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@topic,
I agree.

@poster,
come get me. I'm cheap and available.

Empty threats. It cannot be enforced without violating the constitutional rights and freedom of the graduates.

She can't even slap me not to talk of raising her hand on my mother.

Except of course she is the type that doesn't mind a guy beating her and her mom up at the same time.

lol, which part of my opinion do you have a disagreement with?

silvaspecs:
Tnx fellas, your words are vry objective. I'll make amends.

@ IgboGirl, no offense.
@ Diniyor, still standing by your opinion abi?

why not? and its deniyor.

the no 1 sign is - he is cheating on you.

I would love to help by advising but really, Judgement is all I got. So I get to keep my mouth shut this time.

That's cos women are sluts and gold diggers

@poster,
I read your posts in full the first time and I still hv the same stance. You should hv questioned his sincerity 5-6 months ago when you started dating. Not now when you are expecting a baby, and abt getting married.

u r asking questions that u should hv asked 5 - 6 months ago. Too late for that now.

^^^ consider my last posts above

Until swiftycool comes out of his grave, this is a lesson to everyone - keep your f-ing mouth shut, and MYOB!

You obviously missed the memo. Swiftycool is dead and gone to his grave -hmm haaa gone to his grave!

^^^^ help is on the way

Does the girl know you are her bf?

Also, what is the most extent you hv gone with any girl she has introduced you to? Sleep with the new girl?

YEah the posters second post makes me think it is his love here that is in question. You are with your gf, and you hv the guts to tell her you are thinking of other girls. I am disappointed she puts up with your bs. Its one thing to occasionally comment that another girl is pretty in passing, not say you are thinking of her.
You put your gf in a tough spot and she either acts crazy, jealous and immature, or she chose to act cool, and call your bluff. This is what she is telling you by your supposed freedom

"If you are thinking of her, and you are not man enough to end the relationship and then walk up to her, you want me to help you call her so she can see how much of a fool you are! and then you realise I am better than all the skanks you keep fantasizing about"

You poster are such a dumbass and unworthy of such a girl. You show her absolutely no respect, and I pray, she does the same to you too.
One day, she will tell you, she is thinking abt some other guy, and the size of his cock. Then come back here for us to advise you. OLOSI

Now that is a smart woman! Confident enough to tell you she is better than those look interests.
What do you do with the other girls when she calls?

Another daft poster/thread

You boss likes you romantically but you shunned her love for her younger, more pretty 16 yr old niece. Go figure.

Talk about a gold digger . The poster's idea of a guy being romantic is giving her gifts. OLE , BARAWO!!!

People never change. Once a cheat always a cheat. Once a thief, always a thief. Nothing like an ex cheat or ex thief. The girl left him (while 'blinded' by another guy's charms). There is a 99.999% likelihood, she will leave him again for another guy when a better offer comes along. The guy should get rid of the scum of an ex gf and not beg her to come back. He is just another weak dude.

whats ur prob? its her bday and she doesn't want you there. Afterall her bf will be there.

@mzdarkskin
Both man and woman reacted the same way to the same problem but you found fault with the man and wrote the woman was a victim of her circumstances and environment. Talk about being totally biased. You think men don't go thru the same heartbreak over and over with women? You think a man isn't trying to find love too? The first time I fell in love with a lady, she cheated on me countless times while making me feel worthless. The next one after that had a guy on the side . Couple of them were quite free givers, or materialistic etc. What makes you think I wasn't looking for true love then.

Most of us prefer to look for the solution to our problem within others when we just hv to really loook inward. If you find it hard to keep a man, just ask yourself "what is it about me that can't make a man wanna stick around?"

^^^^^ Just like I thot, another male basher!!! Why would I trust a woman when most of them are evil and just simply sluts ^

Scenario A - A guy meets a lady he loves. The lady does not reciprocate his love, or does but treats him in a shabby way and leaves him for a richer or more sophisticated dude. The guy becomes a hard nut case, and decides that all women are just like that. He doesn't trust or respect women cos of his experience and those around him. Can you blame him?   

Scenario B - A woman gets a similar heartbreak from a guy. |He leaves her for whatever reason he has come up with. In return, she treats her next guys like excreta. She believes that all men are not to be trusted. She might even believe that she should just use men for her physical and material gratification. How is the guy and the lady any different from each other? If you want to understand why men are so insensitive, you first hv to understand or come up with the reason, women are so insenstive to the feelings of men.

are women any different? or is this just a male bashing thread?

YES OF COURSE. Spanking is allowed but ONLY during sex!!!

Omo Alata:
She should have twisted the story and said: "Oh no, you have spoilt the surprise. I booked a hotel for us to spend time together as we rarely see each other. It was going to be a second honeymoon and now you have ruined it I bought the condoms because it is not a safe time and I didn't want us to worry about unplanned pregnancy. So, you don't trust me".

She would then angrily start packing some stuff into a suitcase and tell him she is leaving him. He would then have to start begging her.

Dat's all

That is why you let her finish the deed b4 you bust her. You let her go and come back to see her stuffs outside the gates and the locks changed.

The lady in question is just an opportunist. C'mon he raped her 4 times, and she still stayed in the house to look after the kids. She wasn't a prisoner and she was always free to move around in and out of the house. Over 30yrs plus? I doubt if it is really rape. Someone who is really raped will hv killed the man a long time ago, if she did not leave the house right away. Not wait for the thing to happen four times or more.
Now she wants to go to canada.