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Very correct and on point

But all I will say is it's our innate nature as Nigerian men or will I say men generally.

The other option is feminism and that I strongly DETEST WITH MY SOUL

BlackMamba69:
Niggars be talking like they've got options.

It's either mgtow or y'all will keep dating the same recycled whooores. 95% of nigerian girls are cheap sluutss!

Don't overgeneralise

MGTOW is not really sitting down with me, like y will I run away from the game especially when the game isn't rigged here in Nigeria and even if it's rigged there are many ways to bypass the rig-ness

Date to Bleep her sure, use protection anyways

But marry her at ur own peril

EzzyCarter:
Point gotten. I think I now get what you're trying to say...

Yeah bro
I understand you as well

I rather wife someone who values family over career

The thing I don't understand is why wud ladies work under a man, most career women do anyways,but hesitate to stay home and take care of the kids.

Regardless the woman will still be a housewife especially wen the kids start popping up

I can't even marry a lady who believes having more than one or two children is not sensible, I'm like,so just having one or two kids and keeping in shape to please who uhn.
Most of this types of women value career over family and they are surely keeping in shape to please their boss, who is male most of the time.

The greatest goal a young woman should have is to marry early and have children early and maintain her family. WOMEN ARE THE HOMECARERS

[color=#000000]I so much love polygamy [/color]

Ryan03:
if not kneeling shows disrespect, then so be it. After kneeling, some will still quarrel and insult you, if you are not careful, use knife to stab you or pour hot water on you. Kneeling shows nothing joor, a woman will respect you if she wants to, kneeling or not

U saying this shows u don't have any self worth and will buy any rubbish women throw ur way

EzzyCarter:
Nah man. No white knighting here ...You don't get my point. If you see a virgin lady by any means marry her. The issue I have is placing a virgin on a pedestal as if it's a guarantee she'd make a good wife while neglecting other values and things to look out for

I don't place virgins on a pedestal

Every woman whether virgin or not, young or old is HYPERGAMOUS BY NATURE

I am just saying virginity is a very important quality a reasonable man should seek asides other marriageable qualities in his wife to be

EzzyCarter:
Oga car dealer, I'd rather buy a tokumbo Rolls Royce than buy a brand new Toyota Corolla any time any day


Brother, if she will give you wahala, she will. Regardless of the fact that she's a virgin/not. Its high time y'all realized virginity isn't a guarantee of good behaviour neither is "non-virginity" an indication of a bad woman, there are lotsa things that make a good woman.

Kontinu white knighting hoes ooo

Virginity is a very important quality for marriage

Ryan03:
my take on this! Each man to his own, if you do not want to kneel, look for a girl who will accept it and then you can stand and give her the ring. If you want a woman who will kneel to accept your ring, by all means looks for her. But dont come and tell me how I should propose, nobody should try and force their ideas on me. I will kneel and propose to my woman because I want to.

Goodluck with that

She kneeling shows she respects you as the head

Elixirz:
Truth be told In a married woman's life, after God, her kids are next.

Such man allowed his wife to determine the frame in their marriage

Every woman is hypergamous.

Such woman u are describing doesn't exist.

WoundedLamb:
She didn't. And if they're both fine, I'm happy for them.

But this doesn't invalidate others that do it the other way round. The man is the one asking the woman if she loves him well enough to accept him as her husband. Logically speaking, the requesters should be the one showing humility. I really don't see any logical reason to support the idea of the woman kneeling down. Men just like to feel in superior in every little thing even when it's seemingly inconsequential and outrightly illogical.

I don't see any logic in a man kneeling for a woman

Olaniyi021:
You don't know what is called love

Love is an idea

Men and women love differently

EndRape2:
She is a big fool, the man is supposed to knee down and if he is not kneeling down, then the lady should stand to receive it,. The reason men are to knee down is to let the world know they adorn the lady , respect her and value her, remember after marriage,. The woman knees all her life, even on the traditional day she will knee to serve him drinks,. So she is a big fool, if the man can not knee, then let the two of them stand . Simple, kneeling down means you are begging the man to marry you.


She is worthless and useless, the man will use this against her.

Our culture doesn't support a man kneeling for a woman

Only SIMPS chase women and place them on a pedestal

BraniacX:
otondo! for 5marks define social constructivism

Wats social construct

ImaIma1:
If the men love their wives as Christ loved the church as the other part of that verse says, the submission will not need to be demanded by the husbands.

But a man will treat his wife without love and respect but still demand and expect submission. Not every woman will readily submit at that point.

Why will a woman settle down for a man who she doesn't love and respect and he doesn't love and respect her in the first place

Ogbotobo77:
Hmm...that's true sha

Exactly

Feminism is already useless

Women have rights already and they were never oppressed and are not oppressed currently

Ogbotobo77:
Where in my post did I say feminism is d solution... I've made myself clear enough ..don't misconstrue

Good

We don't need feminism in Nigeria especially

Ogbotobo77:
Sure sure...I have sisters so I understand..Africa is a messed up continent.. So much to do..I was a hardcore sexist,misogynist,male chauvinist name it all lol...but recently I've been trying to emancipate myself from such ideology....I also enlighten ppl when I have d chance too...but we have stumbling blocks like religion and socially constructed gender roles enforced by society!

So feminism is the best solution ahbi

Religion is a blessing to Africa

Death to feminism and simps

Ogbotobo77:
Lol u forget that na 9ja we dey..not everyone subscribes to equal opportunity for both sexes..

Most educated people do

The problem is we have illiteracy issues but we don't need feminism to solve it for us

Ogbotobo77:
Lol...we shouldn't generalise bro..there are still good ones out there that still believe in d main objective

Wat objective

Women gave the same rights as men under the law

Women dominate education

Women dominate the workplace in Nigeria

So wat are they asking for again

Ladycewhy:
Refocusing back to the main ideology should then be the main goal. There are still millions unreached that still need emacipation, so much still needs to be done for the girl child. I encourage you not to loose faith in the movement we cannot because of the few abandon the unreached for posterity sake .

Wat about the boy child

bukatyne:
Do you remember the quote above?


You said submission makes me 'unequal' to my husband. That is where the discussion deviated.



If submission is no longer inferior or superior, then we can end the discussion.l and I have done the Lord's work tonight.

I would not dignify your second paragraph with a response.

P.S.: go and learn how to be a Christian husband who is a servant-leader and filled with love.

You need it.

Start from 1 For 13: 1 - 8

Wen it comes to marriage, Men are the head ND women are the neck.

And u too learn how to submit to ur husband if u want a successful marriage but if not then end up miserable divorced and having dogs as children to soot ur sadness and misery

Cheers **

bukatyne:
Let me agree with your week parlor talk:

Submitting to my maker does not make me inferior; submitting to a man (made by a maker) makes me inferior?

Besides, when did 'submit one to another' mean submission to my maker?

Abi am I a co-maker?

Submission isn't inferior or superior

Submission is a quality that a woman must possess to have a successful marriage if u like dont submit. Wen u divorce and end up miserable with dogs as children wetin b my own

bukatyne:
Dude did you not quote Ephesians 5:21 take talks of people submitting one to another?

How then does submission make you inferior or 'unequal'?

FYI: for me to submit to my boss means we have an intimate working relationship.

So u are telling me, u and ur boss at work are equals ryt??

I didn't say submission makes anyone inferior or superior

Submission is a must for a every woman to possess as a quality,amongst others,for her to have a successful marriage