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If you are not mature enough to know a relationship is all about trust; and you enter one with the trust there - too bad for you mister - the future don't look so bright for ya

Depends on the job and the girl. Some jobs are not worth keeping, and some girls are not worth keeping. It also depends on which is easier to replace.

My gf knows if I see her in bed with a guy (even with all clothes on or whatever it is) once, I won't say anything. I will just walk away and out of her life.
You gf is cheating on you. If she hasn't yet, she will.
Even if she doesn't, it shows a total lack of respect for you. Either ways I would advice dump her.

Give her the cheat test. If she fails, she is cheating on you

nuela100:
cut out her finger,in that case u'll get the actual size.just a thought though

I can't find any correlation btw the topic and the story.
The topic get comma

Some relationships are that crappy. Could be one of these two reasons: 1. She was probably not over the ex when you moved into her life. Thats a much better way to look at it than 2. you were so crappy a bf, in comparison to the ex, that she ran into her waiting ex's hands. Take the first one, it will make you feel better.

Old story. They would have probably sorted out their issues by now or broken up.

On the thread, I don't think the guy's issue is if he cheated with p.orn.orgra.phy or not. I think its his inability to handle his business and be manly about it. Going back to beg like a fool (everytime and for every fight) is what is killing him. The girl doesn't even respect him any more, hence she can't be with him and will keep looking for excuses to break up with him.

Lying to your partner does not mean you don't love him/her. It means you are not worth being with.

I live in canada. What's her phone number? I can maybe test her faithfulness with my charming voice

They hv deeper underlying issues

No big deal if I'm not invited or my partner isn't invited. As much as we are a couple, we still hv different lives and social circle.
If its my wife, nothing changes. I don't see any need to feel insulted I wasn't invited or my wife/ partner wasn't invited.

However if its a friend of mine, or someone who specifically doesn't want me there, I will feel insulted but I don't see why the lady shouldn't go if she wants. However from that moment, that particular friend seizes to exist to me.

Tell your friend that I and a lot of readers here are confused as well

The he - she dynamics is screwed up in this tale. Which is which, who is who etc

I get the impression he wasn't referring to those kinds of couples.

While I agree with you on the demographics in the usage of condoms, there is the fact there is almost always a needed thing with singles, while couples can be optional in the usage.

The answer you are looking for will be best served asking the singles. They are the most experienced ones when it comes to family planning (ie no kids at all) and hving the maximum fun possible (aka near skin rubber).

Now swallow your pride (and convictions) and ask the sinners

If someone had asked you the same question, what option would you have picked?

otunbasmtp:
^^ u dont have a point and nobody buy love here stop acting as if you are perfect if a woman living under your roof if you think about yourself you must think about her too perhaps you are a type of selfish guy who is afraid of responsibilities
and for your question Do i consider her to leave and start selling recharge cards?  That is what her company does and if you start that type of biz with as low as 500k according to her explanation she would gain times 3 of it in some few months ahead before the horrible incident happened so if you dont get the story well i will advice you to keep shut or Pray such situation happens to you and shear your experience here i only came here for advice not insults

It's obvious you do not have the balls to accept criticism and advice so if you saw one, you wouldn't know it. You can pray all you want but even your god doesn't affect me.
PS I handle my business well enough thats why this kind of situation don't apply to me. For the record, you are not a real man and you know it.

Do you think throwing money at a woman is enough to buy her love and feelings etc? Did you consider the satisfaction she gets from her job? Do you want her to leave that and sell recharge cards?

The entire family needs pyschiatric help

lurkee:
OK I think I got the gist of the story:

1) His chick got pregnant but she was not ready even though he was.

2) He saw a video of her revealing a private matter about herself to her boss which excited his suspicion of her possibly dating the boss.

3) She quit her job and moved to his place. During this time, she had a medical condition which made her discharge creamy things from her privates. . . https://www.freesmileys.org/smileys/smiley-sick006.gif

4) He then left the country to Malasia for a course.

Gahhh, I give up! This story is going nowhere for me.

Good summary. For those who missed it earlier:
1. I don't think he was ready exactly.
2. She discussed hving an abortion with the boss on recorded audio. This made the OP suspect the BOSS might be the papa.
3. She quit her job and moved in with him initially. Couldn't find a job for a very long time while in the same state as the OP. Finally got another job in a different state.
Now the OP thinks she is cheating and/unserious with the relationship and he wants her to quit her job and move back to where he is. I can't remember if they were living together or not. She doesn't want to move till she has a job in the state the OP is living in.
4. I think he was always planning to leave malaysia for a course.

Now he wants to know if he has a future with the girl (hence the word wife) because she hasn't moved to be with him so far.

OP, its mighty selfish of you to expect her to move just because you are jealous. You want her to throw her life and career away just because you think she is cheating? You want her to depend solely on you? What happens when you decide you do not wwant her anymore? THen she should start the process of looking for a job all over?

While the initial inclination may be towards the fact that she is cheating, it could also be a simple misunderstanding.

Maybe, the lady assumed the OP was going to show up ( sometimes we jump to conclusions wrongly). If she was expecting him, and he called rather than showing up, then she could made the statement.

What do you need help with really?

Who came up with this BS?