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@Abu: what r u saying my dear?

Another good one, but why the logjam?

@OP: Sure, she must know. The woman matters. I'll never diss my wife or give her rude surprises, what for?

Chai! This fear had gripped me long ago, I just managed to fight it off. I saw too much when I was in school even now, I'd just cringe and work up my defensive mechanisms so the paranoia thing doesn't have my best part. Inasmuch as we're alarmed, we're only but helpless, one has to pass on his genes. What do you think poster?

@pro01: You're so much in tune with what a typical woman is. My dear, you cannot afford to quit eating food just because you'll stool it out later neither will you stop using the roads because of accidents. Those are necessary evils. What can you do? It applies to the men too, but the only difference is the denial and false piety women lace their lives with. The life of a woman is an ocean, you cannot fathom it. That's why the woman has the final say when it comes to the paternity of a child, though some might not even be sure because of the college of guys they do at the same time. I believe good ones still dey sha, just believing.

I hate sluggish processes, I detest democracy if that is what we practise in Nigeria. Why are they wasting all the time to sack Yar'Adua? Why waste money traveling to confirm if he's dead or living? It doesn't make any sense. The Niger Delta is degenerating again, who else can salvage it if not their own Goodluck?

Hmm. Rofl. Strong diiick!

Yes! That I believe too.

@coolier& aisha: good of u, but it's rare on this half of globe, I love 2 treat a woman to good stuff, but u don't get them to take u out at anytime. Is it d culture or what?

A suit would be welcome. Good!

Will you buy me lunch? She would say. Lol. As if I can't be taken out for one.

Aondoakaa. He shouldn't have been a politician tho. Buhari

@post: loooool. ROTFLMAO! Woman power. Only in 9ja.

There's this stereotype of "take me out, are you taking me out?, where do we eat out? bla bla bla", by ladies. Is it out of fashion or an offence if a lady took a guy out and treat him to some real good stuff on her own bill? Nawa o! Valentine is here, people should be fair. It's not love if it's not shared.

She should take u out this time.

Good! Andoakaa is so beguilled with his folly and botched plans that he can't help but lash out at a woman who can't fall in line with d ravenous pack. He can go to hell and have his anus soldered by the devil himself, Nigeria must survive and not him and his wicked antics. He knows Dora's pedigree in NAFDAC, where's he coming from. For him, the end lurks around. Ewu!

@edoyad: wat action r u talkin abt? D Goodluck guy is very intelligent and patient, he doesn't react to issues with rash haste. He can't take any action until he's clothed with d full presidential powers or else he'd be usurping power. I beliv he understands the constitution much better. He called for deployment of troops in Jos then because it was urgent and dire, he didn't have the powers to have done that, you can't have two commanders-in-chief per time.

@mama gee: That's the most wrongly asked question ever. If I train vigorously and end up being the greatest boxer of all time, does that mean that that was what I was destined to be? Could I not have excelled in other areas of endeavor if I worked hard at them? What does it mean when the bible says: "I can do(be) all things thru Christ which strengthens me"?

Care about other people and take things easy, nobody will come out of this life alive.

@mama gee: because she deserves the popularity, do u hav the nerve to be the only courageous lamb in a pack of wolves? Abegi!

@Googles: me neither.

This topic may have been discussed or whatever, I do not know. I don't enjoy it when some folks just walk by a topic and just rant: "It has long been treated", and make no reasonable comments. Things change every minute, so do opinions and views. About my topic, is there DESTINY? Does the idea that a destiny exists not make less of prayers and faith that things will happen as we desire and work for? Do things just happen as they've been tailored to happen and not as a result of what we believe and do? Could some people have been destined to be rich and others poor? Does destiny exist?

When two witnesses give the same exact account of an incident, then they're liars. We're humans. But my question is this: Is the bible supposed to be implicit, explicit or revelatory in it's meaning and import?

With reference to Eccl. 3:19, does that not invalidate this highly touted concept of hell and heaven? Why do all these controversies abound? What does one then believe?

May I know ur source? I can't be so gullible. I've actually read stuff contradictory to all u wrote. I'm in a fix.

That I'm not quite surprised at this surprises me. Hmm! Well, one thing I've resolved to do is not to expect too much 4m anybody, wife or galfriend, I'm not being cynical, it's just so dat I don't get badly disappointed in d end. The world today is rife with such incidents, it's just that many of them 've not been cracked open as yours. You r not alone. Back to ur topic, it's indisputable that ur wife had been f^cking her cousin longer than u knew, sex binds more than any adhesive I've known, they can only go on if u don't wade in wisely. Get that email printed first and foremost as evidence, talk it over with her before u involve a third party. Forbid that devilish cousin from coming around ur home and do all u can to save ur marriage. Most people are living with worse cases than yours, they just handled it better or just bore it. God grant u courage and wisdom.

S@mi: Easier said than done. The incestuous duo should better stay out of my sight, I may hav fits of bad temper and slaughter someone with my sharpened machete under my bed. Whaaat?!

Don't give up on her if u so love her, all a woman needs is time and meaningful persistence, don't pester her anyway. Get ur sisters to talk to her about how u feel. Keep at it. Good luck!

My boss told me about how her wife drove him into being a player. She didn't allow her to make love to her as often as they did earlier, most times to blackmail him into doing a favour for her or to protest something he didn't do well. So he devised a means, he bought vaseline jelly and would apply it on his D.iickhead each time he noticed d wife was fast asleep at nite and then make a skillful forced entry, u know now, d man is so powerful dat d woman couldn't fight him off in any of d occasions. He'll do his thing. Haha! He tried it a few times and went into d field of womanizing. He confided in me not 2 tell anybody, make una no talk say na me talk am o! Lol. Why would a woman be so cruel? I'll take it by force, haha, like d violent.

Smart? Without parental blessings?

D girl had to elope with d guy leavin no trails behind.

It was a hot issue in one particular occasion. D lady has seen who to marry but d elder sister hadn't anyone at d time, d parents pended d whole wedding plans. Sucks!