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ameri9ja:
Ever heard of love at first sight. Now imagine that happening to a blind person.

I still don't get what you are driving at. I know there are ladies you ain't attracted to cos they LACK things you desire from ladies. On the other hand there are ladies you are attracted to because they HAVE attributes you desire from ladies. These attributes you desire from ladies are exactly what generates the feeling of love you will have for a lady. Without these attributes there is no way you will fall in love with a lady. These attributes you cherish in ladies becomes the REASON why you will want a lady or not.

A human without any characteristics is simply non existent. So expecting a lady to fall in love with you without your features coming into play is like expecting her to fall in love with someone she hasn't seen or heard from. It's not possible. Something must make her fall in love.

ameri9ja:
I disagree. You can be attracted to and love someone himself, the essence of that person.
I just find it annoying and uncomfortable knowing a girl is into me just because of some attribute like wealth and not because of me.

Before I give further response I would like you to explain the part in bold a bit.

ameri9ja:
Bros, ya make lots'a sense.

But, OP, seriously, how about if u r like me:

Rich, handsome, tall, intellectual, fit, talented, well-equipped sexually and a highly developed sexual performer, HOW DO I FIND A GIRL THAT WANTS ME FOR ME AND NOT FOR ANY OF THOSE THINGS??!!! That's my problem.

It's not possible for any girl to want you "FOR YOU AND NOT ANY OF THOSE THINGS". People love for a reason and nobody can love you without any reason. If a girl loves there must be a reason why she loves you. It's either because you are handsome or well-mannered or rich or intelligent. There MUST be a reason for her to love you. You can't rule out all your good attributes and expect a girl to love you for nothing. That's why the creator of this thread said if you don't have money make sure you don't lack in other areas cos no one loves for nothing.

Buhari has failed the North, East, West, South, West-South, Central-South, East-west, North-east, West-West, Geographical-North, Compass-South, South-West, Full-east, South-east, South-North, East-South, central-east, middle-North, partial-south.

nony43:
283 can't take you anywhere close to medicine, pls try another course

Na wah o. What score will get him medicine then? 399?

Mynd44:
So you call professionals who want to be taken seriously people who dont want cons?

I have seen where a patient rejected a female doctor even though she was the most experienced there.

When you think about all the inventions and achievements of men compared with women then people will keep upholding their beliefs about the capabilities of both genders.

Martinez19:
I always tell people not to marry or seek a relationship until they have money and are well established but people won't listen. Real life is different from the telenovellas and Disney cartoons we watch. Not having money and being established will lead to hardship as both couples struggle to cope, even worse is when there is a child. Do you think is okay to bring a child into a suffering environment? Wake up. Marriage is not for everyone and it's not do or die.

Unfortunately not everyone will have money cos the world now over populated for that to happen. So what do you suggest should be done if someone doesn't have money?

That's what you get when you have dumb people as contacts. I don't recieve those shared messages cos I have got reputable contacts.

BiafranBushBoy:
I wrote a book on how to make money on Amazon, does it mean I don't make money.

Una like free information, so keep waiting for it.

Bill Gates and other millionaires wey write book, don't they make money?

Why bother writing and selling it for a paltry sum when you already have BIG money?
Bill Gates was more interested in informing people than making money through selling a book. I guess he probably donated the proceeds from the book.

Yelutide:
Nice one OP... But like seriously, the link you placed at the end of your blog post is shatter whale. People to pay N1,999 to buy your affiliate ebook? When articles on how to start affiliate marketing is all over the internet. Google is your friend that ebook isn't worth buying to me.

The poster is advising us to make money through drop shipping, affiliate marketing etc, but he/she is rather looking for money online through the sale of ebooks. So why is the poster not earning the big bucks through the businesses he/she is recommending?

The Engineers are expected to put that into consideration during the design of the bridge. The bridge may actually be designed to carry 3 times the weight of those trucks.

Buhari will send in his boys before then

Papiikush:
I will like to type what I had in mind but... You be soldier. No worry

Na because you get display photo

Thought they said wasn't true

The Average man can't even differentiate a Fulani from and an Hausa man cos it's not written on their forehead. In his perception they are the same people from the North. Me I don't know who is Fulani or Hausa. Aboki na Aboki.

lexy070:
The question is how did she gain admission into the University in the first place. The education system needs a reform and continuous training of teachers. A building collapses only when the foundation is faulty. That is the case with most of the graduates we have today. The university give lectures and not to teach students.

If you score zero in English in JAMB then score 60 in the other three courses you have scored 180 which you can use to study some less competitive courses.

laydoh:
since u know,show us wia in the qur'an pls since the guy u mentioned did the same.

IgbosAreOsus:
Oya quote one

Hypocrite

Any person who curseth his mother or father, must be killed. (Leviticus 20:9)

If a man cheateth on his wife, or vise versa, both the man and the woman must die. (Leviticus 20:10)

If a man lieth with another man, both must be killed. (Leviticus 20:13)

If a man or woman has sex with an animal, both human and animal must be killed. (Leviticus 20:15-16)

If a man has sex with a woman on her period, they are both to be “cut off from their people.” (Leviticus 20:18)

Psychics, wizards, witches and so on are to be stoned to death. (Leviticus 20:27)

If a priest’s daughter is a LovePeddler, she is to be burnt at the stake. (Leviticus 21:9)

People who have flat noses, or are blind or lame, cannot go to an altar of God. (Leviticus 21:17-18)

Anyone who curses or blasphemes God, should be stoned to death by the community. (Leviticus 24:14-16)

From the book of Deuteronomy:

Anyone who dreameth or prophesieth anything that is against God, or anyone who tries to turn you from God, is to be put to death. (Deuteronomy 13:5)

If anyone, even your own family, suggests worshipping another God, kill them. (Deuteronomy 13:6-10)

If you find out a city worships a different god, destroy the city and kill all of its inhabitants, even the animals. (Deuteronomy 13:12-16)

Kill anyone with a different religion. (Deuteronomy 17:2-7)

Women are not allowed to wear the clothing of men and men are not allowed to wear the clothing of women (Deuteronomy 22:5)

From the New Testament:

Slaves must be submissive and obedient to their masters. (Ephesians 6:5)

Women must be submissive to their husbands. (1 Peter 3:1 and 3:5)

Women should not style or braid their hair or wear any adornments (jewelry) or fancy clothing. (I would also presume that wording to include the wearing of make-up and coloring of hair in that context. - 1 Peter 3:3, 1 Timothy 2:9)

Women should be generally submissive and should be quiet, never teach or hold any authority over men. They should just be silent. (1 Timothy 2:12)

Women must wear head coverings in any place of worship. (1 Corinthians 11:4-7)

2:89-“Therefore, the curse of Allah is upon the unbelievers!”

2:97-“Whoever is an enemy to Allah and His angels and messengers, to Gabriel and Michael, lo! Allah is an enemy of the unbelievers.”

2:191-“Kill them (unbelievers) wherever you find them. Drive them out of the places from which they drove you, for persecution is worse than slaughter…. Such is the reward of those who reject faith.”

2:193-“Fight against them (unbelievers) until there is no dissension, and the religion is for Allah.”
Fight until no other religion exists but Islam.

2:218-“But those who believe and those who migrate and struggle in the way of Allah, those, have hope of the mercy of Allah.”
Those who fight for Allah may have hope of forgiveness.

3:10-“Those who disbelieve, neither their riches nor their children shall save them from Allah. They shall become the fuel of the fire.”

3:19-“The only true faith in God’s sight is Islam. Those to whom the book was given disagreed among themselves only after knowledge had been given to them, being insolent among themselves. He who disbelieves the verses of Allah indeed Allah is swift in reckoning.”

3:28-“The believers should not take the unbelievers as friends or helpers in preference to the believers. He who does this does not belong to Allah in anything, unless you have a fear of them.”

3:110-“You are the best nation ever to be brought forth for people. You order honor and forbid dishonor, and you believe in Allah. Had the people of the book believed, it would have surely been better for them. Some of them are believers, but most of them are evildoers.”
Most Jews and Christians are wrongdoers.

3:151-“We will throw terror into the hearts of those who disbelieve.”

4:76-“And those who believe fight in the way of Allah, but those who disbelieve fight in cause of evil. therefore, fight against those guided by Satan.”

4:89-“”Seize them and slay them wherever ye find them; and in any case take no friends or helpers from their ranks.”

4:95-“Those of the believers who sit still…are not on an equality with those who strive in the way of Allah with their wealth and lives. Allah hath conferred on those who strive with their wealth and lives a rank above te sedentary. Unto each Allah hath promised good, but He hath bestowed on those who strive a great reward above the sedentary.”
Muslims who fight in jihad are better than those who don’t.

4:101-“”For the unbelievers are to you open enemies.”

5:12-16-“Allah made a covenant with the children of Israel…. But because they broke their covenant, we cursed them and hardened their hearts. They changed the words from their places and have forgotten a portion of what they were reminded…. With those who called themselves Christians, we made a covenant, but they have forgotten much of what they were reminded. Therefore, we stirred among them enmity and hatred till the day of resurrection.”

5:51-“O ye who believe! Take not the Jews and the Christians for your friends and protectors: They are but friends and protectors to each other. And he amongst you that turns to them in friendship is of them. Verily Allah guideth not a people unjust.”

5:64-“They [the Jews] are cursed for what they said!… As often as they light a fire for war, Allah extinguishes it. Their effort is for corruption in the land, and Allah loveth not corrupters.”

7:4-“How many a village have we laid in ruin! In the night our might fell upon it, or at midday when they were drowsy.”

8:12, 14-“I shall cast terror into the hearts of the unbelievers. Strike them above the necks, smite their finger tips…. the punishment of the fire is for the unbelievers.”

8:39-“Fight them (unbelievers) until persecution is no more and the religion of Allah reigns supreme.”

8:59-60-“Do not suppose that the unbelievers have outstripped Allah. They cannot frustrate me. Against them make ready your strength to the utmost power, including steeds of war, so that you strike terror into the enemies of allah and your enemy, and others besides them whom you do not know but Allah does.”

8:65-“O Prophet, urge the believers to fight. If there are twenty patient men among you, you shall overcome two hundred, and if there are a hundred, they shall overcome a thousand unbelievers, for they are a nation who do not understand.”

8:74-“Those who believe and migrated from their homes and fought for the Way of Allah, and those who have sheltered them and helped them they are truly the believers.”
The jihad warriors are the true believers.

9:1, 3, 5-“For four months you shall journey freely in the land. but know that you shall not render Allah incapable, and that Allah will humiliate the unbelievers…. And give glad tidings to the unbelievers of a painful punishment…. When the sacred months are over, slay the idolaters wherever you find them. Take them and confine them, then lie in ambush everywhere for them.”

9:14-“Fight them (unbelievers), Allah will punish them with your hands and degrade them. He will grant you victory over them and heal the chests of a believing nation.”

9:19-“Do you consider giving drink to the pilgrims and inhabiting the sacred mosque is the same as one who believes in Allah and the last day, and struggles in the Way of Allah? These are not held equal by Allah. Allah does not guide the harmdoers. Those who believe, and migrated, and struggle in the Way of Allah with their wealth and their persons are greater in rank with Allah.”

9:26-“Then, Allah caused his tranquility (sechina) to descend upon his messenger and the believers; he sent legions you did not see and sternly punished the unbelievers. Such is the recompense of the unbelievers.”

9:29-“Fight those who neither believe in Allah nor the last day, who do not forbid what Allah and his messenger have forbidden, and do not embrace the religion of the truth, being among those who have been given the book (Bible and the Torah), until they pay tribute out of hand and have been humiliated (or feel themselves subdued).”

9:30-“The Jews say Ezra is the son of Allah, while the Christians (who follow Paul) say the messiah is the son of Allah. such are their assertions, by which they imitate those who disbelieved before. Allah fights them! How perverted are they!”

9:33-“It is he who has sent forth his messenger with guidance and the religion of truth to uplift it above every religion, no matter how much the idolaters hate it.”
Islam does not seek equality with other religions. Islam must be above all others.

9:38-“Believers, why is it that when it is said to you: ‘march in the way of Allah, ‘ you linger with heaviness in the land? Are you content with this life rather than the everlasting life? Yet the enjoyment of this life in (comparison to) the everlasting life is little. If you do not go forth, he will punish you with a painful punishment and replace you by another nation.”
Those who refuse to wage jihad will face terrible punishment.

9:41-“Whether lightly or heavily, march on and fight for the way of Allah, with your wealth and your persons. This will be best for you, if you but knew.”

9:44-“Those who believe in Allah and the last day will not ask your permission so that they may struggle with their wealth and their selves.”
True believers do not refuse to fight and risk their lives and property for Islam.

9:49-“Hell shall encompass the unbelievers.”

9:73-“O Prophet, struggle with the unbelievers and the hypocrites and be harsh with them. Their abode is Hell, an evil refuge indeed.”

9:111-“Allah has purchased from the believers their selves and possessions, and for them is paradise. They fight in the way of Allah, slay, and are slain.”
Muslim believers fight and so gain paradise.

9:123-“Believers, fight the unbelievers who are near you. Let them find firmness in you. Know that Allah is with those who are cautious.”

47:4-“Therefore, when you meet the unbelievers smite their necks, then, when you have killed many of them, tie the bonds…. As for those who are killed in the Way of Allah, he will not let their works to go astray.”
More commands to violence and praise for violent martyrs.

47:8-“But the unbelievers shall be the destroyed losers. He will bring their deeds to nothing.”

47:20-“The believers ask: ‘has a chapter been sent down? ‘ but when a clear chapter is sent down and fighting is mentioned in it, you see those in whose hearts is sickness looking towards you as one who swoons at death.”
The Qu’ran even says that it itself contains chapter mentioning fighting! And it mocks and chastises those not willing to die in battle.

48:28-29-“It is he who has sent his messenger with guidance and the religion of truth, so that he exalts it above all other religions. Allah is the sufficient witness. Muhammad is the messenger of Allah. Those who are with him are harsh against the unbelievers but merciful to one another.”

59:2-3-“It was he who expelled the unbelievers among the people of the book from their homes into the first exile. You did not think that they would go out, and they thought their fortresses would protect them from Allah. But Allah came upon them from where they did not expect, casting terror into their hearts that their homes were destroyed by their own hands as well as by the hands of the believers. Therefore, take heed you that have eyes. Had it been that Allah had not decreed that they should be dispersed, he would have surely punished them in this world. and in the everlasting life the punishment of the fire awaits them….”

60:1-3-“O you who believe, you shall not befriend My enemies and your enemies, extending love and friendship to them, when they have disbelieved in the truth that has come to you. They persecute the messenger, and you, just because you believe in Allah, your Lord. If you mobilize to struggle in My cause, seeking My blessings, how can you secretly love them? I am fully aware of everything you conceal, and everything you declare. Those among you who do this have indeed strayed off the right path…. They want you to disbelieve. Your relatives and children can never help you. On the Day of Resurrection, He will judge among you. Allah is Seer of everything you do.”
Muslims are not to take non-Muslims as friends. Leniency is not to be shown to unbelieving friends and family. The spread of Islam through “struggle” takes priority over these relationships.
61:9-“He has sent His messenger with the guidance and the true religion, and will make it dominate all religions, in spite of the idol worshipers.”

98:6-“The unbelievers among the People of the Book and the idolaters shall be for ever in the fire of gehenna (hell). They are the worst of all creatures.”

111:1-5-“In the name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful perish the hands of abilahab, and perish he! His wealth will not suffice him, neither what he has gained; he shall roast at a flaming fire, and his wife, laden with firewood shall have a rope of palmfiber around her neck!”

Hashimyussufamao:
Keep shut for life!!!

Matthew 10:34
“Do not think that I have come to bring peace to the earth. I have not come to bring peace, but a sword.

Psalm 144:1
Blessed be the LORD, my rock, Who trains my hands for war, And my fingers for battle;


Exodus 22:20
"Whoever sacrifices to any god other than the LORD must be destroyed.


LET ME KNOW IF YOU NEED MORE. BRAINWASHED KOOK!!

That means nothing compared to the vile contents of the Koran. For each passage you quote from the Bible there 1000 more in the Koran.

XhosaNostra:
I don't care. Are we going to eat his penìs? Sex is not even at the top 3 spot on my list of priorities. I can live with or without it.

I hope you weren't circumcised

Nigeria is only beautiful when observing from the sky.

MhizAJ:
Me that i've stayed all my life without sex nko see this one

If you are above 25 then you deserve applause or else not a big deal cos even guys below 25 can achieve that.

sarrki:
BUHARI
is nt a God's messenger, nt a saint, nt even 70% gud

but he is 100% better dan any Nig politician u knw, dead or alive

If Buhari as the president of Nigeria is the best politician and Nigeria is not developing then it means Nigeria will never develop since the best we can afford is having no impact.

maasoap:
Absolute power with democracy? Even military dictator started corruption in Nigeria.

I am saying democracy CANNOT work in Nigeria at the moment due to the current psychology and orientation of Nigerians who are part of governance and in general as well. The power sharing nature of democracy plus our psychology makes it difficult for drastic decisions to be taken to enhance huge positive growth in country. Actions that will greatly improve the state of country will always be sabotaged by powerful people because it doesn't benefit their own selfish interests. Therefore we just need a capable, intelligent, visionary and morally upright leader to rule with absolute powers for about 40 years. Trust me you will see REAL change.

Of course they will be strict with time. Instead of 1hr in the exam hall they will get 25 mins at home such that candidates won't even have time to look for expo.

gidgiddy:
Igbos and Yorubas come together?

Can a Fox and a Dog come together?

Despite having four legs snd looking similar, they simply do not trust one another.

I think their politicians are the ones having the trust issues. I believe the common Yoruba man in the street will more likely tilt his support towards an Igbo man in an election against an Hausa man. And the ordinary Igbo man will also tilt his support for a Yoruba man against an Hausa.

Why would the North be united as one entity and then the south exits as Igbo and yoruba? The division between Igbos and Yorubas actually gave the North the influence and power they have today. As long as they don't come together as THE SOUTH to face THE NORTH tit for tat then they will both continue to be servants of the north. Nothing stops these two tribes from sitting down and ironing out things. But instead they both feel too proud to do so. Let them keep fooling themselves. But I think I will blame the Igbos more for this. Igbos are always feeling too big and too special that they think they can pocket Nigeria alone by themselves. Good luck to them trying to get the presidency

Democracy cannot change Nigeria. Too many idiots are in charge at the same time. Imagine a check and balance between incompetent arms of government ruling at the same time. I believe only a responsible and intelligent ruler with absolute powers can change the country.

ad84ada:
A buddy of mine got kidnapped in port Harcourt(random kidnap) and the first thing the kidnappers did was to check their profile on Facebook to evaluate how much they will charge for their release.
Anyone related to any politician is to be killed because the kidnappers are angry at politicians who used and abandoned them.
It was hell for the ones who used their real names and also have pictures of expensive lifestyles.

So OP
It doesn't work in every situation.

But the benefits out-weighs whatever risks

XhosaNostra:
Why should they pay you anything? You're taking from them, not the other way around.

Funny how you're referring to African traditions as rubbish & yet you're going to expect your wife to fulfill her traditional duties as a wife. You wanna be a modern man & not follow tradition, then be prepared to clean the house, cook & look after the children like a modern man. You can't pick & choose a side that only benefits you.

Please how am I taking from them and the girl's family NOT taking from me? Kindly explain cos I don't understand the tilt in favour.
I am already a modern man and have no problem cooking, cleaning and looking after children as long as my lady is also a modern woman who make her own equal contribution.

Culin:
Me. I don't think the voltage in a car battery is enough to kill someone from electrocution but I'd rather stay away.

So what's your problem with batteries?

DrinkLimca:
She is a mental health practitioner and i think that she is developing mental deficiency that needs serious attention from a real health practitioner...

No kid is a burden and children are not burden..

On the contrary children are blessing to the world because all great men and women that have made the world a better place were ones kids..

I was never a burden to my parents.. and i believe that she too was never a burden to her parents and that was why she was not aborted..

People that think children are burden are irresponsible people that failed to plan for their lives..

They are wayward and selfish so they see children as a burden because they live a wayward life filled with bad decisions, they are lazy in even taking care of themselves so they see kids as a burden when their inresponsibilities brings a child out of wedlock..

At this point in time the population is approaching dangerous levels. Kids are now a curse and threat to world stability

Cutehector:
You see Darling, when you are broke in life, things like this becomes a nightmare for you.


Have money.. Everything gets easier. Even with kids, some people still survive and are doing better than the single ones out there.

Whether you are broke or not doesn't matter. Are you saying you will hire someone to take care of the kids for you while you focus on something else? There is no way you have kids and wouldn't give them attention, time and energy. Then what's the need of having kids then?