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aswani:
I clearly stated I wasn't forming Saint in an earlier post, Madam.

Why are you taking it so personal that you have to be focusing on me rather than my opinions sef?We can have different opinions on a matter, it doesn't need to descend to name calling ma.

I have never cheated (doesn't make me pure as I have other vices) and all I am saying is if I happen on it going on, I am letting the wronged person know it. Even if it is to get them to use protection with their cheating partners moving forward to avoid stories that touch.

It's not reporting anybody, it's not enjoying reporting, it's doing the right thing by wronged people.

It really isn't that difficult to comprehend, well to me sha.

I am not "madam" and I have repeatedly told you to enjoy your reporting career. Good luck.

Kukutente23:
First quote you were stupid
Now you are daft
How does that amuse you

There we go.

Trapped.
Case closed.

What a dubious waste of space.

Kukutente23:
Shut your tap you incompetent dingbat
Jesus also allowed the payment of tithes

Lol. First quote you said "commanded." Now it's "allowed."

First quote you referred clearly to the OT and mentioned priests. Now it's merely "allowed."
Shame no dey catch you?

Kukutente23:
We say we pay tithes to Yahweh but the reality is that it is his priests we pay to in obedient to his commandments.

Just a moment ago you were distancing yourself from commands to Jews. Now what is this?
You are a clown. A fithly loathsome one.

aswani:
I am even under 10 sef, that doesn't matter Anti.
You can try to misinterpret what I said or disparage me all you want, that's not my problem.

The bottom line is don't cheat on your partner and if you do, don't ask anyone for loyalty to help you cover it up. Where is your own loyalty in cheating on your partner sef?

Enough with the hypocrisy.

I said, dey report, Mr. Reporter. I dey hold your tongue? Report your brother to him wife, report everybody, as you dey pure so. Enjoy, thats all I said, enjoy.

aswani:
If that is foolishness, what exactly is cheating, greatness àbi?

If you don't cheat, no one will expose you. Worth bearing in mind.

What next, normalising stealing and armed robbery as it is no one else's business.

You compare armed robbery to matters of the heart? You will grow up. I can bet you are under 20.

Go on, have a field day reporting people for sex. Enjoy.

Kukutente23:
Where did Yahweh insisted upon it for Christians. I'm a Christian not a Jew. Go and cry to Jews.

This is cowardice of the highest order. Why then did you bother trying to explain the issue with Saul at all if you knew it had no bearing on you.

So long as it's the same Yahweh, you worship a psychopathic blood thirsty deity, period.

What a pathetic little man.

Of course ever so conveniently you run from the Old Testament. As though the precept of original sin on which your ritual human sacrifice of Jesus is based does not spring from the same old testament.

You disgust me.

Kukutente23:
Quran 2:216 Fighting has been made obligatory upon you ˹believers˺, though you dislike it. Perhaps you dislike something which is good for you and like something which is bad for you. Allah knows and you do not know.

You stink. You mean you can keep repeating this after it has been pointed out to you all that Yahweh insisted upon in like regard? You stink, you just stink. I mean, how does such raw dishonesty, duplicity and hypocrisy feel?

cococandy:
A wise man said “it’s easier to fool a man than convince him he’s been fooled”. They’ll march into the fire he set for them while chanting his name and telling those who are pointing it out that they’re crying liberal tears or wailers in the Nigerian version.

Meanwhile everything is falling apart or set to fall apart around them.

But they “won” so nothing matters. 😌😌

Exactly!

cococandy:
Someone on this thread will be probably be paying $10 for a dozen eggs and still chanting liberal tears.

Liberal tears as he’s paying 40% more for his daily needs.
Liberal tears as his simple home maintenance items start to cost 50% more.

Oh yea you owned the libs. You’ve shown them who’s boss.

Exactly what Tinubu supporters are doing even after prices have jumped 400 - 500% in Nigeria.

aswani:
With respect, that's not loyalty, that's foolishness.

Foolishness is not minding your business.

I think it's all about a moral compass and birds of the same feather flock together.

Without forming saint, I don't doubt some of my friends cheat but I trust them, none of them will flaunt it in my face or allow me to stumble on them doing it and expect me to keep my mouth shut.

What is bad is "not good", it is bad.

No wahala. Mr. Inspector, enjoy your life of exposing sinners and reporting them to their partners. Joey Grecko, well done.

Gandrova:
With your comments, I would advise your dad to go for the DNA

I am not worried because the chances that most of you commenting here are under 25 (just as the OP is) - is very high.
So you guys know nothing about life.

aswani:
Why should you be wary if you don't cheat or plan to?

Its absolutely nothing to do with whether I cheat or not. I am your sibling and you are not policeman or policewoman over my marriage - at best your role is to render positive advise to me. It is not, and can never be your role to expose my fvuck-ups to my significant other. Family is like a cult, the levels of loyalty expected are intense. Somone, MadamVanessa said up there quite as much, and so many sanctimous unthinking iidiots have been insulting her. She said it right - family covers alot - and I could not agree more. If our families were all so sanctimonous and felt it to be thier duty to expose our wrongdoings to our partners because they are oh so principled, very few families will hold up in this world.

Coming to your question, u should be wary of any sibling that you see betraying or exposing his or her sibling in that manner. It tells alot about the snitch, and you should be afraid of that person at once. That person has shown that he or she is a snake, is destructive, has no restraint or wisdom, etc.

For heavens sake many friends will be far more loyal than this silly "brother."

He knows nothing about life. He refers to the man as his "destiny helper" as though he fell from the sky and was not brought into that family by that sister he is throwing under the bus. Why does he presume that that man has not cheated and does he think the man's own family will be so sanctimonous? Later in life, when things get hard for him, he will look for his family, and will be very lucky to find them.

He is just immature and so are 99 per cent of the posters on this topic.

aswani:
If your husband cheats and his brother or sister tell you, have they done wrong too?

Yes, and you should be very very wary of such a brother or sister immediately.

MadamVanessa:





Inasmuch as what the sister did is wrong, but also what the brother did is also wrong . It's okay to be all mad at your sister and threaten her for such an unethical and shameful behavior, but going as far as reporting it to her husband is the greatest undoing. It's okay for others to report her ,but not a sibling or family member, except you people are enemies.

I know a lot of self righteous people will attack this comment. But whether you like it or not family covers a lot. If family starts exposing each other, believe me a lot of people will not be save.

Dont listen to anyone, you are spot on right on this one, especially the bold.
The brother is a disgrace.

tefund:
I quite agree with you,massive adoption of Ai will lead to massive loss of blue collar jobs..

Not only that, even things such as CHATGTP are already leading to increasing intellectual laziness especially among students and in a few generations, it will render people outrightly stupid, from over-reliance on AI and under-use of the brain.

wirinet:
The redded quote is correct but only partially. The backbone of industrialisation particularly in the 21st century is first and foremost Science and Technology, followed by Energy. Without cheap and available source of energy industrialisation cannot get off the ground. Then followed by a machine tool industry. You need machines that would make the tools and machines for making products.
Then you need highly skilled engineers to design and build infrastructures for the industries. Blue collar jobs are the last piece of the industrialisation puzzle. Some countries don't even bother with blue collar workers as they are the cheapest to produce and their wage is also the cheapest in the whole equation, they simply import blue collar workers from poor countries.

In this era of AI, machine learning and robotics, many of the functions of blue color workers can be undertaken by machines.

Doubtful if AI bodes well for humanity.

Kukutente23:
Go fvck thyself with thy own hand

My hand travelleth not just as people traveleth not, o great master of stupidity.

We hereby knight you: Kukute: Rt. NL Master of Stupidy. (RNMS)
Arise, Sir Kukute.

This thing is so annoying. So initiate policies to starve 200 million people and start handing out 15 buses from time to time as "intervention."

Kukutente23:
PH refinery announcement was done to unsettle Dangote and not to achieve any thing other than that

Gbam. You really should stick to politics. You do well here. Restrain yourself from more subtle matters.
Having deliberated with my council, we have decided that it is in order to assist you with a voucher for seven days at the location.

We will all be here in the not too distant future when this refinery will collapse again and be closed for TAM for a few years.

b0rn2fuck:
He should tackle the hunger , I went zenith bank yesterday, the delays was massive and I check my pocket , I no see wetin 1000 fit buy outside the bank make I use hold body till they resolve my transaction issue , I am talking of better food, I need to go on fasting by force because if I use any other fund , leg no go even fit carry me reach home, i nearly faint on their staircase coming down, me wey don reduce food to morning and night only before

He is determined to starve you to death. Not only will he not tackle any hunger, he will actively seek ways to escalate it.

casualobserver:
Kemi like myself was born in England simply because our parents were there studying at the time. They never emigrated to England. My parents returned to Nigeria after their studies and never went back. They are not immigrants and therefore their offsprings are not second generation immigrants. You can’t be second generation of there is no 1st generation.


I know I am being pedantic but a true second generation would have had certain characteristics. 1) Britain became home for your parents 2) you spent your formative years especially primary secondary school there and assimilated the culture from day 1 etc. I don’t think you can classify those of us who were born in England and returned home with their parents but later went back as “second generation”. You will find we don’t have the same characteristics as those whose parents settled in England and were raised in England.

The best classification is the ambiguous “British born” There are certain characteristics that come with second generation immigrants that neither her nor many of us in her situation have. For example I have never called myself or felt British and I can bet you Kemi only started to ”feel” British when she decided to join politics.

The fact that the political base she sought out to represent when she started out in politics was the Nigerian community tells you that is where her roots truly are. She just ditched her Nigerianess because it was politically expedient. If she were 2nd generation her base would have been whites and Jamaicans because at the time she was growing up there were few Nigerians in England.

There is nothing pedantic here.

cococandy:
She seems like a typical African conservative .
An oxymoron if ever there was one.

They are often hypocritical and “blissfully” unaware of how contradictory their whole existence and the things they say clash against each other.

Almost puked listening to her. An immigrant (who actually grew up in Nigeria) worried about immigration.

Doesnt this fella understand that he is big as well?

I remember a time when HIV / AIDS was the rage. So much fear everywhere. These days I hardly hear of it. What are the stats on it these days?
Back in the day, people were so worried about it. Nowadays people sooner think of everyday STDs than think of AIDS. What happened?

PapaNnamdi:
U are still a kid
boy

Enjoy. Extend your advise to your children, you hia? Goodluck.

PapaNnamdi:
If you live long enough, you will realize some actions do not require deep thinking,

Sorry. I dont know who you are oh, but the one you said today, na pure trash.

SocialJustice:
Virtual football. Bet N2m on 5 tickets for season that lasts 5 minutes. After 5 minutes, okpari.

X

PapaNnamdi:
Their minds where never made to cross over to Europe,
They just followed the bandwagon

It just beats me how you can in such a broad stroke categorize the zillions of people and zillions of different possible scenarios in these matters. That alone is sifficient to show you dont think deeply.

moderatedguy:
.Na the AC be the main thing sef

Room service, the other thing. In fact. They are co-equal.