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http://www.watchinglagos.com/2013/01/how-nlc-and-tuc-betrayed-occupynigeria.html

dederocs: Seems the cock has finally come home to roost...For most of you playing religion out there it might be shocking-but not me.I have always known that religion is same as politics,hence the church is on track,trying to woo the gay public,to get more members for more accumulated income and profits ...As long as humans remain gullible to the tricks of these religious societes- we should brace up for more shockers.
share ur veiws.

sista-jay:
Some men just dont like talkin( na action dem want) bout their past, kinda hard to know!!

190: Those Kanye West lyrics hit the nail on the head when they claimed a gold-digging woman won’t mess with a broke man. Heck, it costs a lot to keep her happy. The gold digger can be defined as a woman whose main reason for hooking up is so that she can gain material benefits from the latest sponge she’s dating.

Here are 10 signs that your girlfriend is much more interested in spending quality time with your wallet than with you.

[color=Black]No.10[/color] [color=deeppink]She Wants Expensive Gifts e.g Blackberries,Human Hair and doing her hair ever 2weeks![/color]!
When you give her something sentimental that doesn’t cost much, but reminds you of a special time together, or you write her a heartfelt poem, she might give you a blank look or turn her nose up at the gift.

She would’ve just preferred it if you bought her a pair of diamond earrings or those Jimmy Choo heels she pointed out the day before. The gold digger is eager for gifts that are caked with money, instead of sentimental value.

[color=Black]No.9[/color][color=deeppink] Her Friends Are Gold Diggers--You might have to watch the company your Woman keeps[/color]
As the saying goes, you can tell a lot about someone from the company they keep. If your girlfriend spends time with other women who seem to show signs of being gold diggers, or you’ve heard gossip about their behaviour, chances are she could well be influenced by their tendencies.

It’s a good idea to keep your hand on your wallet.


No.8[color=deeppink] She's Curious About Your Financial Status--Never reveal your financial status to a nigerian woman, you would slowly be digging your Grave doing that!![/color]
Your girlfriend has been interested in hearing about your career and financial status from day one. Though you might mistake her curiosity for interest in your life, she’s probably sussing you out to ensure you will be able to pay her way through the relationship.

No.7 [color=deeppink]She Never Pays--This is the mentality of Nigerian women ((He's the man--let him pay)) Thats why white women are much better~[/color]
When the bill arrives at the table, she pretends it doesn’t exist. It’s always up to you to settle it, and she never even offers to pay or go Dutch. Basically, a gold digger takes for granted that you’re a gentleman, and when it comes to shelling out money, you’re the one for the job.

No.6 [color=deeppink]She Hates Other Women--sees them as a threat to her national Loot [/color]
Always dressed in the finest clothing and looking gorgeous, the gold digger flaunts the fact that she likes to take care of herself. But it’s with other people’s money, of course. Since she places emphasis on her looks, she is wary of and competitive with other desirable women and dislikes their company if they are just as gorgeous or as status-endowed as she is. Clearly, her behaviour is caught up in insecurity.

No.5 [color=deeppink]She Uses Her Looks For Short-Term Gain--Alot of such women are here on nairaland and i know them from the way they even interact among us, [/color]
She has to get to the front of the line at clubs, so she pops open a button on her cleavage-exposing top. She wants her neighbour to change her car tire so she won’t be late for lunch with the girls, so she walks over to him in a figure-flattering dress to make him drool.

The gold digger uses her looks for short-term gain, and she probably charmed you that way too. But she doesn’t use her looks for long-term goals, simply because she doesn’t have any.


No.4 [color=deeppink]She's Status-Obsessed[/color]
The gold digger craves high status, thinking that she can gain it by how she looks and dresses. She’ll regularly snub people whom she perceives as having a low status, like the homeless or those working in service jobs.

On dates, she’s more likely to appear impressed if men tell her they own an Audi R8 or a Range Rover sports HSE 2010 edition than if they mention that they help out at soup kitchens on Sundays.

No.3 [color=deeppink]She Climbs Boyfriends--Alot of these women claim to do this not knowing they are exposing themselves[/color]
Instead of climbing the corporate ladder, the gold digger straps on her Manolos to use boyfriends as stepping stones. In fact, looking back on her relationship history, you’re likely to find that each guy she’s dated has been richer than the last.

No.2 [color=deeppink]She's Out Of Your League--Beware any woman that tell's a man she's outta his league ((shes too Good 2 be true)) she rightfully is, [/color]

Your ego is boosted when you consider that she’s so much hotter than you are, but bear in mind that this could be a bad sign. No offence, but if she’s miles better looking than you are, you have to wonder what she’s hoping to gain from the relationship.

If you happen to have a fat wallet to accompany your great head of hair, it could be a sign that she’s hoping to increase her wealth by association.

You’re her promotion to a more fabulous, expensive life.

No.1 She Has A Sense Of Entitlement
Since she craves status and doesn’t have long-term goals, the gold digger walks around feeling entitled to the good life without feeling any need to lift a diamond-encrusted finger to achieve it.

[color=Deeppink]Guys please let's be careful and suspicious of that woman we call our's,
With God on our side we would get there
and 2011 is that year when all Gold digger's would flee from us[/color]

ochukoccna: Hello house,
         I put this up to tap from people's personal experiences seeing the fine print of details I seek are not found on     
         websites nor newspaper ads.
         Can anyone let me in on the bank with the most attractive rates on a fixed deposit account of about 8-15 mill?
         I read on a thread yesterday about Fidelity Bank able to offer 12-13% interest.
         Any one knows any 9ja bank with current better rates?   

         Also what financial products e.g. specialized saving accounts, current accounts etc do you know of that gives
         great value for money i.e reduced spurious charges & its ilk,ease of transactions etc.?

         Lastly, which 9ja bank offers you the best domiciliary account deal in your own opinion?
         Please post links to answers if possible.
         Thank you.

Drdaps: At least try to use your sense of understanding before you post anything.
did Goliath gossip or judas did?
Now if Rebekah,the mother to both Esau and Jacob did not gossip,you won't hear anything like Israel.coz Jacob will not be able to take the blessing and Esau won't held any grudge against him.So Jacob has no cause to flee to laban.
Mean no HARM i remain loyal to my name
DrDaps.

Andy-baby:
People misinterprete gossip for backbitting. Gossip is done with the intention to spit or laugh at the person being gossiped while when you backbite you are hurt and you let someone know how badly you were hurt by another person. Hypocrisy is pretending to be who you are not. An unbeliever can disguise as a christian or pastor putting on a false impression to deceive.

Both gossip and hypocrisy aren't good habits to emulate.
Hypocrisy is the most dangerous. It can make someone marry a mistakened saint who is actually a devil incarnate. Some people have dated people who pretend to be christians but are actually atheists or core unbelievers who smoke cigrattes, get drunk, prostitute, go clubbing, living promiscuous and immoral lives, members of dangerous occultic groups, armed robbers, ritualists who will want to use their partners for sacrifices, wife beaters and husband beaters, lesbians and gays

Gossip is the hardest sin to avoid. People are always talking about what some did with the intention to mock them.

Koolking: Nope, we mustn't. Here is the thing, envy is not an uncommon spirit in man. As long as we allow ourselves to be led by envy (sin), gossips and hypocrisy will continue to dwell with us. Our understanding of Christ will free us from these sins.
Romans 7:14-25 but I am of the flesh, sold into slavery under sin. I do not understand my own actions. For I do not do what I want, but I do the very thing I hate. Now if I do what I do not want, I agree that the law is good. But in fact it is no longer I that do it, but sin that dwells within me. For I know that nothing good dwells within me, that is, in my flesh. I can will what is right, but I cannot do it. For I do not do the good I want, but the evil I do not want is what I do. Now if I do what I do not want, it is no longer I that do it, but sin that dwells within me.

So I find it to be a law that when I want to do what is good, evil lies close at hand. For I delight in the law of God in my inmost self, but I see in my members another law at war with the law of my mind, making me captive to the law of sin that dwells in my members. Wretched man that I am! Who will rescue me from this body of death? Thanks be to God through Jesus Christ our Lord! So then, with my mind I am a slave to the law of God, but with my flesh I am a slave to the law of sin.

Lakayana: Gossip na sin because the thing sweet to do oh.

Koolking: You can't feign godliness. Godliness is shown in words and actions

Drdaps: Gossip all way
even in the Bible, Esau and Jacob their mother also gossip naw.

Reyginus: Are you high?

Reyginus: From the angle of the pessimist only. Mortals are not cannibals.

Reyginus: Where exactly are these streets you are talking about located?

manmustwac: Isn't that the main reason why churches keep springing up, to give the masses hope that ego better oneday & give them spiritual protection from all evil?

Reyginus: The main reason his conclusion is wrong.

Andy-baby:
People misinterprete gossip for backbitting. Gossip is done with the intention to spit or laugh at the person being gossiped while when you backbite you are hurt and you let someone know how badly you were hurt by another person. Hypocrisy is pretending to be who you are not. An unbeliever can disguise as a christian or pastor putting on a false impression to deceive.

Both gossip and hypocrisy aren't good habits to emulate. Gossip isn't good at all

Gambrosia: CHRISTIAN HYPOCRISY!
At least 'gossips' from irritating busybodies UNABLE TO MIND THEIR DOGGONE BIZZES can be FACTS! Hence tolerable. . .UNLIKE CHRISTIAN HYPOCRISY!!!

J12: Is gossip a sin?

davidylan: Lets be honest here... insecurity is a huge reason muslims are not comfortable discussing their religious beliefs. Many cannot defend it, many have no idea what it truly says and many are just as silently embarrassed at the horrid parts calling for muslims to never take non-muslims as friends but to slay them.

efosanice: hypocrisy for nigerians, it is our watchword, Nigeria only has the highest number of churches and mosques in a single country and it also ranks among the top 20 corrupt countries

Noise Maker :
All is hard ö to avoid but wit God all thing are more than possible and you have to help yourself cos Heaven helps those who help them selves.
To avoid gossiping you have to be busy with something good .
To avoid hypocrisy you have to avoid competition In every aspect of
your life

Koolking: Reminder: Attending church, mosque does not make us godly. Church, Mosque as an institution is where the ungodly goes to seek help. Therefore, hypocrites and gossips go to church, Mosque to seek help.

engrtee: Hypocrisy and gosip are not sin.they lead to sin

ajas baba: chairman is just like you asking of the diff bettween fighting and boxing.all na sin u beta try no matter what to stop them really bad sha.

stacomaster: Gossip Is Nt Good bt is hardly to abide

Kaxmytex: [size=28pt]both na sin buh hypocrisy get levels pas gossip......[/size]

OILOFGLADNESS: sin is sin, any thing that one does and satan is taken the glory or anything you do that displeases God according to the holy bible as christianity concerns is not right (unRIGHTeousness)
Gossip and hypocrites are sin

I SEE GOSSIP AS ANYTHING YOU SAY ABOUT SOMEONE THAT YOU CAN NOT TELL D SAME PERSON TO FACE ORTHAT U CANT SAY WHERE HE OR SHE IS.
( THE ULTIMATE COMMANDMET IS LOVE, LOVE UR NEIGHBOUR AS YOURSELF) DO TO OTHERS AS YOU WILL LOVE THEM DO TO YOU.
HYPOCHRITES in a lay man explanation can be said to be one going to church, listening to all the preaching, infact a worker in the church but in his closet do contrary to what he proffess

Koolking: Reminder: Attending church, mosque does not make us godly. Church, Mosque as an institution is where the ungodly goes to seek help. Therefore, hypocrites and gossips go to church, Mosque to seek help.