeye child

Wow,told her to send a pm she no gree,na this kind people dey make some people no dey help again..hia

Cudeze4:
i want to pm you too. How can i do that?

me?

cococandy:
I mean most birth control does have side effects. And yes condoms are physiologically better.
But the side effects of using other means of birth control are not worse than what they prevent which is unwanted pregnancies.
Pregnancy is a HUGE deal so it’s technically worse than birth control side effects unless the couple are intentionally wanting to get pregnant

hu mm mm

cococandy:
explain

e don tey wey I leave graduate and I no use my license work na KOfood stuff I dey sell now, brain don empty,,ask about food stuff I'm very good, all i know is family planning is not advisable the bad effect is more than the good,,and too much contraceptive is not good too, condom is the best we condom that will look like flesh to flesh

zero824:
Yes ma'am

I'm sorry

Ishilove:
Madam, go for family planning at a family clinic. Nairaland is not a hospital.

family planning is not advisable..

Papa12:
Now this is serious

seriously serious

zero824:
That you are missing him

why are bothered? Wetin concern you? Don't mention me again pls

zero824:
Tough madam don dey miss, I hope he's aware?

aware that what ?

zero824:
Tell her to message me I believe you can get her from there, let's do this together

do what together

ivymorenike:
thanks sis, i really appreciate

I for drop my number make we talk for phone but NL guys are not smiling,,pm me I'll reply nd call your we can talk u

PriceNow:
Please nairalanders, both male & female i need a little advice.

Inasmuch as i don't like disclosing my relationship problems to anyone, sometimes i have to let it out cos my personal judgement might not be entirely right so i seek your advice.

I have been dating this girl for 3 months now and i noticed she's an introverted person. But what bothers me is that i feel like am ignored in the relationship cos she has only called me once. i have confronted her before concerning this but she said it's very difficult for her to call anybody.

I have asked her if she has another boyfriend she said no, just that her ex is still disturbing her.

i really don't know what to do cos i feel like i'm the only one taking the whole thing seriously, like if i stop dragging this relationship it will just die off and i'm now tired already. I have asked her for a breakup before explaining my predicament but she was very sad at it so we made up. I myself I am an introvert too so i don't know how this will work out.

This is the issues i'm having with her apart from that we are happy more than we're sad and this is the only i have dated and wished to marry cos she's different. Please talk to me honestly.

forcus on how to get money now pls...before my bf traveled he might not call me for 2 weeks me sef wont cal, what he do every morning is he dropped msg every morning nd if I didn't see his msg den I know he's busy nd I'll drop msg too once he's free we chat nd we are cool, till he traveled he's everything to me nd till Now I miss him every fucking day it bn 3 months already ..

Cant we go a day without hearing relationship matter ni,,be single to avoid stuffs like this,,my problem right now is how I'll make money legally,,I hate emotional stress abeg o

ivymorenike:
sis i swear if it i won't come here, i called my parents some hours ago i told them i gonna repeat class if i don't pay, they beg, swear they don't have money, i called my friend, they are also sort of cash

i have try opay, first bank, and other loan app but dey don't approved it that is why i came here

oga oo,whatever it is pls don't engage in hookup,..pls hold onto God he never fails..I had money issues nd I cried to the extent of having a chest pain u know what that means yet I didnt do hookup,even when a man was begging me for sex with 20k I still said no,dear with God it will end well ,,whatever it is no do hookup abeg

ivymorenike:
please if anyone knows where i can borrow money i have tried app loaning app they don't borrow me, e jor please, don't wanna repeat classes

as no body are nt around ile ife

hummm, sorry dear

harveyosho1:
Also an OAU student... check ur mail lets chat

how much u wan give am..yeye

ivymorenike:
I'm a ardent guest, just created this account

Oau 200level, broke,hungry wanna pay school fees, and i don't want to repeat semester, parent are super broke, friends are also looking up to someone too


so if u are living around ile ife, osun state, I'm up for hookup, let meet around OAU entrance, please it urgent, thanks

my email, ivymoneroe@gmail.com,u can email to ask for my number, thank you

shey there's no other way? I feel for you I love to help but it is well..but u really don't have to do this babe, if I were you,if u have any hand work u can just utilize hustle nd go back t9 school,what if ur enemy is used for ritual u won't be able to finish the school,dear when theres life there's hope,,I m very broke nd a man was offering 20k for sex I refused, things might not be doing well now but with time it will,pls don't sell yourself for money..pls

chatinent:
Your mates work legitly. You are here justifying reasons why you do this habit of yours you have been doing since five years ago

hmmm

Nemesis0147:
you are stupid!!
I don’t mind being banned for this!!

abeg oo

Talkisneeded:
If this is not a script, just pass the message to them anonymously

what if the guy no believe

Maxvasia:
So i am a Medical Doctor who has been seeing patients a lot today. Today was uncharacteristically busy (Guess it's because of the ongoing strike).

This young lady walks into my office with a man old enough to be her father. This is not the issue. Here is the issue:

The lady is a fiancee to my friend, a relationship my friend let me in on just 2 months ago. They are engaged.

I felt i knew this lady's face as it looked so familiar. It was my her. I looked again at the pics of her my friend sent to me and it matched.

Here is the more shocking thing: The man she walked in with was MY FRIEND'S father. Another shock is that they came for a termination of pregnancy. Of course i turned them down politely. Neither of them know or have met me before. They havo no idea i know them.

What do you think? Should i let my guy in on it? I'd appreciate as many comments as possible. I pray many people see this so that I'll have as many angles as possible.

tell your friend the truth but to me there's a way u do it, tell them u are going to abort the pregnancy den secretly invite your friend..cos your friend might not believe NPD the lady can manipulate the matter den turning u to a bad person,d if u ignore the matter your conscience will be blaming you..

Number 1..I don't joke with my sleep pls..

FalseProphet1:

wetin u see?

LOGICALKEN:
So I met this lady in 2019 through a mutual friend, after few weeks of getting to meet her we started dating. She is 29 and I’m 31. She’s based in Benin where she works and I am in Lagos, the agreement was that after our wedding she will join me in Lagos which she agreed. Our relationship has been going on smoothly which made me do the introduction January this year and I’ve told her the wedding will be by January next year, which she knows I am making adequate preparation to that effect. I even had to get involved in a monthly contribution of 30k which is done in her workplace, I told her she should collect 2 slots so we can save enough for the wedding . She has never made any financial request that i did not grant, just two months ago she started acting all weird, I have asked her what the problem was and she would say nothing. She stopped picking my calls and told her parents I offended her, I called her to know what my offense was and she said I should forget. God knows I have never deliberately done anything to upset her. Just yesterday morning she called to tell me she is done with the relationship which left me so confused and devastated. I have already paid for cow and all the wines we will use for the wedding and now she has called it off. Please nairalanders what could possibly be my offense? I have thoroughly searched my heart and I can’t seem to remember when I offended her.

just let her be, don't call, who knows maybe its a blessing..God is working on somthing good nd better 4 you,I had a break sometime ago I nearly cried my eyes out it was after 3 months I found out he's a cultist nd smokes anything,I was just thanking God, this a guy thats very gentle nd peaceful, what led to breakup was because I said I can't be coming to his place every week nd I'm not ready for any pregnancy, he started fighting me nd get angry over little things..I know his mum place nd store, till now I'm still thanking God o.

Sonnobax15:

Na wa oh....

But bros op, what if this whole thing should turn out to be a blessing in disguise.... Sometimes God works in mysterious ways that may seem too difficult for us to comprehend.....

Like my dad always tell me--"that a woman who has set her heart to depart a man, there's nothing the man'll do that'll make her change her mind".........

Well,it's very obvious she has found another nigha cha...Very obvious.... The same thing happened to my friend one time ago.....The other bigha disappointed her las las and she came back to my friend....The part that really got me angry was that he accepted her back.......Love is blind cha..

u are right.

jeffrey04:
Finally we have done it.
Congrats to us

congrats..I'm next in Jesus name

Wonders Una no get work..Na woman pants be Una problem now, orisirisi

PENISgod:
So i met this beautiful girl a month ago at a saloon, after we got to know each other I asked her if she had a boyfriend(because me I no like palava) and she said no, then I took the opportunity to ask her out and she accepted...so we've been dating for a month now, no intercourse or outercourse of any sorts...but mehn as a man naww, e get as my body don dey do me..I just want your honest opinion if it is too early to make a move on her or should I still give it some time?
I don't want her to see me as being pushy.

u are a man na,Cant u take decision on yourself or u are not up to 18..

OgogoroFreak:
Useless son

lol

Alert nd him..

DubaiLandLord:
I don't pray I meet such woman, cause if I later find out... I go almost beat her faint for scamming me.

so u can beat woman niyen oo...woman beater spoted