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bhusayor: I can not tolerate someone that snoreshow would u know he snores. u wld av to ask eh? sounds difficult |
shrek4: Almost a month.... We talked on BBM dis afternoon.. While I was tryna tell her communication is key, she felt I was complaining.. She can't do more than she is doing.. Weekend is d only period we can talk, she just doesn't want to talk jare... Me, I don let go oo...I will delete her off my BBM list in a week sha... She is suppose to meet me halfway, but she isn't ready to do that.. Perhaps she isn't ready for a relationship sef... Wish her luck... I moved on!hmmn! u'r welcome. Its good to know when to quit. It doesnt make her a bad person, u know. ANd I think u dont need to delete her off ur bbm list. I believe everything that happened is for the best. |
Alhamdulillah!!!!!!!!!!!!! Alhamdulillah!!!!!!!!!!!!!The main stream media tell the world Islam & the Shariah infinge on freedom, human rights. The people say they want it that way. All haters can hug the nearest tramsformers as I smile to bed btw, this is very personal to me. |
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toba: bhusayor 3 days to gowhat are u talkn about |
shrek4: @Deols .... Things av taken another turn oo... We are back to the silence game... I don't want to bother her, just gonna relax all efforts for now and let her take d lead and imma follow. To be honest, av lost 50% interest in dis jare.. Whatever happens, I will let you know... But for now, am still single!eyyya. lost 50% interest? how long av u bn after her. |
bntY: @mac,thanks for d prayer.I appreciateI was dr two weeks ago o. I get many pple for there sef. wish I askd earlier sha. ![]() |
[quote author=some-girl]point is, it is a traditional wedding, the "girl" isn't wearing traditional yoruba attire. It's allowed, it was only an observation. Doesn't in anyway remove from the beauty of the concept.[/quote]the first picture on the thread represents the iro and buba worn by Yorubas. |
Do these dolls get to the market or do they end as a photo shoot? I'd be concerned about the effect of these dolls on the little ones. cant imagine every little girl craving the barbie kind of long hairs. |
reindeer |
Nation of ours,of people so good and so kind,so beautiful,so smart,so amazingly creative;the largest of the black race |
Abujabir24: sorrry i have been in school. will post the proof on wednesday wen i get it. Insha Allahi avnt read that hadith nor heard about it. I think the hadith is the one of angel Jubril. He appeared in human form, asked the prophet about Islam and when he left, the prophet told his sahabah, that was Jubril and he has come to teach you your religion. |
wa alaykum salam. Jum'ah kareemah. I missed jum'ah prayers today. Too bad I slept |
bntY: I'm single.you FEEL I am married? that's funny.U'r single and I have many single brothers o. Where d'u live. Lagos, Ibadan, kwara?? |
olawalebabs: you mean you won't appreciate 'flowers'. God, wait till i bring mine. Lolhehe ![]() toba: deolski lo sele |
miftaudeen: As-slamu alaykum to allwa alaykum salam. Welcome ![]() |
millinmax2: Very Interested in you.But can u put ur real pics here ? ![]() |
UmAnas: Can we all try checking out the muslim family series book 1 precisely if we must chose the right way? Lets not make this unislamically funky (we sure can get playful the halal way) and forget about the rulings for selecting a spouse in the Qur'an and Sunnah of the Prophet Mohammed (SAW)!But, what rules should we expect to find on choosing a spouse. First, Allah makes mention of the people whom we cannot marry in the Qur'an and that shows every other person, apart from those is legitimate. And then the ahadith explain the conditions for marriage. The waliyy, sadaaqi, acceptance, and witnesses. Apart from these, I think every other thing are some form of advice and not actually rules. I c people making the mistake of assuming d four criteria in choosing a wife are beauty, wealth, nobility and religion because an hadith makes mention of them. In essence, am saying, dr's a need to differentiate d rules from the other things only enjoined. |
olawalebabs: ^when i call her amirah, do you think i just say it for saying sake. There are some quality i see in her. As per the 'gift' i said, they serve as a bait to let the girl know how you feel about her. This may be flower, roses. Just make sure what you are sending will be meaningful and valuable. She'll surely appreciate it.hehe..u and ds Amirah thing ehn? Are those flowers for a Nigerian? Someone better not try that wv me. ![]() |
shrek4: All I can say is... Thank You!!!!u'r welcome bro. Am glad u find it helpful. Remember to post situation reports |
and about d book, its a good idea. I av read it too, long time ago though and would appreciate a reminder. |
giving gifts is not haram nor is it mandatory in Islam. When I told him not to give d gift, it is in a particular context, of him trying to woo a woman, someone not yet giving him a face. So, if u thnk it wld make her like him more, say it and in that line, an argument may ensue. But this hadith is sure not applicable. |
mukina2: Deols. . .wetin happen sis ![]() |
shrek4: Dear Deols, She doesn't av my time oo... Added her on BBM lastnight and we avnt exchanged 100words, said she's busy and stuffs... Its killing... **sigh** not even a ping oo.. Does she think about me at all?? Perhaps she has forgotten abt me sef... Maybe there are many more men in her life(people like me.. ) What do I do?? Exercise more patience?? I tried gettin my mind off it, but its not working.... Maybe I was born to b single sef.... What do u think??haha its okay to feel ds way. If not, dr will be no need going after her. But remember you heard someone say somfn about you and not like she told u of her interest. She just may not be ready to showcase her feelings yet. Give her some time. And you need to give her some space too. She needs time to think about what you are to her, exactly what she wants frrom d relationship, etc. Matter of factly, and ds is a secrete am sharing wv u, many ladies dont like clingy men and dr's an adage, absence makes the heart grow fonder. So, give her a reason to think, Why isnt he calling? Is he having a change of mind?. And about her having other people. She probably has them. But no other person can be you. When she sees the good in you, they will matter no more. And like Olawalebabs said, pray well and hard. But unlike him, I wldnt advise you start sending gifts to her. They are a waste if she doesnt feel that way. I hope this is helpful ![]() |
bukatyne: dear deols, everything's wrong wit this story if it's true from d christian standpt. as a poster said, she's not married n men re NOT naturally polygamous, they choose to be irresponsible! d woman's not married b'cos d man was married to another woman. now, d woman should look for d legal wife n apologize then bring them back together n walk out n pray to God for her own husbandoh, thanks sweet. I answered from my own perspective, not giving her religion any consideration. I understand her frustration then and of the other people who'v made contributions. I only think though that polygamy seems a very realistic ish considering how many christians haven been found practicing it. Last week, I heard of a pastor whose wives knew each other only after his death. The younger has three children and he kept them both within Nigeria. |
italo: We refuse to be fools!and so obviously. What tangible reasons dispel my opinion of u as one? dankol: Tel dat 2 d dogs. I've stop 2 argue wit boko haramist wheda mild or extremist. It is expectd of u 2 defend islam. U spoke of saudi arabia, can i take my bible wit me into saudi witout smuglin it in? Dere ar countles underground xtian gatherin nd several oda measures 2 curb xtianity, hence no need 2 exterminate dem bt frustrat dem wit sharia. So pls jst admit 1 fact dat u ar nt a muslim if u ar nt d violent type. Period!and av u tried taking your bible to Saudi or you just are one of those too happy d rumor is thriving they wont even think for themselves? Its a world where you so are responsible for what you believe in. Take it or leave it, she's spoken the truth and the mind of the majority of Muslims. |
bhusayor: Deols and eniafelamothanks sweet, am gvn dem bak to u in manifolds. |
kandiikane:feeling this way is good.the prophet points out that d reason u feel this way is d presence of some faith in you. I feel the need to be a better Muslim too, in fact, right now. I donno ur level of faith and how much of Islam u practice but I'll talk in general terms about how improvement in ur deen can take place. 1st, you cannot practice Islam without the knowledge. Even Allah says to know him before worshipping him. If u know what to know, the right thing(s) to do, and d reasons to do them,becoming a better Muslim would be easy. 2nd, who are your friends. Do u move around wv people who draw u bak or ar u in d cirxle of the righteous. remember to tell me ur friends so I might know whom u are. I thnk it helps to join a group of young pple who av d same goal as u do.however u need to b careful of what group to join, so many of them are misleading. For students, MSS is still d best I know of. 3rd, you should av a mentor. Someone better in d deen, more knowledgable whom u can ask questions and who would be able to call u bak whenever you'r doing something wrong. 4th, determination and the fear of GOD. Any other addition is welcome. |
toba: then dont judge me. dnt u want me to be happy?I was being good to u. Thot u'd be happier with a Rebecca or Grace. Except that u become Abdullahi |
olawalebabs: Please, where is ibro?I av bn wondern too. Will try get across to him. |
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