₦airaland Forum

prechbills1:
men are lazy, how many of them do you see begging ladies for money to purchase phones, clothes and sharwama comparing the ratio of lazy men to lazy ladies in Nigeria is like 30/1000...Nigerian ladies are not the only dependent ladies in the world, it's a black mentality.. even the blacks in America are fvcking lazy..

young man wake up and face life.

So you think it's about "Nigerian ladies"? Name one country in the world where women are achieving more than men. I made a point that nature made man to dominate women and you were cancelling my post. You said it was because of laziness and made it a Nigerian women affair. So mention a single country where women achieve more or equal to men.

NdiaraIGBO:
Population control MUST now surely be part of the strategy.

It Is self evident that we do no have resources, the means, the technologies, the infrastructure, the industrial capacity, the economy, the markets, the economic/political alliances required to sustain a high birth rate and prosper the consequencial large population.

What is the point of having so many children who grow to become poor, malnourished, unemployed and severely frustrated adults?

Bro population control should be the NUMBER 1 remedy on the list. I long realized we need to do something about our population and a lot of people are yet to realize this. Without population control it's going to be VERY HARD or simply IMPOSSIBLE for Nigeria to improve the lives of many citizens.

prechbills1:
laziness.

That's all? You think men are not lazy too? You rushed to cancel someone's post while you are just clueless.

prechbills1:
okay Mr distributor... since nature made men to have power and money and didn't make women to have money and power.. keep distributing..

senseless post

Why do you think women achieve less compared to men? Can you answer this question please?

prechbills1:
myopic and uncivilized post... anything a man can do, a woman can also do. ..nature didn't make men money distributors.

Where in the my post did I say women cannot do what men can do? I think you lack comprehension to see the point I was trying to make. Take some break and read again later.

Besides, if women can do what men can do why do we have less powerful and influential women compared to men? What's stopping women from competing and achieving equally with men?

closerange:
So woman cannot use money and power too?

Bro if women have money and power you will hate life on earth. When a man has money and power women can flock around him and lure him to obtain whatever they want. This helps to distribute the wealth to more people. But this can't easily work with women having the money and power. Men can't easily extract money from women as easily as that. Women don't even want to have anything to do with men who have less money than them. The wealth wouldn't easily trickle down to the less privileged men. There is a reason why nature made more men to have that money and power and not women.

There are some huge establishments I don't even understand the service they render that makes them big and PWC is just one of them. Even after reading an introduction of the company I still don't understand the service they render.

Kingpee2:
When will I have a taste of this woman sef ?

Be a well known billionaire. I can assure you will taste her within 5 mins of making it your desire.

MhizzAJ:
I just like Cee Cee
I don't know why people think she's a drama Queen
She's just real
I don't think she's arrogant too

She'll make a good wife

How do you know she is being "real"? How does behaving in an irritating way make someone real?

That's the same way people want to start a war cos they don't know what a war feels like. After some weeks of feeling a war you get exhausted and wish for something better and different.

Onijagidijagan:
Igbo people chased the Yoruba people out of their region during Biafra, they will constantly remind you that you're a visitor in their land.

They train their children to hates the Yoruba people.

They hates the Yoruba people even though when we show them love.
How do u expect Yoruba population to be much in such an hostile region.

I don't agree with you. Even if they were chased away during the war it's still not sufficient reason to have a low number of Yorubas in Igbo land. The war happened almost 50 years ago so normal migrations should have resumed since then. I believe you are making up these stories to make Igbos look guilty but I wish to tell you that I know some Yorubas residing in Igbo land and they don't complain about Igbos mistreating them or asking them to leave. That's false bro. In fact Igbos don't even care about them being Yoruba. The Hausas and Fulanis are the tribes the Igbos are not really comfortable with and they still don't even mistreat them except occasional clashes. As for the Yourba man I can tell you Igbos don't care. You need to visit Igbo land and see things for yourself and stop making unsubstantiated claims on Nairaland.

Concerning Igbos teaching their children to hate Yorubas that is TOTALLY untrue. I wonder where you got that fasle information from. Igbos don't even talk about Yorubas before you talk of having the time to teach their kids to hate Yorubas. And why should they do so? I know Yorubas who got married to Igbo women in Igbo land. How will that be possible if igbos preach hate to their kids.

If you think Igbos are "hostile" to Yorubas come to Igbo land and see for yourself. Nobody will care you are a Yoruba man. I don't know how you came up with all these false claims. It seems you are drawing conclusions from what you read on Nairaland. Nairaland doesn't represent the true situation on ground. Anyone can come on Nairaland and say anything rubbish just to draw attention to himself and pass time.

Corrinthians:
They never have, they never will. Bunch of ungrateful people always claiming victims.

Onijagidijagan:
They're all 100% parasitic. d only thing u benefit from dem na dia olosho girls in brothels, fairly used clothes some are selling and drugs.

But honestly there are few Yorubas in Igbo land compared to the numbers of Igbos in Yoruba land. So how do you expect Yorubas to benefit anything from Igbos when their presence in Igbo land is not significant enough?

Daviddson:
What's the wisdom behind this thread please? If not for ethnic bashing and hauling of tribal slurs, what other purpose can this kind of thread serve?

Don't blame the poster posting history. Blame the tribalists.

MissCokie:
Really?

The guy has a point. I think you should modify your topic to indicate the rules are made for poor and average men alone. A lady will overlook alot just to marry a rich man. Including you talking.

xtophy:
So, u believe in dat extinction gibberish... NO ANIMAL CAN GO INTO EXTINCTION, JUST SAY THEY RELOCATED TO A SAFER HABITAT... dinosaur, dragon...are nt real

Why are you speaking like an uneducated person? If at all you are indeed educated. Are you aware the human population is growing and encroaching previously uninhabited lands? Those forests and bushes previously unoccupied by humans are supposed to be the habitats of these animals. But as humans expand the displace and kill these animals. And you think there is nothing like extinction? If there is nothing like extinction why do they protect wild life parks using armed guards? Why bother protecting them? When animals are killed more than they reproduce you think there will be no extinction?

guywitzerogal:
Why are u all giving ursef headache God gave us power over all animals...you people are shouting harmless creature abeg the goat , fowl and fish you people eat, how do they hurt us...stupid set of hypocrite

Between a chimpanzee and a chicken which will you kill? I know you will not kill a chimpanzee cos of it's close to us in intelligence and appearance. Same way most people will not kill dogs for being a favourite pet for humans. Dolphins are intelligent and extremely human friendly. So it doesn't appear cool killing such creatures.

xtophy:
And i dont know the reason why ppl frown at killing of animals sef... Their creator has never ceased to create so whats our own problem... ppl are hungry and ure telling them not to eat animals because they will go into extinction. So, u expect ppl to leave animals alone and die abi... I will rather eat an animal than dying of hunger.

If the creator has never ceased to create why are some animals disappearing and going into extinction? If you finish eating all the animals what else will you start eating? Fellow humans?

mrphysics:
I was thinking fiverr is better.

All roads leads to upwork now

Joey150, I don't also visit buyers request on fiverr. In fact, with 10 completed orders on fiverr, I can be sure of over $1000. My minimum price is $40. But then, opinions have shown that Upwork is much better than fiverr. I am comfortable on fiverr because I get to reject works. Yesterday alone, I rejected 3 orders and rejected 2 orders today. My gig is on front page of my niche. This implies that the account is doing well anyway.

Now my point is that I need more, I need to diversify and I have heard much about Upwork. Fiverr can do anything any time, so it is bad to completely depend on them.

What kind of gig do you do?

blessedqueen:
Don't say what you don't know... God is good motor drivers speed as if they know what is far ahead... They run like mad.

Every accident is not always about speeding as you guys conclude here. And besides, if you are driving long distance in an expressway will you drive at low speeds? So when will you reach your destination?

I wanted to attack this thread. But anyway, I fully understand that the front page of Nairaland isn't meant for strictly educative topics alone. It's a balance between topics that are able to drive traffic and generate money and topics that are informative.

When I read "developers" my mind thought of these Nairaland tribalists and I started laughing.

Those people who insulted those who trekked for Buhari's victory have finally trekked for Buhari by force.

GGirll:
If all ladies will practice NO SEX till married there will be no single lady on earth but because they cheapen themselves so much to d extent of baby mama n side chicks worse of all they are now being compared with sex dolls and yet the so called sophisticated aka slay prostitutes still can't get it....they continue to dehumanize womanhood all in d name of sex n male attention or money fools....close up your legs all of u n lets see if d so called sex dolls will do d work or if each man won't marry their own.....please this is my opinion write yours n don't quote me wrongly especially those idiotic, dirty cowards that will hide on NL to vomit their frustration whose life is nothing but a mirage....ideal ladies n men will understand while dirty hopeless fools will disagree!!

You think that will work fine? Believe me, the situation will be very terrible cos men will be forced to get married just for sex when they ain't even prepared. Once they get the sex and get tired of it they eventually realize they ain't ready for marriage. Lots of marriages will keep crashing and kids born to face the tough conditions of unprepared marriages.

cybriz82:
This Heartless Beast Killz Our Pregnant Goat And Got Paid

sad

Na only human beings go dey kill other animals dey chop? Other Animals no go kill and chop their own again?

Ayoemrys:
Best University Graduate Was Given #20,000, Bbnaija Winner Took 25.000000m Home, I Dont Know Why We Rate This Show That Promotes Immorality Over Our Future, Fvck Ya'll

Are you not tired of complaining? It's getting stale. Leave people to choose their source of entertainment. We must not all enjoy the same thing.

ameri9ja:
At a visceral level, love is a CHOICE. It may not always be a conscious choice, but it is a choice.
Your last statement shows me the source of the cofusion: I DON'T want a girl to love me for what I am, I want a girl to love me for me. There are so many ways to illustrate this. You may choose, say, a cow that's no different from other cows, give it a name and care about that cow, and always look out for it. You love it for no other reason than that it is THAT cow. Same way, you can love me because I am ME. If someone else is brought with the same exact attributes as me, you won't love them because they are not ME.
Now you understand, I am sure.
You have lost the argument.
Know when to quit.
Nice try though.

When someone loves you because "You are you" (I am ME) it's still the same as loving you for WHAT YOU ARE because ME is a word that defines you and your characteristics that represents what you are.

Now what makes it possible for someone to love you and not love someone else with the same characteristics? Don't you think it's because no two persons on the planet are exactly alike and sharing the same characteristics? If someone loves you and not someone else who shares similar characteristics then it means there is a feature you have that your lookalike does not have. And this is proof that your FEATURES are what actually make people to love you and not just for nothing sake.

Flee kwa? Are Nigerians now tired of bushmeat since we eat anything?

ameri9ja:
Let me first commend the matured and level-headed way you present your points, without name-calling or ad hominem attacks (a lesson for JamaicanLove).
The flaw in your argument is that you forget love is a choice. And that's a common falacy. You can choose to love someone/something for absolutely no other reason than that you choose to love them. l may choose to love an average flower, and water it everyday, and take care of it. That's different from loving it because it is exceptionally pretty or has the longest stem, etc.
In the first instance u love the flower for itself. In the second instance u love the flower because it is pretty, etc.

You don't choose to love something. If you choose to love something then it is NOT love. Love is something that happens involuntarily just like your heartbeat. It's a strong impulse and not something to choose at will. If you want a girl to love you the way you described choosing a flower without any strong appreciation and desire of it's features then prepare to be dumped within days of her agreeing to date you.

Have you ever gone to a clothing store and blindly start CHOOSING any clothe you see? Of course you will take your time to select the ones you love based on the FEATURES they have like colour, texture, design etc. It is the FEATURES that makes you love them. If you want a girl to love you for WHAT YOU ARE. Your FEATURES are what makes you WHAT YOU ARE.

MrMoney007:
This boy just confirmed his stupidity.

The wisdom and valor of his father does not reflect on him.

A fool that calls himself a visionary spending valuable time on visionless program and exposing his mastery at foolery.

How do you know he spends "valuable" time watching the programme? For your mind you think you are making sense?

ameri9ja:
YOU ARE SO WRONG!
Tell this to a mom who would give her life for her ugly, disabled child. It may be unrealistic, but that's the kind of love I crave and want.
That's the only thing that can fill the void I feel. That's the burden that's been placed me.

Concerning a mother loving and caring for her ugly and disable child. That is obviously because IT IS THE CHILD SHE GAVE BIRTH TO. That attribute of being her child is the REASON why she loves the child inspite of the handicap. Now do you think another woman who is not the kid's mother will love the kid the same way? Absolutely not!! And that's because the REASON has been removed. This should tell you there is no love without a reason for loving. For love to happen there MUST be a reason to love someone either because you are tall, handsome, rich, caring, intelligent etc.

I hope you still remember what we debating about? We are debating whether or not someone can love you without your characteristics being behind it.

SamoaJoe:
It doesn't matter. There is no way on earth these two will win the show. Biggie is loosing money: Feeding, Flight, Accommodation, Taxes, Electricity etc.

The show has been lacklustre and people are not sending in sms like last year. Sponsorship is bad too. You as a mod might have noticed how people were so negative about this show when it started and progressed. Its all about sex sex sex this year own. By the way, economy is bad.

So I think Biggie is trying to pull a fast one by bringing people back to make more money.

Maybe the next batch of evicted housemates will be given a chance to return too. That's the only way I see to balance the unfair advantage.