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Travel › Re: What Is The Cost Of Living In Abuja?? by Delite01(f): 10:19pm On Sep 04, 2020

It actually depends on your choice of location, just budget at least 200-250k for accommodation in any of the above listed average areas like kubwa, Lugbe, Karu

Education › Re: Aerial Pictures Of The Obafemi Awolowo University (great Ife) by Delite01(f): 9:45pm On May 31, 2020

My alma mater. Really missed the beautiful environment. Greetings to all OAU alumni

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Romance › Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by Delite01(f): 7:12pm On Apr 22, 2020

Swtbabyvee:
take a sit please, the women don’t owe nothing to nobody, as far they r single they hv the right to sex with whom ever they want , Married men should stay faithful to their vows !!!

U people should respect urselves

You might think I'm a married woman but I'm not
If you think sleeping with someone else's husband as a single lady is cool and not a big deal. My sister may the peace of God be with you that's my words for you.
You're entitled to your opinion and free to live your life the way that pleases you

Peace...

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Romance › Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by Delite01(f): 6:28pm On Apr 22, 2020

pocohantas:
It is not about the ladies motive, but you said those men only want them for their body. It is a myth that all married men love their wives and only want the side chick for sex. If they love their wives, they won’t cheat on them and expose them to all manner of STIs to start with.

It is also a myth that the SC loses. Over and over, we have seen these girls win and even overthrow madam. I agree with your final paragraph, that is a better motivation to be good. Every other is not cast on stone.

I think some men can love their wives dearly and still cheat. Most men cheat as a result of lack of self-control and total commitment. They see very beautiful young girls, well dressed and with banging body shape the next thing is to lust after her, in their heads the young lady is so sexy and will automatically good in bed than their wives. My observation and opinion why most married men chase single and young ladies.

I agree with you that on few instances these married men might love and later decide to turn the side chic to a wife. But as a woman with good conscience, how will you be willing to ruin someone else's happiness and home for your own selfish interest by dating or agreeing to marry someone else's husband.

My focus is on we young ladies and not the so called married men even though in most cases it's the married men that always chase after single girls and won't let them be
but as a lady with fear of God and dignity, who is also contented with what she has should not give in, you can be firm and let your no be always no whenever any married man ask you out despite the financial gain and those heaven and earth they usually promise.

To me it's by choice to date married men and not by force.
If all young and single ladies will not agree to be a side chick, these men will have no choice than to stay with their wives, be committed and faithful to their marriage vows. Unfortunately dating married men is what some single ladies prefer these days.
God help us

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Romance › Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by Delite01(f): 2:27pm On Apr 22, 2020

pocohantas:
Tell that to Regina and Sade Okoya.

Snow white, FFK’s wife.

The late Stella Obasanjo.

Etc...

It's still as a result of selfish interest (financial gain, status and more) for agreeing to date them in the first place
Would those ladies/women you mentioned up there agree to marry these already married old men if they're not wealthy?

Well, my sister we are different and have different priorities in life, values and belief system. That's why I hardly judge people

People should do whatever seems right , appropriate to them and also make them feel good. God is watching, He will reward and judge us all either here on earth or in heaven accordingly.

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Romance › Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by Delite01(f): 1:28pm On Apr 22, 2020

Meteng:
My question is, what if you don't sleep with someone's husband,but when you marry, young girls constantly sleep with yours?

Hmm,,, that's life for you
I believe life is not fair to an extent, that's why we see such situation

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Romance › Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by Delite01(f): 1:07pm On Apr 22, 2020

As far as I'm concerned ladies have no excuse whatsoever to sleep with married men. Because the only thing they want from you is your body, they don't even love you not to talk of wanted to leave their wives for you. You are just a sex machine. I think it's only lazy ass ladies with no self worth that sleeps around especially with married men for financial gain. Thou some wealthy married men might want to entice and influence you with their money just to sleep with you speaking from experience but no amount of money can quantify your dignity and moral uprightness as a lady because after the sex and the money what else? Nothing I guess. You can make such money yourself if you are hard working, focus and ambitious in life.
The most important virtue ladies should try and imbibe is contentedness, be ok and satisfied with the little you have and can get from people around you without you have to sleep around or sell your body for money.

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Music/Radio › Re: Which Of These Nigerian Music Groups Do You Miss? by Delite01(f): 12:13am On Oct 12, 2019

Styl-Plus....Those guys are just too good.
This their track is my favorite "Run Away

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Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Loyal Women Are Priceless, Never Lose One! by Delite01(f): 7:15pm On Oct 10, 2019

Hmm.....

Romance › Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by Delite01(f): 1:29pm On Oct 07, 2019

Well, for me I can if I'm earning more to support him after the marriage. Honestly 30k can't really sustain two people with our present economic situation. I think we all desire at least an average or a comfort life.
But I must be sure he's someone that's hard working and ambitious, I believe in short time he will get a better job or business that will earn him better money to take care of his family and take his due responsibility as a man.

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Celebrities › Re: Regina Daniels And Husband, Ned Nwoko Flaunt Their Love (Photos) by Delite01(f): 6:18pm On Aug 01, 2019

Say *some ladies
Honestly it pains me when you guys always generalize Nigerian girls are all about money, money &money. Though it might be majority but not all na.

dizon:
In ladies eyes, billionaire = Handsome man

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Romance › Re: What Tribe Would You Love To Marry From And Why? by Delite01(f): 4:09pm On Jul 22, 2019

From my tribe.. Yoruba
Though tribe shouldn't be a barrier but personally I always find it hard to love any man not from Yoruba speaking part of the country especially Igbo. Maybe because of the language and cultural differences.

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Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: 2026!! Marriages For Working Class: Drop Your Contact And Get Your Spouse Now. by Delite01(f): 9:04pm On Jul 21, 2019

Celebrities › Re: Bbnaija: "If Tasha Gets Evicted I"ll Kill Myself" - Twitter User Says by Delite01(f): 7:39pm On Jul 16, 2019

RIP in advance

Nonsense.

Politics › Re: Ololade Akinsanya, MC Oluomo’s Son Graduated As The Best, "Gets $2.7" by Delite01(f): 1:02pm On Jun 23, 2019

You make good sense with your comment.

onatisi:
i dont know why ppl are insulting mc oluomo or his son. mc never forced anyone to become a thug , the decision to become a thug is one that those involved took voluntarily . if you dont know the value and worth of your life or time , those who know its value are ready to use it for their own selfish interest .
if mc was forcefully recruiting ppl then maybe all these curses and insults will make sense , even despite the fact that his children are all abroad , the decision to be the best student and to put in a lot of hard work was made by the boy, he could have decided to be a junkie or nuisance in canada.
you choose the path you want to toe, if you like toe the path of thuggery,yahoo yahoo, and wayward life or you can decide to choose the path of handwork honesty and diligence , YOU ARE THE PRODUCT OF YOUR DECISIONS

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Romance › Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by Delite01(f): 10:46pm On Jun 11, 2019

Yes oo, you are very correct

ImaIma1:
It is the new adjective for any woman that has a different opinion from a guy. Once you have a mind of your own and you are not an "oh yes" member, boom! You are a feminist

Romance › Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by Delite01(f): 10:43pm On Jun 11, 2019

Celebrities › Re: I Have Attempted Suicide – Betty Irabor Writes On Judging Others by Delite01(f): 12:11am On May 20, 2019

Exactly my thought. Never judge anyone who's thinking of committing suicide or who actually did it because we're created differently, some people are naturally not strong emotionally. Just pray God should not allow you to experience something that will put you in such state of mind. This is what I have experienced before and I must confess it wasn't a sweet experience at all. it was God that actually saved me. My life and this world no longer mean anything to me then but Thank God for the last thought He use to rescued me. The thought of not wanted to hurt my family who truly loves and cares for me especially my mum, doing such might cut her life short or put her in everlasting sorrow because I know I'm her source of joy. I was like let me just live for these people if not for myself. My advice to anyone who is depressed now or any time you find yourself in a situation of having suicidal thought, just pray God should help you overcome such feelings and also think deeply why such decision is not the best, I belief you will realize there is at least one important reason for choosing life over death. Lastly, talk to someone about your feelings, it helps a lot.

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Celebrities › Re: Kemi Olunloyo: "Regina Daniels Is Ned Nwoko's 5th Wife" by Delite01(f): 8:49pm On Apr 29, 2019

Is marriage all about money and material possessions? Anyway, it's her life and her decision, we are different and have different perspective about life sha.

OhiOfIhima:
. Second wife abeg.. First to third are now ex.. Leave the young lass to enjoy her life bikonu..

Omo, the Ned guy carry mullar faa.. Just within space of a month, Regina brought Bentley, G-Wagon, Benz n Lamborghini n a new mansion to round it up... God bless you girl.

Crime › Re: The Rate Of One-chance Criminals Is Alarming - Abuja Residents Cry Out by Delite01(f): 12:48am On Apr 29, 2019

I had similar experience last year around Central Area. It was God that saved me that day.

TV/Movies › Re: Name A Movie You Can Never Get Tired Of Watching by Delite01(f): 7:10pm On Apr 19, 2019

Oya na
Lol...

anochuko01:
ugh! thank God!
let's get married then

Travel › Re: List Of Beaches You Can Visit In Lagos During Easter by Delite01(f): 6:14pm On Apr 19, 2019

Lagos should please transfer just one of them to Abuja oo. Na only Garden full everywhere here.

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Christianity Etc › Re: Pastor Kumuyi: Women Who Wear Men’s Clothes Are An Abomination Unto God by Delite01(f): 1:44pm On Apr 01, 2019

Kindly read the whole chapter of Deu.22 especially verse 9-12.
I don't know why some Christians make emphasis on this particular verse and ignore other things considered as abomination in the whole chapter.
For example, verse 9 says “You shall not plant your vineyard with two kinds of seed, lest the whole crop be forfeited [under this ban], the seed which you have sown and the yield of the vineyard forfeited to the sanctuary ,” are we not planting 2 or even more kinds of crop/seed on the same farm land?

And for 1Timothy 2v9 that chapter of the Bible is only talking about modesty in our dressing and not condemnation.
May God give us better understanding and interpretation of His word.

HenryInno1:
What Kumuyi said is Biblical Read Deutronomy 22:5 1st Timothy 2:9

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Business › Re: How To Start A Professional Laundry/dry Cleaning Business In Nigeria by Delite01(f): 4:29pm On Mar 18, 2019

Very detailed

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TV/Movies › Re: Name A Movie You Can Never Get Tired Of Watching by Delite01(f): 10:26pm On Mar 03, 2019

I'm not

anochuko01:
So you're married...

TV/Movies › Re: Name A Movie You Can Never Get Tired Of Watching by Delite01(f): 10:17pm On Mar 03, 2019

TV/Movies › Re: Name A Movie You Can Never Get Tired Of Watching by Delite01(f): 8:50am On Feb 26, 2019

Why did I get married

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Celebrities › Re: Bukola Adeeyo Celebrates 29th Birthday With Lovely Photos by Delite01(f): 10:04am On Dec 18, 2018

Olalan:
Without showing their cleavage to the public dem never fine

Romance › Re: 5 Types Of Women You Should Never Let Go by Delite01(f): 10:23pm On Oct 18, 2018

[quote author=Techlisa post=72208998]Ladies of these qualities are everywhere but they are not noticed because they are not loud or slaying.

Then you hear stuff like, she is a good woman. But not really my type grin

Very correct

Romance › Re: Yahoo Boy Looking For A Wife Advertises What He Does For A Living On Twitter by Delite01(f): 11:36pm On Oct 14, 2018

dkronicle:
Slaymama wey him go use start plus wey Lagos boys never use

sense no go kill you

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Romance › Re: Yahoo Boy Looking For A Wife Advertises What He Does For A Living On Twitter by Delite01(f): 11:34pm On Oct 14, 2018

Politics › Re: New Minimum Wage Nationwide Strike Begins September 26 – Nigeria Labour Congress by Delite01(f): 2:21pm On Sep 20, 2018

I will like to join the whatsapp group

BrokenCock:
Time to flex oh yeah! Abeg if u be govt worker for Abuja here make we relate for our whatsapp group gon

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