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I guess your friend was not so good in bed and thought he could cover that up with a lady who didn't know any better.
Either way, its an unfortunate event.

Read your books

it is you. and yeah you are possibly fked up

perfect partner for you

wont work.

Lets assume you are serious - or for those who are really in this situation.

There are ways to handle this.
You can use the remain virgin before marriage trick to hold him off for now, and see if he can respect your stance. More likely he will want you more to be the first to pop the cherry.

Since this is in naija, it is not easy to change institutions like they do in other places so you are stuck.
First make sure you secretly record all conversations with the lecturer. In your conversations, make sure you clearly tell the lecturer you are not interested and make him state what he really wants. It will be nicer if you can make him state he wants your puzzy for you to get good marks.

Then report to the police and the university institution. And that should be it. you will save others, but you might also get repercussions from other lectures.
If you are scared of possible retribution from other randy lecturers, just blackmail the lecturer.

She should leave. The husband no longer appreciates or finds her attractive.

All that said, I prefer slim ladies. If I married a slim one and she turned fatty, Errmmm I probably will be no longer attracted to her and leave too. But first we hit the gym together.

Sexsinner, pls go to heaven already and leave us sinners to enjoy life.

There is nothing to giving her the car for the weekend, if you are not in need of it. If she goes away with it, just report it stolen and insurance and popo will deal with the rest.

WhyAWhy:
[size=18pt]Fire the thing [/size]

probably did already

If I have a problem with anything on that list (eg smell etc), I probably would have noticed already and there wouldn't have been a first date.
Now if its something I haven't noticed or not easily known, if I realise it on the first date, and its a deal breaker, there wouldn't be a second date. I will try to get lucky that night but if I don't its still good bye.
All that said, first date is just to to get a feel of the chemistry btw us two and not get into serious shyte. Don't mean I would avoid talking about serious stuff but I'm not auditioning her for marriage or smth.

Why should I care what you have upstairs? Everything I need, I see right already.

[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=743779.msg8999318#msg8999318 date=1314216691]Me ignoring Mr.Chima didn't work and now I got this thing in me.[/quote]Congrats

srry I took the last one

sexkillz:
OP!
Thank God all girls are not CHEAP THE SAME!

Thank God not all men are cave men the same.

[quote author=BABE! link=topic=740662.msg8974847#msg8974847 date=1313949985]Chei! Deniyor, you too gbam! You're so On Point!

I was gonna explain my points further to the ignorant fellow(s), but lord knows I hate sounding like a broken record. I was already starting to sound like one. Kudos for expatiating.   [/quote]Thanks. I know we all have different backgrounds and exposure but people are so quick to discard and pass judgement on people who don't fit into their way of thinking.

sexsinners:
hey i am just being honest hear like the holy man i am.
and only the devil can be that easy, God gives us difficult challenges.

and oh about her, uhhhh her father beated me with a stick cause i asked him to get his daughter to marry me.

like the gentleman i am i walk away with pride

Awww, I'm so sorry to hear that you are still alive. he should have killed you with the stick or turned you into a vegetable.

Meet in a public place like a coffee shop, restaurant, bar, sports game etc
Don't pick or be picked up. Don't reveal your address till you are comfortable with your date
Plan for a short date. If date goes well you can extend or set another date. Eg coffee/ tea as against lunch or supper.

Waiting for a month till you go on a date will not save your azz if you don't follow simple safety etiquettes.

And for the poster who called the girl cheap to get, the poster is just plain fo[b]o[/b]lish.
If you choose to waste time or pretend you are all that or front (whatever you want to call it), the guy is still going to realise how empty you are eventually.

sexsinners,
Just get out of this thread. Its out of your depth. Go plot how to rap.e and impregnate your new date/gf and stop disturbing mature minds here.

sexkillz:
Well! The way we see things are supposed to be diverse! I personally wont ask a girl out on a DATE the VERY FIRST DAY i MEET HER! I aint that desperate! I also have rules that guide me! And to add, SELF CONTROL! I dont date girls Just for the sakes of dating! Well that's just ME!

@Lefulefu, I dont have your time now! Can i just IGNORE you for once? Not every one is a PARALYZED ILLEGAL IMMIGRANT that feeds of the palms of UKRANIAN WOMEN! And neither should you drive me into the garage of Virginity! Cos i'm gonna drive circles around you and you'll wish you werent sooo st[b]u[/b]pid as to losing yours! Cheerio!

Nothing desperate in asking a girl out first time you meet her. Its more of 'lets meet some other time to see if there is anything more to this attraction between us' - absolutely nothing to it. Its also got nothing to do with self control.

Most guys would like to be able to ask a girl out first time they meet the girl. Problem is liver fails them. Some people's confidence can only go as far as saying hello, others getting the number, others getting numbers and date or just date. It doesn't make you desperate or lack self control.

sexkillz:
Deniyor cool down jor!
What are you saying? You meet someone today and a few hours later you ask her out over a MIDNIGHT CALL? Less than 24 hrs after you MET HER? FACE FACTS!

Okay I don cool down

It doesn't matter whether its couple of hours or less than a day. Do you consider time when you do one night stands? And some one night stands like to serious relationships. Keyword some.

Yemmyc:
heellloo! I fink u've taken dis 2 personal,i only said wat was on ma mind,i aint speaking 4 everyone.den u wnt ahead blabbing me,u gt no sense of humour(no offiense),i fink u xd 2 dev your readin skill coz i didnt mentn anyfin concernin Money!.who says they aint no gud gurl out there.hatin who?sum one i dnt knw.u dnt knw me so dnt judge me. . .AM A GUD GURL.LOOL. . .AM A GUD GURL.LOOL

Hence the part where I said money or "whatever"
Good girl my azz. I should not judge you but you are quick to judge some girl based on what the OP said?
And yes you are right, my sense of humour isn't around yet

;d

Roland17:
U are taking the fast lane and that is very risky, asking a girl out over the phone is not a great idea for me, especially since its not a phone or e-relationship, don't be surprised if she calls off the relationship over the phone too,

All the same, i wish u all the best.

Dude, different strokes for different folks. The fact that it takes you a year to muster the courage to ask a girl out only for the relationship to last 2 weeks does not mean it has to be that way. Things can be wrapped up within minutes or days. Its just a case of having the courage to follow your guts.
Do you think the fact that you wait an eternity before you start dating a lady means that you know the girl well enough or things will work out? NOPE. Lets face it, any relationship has a high degree of risk.

Using a phone, or email or old fashioned hand written letters don't matter. As long as your intent is communicated clearly and understood by both parties, whats the big deal. Even people who have proposed a relationship to a girl in person have been dumped by phones and stick it notes before so whats new there?

What works for you don't have to work for everyone else.

Yemmyc:
~Op so u mean u wish all ladies shld be as cheap as d gurl u jst meant huh?.dnt b so ful of your self coz it myt b dat she only wonna use u 2 fill up a space,may b her bwoi frnd jst dumped nd she intend using u as a make do!.mark ma words it jst a matter of tym,

I beg to differ. What makes the girl cheap? because she accepted a guy's proposal at face value? or cos she didn't play silly games like a lot of girls do?
That is a girl who knows what she wanted and went for it.  Not playing some silly games so that guys might be fooled into thinking they are something they are not.
Girl don't be hating. you think everyone is like you that wants to use a man for his money or whatever things you do. There are actually good ladies out there.

OP, take your time and enjoy your relationship. Remember its takes a lot of work to make a relationship work.

As you lay your bed, so shall you lie

tankwa:
I work at Enugu but she stays at UNIZIK Awka.My boss shutles b/w Enugu and Awka every moning and evening as lateness does not apply to him. I am wedded already. Somebody suggested installing voice recorder in the handset. I have tried checking my boss call register but he cant keep his phone alone in his office.
What kind of wahala is this. Asking my wife is an accusation.

Dude you have no evidence or anything to show there is anything going on. Stop giving yourself High Blood Pressure for no reason. You seem just overly paranoid.

I don't think a lady needs her husband's permission to store anyone's number on her phone. Even if its his boss.